Sex Therapists in Eau Claire, WI
Very few of us were given the tools and affirmation needed to navigate sex, identity, and relationships, despite these things being a fundamental part of our humanity.
Kink/fetish; non-monogamy/polyamory/open relationships; gender/sexual identity; sexual shame/self-acceptance; erectile dysfunction, pain, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, compulsive behavior, etc.; desire/libido mismatch; Purity Culture recovery; affairs/infidelity; performance anxiety; intimacy issues; sex & dating; low libido; "Am I normal?" questions
Very few of us were given the tools and affirmation needed to navigate sex, identity, and relationships, despite these things being a fundamental part of our humanity.
Kink/fetish; non-monogamy/polyamory/open relationships; gender/sexual identity; sexual shame/self-acceptance; erectile dysfunction, pain, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, compulsive behavior, etc.; desire/libido mismatch; Purity Culture recovery; affairs/infidelity; performance anxiety; intimacy issues; sex & dating; low libido; "Am I normal?" questions
Coltan Schoenike
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LAMFT
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I trained in one of the longest-running accredited marriage and family therapy programs in the United States and furthered that education with an additional graduate certificate in Sex Therapy.
Growing up in a small, midwestern town, I came to realize that we don't get nearly enough information on how to properly engage with one another in our relationships in healthy and fulfilling ways. As a queer and trans person, the lack of information was exponentially worse. As a therapist, I want to be there for people who recognize this and want to have better relationships with others and with themselves. I also want to be there especially for my fellow queer and transgender people given how lonely I felt thinking that there were no therapists like me. While I didn't get that, I want to BE that for others.
I trained in one of the longest-running accredited marriage and family therapy programs in the United States and furthered that education with an additional graduate certificate in Sex Therapy.
Growing up in a small, midwestern town, I came to realize that we don't get nearly enough information on how to properly engage with one another in our relationships in healthy and fulfilling ways. As a queer and trans person, the lack of information was exponentially worse. As a therapist, I want to be there for people who recognize this and want to have better relationships with others and with themselves. I also want to be there especially for my fellow queer and transgender people given how lonely I felt thinking that there were no therapists like me. While I didn't get that, I want to BE that for others.
Emily Erikson - Current Openings- Couples Adults Teens
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MFT
1 Endorsed
Eau Claire, WI 54701
I hold a graduate level certificate in sex therapy.
As a therapist, it is my goal to create a welcoming, inclusive, and collaborative environment for all of my clients. I seek to create a safe space where all feel comfortable exploring difficult and challenging topics. I believe that the client is the expert on their life and see it as my job to remain curious while offering alternative views and tools. My mission is to empower clients to achieve their goals and reach their full potential. While I tailor my therapeutic approach to each client’s individual needs, my approach to therapy generally includes a systemic, strengths-based, solution-focused, and trauma-informed lens.
I hold a graduate level certificate in sex therapy.
As a therapist, it is my goal to create a welcoming, inclusive, and collaborative environment for all of my clients. I seek to create a safe space where all feel comfortable exploring difficult and challenging topics. I believe that the client is the expert on their life and see it as my job to remain curious while offering alternative views and tools. My mission is to empower clients to achieve their goals and reach their full potential. While I tailor my therapeutic approach to each client’s individual needs, my approach to therapy generally includes a systemic, strengths-based, solution-focused, and trauma-informed lens.
I love working with couples, families, and individuals in areas such as boundaries and boundary setting, personal power, gender identity, anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, relationship stressors, life transitions, non-monogamy, sex and sexuality, kink exploration, and anything else that affects our ability to be ourselves.
Our work together will be trauma-informed, collaborative, sex-positive, body-positive, kink-positive, and systemic in its approach. My theoretical approach to therapy incorporates Internal Family Systems and Solution-focused Therapy.
I love working with couples, families, and individuals in areas such as boundaries and boundary setting, personal power, gender identity, anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, relationship stressors, life transitions, non-monogamy, sex and sexuality, kink exploration, and anything else that affects our ability to be ourselves.
Our work together will be trauma-informed, collaborative, sex-positive, body-positive, kink-positive, and systemic in its approach. My theoretical approach to therapy incorporates Internal Family Systems and Solution-focused Therapy.
CSAT - Candidate (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist)
Relationships are the guiding forces in our lives for connection and where we learn to create meaning. I have built my practice exploring the unique needs of people struggling with the complexities of trauma and addictions. I have learned to understand the nuances and struggles that couples and families face in the discovery process of addictions as well as the daily impacts of living with secrets. Moving beyond secrets can be a difficult, but I can help guide you through it in an efficient and thoughtful manner. I believe change is collaborative process where trust, laughter, and safety are essential to the therapeutic journey.
CSAT - Candidate (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist)
Relationships are the guiding forces in our lives for connection and where we learn to create meaning. I have built my practice exploring the unique needs of people struggling with the complexities of trauma and addictions. I have learned to understand the nuances and struggles that couples and families face in the discovery process of addictions as well as the daily impacts of living with secrets. Moving beyond secrets can be a difficult, but I can help guide you through it in an efficient and thoughtful manner. I believe change is collaborative process where trust, laughter, and safety are essential to the therapeutic journey.
I work with clients who are dealing with anxiety, depression, and "non-normative" relationships, whether that be in terms of sexuality or relationship structure.
Are you feeling like it’s hard to authentically be yourself or connect with others? As a relational therapist, I recognize that our connections are the basis of both the greatest struggles and the greatest rewards we can know as humans. I specialize in work with couples, families, and individuals who have "non-traditional" relationships and sexualities. My work with clients is open and collaborative, often using narrative therapy, EFT/attachment theory, and systems theory to help people flesh out their sense of identity and strengths. You can expect transparency, a culturally-attuned lens, and a little humor in therapy with me!
I work with clients who are dealing with anxiety, depression, and "non-normative" relationships, whether that be in terms of sexuality or relationship structure.
Are you feeling like it’s hard to authentically be yourself or connect with others? As a relational therapist, I recognize that our connections are the basis of both the greatest struggles and the greatest rewards we can know as humans. I specialize in work with couples, families, and individuals who have "non-traditional" relationships and sexualities. My work with clients is open and collaborative, often using narrative therapy, EFT/attachment theory, and systems theory to help people flesh out their sense of identity and strengths. You can expect transparency, a culturally-attuned lens, and a little humor in therapy with me!
I’m brown, queer, gender-affirming, sex-positive, and here to help you build deep, satisfying relationships.
I focus on strengthening meaningful relationships that have become a struggle; whether that be with a partner, friends, culture, work or with yourself. I approach communication and emotions in both concrete and meaningful ways by finding your relational language and teaching skills to better communicate and relate in all parts of your life.
I’m brown, queer, gender-affirming, sex-positive, and here to help you build deep, satisfying relationships.
I focus on strengthening meaningful relationships that have become a struggle; whether that be with a partner, friends, culture, work or with yourself. I approach communication and emotions in both concrete and meaningful ways by finding your relational language and teaching skills to better communicate and relate in all parts of your life.
An ideal client is one who is being just who they are in spite of all the challenges or concerns they may be dealing with. I also have weekend and some evening hours.
An ideal client is one who is being just who they are in spite of all the challenges or concerns they may be dealing with. I also have weekend and some evening hours.
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults within the scope of individual, relational, and family therapy. I have experience working with children and adolescents dealing with mental health challenges, such as: behavioral issues, difficulty managing emotions, self-injurious behavior, post traumatic stress and low self-esteem. I also support individuals learning to manage symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and problematic life experiences.
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults within the scope of individual, relational, and family therapy. I have experience working with children and adolescents dealing with mental health challenges, such as: behavioral issues, difficulty managing emotions, self-injurious behavior, post traumatic stress and low self-esteem. I also support individuals learning to manage symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and problematic life experiences.
I work with adults navigating grief, trauma, depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have a special interest in working with women struggling with self-esteem issues, as well as postpartum and perinatal depression. As your therapist, I hold unconditional positive regard for you and will show up as compassionate, validating and direct.
I work with adults navigating grief, trauma, depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have a special interest in working with women struggling with self-esteem issues, as well as postpartum and perinatal depression. As your therapist, I hold unconditional positive regard for you and will show up as compassionate, validating and direct.
I enjoy working with people to create a nonjudgmental space that is tailored to their needs and goals. My view is that we are connected internally and externally in a web of different systems that impact us, and through understanding how these systems and the client are affecting one another do we get a comprehensive view of what’s going on. When appropriate and agreed upon, I will work with people in these different systems (e.g., family, loved ones, teachers, primary care providers, social workers, parole officers, etc.) to help provide continuity of care and a cohesive treatment plan.
I enjoy working with people to create a nonjudgmental space that is tailored to their needs and goals. My view is that we are connected internally and externally in a web of different systems that impact us, and through understanding how these systems and the client are affecting one another do we get a comprehensive view of what’s going on. When appropriate and agreed upon, I will work with people in these different systems (e.g., family, loved ones, teachers, primary care providers, social workers, parole officers, etc.) to help provide continuity of care and a cohesive treatment plan.
You deserve a space to appreciate the person you are and explore the life you seek. My passion is creating a safe, inclusive environment for you to bring your needs, goals, and concerns.
You deserve a space to appreciate the person you are and explore the life you seek. My passion is creating a safe, inclusive environment for you to bring your needs, goals, and concerns.
Everyone deserves to reach their full potential; to thrive in life; to love and to be loved. We weren't meant to do it all on our own! It is my mission to help individuals, couples, and families on their path toward fulfilling and functional lives. Whether healing from trauma or abuse, facing adversity, dealing with transitions or loss, relationship and family challenges, personal growth, life stressors, or mental health issues, I will work alongside you to reach your goals with a dynamic, strengths-based approach.
Everyone deserves to reach their full potential; to thrive in life; to love and to be loved. We weren't meant to do it all on our own! It is my mission to help individuals, couples, and families on their path toward fulfilling and functional lives. Whether healing from trauma or abuse, facing adversity, dealing with transitions or loss, relationship and family challenges, personal growth, life stressors, or mental health issues, I will work alongside you to reach your goals with a dynamic, strengths-based approach.
I have experience working with adolescents, adults, and couples who are dealing with trauma and different life stressors. All clients present with different strengths and struggles so I know that no single approach will fit for every individual. My passion is in being able to bring clients an experience in therapy where they find empowerment, healthier perceptions of themselves and ability to strengthen relationships. I have been trained in Gottman method, emotionally focused therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing).
I have experience working with adolescents, adults, and couples who are dealing with trauma and different life stressors. All clients present with different strengths and struggles so I know that no single approach will fit for every individual. My passion is in being able to bring clients an experience in therapy where they find empowerment, healthier perceptions of themselves and ability to strengthen relationships. I have been trained in Gottman method, emotionally focused therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing).
I enjoy working with adult individuals and couples who strive to better themselves, understand their unique qualities and are looking to create new paths in their journey of self-love and adventure. I strive to create an environment where everyone feels welcome, heard and understood.
I enjoy working with adult individuals and couples who strive to better themselves, understand their unique qualities and are looking to create new paths in their journey of self-love and adventure. I strive to create an environment where everyone feels welcome, heard and understood.
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I’m trained in individual and relationship counseling, and am also a sex therapist, if that topic needs to be discussed.
Come feel safer, gather understanding, and explore what is getting in the way of your life running more smoothly. Explore your identities, consider what your body and heart are asking you for, find a new way to look at things and proceed. Discover new strategies.
I’m trained in individual and relationship counseling, and am also a sex therapist, if that topic needs to be discussed.
Come feel safer, gather understanding, and explore what is getting in the way of your life running more smoothly. Explore your identities, consider what your body and heart are asking you for, find a new way to look at things and proceed. Discover new strategies.
When beginning to explore individual therapy, relationship therapy, or sex therapy, there are so many things to consider or wonder about.
Sex and sexuality are an integral part of our existence and how we interact with the world around us, yet it often goes without acknowledgement or exploration. I approach the healing work from a place of curiosity and compassion while encouraging you to go further and deeper in your healing through integrational, strength-based, and collaborative approaches.
When beginning to explore individual therapy, relationship therapy, or sex therapy, there are so many things to consider or wonder about.
Sex and sexuality are an integral part of our existence and how we interact with the world around us, yet it often goes without acknowledgement or exploration. I approach the healing work from a place of curiosity and compassion while encouraging you to go further and deeper in your healing through integrational, strength-based, and collaborative approaches.
Behavioral Health Clinic (BHC) has locations in Fort Atkinson, Madison, Marshfield, Wausau and Stevens Point Wisconsin. Our clinicians offer clinically proven, empirically-based treatment interventions for most mental health issues. All clinicians at Behavioral Health Clinic work together in a collaborative environment so that clients receive optimal care. The staff at Behavioral Health Clinic would like potential clients to know that they strive to provide a relaxed and confidential place to fulfill their mission in making Wisconsin a healthier place.
Behavioral Health Clinic (BHC) has locations in Fort Atkinson, Madison, Marshfield, Wausau and Stevens Point Wisconsin. Our clinicians offer clinically proven, empirically-based treatment interventions for most mental health issues. All clinicians at Behavioral Health Clinic work together in a collaborative environment so that clients receive optimal care. The staff at Behavioral Health Clinic would like potential clients to know that they strive to provide a relaxed and confidential place to fulfill their mission in making Wisconsin a healthier place.
Online Therapists
I have completed all training requirements required by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." - Maya Angelou ~ Congratulations on taking the first step in this part of your journey toward healing! Whether you have been struggling for a while or are just beginning your journey, whether you have sought therapy before or are new to this experience, I am here to walk alongside you. Together, we will work to better understand your unique challenges, find solutions that work for you, and help you to achieve your goals.
I have completed all training requirements required by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." - Maya Angelou ~ Congratulations on taking the first step in this part of your journey toward healing! Whether you have been struggling for a while or are just beginning your journey, whether you have sought therapy before or are new to this experience, I am here to walk alongside you. Together, we will work to better understand your unique challenges, find solutions that work for you, and help you to achieve your goals.
Hi there, I'm Amanda! I am so glad you've taken the step towards building a healthier you. I've been working in mental health for over 10 years, mostly with individuals navigating addiction and recovery. I also specialize in trauma and PTSD using a method called CPT, and I work with couples as well. My style is collaborative- I really believe therapy works best when we are a team. My goal is to meet you where you're at and help you feel supported while focusing on practical steps that move you toward the life you want.
Hi there, I'm Amanda! I am so glad you've taken the step towards building a healthier you. I've been working in mental health for over 10 years, mostly with individuals navigating addiction and recovery. I also specialize in trauma and PTSD using a method called CPT, and I work with couples as well. My style is collaborative- I really believe therapy works best when we are a team. My goal is to meet you where you're at and help you feel supported while focusing on practical steps that move you toward the life you want.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.