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Whitni Rader

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (she, her)

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Available both in-person and online
133 1/2 Kentucky St. Suite F Petaluma, CA 94952
I help couples and individuals break free from painful cycles of disconnection and conflict. Together, we'll uncover the hidden patterns keeping you stuck, moving beyond resentment toward genuine understanding and healing. We'll explore how your protective strategies once helped you, but may now create distance. Through interactive sessions, processing emotions, and building insight, you'll develop ways of relating that foster secure connection—with others, yourself, and/or partners. Whether strengthening your relationship or finding clarity about your path forward, you'll experience lasting personal growth and transformation.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals using Internal Family Systems (IFS & IFIO) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to heal past trauma and transform patterns that no longer serve you. Together, we'll address old wounds and create healthier relationship dynamics.
Whether you are struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, or just feeling stuck, I am here to help you on your journey towards healing and growth. Together we can begin to understand and heal your experiences so that you can navigate your life from a place of choice.
Call or Whitni Rader now for a free 15 minute consultation - (707) 728-8571

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

133 1/2 Kentucky St.

Suite F

Petaluma, CA 94952 map

(707) 728-8571

576 B Street

Santa Rosa, CA 95401 map

My website
I offer therapy sessions online or in-person in Petaluma and Santa Rosa. (de la Rosa Psychotherapists - Supervised by a Licensed Therapist)
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Here's a brief video so you can get a feel of me :) Finding the right fit is so important! Reach out for a free consultation.
Whitni Rader
Let's Connect (707) 728-8571
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

133 1/2 Kentucky St.

Suite F

Petaluma, CA 94952 map

(707) 728-8571

576 B Street

Santa Rosa, CA 95401 map

My website
I offer therapy sessions online or in-person in Petaluma and Santa Rosa. (de la Rosa Psychotherapists - Supervised by a Licensed Therapist)
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Here's a brief video so you can get a feel of me :) Finding the right fit is so important! Reach out for a free consultation.
Whitni Rader

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $225
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
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Though I do not accept insurance, I am happy to give you a superbill for reimbursement from your provider for therapy sessions.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571
"
Though I do not accept insurance, I am happy to give you a superbill for reimbursement from your provider for therapy sessions.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 164863 Whitni Rader
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, MFT, Graduated 2023
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from IFS Institute - IFS Level 1
  • Certificate from ICEEFT - EFT Core Skills Training
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I have training in IFS (Internal Family Systems), EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), NVC, and 'Transforming Shame'.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571
"
I have training in IFS (Internal Family Systems), EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), NVC, and 'Transforming Shame'.
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Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Whether you have a history of trauma or just feel lost in our chaotic world, we can work together to uncover the hidden beliefs and outdated strategies running the show. With compassion and curiosity, we will uncover patterns and themes in your life and relationships. Through this integrative awareness process, you move toward a life filled with more intention and joy.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571
"
Whether you have a history of trauma or just feel lost in our chaotic world, we can work together to uncover the hidden beliefs and outdated strategies running the show. With compassion and curiosity, we will uncover patterns and themes in your life and relationships. Through this integrative awareness process, you move toward a life filled with more intention and joy.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571

8 Endorsements

Belong Within Therapy with Sabrina Bolin
Belong Within Therapy with Sabrina Bolin
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Whitni has a deep understanding of how to address challenges within intimate relationships and her sex-positive approach creates a safe space for clients to name the issues they may have avoided in past therapeutic experiences. I highly recommend her work.
Neena Gleason
Neena Gleason
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Whitni's attuned presence and affirming spirit meets clients right where they are, cultivating ease around growth and repair.
Sura Hertzberg
Sura Hertzberg
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Whitni is a caring and thoughtful therapist. Her kind demeanor makes her a great therapist for all types of people. I highly recommend her to those looking for psychodynamic talk therapy, or hoping to explore role-playing and other experiential practices.
Shannon Bernsten
Shannon Bernsten
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
I experience Whitni as deeply wise, intuitive, and warm. She has an innate ability to expand my perspective, and to settle my heart during each interaction we share. Whitni leaves me feeling seen, understood, and inspired.
Becca Crowley
Becca Crowley
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Whitni has a natural ability to foster meaningful connections. Her genuine curiosity about others' experiences, coupled with her commitment to listening for understanding, ensures every interaction with Whitni leaves people feeling deeply connected.
Alexis Scarborough
Alexis Scarborough
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Whitni is a compassionate clinician who has natural empathy and approaches the world and her clients in an open and attuned manner. Whitni is intuitive, engaged, curious, and deeply caring. I recommend her highly to anyone seeking support and growth!
Matthew Grundy
Matthew Grundy
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Whitni is a warm and thoughtful clinician, who combines compassion, intelligence, and curiosity to ensure that you feel safe, supported, and seen. She also has a continual commitment to learning and growth that makes for a very high standard of care.
Dara Freed
Dara Freed
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Whitni is incredibly supportive and caring. She is very insightful and has an expansive way of looking at the world. She is able to provide a deep level of presence and works with clients in a very thoughtful and thought provoking way.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I am an Internal Family Systems (IFS) trained therapist with extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples and individuals (EFIT). These are non-pathologizing, non-blaming modalities to help understand and heal our experiences and work toward navigating our lives from a place of choice.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571
"
I am an Internal Family Systems (IFS) trained therapist with extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples and individuals (EFIT). These are non-pathologizing, non-blaming modalities to help understand and heal our experiences and work toward navigating our lives from a place of choice.
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (707) 728-8571

Location

Primary Location

133 1/2 Kentucky St.

Suite F

Petaluma, CA 94952

(707) 728-8571

Additional Location

576 B Street

Santa Rosa, CA 95401

(707) 728-8571

Nearby Areas

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I offer therapy sessions online or in-person in Petaluma and Santa Rosa. (de la Rosa Psychotherapists - Supervised by a Licensed Therapist)
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 728-8571
"
I offer therapy sessions online or in-person in Petaluma and Santa Rosa. (de la Rosa Psychotherapists - Supervised by a Licensed Therapist)
Photo of Whitni Rader, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Whitni Rader
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (707) 728-8571