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Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
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Dr. Yaliu He

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT (she, her)

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Available both in-person and online
2 Overhill Rd Suite 400 Scarsdale, NY 10583
Whether it's the same arguments with your partner or a teen who's pulling away, you may feel hurt, worried or stuck. You don't have to figure it out alone. My work centers on two groups: couples who want to reconnect, and families supporting a teen through depression, anxiety, or stress. In both, the focus is the same: strengthening the relationships that matter most. Licensed in NY, NJ, and CT, my approach is relationship-focused, trauma-informed, and culturally-attuned. Sessions are direct, warm, and non-judgmental, with honest feedback and practical tools. Together, we'll build on your strengths and bring peace back to your home.
As a professor and researcher, I rely on therapeutic methods backed by scientific evidence. I have also lived between cultures myself, so I understand how cultural differences can strain even close relationships. I practice Integrative Systemic Therapy, a theory I wrote a book on, and I use it to shape treatment around what you and your family need most.
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel uncertain. You don't need to have it all figured out before reaching out. If what you've read here feels relatable to you, I invite you to schedule a free video consultation. We can talk about what's been happening and explore what might help. I look forward to connecting with you. 如果你选择说中文,我也提供中文服务。
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Relate Reflect Therapy

2 Overhill Rd Suite 400

Scarsdale, NY 10583 map

(914) 768-4542

New York, NY 10017

My website
I offer therapy in person in Scarsdale and virtually through a HIPAA-compliant video system, serving clients across NY, NJ and CT.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Child and Relationship Issues 
$300 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Struggling with relationship issues, family changes, or supporting a teen with depression? I'm here to provide guidance and support.
Dr. Yaliu He
Let's Connect (914) 768-4542
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Relate Reflect Therapy

2 Overhill Rd Suite 400

Scarsdale, NY 10583 map

(914) 768-4542

New York, NY 10017

My website
I offer therapy in person in Scarsdale and virtually through a HIPAA-compliant video system, serving clients across NY, NJ and CT.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Child and Relationship Issues 
$300 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Struggling with relationship issues, family changes, or supporting a teen with depression? I'm here to provide guidance and support.
Dr. Yaliu He

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $300
  • Couple Sessions $400

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I do not accept insurance. Many insurance companies offer out-of-network benefits which provide reimbursement for psychotherapy services. Please ask your insurance company about it. I will provide you with a superbill in order to submit for reimbursement.
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Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542
"
I do not accept insurance. Many insurance companies offer out-of-network benefits which provide reimbursement for psychotherapy services. Please ask your insurance company about it. I will provide you with a superbill in order to submit for reimbursement.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 002189 Yaliu He
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 17 years
  • Attended University of Minnesota, Ph.D., Graduated 2016
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs 37FI00254300 / 2026
  • License: State of Connecticut Department of Public Health 3824 / 2026
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I am an accomplished psychotherapist and professor with 15 years in clinical practice, teaching, and research. My practice centers on supporting diverse couples, adolescents, and families as they navigate mental health and relationship challenges. I am fluent in both English and Mandarin.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542
"
I am an accomplished psychotherapist and professor with 15 years in clinical practice, teaching, and research. My practice centers on supporting diverse couples, adolescents, and families as they navigate mental health and relationship challenges. I am fluent in both English and Mandarin.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Child
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
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I work with diverse couples, adolescents, families, and women to enhance mental health and relationship satisfaction. My therapy is structured, and highly personalized. Clients often appreciate my active involvement in helping them achieve their goals.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542
"
I work with diverse couples, adolescents, families, and women to enhance mental health and relationship satisfaction. My therapy is structured, and highly personalized. Clients often appreciate my active involvement in helping them achieve their goals.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542

3 Endorsements

Kirsten Lind Seal
Kirsten Lind Seal
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. He is thoughtful, insightful, warm and kind. She really understands how family systems function, including how we are all impacted by our family of origin experiences. You will feel deeply supported when working with her and I recommend her highly!
Liang-Ying Chou
Liang-Ying Chou
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-D
Dr. He is compassionate, brilliant, creative and relatable. A rare genuine committed clinician. Her work is grounded in research and extensive clinical experience. She is my first choice for referrals. I highly recommend working with her.
Nathan R. Hardy
Nathan R. Hardy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Yaliu is an incredibly gifted and sophisticated therapist. I have collaborated with Yaliu on many therapy training projects, including our recently published book: Integrative Systemic Supervision. I highly recommend her as your therapist!

Client Focus

Age

Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Single Parent , 
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Mandarin

Age

Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Single Parent , 
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Integrative
  • Multicultural
  • Psychodynamic
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Using the Integrative Systemic Therapy approach, I believe in the inherent strengths within you and your relationships that can foster positive transformation. My role is to help remove the obstacles that hinder those strengths from flourishing.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542
"
Using the Integrative Systemic Therapy approach, I believe in the inherent strengths within you and your relationships that can foster positive transformation. My role is to help remove the obstacles that hinder those strengths from flourishing.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (914) 768-4542

Location

Primary Location

Relate Reflect Therapy

2 Overhill Rd Suite 400

Scarsdale, NY 10583

(914) 768-4542

Additional Location

New York, NY 10017

(914) 768-4542
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I offer therapy in person in Scarsdale and virtually through a HIPAA-compliant video system, serving clients across NY, NJ and CT.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (914) 768-4542
"
I offer therapy in person in Scarsdale and virtually through a HIPAA-compliant video system, serving clients across NY, NJ and CT.
Photo of Dr. Yaliu He, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Dr. Yaliu He
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (914) 768-4542