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Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
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Xander Burgess

Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Colorado Springs, CO 80907
Let's Connect (719) 465-0459
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Navigating life in a world that feels like it’s on fire? The state of the world today is enough to make anyone feel unsteady. If you’re struggling to process the weight of global events, personal trauma, or just the everyday stress of surviving in a world that often feels too much—I get it. My goal is to help you process, heal, and move forward in a way that feels authentic to you, not just what others expect from you. You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s figure it out—together. Life is complicated and I want to help you navigate it in a healthy way. No BS, just authenticity.
Whether you're an individual, in a monogamous partnership, navigating polyamory, or somewhere just starting out. Real connection takes work, and let’s be honest, no one gave you a manual on how to communicate, handle conflict, or keep the spark alive. I help individuals and partners cut through the noise, heal, grow, and start living again.
Whether you're struggling with communication breakdowns, navigating sexual roadblocks, or trying to make sense of complex emotions, I offer guidance that’s honest, unfiltered, and tailored to your unique dynamic. I’m a straightforward, direct, and blunt clinician who believes in cutting through the noise, resolving the issues, and ready to work with you.
Call or Xander Burgess now for a free 15 minute consultation - (719) 465-0459

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Colorado Springs, CO 80907

(719) 465-0459

Denver, CO 80205

My website
I am accepting new clients. Contact me for more info
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and LGBTQ+ 
$160 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (719) 465-0459
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Colorado Springs, CO 80907

(719) 465-0459

Denver, CO 80205

My website
I am accepting new clients. Contact me for more info
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and LGBTQ+ 
$160 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $160
  • Couple Sessions $180

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Colorado Access
  • Medicaid
  • Optum
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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Contact me and see how I can help you get the help you need! I offer sliding scale rates for those who qualify.
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459
"
Contact me and see how I can help you get the help you need! I offer sliding scale rates for those who qualify.
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / LPC.0017035 Xander Burgess
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Argosy University - Hawaii, Graduated 2017
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: DORA MFT.0002050 / 2021
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I am a licensed marriage and family therapist as well as a licensed professional counselor in Colorado. I also provide individual and relationship coaching in all 50 states and internationally. Feel free to reach out if you have questions.
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459
"
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist as well as a licensed professional counselor in Colorado. I also provide individual and relationship coaching in all 50 states and internationally. Feel free to reach out if you have questions.
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • LGBTQ+

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Asperger's Syndrome
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Career Counseling
  • Gender expansive, poly, CNM/ENM, kink, fetish, sex
  • Lesbian
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
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Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (719) 465-0459
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Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (719) 465-0459

3 Endorsements

KC Mantravadi
KC Mantravadi
Marriage and Family Therapist CandidateMAMFTCLPCC
I've sent many clients to Xander. He's thoughtful, caring, and extremely knowledgeable. When he isn't the right fit, he cares enough to help you find who is.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Brainspotting
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Narrative
  • Relational
  • Somatic
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Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (719) 465-0459
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (719) 465-0459

Location

Primary Location

Colorado Springs, CO 80907

(719) 465-0459

Additional Location

Denver, CO 80205

(719) 465-0459
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I am accepting new clients. Contact me for more info
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (719) 465-0459
"
I am accepting new clients. Contact me for more info
Photo of Xander Burgess, Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (719) 465-0459