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Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
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Xanthe Asher/EMDR

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA (she, her)

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5 Endorsed
45 Franklin Street #319, San Francisco, CA 94102
Let's Connect (415) 968-1633
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I am a trauma therapist specializing in addiction recovery, utilizing Attachment-Focused EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) to help clients reprocess negative memories and embody a positive internal narrative. I work with individuals struggling with addiction processing issues, including alcohol, drugs, food, and self-destructive behaviors. My approach is rooted in a growth mindset, facilitating transformation through witnessing and guiding clients toward a more stable existence. Trained in Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, I offer online video sessions in California and in-person office visits near Hayes Valley.
I offer empathic attunement. Attachment-Focused EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) is an effective relational modality to reprocess old negative memories/trauma, helping embody a positive, more functional internal narrative. This evidence-based approach aligns with rewiring the nervous system by integrating positive beliefs and experiences.
As a trauma therapist through Attachment-Focused EMDR, I support adults in untangling the impact of early trauma, insecure attachment, and painful life experiences. Together, we work toward creating more inner safety, resilience, and meaningful connection—with yourself and with others.
Take the first step to help. Call or Xanthe Asher/EMDR now - (415) 968-1633

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Xanthe Asher Psychotherapy/EMDR

45 Franklin Street #319

San Francisco, CA 94102 map

(415) 968-1633
Website
I offer 50-minute therapy sessions in person near the Hayes Valley area, SF, or online via video. My office hrs are M-F 9:30 am to 2:30 pm.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety and Addiction 
$210 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (415) 968-1633
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Xanthe Asher Psychotherapy/EMDR

45 Franklin Street #319

San Francisco, CA 94102 map

(415) 968-1633
Website
I offer 50-minute therapy sessions in person near the Hayes Valley area, SF, or online via video. My office hrs are M-F 9:30 am to 2:30 pm.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety and Addiction 
$210 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $210
  • Couple Sessions $300

Payment Methods

Apple Cash, Cash, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, Wire

Insurance

  • Spring Health
  • Out of Network
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My fee is $210 per private-pay session. Engaging in this process is a meaningful investment in your healing, and I'm glad to provide a superbill receipt for possible out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633
"
My fee is $210 per private-pay session. Engaging in this process is a meaningful investment in your healing, and I'm glad to provide a superbill receipt for possible out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist: Xanthe Asher

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 104741 Xanthe Asher
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 8 years
  • Attended American School of Professional Psychology, Bay Area, MA Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2012
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Parnell Institute Attachment Focused EMDR / 2025
  • Certificate from EMDRIA Certified EMDR-Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing Therapist 100262462 / 2025
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I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, certified in Attachment-Focused EMDR through both EMDRIA and the Parnell Institute. With 10 years of EMDR experience—and early training supporting women facing addiction and mental illness—I bring compassion, clinical expertise, and a safe healing space.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633
"
I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, certified in Attachment-Focused EMDR through both EMDRIA and the Parnell Institute. With 10 years of EMDR experience—and early training supporting women facing addiction and mental illness—I bring compassion, clinical expertise, and a safe healing space.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Anxiety
  • Addiction

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Body Image
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Eating Disorders
  • Gambling
  • Grief
  • Hoarding
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Transitions
  • Parenting
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sports Performance
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
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I assist adults dealing with trauma, depression, anxiety, addictions, burnout, and relationship issues. Treatment involves clarifying goals and using Attachment-Focused EMDR and trauma-informed methods to address the past and develop healthier coping strategies. Clients typically experience fewer triggers, better mood, increased calm, and improved connections with themselves and others.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633
"
I assist adults dealing with trauma, depression, anxiety, addictions, burnout, and relationship issues. Treatment involves clarifying goals and using Attachment-Focused EMDR and trauma-informed methods to address the past and develop healthier coping strategies. Clients typically experience fewer triggers, better mood, increased calm, and improved connections with themselves and others.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633

5 Endorsements

Maria Rheba Estante
Maria Rheba Estante
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTLPCC
Xanthe is a wise empathic mentor. Her sensitive and compassionate nature was instrumental in modeling an integrative approach to clinical work. Her strength is a genuine therapeutic presence that makes a pivotal difference for clients.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Feminist
  • Integrative
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Somatic
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I primarily use Attachment-Focused EMDR to support healing from past experiences that still affect you today. In our work, we'll start by exploring your story and inner strengths, then gently process what feels stuck—helping you find more ease, resilience, and connection in your life.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633
"
I primarily use Attachment-Focused EMDR to support healing from past experiences that still affect you today. In our work, we'll start by exploring your story and inner strengths, then gently process what feels stuck—helping you find more ease, resilience, and connection in your life.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
or call with questions - (415) 968-1633

Location

Primary Location

Xanthe Asher Psychotherapy/EMDR

45 Franklin Street #319

San Francisco, CA 94102

(415) 968-1633

Nearby Areas

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I offer 50-minute therapy sessions in person near the Hayes Valley area, SF, or online via video. My office hrs are M-F 9:30 am to 2:30 pm.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Take the first step to help. Call now - (415) 968-1633
"
I offer 50-minute therapy sessions in person near the Hayes Valley area, SF, or online via video. My office hrs are M-F 9:30 am to 2:30 pm.
Photo of Xanthe Asher - Xanthe Asher/EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Xanthe Asher/EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Take the first step to help. Call now - (415) 968-1633