Xander
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Colorado Springs, CO 80907
Let's Connect (719) 465-0459

Navigating life in a world that feels like it’s on fire? The state of the world today is enough to make anyone feel unsteady. If you’re struggling to process the weight of global events, personal trauma, or just the everyday stress of surviving in a world that often feels too much—I get it. My goal is to help you process, heal, and move forward in a way that feels authentic to you, not just what others expect from you.
You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s figure it out—together. Life is complicated and I want to help you navigate it in a healthy way. No BS, just authenticity.
Whether you're an individual, in a monogamous partnership, navigating polyamory, or somewhere just starting out. Real connection takes work, and let’s be honest, no one gave you a manual on how to communicate, handle conflict, or keep the spark alive. I help individuals and partners cut through the noise, heal, grow, and start living again.
Whether you're struggling with communication breakdowns, navigating sexual roadblocks, or trying to make sense of complex emotions, I offer guidance that’s honest, unfiltered, and tailored to your unique dynamic. I’m a straightforward, direct, and blunt clinician who believes in cutting through the noise, resolving the issues, and ready to work with you.
Call or Email Xander Burgess now for a free 15 minute consultation - (719) 465-0459
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $160
- Couple Sessions $180
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, ZelleInsurance
- Aetna
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Colorado Access
- Medicaid
- Optum
- United Medical Resources (UMR)
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Out of Network
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / LPC.0017035 Xander Burgess
- In Practice for 9 years
- Attended Argosy University - Hawaii, Graduated 2017
- License: DORA MFT.0002050 / 2021
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (719) 465-0459
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Sex Therapy
- LGBTQ+
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Asperger's Syndrome
- Autism
- Bisexual
- Career Counseling
- Gender expansive, poly, CNM/ENM, kink, fetish, sex
- Lesbian
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Addiction
- Stress
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
- Veterans
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (719) 465-0459
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Little Person Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Immuno-disorders ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Little Person Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Brainspotting
- Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
- Coaching
- Culturally Sensitive
- Eclectic
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Experiential Therapy
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Narrative
- Relational
- Somatic
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (719) 465-0459
Location
Additional Location
Denver, CO 80205
(719) 465-0459Nearby Areas
Xander Burgess
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (719) 465-0459