Adoption Therapists in Eau Claire, WI
I work with adults experiencing OCD, phobias, anxiety, depression, family dysfunction, grief and loss, trauma, and individuals touched by adoption.
Are life’s stressors impacting your sense of joy, your family life, or other relationships? Are you struggling with worry or sadness that seems to keep you down? Do you feel as though you are alone in handling some of the challenges that life has put in front of you? Anxiety and depression can immobilize us, leaving us feeling a loss of control and sometimes we just can't make things better on our own. My training and 20+ years of experience prepared me to work with people of all cultures, ethnic backgrounds. I want to understand not only who you are as a person, but also how your background and experiences shape your life.
I work with adults experiencing OCD, phobias, anxiety, depression, family dysfunction, grief and loss, trauma, and individuals touched by adoption.
Are life’s stressors impacting your sense of joy, your family life, or other relationships? Are you struggling with worry or sadness that seems to keep you down? Do you feel as though you are alone in handling some of the challenges that life has put in front of you? Anxiety and depression can immobilize us, leaving us feeling a loss of control and sometimes we just can't make things better on our own. My training and 20+ years of experience prepared me to work with people of all cultures, ethnic backgrounds. I want to understand not only who you are as a person, but also how your background and experiences shape your life.
Everyone deserves to reach their full potential; to thrive in life; to love and to be loved. We weren't meant to do it all on our own! It is my mission to help individuals, couples, and families on their path toward fulfilling and functional lives. Whether healing from trauma or abuse, facing adversity, dealing with transitions or loss, relationship and family challenges, personal growth, life stressors, or mental health issues, I will work alongside you to reach your goals with a dynamic, strengths-based approach.
Everyone deserves to reach their full potential; to thrive in life; to love and to be loved. We weren't meant to do it all on our own! It is my mission to help individuals, couples, and families on their path toward fulfilling and functional lives. Whether healing from trauma or abuse, facing adversity, dealing with transitions or loss, relationship and family challenges, personal growth, life stressors, or mental health issues, I will work alongside you to reach your goals with a dynamic, strengths-based approach.
I specialize in the treatment of children and adolescents within the context of individual and family therapy.
I specialize in the treatment of children and adolescents within the context of individual and family therapy.
Shelby Lynn Quilling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Eau Claire, WI 54701
Waitlist for new clients
Hello Everyone! My name is Shelby Quilling! I work primarily with children and teenagers, as well as any age adult that has experienced childhood or complex trauma. To me, trauma can mean any event that has caused disruption to your daily life/functioning. My goal is to help those who have been through challenging experiences and who have a desire to work through these experiences. This may be seen as but is not limited to relationship conflicts, spacing/zoning out, anxiety/depressive symptoms, at-risk behaviors, flashbacks/nightmares, difficulties managing emotions, or troubles with basic functioning such as eating/sleeping.
Hello Everyone! My name is Shelby Quilling! I work primarily with children and teenagers, as well as any age adult that has experienced childhood or complex trauma. To me, trauma can mean any event that has caused disruption to your daily life/functioning. My goal is to help those who have been through challenging experiences and who have a desire to work through these experiences. This may be seen as but is not limited to relationship conflicts, spacing/zoning out, anxiety/depressive symptoms, at-risk behaviors, flashbacks/nightmares, difficulties managing emotions, or troubles with basic functioning such as eating/sleeping.
Together we can embark on your therapy journey, creating goals and making progress to aid in the management of mental health and life challenges. I work with children, teens, adults of all ages, and couples. I strive to create a collaborative relationship with clients, working together in a comfortable, non-judgmental, and safe environment.
Together we can embark on your therapy journey, creating goals and making progress to aid in the management of mental health and life challenges. I work with children, teens, adults of all ages, and couples. I strive to create a collaborative relationship with clients, working together in a comfortable, non-judgmental, and safe environment.
I offer mental health counseling for adult individuals of all ages. I have experience with a wide range of mental health issues and life challenges. (See the specialty area below.). To schedule, please click on my web-site. If you have questions, please call me, thanks. If you need a day or time that is not available, feel free to call or email me. Thanks.
I offer mental health counseling for adult individuals of all ages. I have experience with a wide range of mental health issues and life challenges. (See the specialty area below.). To schedule, please click on my web-site. If you have questions, please call me, thanks. If you need a day or time that is not available, feel free to call or email me. Thanks.
Hi there, I'm glad you’re here! I work with youth and adults who are going through tough times, whether it’s dealing with anxiety, depression, family struggles, identity questions, or just feeling overwhelmed in their current situations. I'm especially passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and anyone who feels like they don’t quite fit the mold.
Hi there, I'm glad you’re here! I work with youth and adults who are going through tough times, whether it’s dealing with anxiety, depression, family struggles, identity questions, or just feeling overwhelmed in their current situations. I'm especially passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and anyone who feels like they don’t quite fit the mold.
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults within the scope of individual, relational, and family therapy. I have experience working with children and adolescents dealing with mental health challenges, such as: behavioral issues, difficulty managing emotions, self-injurious behavior, post traumatic stress and low self-esteem. I also support individuals learning to manage symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and problematic life experiences.
I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults within the scope of individual, relational, and family therapy. I have experience working with children and adolescents dealing with mental health challenges, such as: behavioral issues, difficulty managing emotions, self-injurious behavior, post traumatic stress and low self-esteem. I also support individuals learning to manage symptoms related to anxiety, depression, trauma, and problematic life experiences.
I specialize in helping clients untangle complex emotions, build healthier relationships, and develop practical tools to manage life’s uncertainties. My style is collaborative and tailored to your unique needs—whether that means deep processing, skill-building, or simply having a space to think out loud. I’m here to meet you where you are and walk alongside you toward where you want to be.
I specialize in helping clients untangle complex emotions, build healthier relationships, and develop practical tools to manage life’s uncertainties. My style is collaborative and tailored to your unique needs—whether that means deep processing, skill-building, or simply having a space to think out loud. I’m here to meet you where you are and walk alongside you toward where you want to be.
An ideal client is one who is being just who they are in spite of all the challenges or concerns they may be dealing with. I also have weekend and some evening hours.
An ideal client is one who is being just who they are in spite of all the challenges or concerns they may be dealing with. I also have weekend and some evening hours.
As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, you’re constantly wondering whether you are in a safe place to be your authentic self. Perhaps you've been hurt by your parents and peers or have lost out on opportunities to date people who you were truly interested in. You don’t want to feel so anxious around others and you know that something needs to change. Whether you're exploring your sexuality or gender identity for the first time, or came out a long time ago and are struggling due to unsupportive family, friends, or your own self-doubts, there IS a path forward to live freely and happily.
As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, you’re constantly wondering whether you are in a safe place to be your authentic self. Perhaps you've been hurt by your parents and peers or have lost out on opportunities to date people who you were truly interested in. You don’t want to feel so anxious around others and you know that something needs to change. Whether you're exploring your sexuality or gender identity for the first time, or came out a long time ago and are struggling due to unsupportive family, friends, or your own self-doubts, there IS a path forward to live freely and happily.
Being a teenager is tough. You're balancing school, friends, family, and extracurriculars
all while trying to figure out who you are and where you're going. Life is often overwhelming, and it can be incredibly helpful to talk it out with a compassionate, confidential, and non-judgmental professional. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Wisconsin, I specialize in working with teens and young adults who are facing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship struggles, and stress related to school or family life.
Being a teenager is tough. You're balancing school, friends, family, and extracurriculars
all while trying to figure out who you are and where you're going. Life is often overwhelming, and it can be incredibly helpful to talk it out with a compassionate, confidential, and non-judgmental professional. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Wisconsin, I specialize in working with teens and young adults who are facing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship struggles, and stress related to school or family life.
Facing life transitions, past trauma, or current stressors can lead to feelings of overwhelm, significant stress, persistent anxiety, or profound emotional distress. Are persistent worries, intense mood swings, or feelings of disconnection in your relationships hindering your emotional well-being? Know that you're not alone. Many adults and adolescents seek support to navigate these challenges, develop coping skills, and build a meaningful life filled with greater fulfillment and hope. If you value a collaborative therapy experience with flexible online therapy sessions, reaching out can start your journey toward overall well-being.
Facing life transitions, past trauma, or current stressors can lead to feelings of overwhelm, significant stress, persistent anxiety, or profound emotional distress. Are persistent worries, intense mood swings, or feelings of disconnection in your relationships hindering your emotional well-being? Know that you're not alone. Many adults and adolescents seek support to navigate these challenges, develop coping skills, and build a meaningful life filled with greater fulfillment and hope. If you value a collaborative therapy experience with flexible online therapy sessions, reaching out can start your journey toward overall well-being.
If you’re in search of an encouraging, welcoming, and comforting space to help guide you through the challenges life brings, I look forward to partnering with you on your journey. I work with individuals (ages 13+) and couples.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples in all stages of their infertility journey as well as those who are childless not by choice. Navigating this can be very overwhelming and can often feel isolating, so I hope to provide support, compassion, and a space to feel recognized and heard while processing through challenging emotions and decisions.
If you’re in search of an encouraging, welcoming, and comforting space to help guide you through the challenges life brings, I look forward to partnering with you on your journey. I work with individuals (ages 13+) and couples.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples in all stages of their infertility journey as well as those who are childless not by choice. Navigating this can be very overwhelming and can often feel isolating, so I hope to provide support, compassion, and a space to feel recognized and heard while processing through challenging emotions and decisions.
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Christina Bichner Current Openings- Children Teens Adults
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Menomonie, WI 54751
My "specialties" include neurodivergence of all ages (including parenting), highly sensitive people (HSP), adoption, foster care, attachment related issues, children and teens resistant to therapy, self-esteem/self-worth related to shame and vulnerability, adult children of emotionally immature parents, & learning healthy boundaries.
"You are good enough." "It wasn't your fault." "You are loveable, and not a burden." Did reading any of these elicit an emotional response? That may be shame, & shame heals best in safe spaces! I utilize validation and the ability to be vulnerable in a safe place, to support healing from complex trauma and/or grief from childhood into adulthood.
If you are seeking therapy for a loved one, I work with children of all ages. I also particularly enjoy working with families with open minds, who are seeking further understanding of their children's needs and are ready to work towards strengthening family bonds.
My "specialties" include neurodivergence of all ages (including parenting), highly sensitive people (HSP), adoption, foster care, attachment related issues, children and teens resistant to therapy, self-esteem/self-worth related to shame and vulnerability, adult children of emotionally immature parents, & learning healthy boundaries.
"You are good enough." "It wasn't your fault." "You are loveable, and not a burden." Did reading any of these elicit an emotional response? That may be shame, & shame heals best in safe spaces! I utilize validation and the ability to be vulnerable in a safe place, to support healing from complex trauma and/or grief from childhood into adulthood.
If you are seeking therapy for a loved one, I work with children of all ages. I also particularly enjoy working with families with open minds, who are seeking further understanding of their children's needs and are ready to work towards strengthening family bonds.
Behavioral Health Clinic (BHC) has locations in Fort Atkinson, Madison, Marshfield, Wausau and Stevens Point Wisconsin. Our clinicians offer clinically proven, empirically-based treatment interventions for most mental health issues. All clinicians at Behavioral Health Clinic work together in a collaborative environment so that clients receive optimal care. The staff at Behavioral Health Clinic would like potential clients to know that they strive to provide a relaxed and confidential place to fulfill their mission in making Wisconsin a healthier place.
Behavioral Health Clinic (BHC) has locations in Fort Atkinson, Madison, Marshfield, Wausau and Stevens Point Wisconsin. Our clinicians offer clinically proven, empirically-based treatment interventions for most mental health issues. All clinicians at Behavioral Health Clinic work together in a collaborative environment so that clients receive optimal care. The staff at Behavioral Health Clinic would like potential clients to know that they strive to provide a relaxed and confidential place to fulfill their mission in making Wisconsin a healthier place.
My goal is to have therapy be a space that clients enjoy and even look forward to attending. Through talk, skill practicing, mindfulness techniques, or play we can find what works best together. I strive to create a safe and comfortable environment for anyone looking to discover what may be their current barriers. Everyone has the ability to make behavior changes but sometimes need an outside perspective to help us find our strengths. My passion is helping clients learn about themselves to discover what they want for their future selves. Change and vulnerability are difficult but can feel much easier with the right supportive therap
My goal is to have therapy be a space that clients enjoy and even look forward to attending. Through talk, skill practicing, mindfulness techniques, or play we can find what works best together. I strive to create a safe and comfortable environment for anyone looking to discover what may be their current barriers. Everyone has the ability to make behavior changes but sometimes need an outside perspective to help us find our strengths. My passion is helping clients learn about themselves to discover what they want for their future selves. Change and vulnerability are difficult but can feel much easier with the right supportive therap
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For over forty years I've helped people heal their emotional wounds. If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, the traumatic effects of that environment, such as anxiety, depression, anger, and relationship problems, are with you to this day. To have the fully functioning life you want, it is essential to recover from the neglect, abuse, and lack of parental attunement from which you may have suffered in your early years. I'll collaborate with you to help you understand how your past affects your present, and how you can make the changes you need to improve your life and relationships.
For over forty years I've helped people heal their emotional wounds. If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, the traumatic effects of that environment, such as anxiety, depression, anger, and relationship problems, are with you to this day. To have the fully functioning life you want, it is essential to recover from the neglect, abuse, and lack of parental attunement from which you may have suffered in your early years. I'll collaborate with you to help you understand how your past affects your present, and how you can make the changes you need to improve your life and relationships.
I aim to create an empathetic, warm, and collaborative environment, in which feelings can be expressed and supported. My experience stems from assisting children, adolescents and their family to navigate the challenges life presents, whether rooted in trauma, life changes, or future goals. Some special areas of focus include anxiety, depression, trauma, self-harm behaviors, and the LGBTQIA+ community.
I aim to create an empathetic, warm, and collaborative environment, in which feelings can be expressed and supported. My experience stems from assisting children, adolescents and their family to navigate the challenges life presents, whether rooted in trauma, life changes, or future goals. Some special areas of focus include anxiety, depression, trauma, self-harm behaviors, and the LGBTQIA+ community.
"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." - Maya Angelou ~ Congratulations on taking the first step in this part of your journey toward healing! Whether you have been struggling for a while or are just beginning your journey, whether you have sought therapy before or are new to this experience, I am here to walk alongside you. Together, we will work to better understand your unique challenges, find solutions that work for you, and help you to achieve your goals.
"There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you." - Maya Angelou ~ Congratulations on taking the first step in this part of your journey toward healing! Whether you have been struggling for a while or are just beginning your journey, whether you have sought therapy before or are new to this experience, I am here to walk alongside you. Together, we will work to better understand your unique challenges, find solutions that work for you, and help you to achieve your goals.
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Adoption Therapists
Does my adopted child need therapy?
Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.
When should adoptive parents seek therapy?
Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.
Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?
Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.
What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?
A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.