Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Milwaukee, WI
Often people learn to feel shame or guilt over parts of their identity that are core to who they are. These beliefs form an emotional pain that can destabilize our view of ourselves and the world around us, creating deeper feelings of depression and anxiety. Finding ways to navigate these beliefs and feelings is not always easy, and frequently the ways we learn to cope have additional costs that we aren't aware of. If you struggle with aspects of your identity and with the stories you have been told about them, I invite you to reach out and consult.
Often people learn to feel shame or guilt over parts of their identity that are core to who they are. These beliefs form an emotional pain that can destabilize our view of ourselves and the world around us, creating deeper feelings of depression and anxiety. Finding ways to navigate these beliefs and feelings is not always easy, and frequently the ways we learn to cope have additional costs that we aren't aware of. If you struggle with aspects of your identity and with the stories you have been told about them, I invite you to reach out and consult.
Milwaukee Mental Health and Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My ideal client is insightful and ready for change, even if they feel stuck or overwhelmed. They may struggle with anxiety, identity, relationship issues, trauma, or life transitions. They want to understand themselves more deeply, break old patterns, and build a life that feels more authentic and aligned. They’re seeking both support and tools—someone who can meet them with compassion, flexibility, and real strategies for growth.
My ideal client is insightful and ready for change, even if they feel stuck or overwhelmed. They may struggle with anxiety, identity, relationship issues, trauma, or life transitions. They want to understand themselves more deeply, break old patterns, and build a life that feels more authentic and aligned. They’re seeking both support and tools—someone who can meet them with compassion, flexibility, and real strategies for growth.
I work with adults to aid them on managing daily and life stressors, learning and breaking unhelpful thinking and behavioral patterns, as well as managing self-esteem, anxiety, and ADHD issues. Through active listening and support, my treatment philosophy involves helping clients improve their whole self, well-being, by processing, building self-awareness, network and community, and developing tools to cope and work with their issues and concerns. My empathetic nature helps clients build trust to focus on working toward achieving their goals and overall wellness. I am a child-free, LGBTQIA+, and sex worker- affirming therapist.
I work with adults to aid them on managing daily and life stressors, learning and breaking unhelpful thinking and behavioral patterns, as well as managing self-esteem, anxiety, and ADHD issues. Through active listening and support, my treatment philosophy involves helping clients improve their whole self, well-being, by processing, building self-awareness, network and community, and developing tools to cope and work with their issues and concerns. My empathetic nature helps clients build trust to focus on working toward achieving their goals and overall wellness. I am a child-free, LGBTQIA+, and sex worker- affirming therapist.
With over 25 years in the mental health field and 18 years in private practice, I offer a multitude of personal and professional experience. Much of our suffering is due to dissatisfaction in relationships. Sadly, many relationships end prematurely when we are most hurt and emotionally vulnerable. However, this is when the intimacy we lacked prior has the potential to break through finally. I give you tools and insight to heal old wounds that hold you back from experiencing the love you seek within yourself and others. Together we address the intrapsychic conflicts and longings of the soul. Licensed in WI and NC.
With over 25 years in the mental health field and 18 years in private practice, I offer a multitude of personal and professional experience. Much of our suffering is due to dissatisfaction in relationships. Sadly, many relationships end prematurely when we are most hurt and emotionally vulnerable. However, this is when the intimacy we lacked prior has the potential to break through finally. I give you tools and insight to heal old wounds that hold you back from experiencing the love you seek within yourself and others. Together we address the intrapsychic conflicts and longings of the soul. Licensed in WI and NC.
Being a human can sometimes feel overwhelming, lonely, or impossible to navigate, especially when facing added stress, grief, or pain. My hope is to help you make the unmanageable more manageable and the twists and turns to feel a bit smoother. Understanding that everyone is unique, I tailor my approach by using a blend of therapeutic modalities & creative options such as art or movement. Be it conquering challenges, finding ways to cope, embracing acceptance, building skills, or processing emotions, my goal is to walk beside my clients (sometimes literally) while fostering a safe and inclusive environment
Being a human can sometimes feel overwhelming, lonely, or impossible to navigate, especially when facing added stress, grief, or pain. My hope is to help you make the unmanageable more manageable and the twists and turns to feel a bit smoother. Understanding that everyone is unique, I tailor my approach by using a blend of therapeutic modalities & creative options such as art or movement. Be it conquering challenges, finding ways to cope, embracing acceptance, building skills, or processing emotions, my goal is to walk beside my clients (sometimes literally) while fostering a safe and inclusive environment
Are you feeling alone in a difficult situation or struggle? You don't have to navigate it by yourself. I specialize in providing support and guidance during challenging times, especially for people of color and people in the LGBTQIA+ community. In our sessions, you'll find a safe and understanding space to share your feelings and experiences. Together, we'll work on strategies to help you cope and regain a sense of control and well-being.
Are you feeling alone in a difficult situation or struggle? You don't have to navigate it by yourself. I specialize in providing support and guidance during challenging times, especially for people of color and people in the LGBTQIA+ community. In our sessions, you'll find a safe and understanding space to share your feelings and experiences. Together, we'll work on strategies to help you cope and regain a sense of control and well-being.
I am honored for you to consider my practice to assist you in navigating this journey we call life. Are you experiencing a life changing event that you are struggling to navigate? At a crossroads, trying to decide where to go or what to do next? In a time of transition with your partner, or loved one? Struggling to get along or communicate? Do you need an objective impartial party to help guide you? There is no right or wrong answer, just what is best for your situation and those involved. I am affirming and supportive of the LGBTQ+ and Poly(ENM) communities. My hope is to guide you to a place of "transformation and new beginnings".
I am honored for you to consider my practice to assist you in navigating this journey we call life. Are you experiencing a life changing event that you are struggling to navigate? At a crossroads, trying to decide where to go or what to do next? In a time of transition with your partner, or loved one? Struggling to get along or communicate? Do you need an objective impartial party to help guide you? There is no right or wrong answer, just what is best for your situation and those involved. I am affirming and supportive of the LGBTQ+ and Poly(ENM) communities. My hope is to guide you to a place of "transformation and new beginnings".
You feel stuck—trapped in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, and anxiety. You’re navigating identity, relationships, or the weight of past trauma, and you crave a space where you can show up fully as yourself without judgment. Maybe you’re queer, neurodivergent, or healing from complex trauma, and you’re tired of feeling like you have to explain yourself before you can even begin healing. You want more than just coping skills—you want to break free from shame, build authentic self-compassion, and feel at home in your own mind... Does this sound familiar? I can help!
You feel stuck—trapped in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt, and anxiety. You’re navigating identity, relationships, or the weight of past trauma, and you crave a space where you can show up fully as yourself without judgment. Maybe you’re queer, neurodivergent, or healing from complex trauma, and you’re tired of feeling like you have to explain yourself before you can even begin healing. You want more than just coping skills—you want to break free from shame, build authentic self-compassion, and feel at home in your own mind... Does this sound familiar? I can help!
Are you experiencing voices that others don't hear or beliefs that others struggle to understand? Whether it's unseen observers describing your day, a sense of impending doom, or hidden meanings in ordinary events—these experiences can be profoundly isolating. You might find your voices offer companionship or insight, while at other times they become harsh critics or frightening presences. Maybe you've noticed everyday sounds transforming into words or mumbles, or felt so cautious in public spaces that you feel exhausted. Though these experiences are more common than many realize, navigating them alone can be overwhelming.
Are you experiencing voices that others don't hear or beliefs that others struggle to understand? Whether it's unseen observers describing your day, a sense of impending doom, or hidden meanings in ordinary events—these experiences can be profoundly isolating. You might find your voices offer companionship or insight, while at other times they become harsh critics or frightening presences. Maybe you've noticed everyday sounds transforming into words or mumbles, or felt so cautious in public spaces that you feel exhausted. Though these experiences are more common than many realize, navigating them alone can be overwhelming.
I also have experience working with anxiety, depression, exploring sexuality and gender identity, trauma work, significant life changes, and supporting individuals from the polyam, LGBTQIA+, and kink communities.
I believe it is my role as a therapist to help support you in facilitating change in a nonjudgmental environment that offers accountability. We are a therapeutic team - you being the expert of your own experience and me being a sounding board for thoughts, feelings, and emotions. My therapeutic approach combines person centered therapy with aspects of cognitive behavioral (CBT), solutions focused, and dialectical-behavioral (DBT) therapies. This means we will implement skills for emotion regulation, communication, and facing anxiety while also making space to talk about your experiences.
I also have experience working with anxiety, depression, exploring sexuality and gender identity, trauma work, significant life changes, and supporting individuals from the polyam, LGBTQIA+, and kink communities.
I believe it is my role as a therapist to help support you in facilitating change in a nonjudgmental environment that offers accountability. We are a therapeutic team - you being the expert of your own experience and me being a sounding board for thoughts, feelings, and emotions. My therapeutic approach combines person centered therapy with aspects of cognitive behavioral (CBT), solutions focused, and dialectical-behavioral (DBT) therapies. This means we will implement skills for emotion regulation, communication, and facing anxiety while also making space to talk about your experiences.
We all struggle with navigating our lives at some time or another. Whether it be with who we are, relationships in our lives, day-to-day stress, or the compounding challenges of all of the above - we need help. As a licensed psychologist and non-binary, queer, liberation-focused therapist, I am dedicated to providing a transformative therapeutic experience that centers on your journey toward self-empowerment and joy. My practice is founded on the belief that every individual deserves a space where they can explore, heal, and thrive without fear of judgment or marginalization.
We all struggle with navigating our lives at some time or another. Whether it be with who we are, relationships in our lives, day-to-day stress, or the compounding challenges of all of the above - we need help. As a licensed psychologist and non-binary, queer, liberation-focused therapist, I am dedicated to providing a transformative therapeutic experience that centers on your journey toward self-empowerment and joy. My practice is founded on the belief that every individual deserves a space where they can explore, heal, and thrive without fear of judgment or marginalization.
Hello! I'm Amanda and I'm excited to meet you! I provide Queer and Neurodivergent affirming and informed therapy. My passion is working with the queer community and neurodivergent people. My skills as a therapist are a good fit for people struggling with life transitions, authenticity, self-discovery, self-advocacy, ADHD, anxiety, sex, and sexuality. I also find joy in working with relationships of all structures, primarily ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Those looking for relationship counseling should seek me as an added layer of support in building communication, empathetic conflict management, and authentic connections.
Hello! I'm Amanda and I'm excited to meet you! I provide Queer and Neurodivergent affirming and informed therapy. My passion is working with the queer community and neurodivergent people. My skills as a therapist are a good fit for people struggling with life transitions, authenticity, self-discovery, self-advocacy, ADHD, anxiety, sex, and sexuality. I also find joy in working with relationships of all structures, primarily ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Those looking for relationship counseling should seek me as an added layer of support in building communication, empathetic conflict management, and authentic connections.
You're the one people go to for support because you seem like you have it all together. Underneath, however, is a different story. You're barely hanging on. Everyday stressors are overwhelming you. Feeling depressed, hopeless, and anxious are your new norms. You may feel uncomfortable in your own skin and use substances or restrictions as a way to cope. You may feel fearful and stuck because of a traumatic experience. Humans are naturally resilient, but in an attempt to adapt we can fall into unhealthy cycles that keep us from realizing our potential. We aren't always equipped with the necessary skills to navigate life's challenges.
You're the one people go to for support because you seem like you have it all together. Underneath, however, is a different story. You're barely hanging on. Everyday stressors are overwhelming you. Feeling depressed, hopeless, and anxious are your new norms. You may feel uncomfortable in your own skin and use substances or restrictions as a way to cope. You may feel fearful and stuck because of a traumatic experience. Humans are naturally resilient, but in an attempt to adapt we can fall into unhealthy cycles that keep us from realizing our potential. We aren't always equipped with the necessary skills to navigate life's challenges.
No matter where our pain originates, big or small, it leaves a mark. It feels like it forces us to carry things that no longer serve us. What if you could drop it all and leave it behind? Imagine this: That first moment where you recognize that you do not need to be defined by your pain. You're probably closer to it than you think, and together, we can help you cross that finish line and live your best, most fulfilling life. I am passionate about working with people struggling with single-event or complex trauma, depression, and the pain that comes with being a human being. I also provide LGBTQ+, poly, and gender affirming services.
No matter where our pain originates, big or small, it leaves a mark. It feels like it forces us to carry things that no longer serve us. What if you could drop it all and leave it behind? Imagine this: That first moment where you recognize that you do not need to be defined by your pain. You're probably closer to it than you think, and together, we can help you cross that finish line and live your best, most fulfilling life. I am passionate about working with people struggling with single-event or complex trauma, depression, and the pain that comes with being a human being. I also provide LGBTQ+, poly, and gender affirming services.
Our worldviews are made up of stories: about ourselves, others, the ways we engage with people, and the ways we move through the world. I'm fascinated by the mutual influence of individual perspective and shared experience, as well as the ways societal norms both limit and support individuals and relationships. How are you influencing and being influenced by others? What aspects of your story do you wish were different? How do you want to be known, and move through the world? "I don't know" is a perfectly acceptable answer! Let's explore and see what we discover.
Our worldviews are made up of stories: about ourselves, others, the ways we engage with people, and the ways we move through the world. I'm fascinated by the mutual influence of individual perspective and shared experience, as well as the ways societal norms both limit and support individuals and relationships. How are you influencing and being influenced by others? What aspects of your story do you wish were different? How do you want to be known, and move through the world? "I don't know" is a perfectly acceptable answer! Let's explore and see what we discover.
Life can be hard, messy, and painful. If you've noticed something isn't working, feel lost, or have an idea of where you want to be but struggle to identify the steps to get there, let’s talk! I am a queer, neurodivergent affirming therapist specializing in individuals ranging from youth to adulthood who may be dealing with life transitions, ADHD, depression, complex family dynamics and grief. I hope to provide a place for you to figure out life and experiment with regulating processes that make sense for YOUR brain and body.
Life can be hard, messy, and painful. If you've noticed something isn't working, feel lost, or have an idea of where you want to be but struggle to identify the steps to get there, let’s talk! I am a queer, neurodivergent affirming therapist specializing in individuals ranging from youth to adulthood who may be dealing with life transitions, ADHD, depression, complex family dynamics and grief. I hope to provide a place for you to figure out life and experiment with regulating processes that make sense for YOUR brain and body.
I am a licensed professional counselor and wellness consultant with 20+ years of professional experience in the areas of higher education, holistic mental health, and wellness. I have experience working with individuals and couples of diverse backgrounds in various populations with mental health/wellness issues toward their goal of healing and wellness.
I am a licensed professional counselor and wellness consultant with 20+ years of professional experience in the areas of higher education, holistic mental health, and wellness. I have experience working with individuals and couples of diverse backgrounds in various populations with mental health/wellness issues toward their goal of healing and wellness.
Rebekah Sandell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
4 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53202
Waitlist for new clients
I am a sex positive therapist and encourage clients who are looking for complete acceptance to contact me.
If you're looking to go beyond talk therapy, I may be the right fit for you. Through a non-judgmental and culturally sensitive lens, we will work together to uncover and build upon your resilience. I am here to empathically support your therapeutic journey and when you feel comfortable, I will gently challenge your preconceptions about yourself and the world around you. This is where growth happens. I encourage you to bring your fullest self to sessions, whatever that may entail, ie. humor, colorful language, creativity, authenticity…and I will do the same.
I am a sex positive therapist and encourage clients who are looking for complete acceptance to contact me.
If you're looking to go beyond talk therapy, I may be the right fit for you. Through a non-judgmental and culturally sensitive lens, we will work together to uncover and build upon your resilience. I am here to empathically support your therapeutic journey and when you feel comfortable, I will gently challenge your preconceptions about yourself and the world around you. This is where growth happens. I encourage you to bring your fullest self to sessions, whatever that may entail, ie. humor, colorful language, creativity, authenticity…and I will do the same.
Hello and welcome! I work with individuals 18+ who seek to find more effective ways to navigate life’s challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, identity issues, relationship conflicts, and difficult transitions. In my practice, I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, a method that fosters psychological flexibility. ACT helps clients respond more effectively to life’s challenges by learning how to “unhook” from unhelpful thoughts and feelings. This process reduces the impact of these unhelpful inner experiences and frees up space to act in accordance with your chosen values and ultimately live a more fulfilling life.
Hello and welcome! I work with individuals 18+ who seek to find more effective ways to navigate life’s challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, identity issues, relationship conflicts, and difficult transitions. In my practice, I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, a method that fosters psychological flexibility. ACT helps clients respond more effectively to life’s challenges by learning how to “unhook” from unhelpful thoughts and feelings. This process reduces the impact of these unhelpful inner experiences and frees up space to act in accordance with your chosen values and ultimately live a more fulfilling life.
I am a bilingual psychotherapist specializing in working with BIPOC, trans, and/or queer people. I have extensive training in supporting people facing life changes, exploring identity, and navigating relationships and systems. I am passionate about assisting people with anxiety, trauma, and sociopolitical struggles. My primary approach to therapy uses the therapeutic relationship to undo the aloneness that can come from feeling like others “just don’t get it.” I would be honored to establish safety and comfort with you so we can discuss things that may be exciting, scary, sad, and fun.
I am a bilingual psychotherapist specializing in working with BIPOC, trans, and/or queer people. I have extensive training in supporting people facing life changes, exploring identity, and navigating relationships and systems. I am passionate about assisting people with anxiety, trauma, and sociopolitical struggles. My primary approach to therapy uses the therapeutic relationship to undo the aloneness that can come from feeling like others “just don’t get it.” I would be honored to establish safety and comfort with you so we can discuss things that may be exciting, scary, sad, and fun.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.