Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Tukwila, WA
I have expertise in working with adult children of narcissistic parents.
I also do couples counseling with all types of couples. I have expertise in couples counseling where one partner has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. I use a variety of approaches, including the Gottman Method and Schema Therapy.
I have expertise in working with adult children of narcissistic parents.
I also do couples counseling with all types of couples. I have expertise in couples counseling where one partner has been diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. I use a variety of approaches, including the Gottman Method and Schema Therapy.
Life with ups and down, twists and turns can feel like a rollercoaster. “Who am I? and Why do I think, feel and behave this way?” We often only know ourselves partially, with blind spots that may carry risks. Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, intimacy, sex disorders, addictions, or spiritual concerns, these challenges can feel overwhelming. Therapy opens a window into our humanity, uncovers the roots of our issues, and explores new possibilities. It mitigates suffering, builds resilience and wellness, leading to authentic, connected, and liberated living, while addressing the complexities of mind, body, and spirit.
Life with ups and down, twists and turns can feel like a rollercoaster. “Who am I? and Why do I think, feel and behave this way?” We often only know ourselves partially, with blind spots that may carry risks. Whether you’re struggling with depression, anxiety, intimacy, sex disorders, addictions, or spiritual concerns, these challenges can feel overwhelming. Therapy opens a window into our humanity, uncovers the roots of our issues, and explores new possibilities. It mitigates suffering, builds resilience and wellness, leading to authentic, connected, and liberated living, while addressing the complexities of mind, body, and spirit.
Brett G. Gold, MS, is a Washington State Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC- 00004341) and a Board Certified Professional Counselor (BCPD). Brett’s specialty is working with children, adolescents and their families to improve communication, teach life skills to create strategies for better decision making, problem solving, self-improvement and acceptance. Brett received his BA, BS and MS degree in Psychology from Eastern Washington University (Magna cum laude). in Cheney Washington. Brett received his Master's degree in Developmental and Clinical Counseling with a specific focus on the treatment of children and adolescents.
Brett G. Gold, MS, is a Washington State Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC- 00004341) and a Board Certified Professional Counselor (BCPD). Brett’s specialty is working with children, adolescents and their families to improve communication, teach life skills to create strategies for better decision making, problem solving, self-improvement and acceptance. Brett received his BA, BS and MS degree in Psychology from Eastern Washington University (Magna cum laude). in Cheney Washington. Brett received his Master's degree in Developmental and Clinical Counseling with a specific focus on the treatment of children and adolescents.
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
The ideal therapy client is an individual who actively seeks personal growth and emotional well-being. They may be grappling with various challenges, such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem. What sets them apart is their authentic and sincere desire for change. Ultimately, the ideal client seeks a greater sense of fulfillment and balance in life. They believe in the potential for personal growth and are motivated to achieve a more meaningful existence. They understand that therapy can be a transformative journey that empowers them to lead a life aligned with their values, passions, and purpose.
I'm a clinical psychologist with a doctorate from the PGSP-Stanford PsyD Consortium. My training includes a clinical internship at the Sacramento VA and postdoctoral fellowships at the Palo Alto VA and Stanford School of Medicine. I’ve worked in a variety of clinical settings with diverse populations, drawing from several therapeutic approaches. I currently work with adults who are exploring questions of purpose, meaning, and loss, and who may also be navigating life transitions, relationship and family dynamics, chronic stress, burnout, grief, trauma, serious mental illness, or other emotional challenges.
I'm a clinical psychologist with a doctorate from the PGSP-Stanford PsyD Consortium. My training includes a clinical internship at the Sacramento VA and postdoctoral fellowships at the Palo Alto VA and Stanford School of Medicine. I’ve worked in a variety of clinical settings with diverse populations, drawing from several therapeutic approaches. I currently work with adults who are exploring questions of purpose, meaning, and loss, and who may also be navigating life transitions, relationship and family dynamics, chronic stress, burnout, grief, trauma, serious mental illness, or other emotional challenges.
There are moments when life feels misaligned—not because something is broken, but because the inner systems meant to protect you are working overtime. These patterns can create distance from your natural capacity for clarity and resilience. In our work, therapy becomes a gentle process of unwinding your narrative, understanding the emotional and nervous-system patterns shaping your experience, and rebuilding trust in your innate wisdom. I provide a supportive presence for adults navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, attachment-relational concerns, and OCD.
There are moments when life feels misaligned—not because something is broken, but because the inner systems meant to protect you are working overtime. These patterns can create distance from your natural capacity for clarity and resilience. In our work, therapy becomes a gentle process of unwinding your narrative, understanding the emotional and nervous-system patterns shaping your experience, and rebuilding trust in your innate wisdom. I provide a supportive presence for adults navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, attachment-relational concerns, and OCD.
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Dr. Alexandra A. Repke
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT, C-PD, CAIMHP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
As a licensed psychologist, I specialize in the assessment and treatment of personality disorders, including narcissistic, histrionic, borderline, antisocial, and obsessive-compulsive personality disorders.
The initial sessions focus on achieving diagnostic clarity. It's essential to carefully distinguish personality disorders from personality issues, just as it is to differentiate between substance abuse and dependence, or between sexual addiction and other sexual concerns. Let's figure out what is going on to get you the treatment you need.
As a licensed psychologist, I specialize in the assessment and treatment of personality disorders, including narcissistic, histrionic, borderline, antisocial, and obsessive-compulsive personality disorders.
The initial sessions focus on achieving diagnostic clarity. It's essential to carefully distinguish personality disorders from personality issues, just as it is to differentiate between substance abuse and dependence, or between sexual addiction and other sexual concerns. Let's figure out what is going on to get you the treatment you need.
I specialize in working with adult survivors of narcissistic, borderline, or antisocial (psychopathic) parents.
With 19 years of experience my main goal for therapy is to provide a safe, accepting, comfortable space where you can be yourself and feel safe enough to work on whatever issues you wish to work on. My practice is respectful of people of every; race, gender, culture, sexual orientation, gender expression, religious belief, and other ways of being.
I specialize in working with adult survivors of narcissistic, borderline, or antisocial (psychopathic) parents.
With 19 years of experience my main goal for therapy is to provide a safe, accepting, comfortable space where you can be yourself and feel safe enough to work on whatever issues you wish to work on. My practice is respectful of people of every; race, gender, culture, sexual orientation, gender expression, religious belief, and other ways of being.
Christine Kay Cuhaciyan
Counselor, MA, LMHC, MHP
5 Endorsed
Everett, WA 98208
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with women's issues including codependency, recovery from narcissistic abuse, self-esteem, transition to parenthood, and postpartum mood and anxiety disorders.
Are you currently in a relationship where you're not happy but can't seem to get yourself to leave? Maybe you feel emotionally stuck or confused and have tried leaving only to return to the same unhappy relationship where nothing seems to change. On the other hand, you might feel that you keep entering into relationships in which you are treated poorly but can't figure out why. Perhaps you're dating and finding "the one" seems impossible. You feel sad and disappointed, no one seems to understand, and you don't know what else to do to make things better. I'm here to tell you that things can change and I am here to help!
I specialize in working with women's issues including codependency, recovery from narcissistic abuse, self-esteem, transition to parenthood, and postpartum mood and anxiety disorders.
Are you currently in a relationship where you're not happy but can't seem to get yourself to leave? Maybe you feel emotionally stuck or confused and have tried leaving only to return to the same unhappy relationship where nothing seems to change. On the other hand, you might feel that you keep entering into relationships in which you are treated poorly but can't figure out why. Perhaps you're dating and finding "the one" seems impossible. You feel sad and disappointed, no one seems to understand, and you don't know what else to do to make things better. I'm here to tell you that things can change and I am here to help!
Have you been searching for a therapist but haven't been able to find one with whom you feel a strong connection? Have you been feeling like your life lacks meaning or direction? Are you being overwhelmed by feelings of sadness, irritability, emptiness or negativity? Are you wondering who that person is staring back at you in the mirror every day? Finding a therapist can be a challenging task. You want to find someone with whom you feel safe and can trust.
Have you been searching for a therapist but haven't been able to find one with whom you feel a strong connection? Have you been feeling like your life lacks meaning or direction? Are you being overwhelmed by feelings of sadness, irritability, emptiness or negativity? Are you wondering who that person is staring back at you in the mirror every day? Finding a therapist can be a challenging task. You want to find someone with whom you feel safe and can trust.
I specialize in helping clients with anxiety, past and present trauma, grief and loss, depression, healing from emotional abusive, toxic and also narcissistic relationships.
Establishing healthy boundaries and developing healthy coping skills can guide you in a healthier life. Helping you heal mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I would be honored to walk you through this process and help you establish life changing goals and increased self esteem and wellness.
I specialize in helping clients with anxiety, past and present trauma, grief and loss, depression, healing from emotional abusive, toxic and also narcissistic relationships.
Establishing healthy boundaries and developing healthy coping skills can guide you in a healthier life. Helping you heal mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually. I would be honored to walk you through this process and help you establish life changing goals and increased self esteem and wellness.
I deeply believe in the human capacity for growth in the face of incredible adversity. Pain is oftentimes inevitable, but suffering is optional. For those brave enough to reach out for support in trying times, I offer a new way to draw upon inner strengths and reframe how you relate to your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. My aim is to compassionately work with you to understand your concerns and their impact.
I deeply believe in the human capacity for growth in the face of incredible adversity. Pain is oftentimes inevitable, but suffering is optional. For those brave enough to reach out for support in trying times, I offer a new way to draw upon inner strengths and reframe how you relate to your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. My aim is to compassionately work with you to understand your concerns and their impact.
Seeking therapy can be a daunting process, while also being one step toward greater wholeness/healing. Relationship is where we are both wounded and healed. I work with individuals seeking relief from distressing symptoms such as; demanding too much of yourself, finding it hard to trust self, trust your own experience, self-soothing through addictive behaviors, pleasing others at your own expense, anxiety, depression, CPTSD. Our patterns of relating develop early within our first attachments, so our journey might include visiting some of those relationships to wonder how they impact you in the here and now.
Seeking therapy can be a daunting process, while also being one step toward greater wholeness/healing. Relationship is where we are both wounded and healed. I work with individuals seeking relief from distressing symptoms such as; demanding too much of yourself, finding it hard to trust self, trust your own experience, self-soothing through addictive behaviors, pleasing others at your own expense, anxiety, depression, CPTSD. Our patterns of relating develop early within our first attachments, so our journey might include visiting some of those relationships to wonder how they impact you in the here and now.
As it turns out, "just don’t stress” isn’t very helpful, and “adulting” includes everything we should have been taught in grade school.
Most people don't seek therapy because life is going exactly as planned. They come because they’re tired of just surviving and are ready to start living again.
Pain has a way of rewriting the stories we tell ourselves. It can quietly change the way we see ourselves, others, and sometimes even God. But healing lets you write the next chapter by uncovering the person you’ve always been beneath survival mode, people pleasing, fear, stress, and self doubt.
As it turns out, "just don’t stress” isn’t very helpful, and “adulting” includes everything we should have been taught in grade school.
Most people don't seek therapy because life is going exactly as planned. They come because they’re tired of just surviving and are ready to start living again.
Pain has a way of rewriting the stories we tell ourselves. It can quietly change the way we see ourselves, others, and sometimes even God. But healing lets you write the next chapter by uncovering the person you’ve always been beneath survival mode, people pleasing, fear, stress, and self doubt.
Most of my clients are women carrying trauma woven into relationship — a partner's betrayal, a narcissistic parent, a mother who couldn't show up.
Therapy Intensives for High Achieving, Reflective Women Ready to Live with True Autonomy. You're an ambitious woman realizing the patterns that got you here can't take you forward. From the outside, things look impressive. From the inside, you're tired in a way that rest doesn't touch. The "not good enough" whisper never quite leaves. Maybe you're navigating betrayal, the erosion of a relationship, or the long shadow of a mother who couldn't show up. You've done a lot of personal work and still feel stuck between what you understand and feel and how you live.
Most of my clients are women carrying trauma woven into relationship — a partner's betrayal, a narcissistic parent, a mother who couldn't show up.
Therapy Intensives for High Achieving, Reflective Women Ready to Live with True Autonomy. You're an ambitious woman realizing the patterns that got you here can't take you forward. From the outside, things look impressive. From the inside, you're tired in a way that rest doesn't touch. The "not good enough" whisper never quite leaves. Maybe you're navigating betrayal, the erosion of a relationship, or the long shadow of a mother who couldn't show up. You've done a lot of personal work and still feel stuck between what you understand and feel and how you live.
Do you feel drained or destabilized by a high-conflict relationship ( narcissistic, borderline, or histrionic traits)?
Whether you are navigating the complexities of ADHD/Autism or untangling the trauma of narcissistic abuse, I aim to understand how the complexity of your unique brain, personality, and life experiences informs your daily challenges. I bring 20+ years of experience in assessment, diagnosis, and evidence-based interventions to help you meet your goals.
Do you feel drained or destabilized by a high-conflict relationship ( narcissistic, borderline, or histrionic traits)?
Whether you are navigating the complexities of ADHD/Autism or untangling the trauma of narcissistic abuse, I aim to understand how the complexity of your unique brain, personality, and life experiences informs your daily challenges. I bring 20+ years of experience in assessment, diagnosis, and evidence-based interventions to help you meet your goals.
We know that a transformation can happen when we want to change for ourselves. We need to believe in ourselves enough to know that a change is possible. I want to help my clients feel better by understanding themselves. I strive to be a therapist who is competent, ethical and compassionate. I have been a clinical social worker since 2002 and I have been grateful to work with families, couples, adults and children. I use humor and warmth to build connection. I use an intersectional lens. I also have a podcast about estrangement. Please schedule time to talk to me if you think we would be a good fit.
We know that a transformation can happen when we want to change for ourselves. We need to believe in ourselves enough to know that a change is possible. I want to help my clients feel better by understanding themselves. I strive to be a therapist who is competent, ethical and compassionate. I have been a clinical social worker since 2002 and I have been grateful to work with families, couples, adults and children. I use humor and warmth to build connection. I use an intersectional lens. I also have a podcast about estrangement. Please schedule time to talk to me if you think we would be a good fit.
I am passionate about helping you reach your potential. We accomplish this together through a psychoanalytic, interpersonal, mind-body-spirit integration that draws on your strengths and resources. I believe psychoanalysis and psychotherapy are not about fixing what is wrong, but about using what is working well for you and deepening your skills to increase your health, well-being, and overall freedom and flexibility. I care deeply about providing excellent care, and trying out new ways of relating and understanding yourself that will lead you to optimize your health and connections with others.
I am passionate about helping you reach your potential. We accomplish this together through a psychoanalytic, interpersonal, mind-body-spirit integration that draws on your strengths and resources. I believe psychoanalysis and psychotherapy are not about fixing what is wrong, but about using what is working well for you and deepening your skills to increase your health, well-being, and overall freedom and flexibility. I care deeply about providing excellent care, and trying out new ways of relating and understanding yourself that will lead you to optimize your health and connections with others.
Hello I'm Jeffery! I'm the Founder and CEO of Pacific Mental Health. I split my time between supervising, teaching, and providing therapy to a small caseload of clients.
I work with men from a Jungian depth perspective, who struggle with anger management and domestic violence. I also utilize CBT for issues involving unhealthy thought patterns.
Hello I'm Jeffery! I'm the Founder and CEO of Pacific Mental Health. I split my time between supervising, teaching, and providing therapy to a small caseload of clients.
I work with men from a Jungian depth perspective, who struggle with anger management and domestic violence. I also utilize CBT for issues involving unhealthy thought patterns.
I have personal and professional experience in narcissistic abuse recovery.
In an unhealthy relationship? Just coming out of one? Are you still reeling from what you experienced? Questioning what serves you and your highest self? Ruminating? Stuck in analysis paralysis? Struggling to move forward? Struggling to trust others? Trust yourself? Do you experience flashbacks and anger? Even rage? Trying to make sense of it all? Do you find yourself stuck in pain and shame? Do you want to know how to protect yourself from manipulation tactics and illogical arguments meant to gain and maintain control over you? Co-parenting or family difficulties? Need a healing, transformative experience?
I have personal and professional experience in narcissistic abuse recovery.
In an unhealthy relationship? Just coming out of one? Are you still reeling from what you experienced? Questioning what serves you and your highest self? Ruminating? Stuck in analysis paralysis? Struggling to move forward? Struggling to trust others? Trust yourself? Do you experience flashbacks and anger? Even rage? Trying to make sense of it all? Do you find yourself stuck in pain and shame? Do you want to know how to protect yourself from manipulation tactics and illogical arguments meant to gain and maintain control over you? Co-parenting or family difficulties? Need a healing, transformative experience?
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What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.