Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

3 Endorsed

222 Catoctin Circle Southeast, Jewell Building, Suite 126, Leesburg, VA 20175

(571) 609-5351

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Most of us seek therapy in search of happiness; we know it exists, but we can't seem to get there. I provide honest, straightforward feedback because your time is valuable. While therapy is validating and supportive, meaningful change requires moving beyond comfort zones. My expertise is working with couples and adult individuals. I specialize in helping people heal trauma, gain insight, strengthen self-awareness, correct problem patterns, and develop personal agency. As a licensed marriage and family therapist since 1995, I know the importance of healthy relationships with ourselves and others. Working with people is my passion.

I studied psychology at the University of California, Irvine, and the University of San Francisco. In 2005, I relocated to Virginia, and completed postgraduate coursework at Virginia Tech. I serve on the Virginia BIP Certification Board, have authored several therapy books, and run a certified Domestic Violence Intervention Program in Northern Virginia.

My approach is direct with compassionate curiosity. Our adaptive coping strategies become protective shields blocking healthy relationships. Therapy requires the courage to be vulnerable while shifting from auto-pilot to intentional living. I provide a safe space to work through challenges, and will be with you every step of the way toward your goals.

Take the first step to help. Call or Email Wendy W. Coates now - (571) 609-5351

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

222 Catoctin Circle Southeast

Jewell Building, Suite 126

Leesburg, VA 20175 map

(571) 609-5351

Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

My availability is limited; please email me directly for scheduling. We also have experienced residents available for immediate scheduling.

$185 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and groups

Let's Connect (571) 609-5351

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

222 Catoctin Circle Southeast

Jewell Building, Suite 126

Leesburg, VA 20175 map

(571) 609-5351

Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

My availability is limited; please email me directly for scheduling. We also have experienced residents available for immediate scheduling.

$185 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and groups

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $185
Couple Sessions $195
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Anthem

We have experienced residents available for immediate appointments at a reduced rate.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

We have experienced residents available for immediate appointments at a reduced rate.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Virginia / 0717001275 Wendy W Coates

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 30 years

Attended University of San Francisco , MA , Graduated 1995

Additional Credentials

License: South Carolina 8310 / 2025

I'm a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in practice since 1995. Currently serving Virginia and South Carolina.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

I'm a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in practice since 1995. Currently serving Virginia and South Carolina.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

ADHD
Anger Management
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Codependency
Coping Skills
Divorce
Domestic Abuse
Domestic Violence
Family Conflict
Grief
Impulse Control Disorders
Infertility
Infidelity
Life Coaching
Life Transitions
Marital and Premarital
Men's Issues
Mood Disorders
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Relationship Issues
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues

I help individuals and couples break problem cycles and move forward. We will work together to uncover thinking and behavioral patterns that are not serving you well. For those struggling with domestic abuse, I provide state certified group treatment.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

3 Endorsements

Luna Counseling Solutions

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC

I wholeheartedly endorse Wendy, whose warmth, insight, and skill create a safe and transformative space for clients. She brings compassion, professionalism, and wisdom to her work, making her an exceptional therapist I deeply admire and respect.

Mike Vazzana

Counselor, LPC

I've had the privilege of working with Wendy for years. Her dedication to helping clients make lasting change sets her apart. A published expert on unhealthy relationships, she's highly recommended for anyone seeking lasting personal or relational growth.

Maya Khan

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, MA

Wendy Coates is an exceptional therapist and colleague. Her wisdom, empathy, and steady presence create lasting change amongst everyone. She guides clients with clarity and compassion, leaving a meaningful and enduring impact on everyone she works with.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Group

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Attachment-based
Coaching
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Compassion Focused
Emotionally Focused
Family / Marital
Gottman Method
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Narrative
Person-Centered
Reality Therapy
Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused

We have experienced residents who provide services at a reduced fee. Please reach out for more information and scheduling.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

We have experienced residents who provide services at a reduced fee. Please reach out for more information and scheduling.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Email me or call with questions - (571) 609-5351

Groups

Mindful Practice Counseling Group

Hosted by

Wendy W. Coates

Our Virginia certified domestic violence intervention program provides trauma-informed care for voluntary and court-ordered participants. Rather than a ons-size-fits-all approach, our program is tiered from 24 to 52 weeks. We offer a sliding fee scale, based upon household income. Program graduates may continue attending free of charge. Our acceptance-based program fosters healthy boundaries, effective communication, mindfulness training, conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, parenting skills, attachment security, and compassion therapy. Participant workbooks are available on Amazon: EMAP: Emotionally Intelligent Mindful Acceptance-Based Program and Mindful Workbook for Women

Expertise

Anger Management

Men's Issues

Women's Issues

Types of Therapy

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$30-$60

Group Meets

Every Mon, Tue, Wed, Thu

Location

Mindful Practice Counseling Group

222 Catoctin Circle Southeast

2nd Floor Conference Room

Leesburg, VA 20175

Email Wendy W. Coates about this group or call - (571) 609-5351

Location

Primary Location

222 Catoctin Circle Southeast

Jewell Building, Suite 126

Leesburg, VA 20175

(571) 609-5351

Email me

My website

Additional Location

Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

(571) 609-5351

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

My availability is limited; please email me directly for scheduling. We also have experienced residents available for immediate scheduling.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Take the first step to help. Call now - (571) 609-5351

My availability is limited; please email me directly for scheduling. We also have experienced residents available for immediate scheduling.

Wendy W. Coates

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Take the first step to help. Call now - (571) 609-5351

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