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Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Whole Stories Therapy

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
5 Endorsed
257 Lafayette Avenue, Buffalo, NY 14213
Let's Connect (716) 466-5509
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Looking for couples therapy that honors your story and safeguards your privacy? Whole Stories Therapy is a woman-owned practice in Buffalo offering inclusive, trauma-informed care to couples and individuals across New York. We specialize in relationship counseling, communication support, and healing from relational trauma. Our sliding-scale, identity-affirming services are available both in person and via telehealth, making it easy for couples + individuals to access compassionate care that fits their lives. Rooted in community care, we host a free book library and regularly collect donations for local food banks.
Our LGBTQIA+ affirming therapists specialize in complex trauma, addiction, sexual health, cult recovery, and neurodivergence. We offer EMDR, Brainspotting, Ketamine-Assisted Therapy, and Therapeutic TTRPG. We’re kink and poly knowledgeable, providing inclusive, trauma-informed care beyond talk therapy.
We offer sliding scale pricing to ensure quality care is accessible to all. Open Path Collective members can see a practicum therapist for $30/session. Full-fee sessions with Sabrina ($100), Erik ($200), and Ashera ($250) help fund our Queer Mental Health Fund, supporting pro bono therapy for LGBTQIA+ clients.
Call or Whole Stories Therapy now for a free 15 minute consultation - (716) 466-5509

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Whole Stories Therapy

257 Lafayette Avenue

Buffalo, NY 14213 map

(716) 466-5509
Website
Whole Stories Therapy has several providers with immediate availability. Call to get started today!
I specialize in Sexual Addiction and Open Relationships Non-Monogamy 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect (716) 466-5509
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Whole Stories Therapy

257 Lafayette Avenue

Buffalo, NY 14213 map

(716) 466-5509
Website
Whole Stories Therapy has several providers with immediate availability. Call to get started today!
I specialize in Sexual Addiction and Open Relationships Non-Monogamy 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am private pay only and do not work directly with any insurance companies. Superbills can be provided for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509
"
I am private pay only and do not work directly with any insurance companies. Superbills can be provided for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist: Ashera DeRosa

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 001689 Ashera DeRosa
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 11 years
  • Attended Medaille College, Master's of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy, Graduated 2017
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with Kink Aware Professionals Network
  • Degree/Diploma from State University of New York at Buffalo Bachelor's of Arts in Global Gender Studies / 2013
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Certified Brainspotter, EMDR trained. Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider. Trained in Bystander Intervention & Violence Prevention (NWLB), Peer to Peer Sexual Health Education (Bacchus Network, Planned Parenthood)
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509
"
Certified Brainspotter, EMDR trained. Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider. Trained in Bystander Intervention & Violence Prevention (NWLB), Peer to Peer Sexual Health Education (Bacchus Network, Planned Parenthood)
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sexual Addiction
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Complex Trauma
  • Cult Recovery
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I support clients navigating Out of Control Sexual Behavior, affairs, sexual trauma, betrayal, dysfunction, and low libido. Using a compassionate, integrative approach, I help people heal shame, rebuild trust, and reconnect with intimacy—restoring the most tender parts of their relationships and selves.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509
"
I support clients navigating Out of Control Sexual Behavior, affairs, sexual trauma, betrayal, dysfunction, and low libido. Using a compassionate, integrative approach, I help people heal shame, rebuild trust, and reconnect with intimacy—restoring the most tender parts of their relationships and selves.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509

5 Endorsements

Leah M Eagan
Leah M Eagan
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMSWMBA
Ashera brings an inclusive, experienced perspective to therapy. With compassion, Ashera incorporates a sex-positive, identity-affirming approach where people have the opportunity to explore their best versions of self.
Sherita D Anderson-Bailey
Sherita D Anderson-Bailey
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTCCTP
Ashera has a profound knowledge and expertise which she shares within her client base. She has exhibited professionalism, and provides a quality of care that is refreshing to see in this field. I recommend her often and value her contribution to the field.
Erik Michael Panna
Erik Michael Panna
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Ashera is an amazing clinician in multiple different ways. She is skilled at challenging her clients while also have deep empathy for them as well. Ashera is an extremely accepting therapist who aims to have a deep understanding of those she works with.
Dayatra Amber Hassan
Dayatra Amber Hassan
MSMHCCHW
Ashera is a creative, insightful soul dedicated to serving her clients with the highest level of care, empathy and innerstanding.
Mariah Okenwa
Mariah Okenwa
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Ashera leads Whole Stories Therapy with expertise in polyamory, kink, and diverse identities. Her direct yet compassionate style builds trust and empowers clients to embrace authenticity in both self and relationships, fostering safe healing.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Brainspotting
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Ketamine-Assisted
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Somatic
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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I offer a range of healing modalities—including Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, Brainspotting, and talk therapy—to support deep emotional processing and lasting change. These integrative tools help clients move through trauma, reconnect with themselves, and experience meaningful transformation.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509
"
I offer a range of healing modalities—including Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, Brainspotting, and talk therapy—to support deep emotional processing and lasting change. These integrative tools help clients move through trauma, reconnect with themselves, and experience meaningful transformation.
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (716) 466-5509

Location

Primary Location

Whole Stories Therapy

257 Lafayette Avenue

Buffalo, NY 14213

(716) 466-5509
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Whole Stories Therapy has several providers with immediate availability. Call to get started today!
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (716) 466-5509
"
Whole Stories Therapy has several providers with immediate availability. Call to get started today!
Photo of Ashera DeRosa - Whole Stories Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (716) 466-5509