Sexual Addiction Therapists in Seattle, WA
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Patrick Means
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
Verified
I've served as director of a Seattle
sexual addiction
recovery agency, hosted a syndicated radio show on recovery and relationships, and am the author of Men's Secret Wars and The Boundaries Book.
I believe that almost all change that occurs in therapy comes from forming a safe therapeutic relationship, and in the context of that relationship increasing your awareness of self, challenging your old beliefs, establishing appropriate boundaries in relationships with others, and experiencing and letting go of old pain. My task is to support you in that process. I tend to be active in therapy. I ask questions, offer observations, and look for patterns in the client's life. However, I believe the client is the final expert on themselves, and I trust in their unique healing process.

Amy Bloom LICSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CSAT, CMAT
Verified
Verified
I am a licensed psychotherapist and have been treating clients for two decades. I am a certified multiple addictions and sex addiction therapist. (CSAT/CMAT) My training was through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals with Patrick Carnes. I treat those who suffer from
sexual addiction
/compulsion and their spouses/partners and couples. My ideal client/couples are motivated to get the help they truly deserve. I do not treat sex offenders.

Christopher Hipp
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I currently offer immediate, same week availability for new clients (virtual & in-person). I specialize in assisting people who are dealing with sexual behaviors that are causing problems in their lives. Human sexuality is diverse, and what behaviors are healthy versus unhealthy differs from person to person. Some examples of problematic sexual behaviors I can help you with include
sexual addiction
, sexual compulsivity, unwanted sexual behaviors, pornography concerns, pornography addiction, and others.

Roger W Libby
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I comprehensively treat individuals and couples with sexual/relationship issues. I address communication/intimacy problems and all sexual concerns, including inhibited or low sexual desire, male erection and female arousal problems, premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, vaginismus, lack of orgasm, sexual and emotional skills, sexual "addiction," and sexual trauma. I also fine-tune sex lives.
I am a cognitive (CBT) therapist. AASECT and five other national boards certify me as a sex therapist and a sexologist. I help clients get rid of distorted and negative thinking, which has a positive effect on emotions, behaviors and relationships. I assign homework/home-play!

Jeffery J Goff
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I also work with individuals who struggle with relationship issues due to anger, domestic violence, or
sexual addiction
.
I work with those who struggle with anger. Often times the anger is brought on by unmet expectations and merely a symptom of deeper issues under the surface. It's my job to metaphorically stand in a place you can not see, and point you in the right direction as to the cause of what is contributing to the anger. By doing so, you can receive insight that will enrich your life and change it for the better.

Dj Burr
MA, LMHC, CCTP
Verified
10 Endorsed
Verified
10 Endorsed
I specialize in working with
sexual addiction
. Are your sexual behaviors out of control? Are you thinking about a change, or are you ready to explore recovery? Accepting that you need help is the first stage of change. I imagine that you may be scared to make a move. You may worry that recovery will be hard and take forever. I hear you, and I understand. This journey can be an emotional ride of fear, shame, and guilt. You most likely deal with anxiety, depression, insomnia, or other emotions or behaviors you are powerless over. Right now, life may feel unmanageable. Things will change soon.

Wendell Moss MA Counseling
Counselor, MA
Verified
Verified
My specialty is around areas of sexual abuse/trauma,
sexual addiction
, and cultural issues.
I am a Christian therapist trained in the interpersonal/relational psychoanalytic theory. I've also engaged both object relational and cognitive behavioral theories through varied clinical experiences. I've mostly trained under Dan Allender. I am trained well to serve clients that desire to face issues of sexual abuse/trauma, narrative, and relational dynamics within relationships. I'm also able to help clients think through potential cultural issues that can also have impact on ones dealing with issues of abuse, story, and relationship.

Chad Hara
Pre-Licensed Professional, BS
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Maybe as a result of past-traumas, they are having difficulty with anxiety, depression, or
sexual addiction
issues.
Life is often scary and filled with unpredictable pain. However, my job is to be present with you as we work through those difficult experiences together. As an identifying queer, Asian-American, cis-man I believe knowing is power. The more we know about ourselves, the more comfortable and powerful we can become in navigating the world.

Pacific Mental Health
Counselor
Verified
Verified
We treat a variety of mental health disorders from anxiety/depression to
sexual addiction
.
Pacific Mental Health is dedicated to serving the mental health needs of the Greater Seattle area. If you're looking for a new counselor or a fresh perspective in life, our team of psychotherapist can help you achieve the goals you're looking for.

Tina Van Meter
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC-KS, LMHC-WA, CSAT
Verified
Verified
Focus: mood disorders,
sexual addiction
/dysfunction, pornography addiction, geriatric issues, trauma-physical/sexual abuse, PTSD issues, domestic violence, sexuality issues.
I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Kansas and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State who works from a CBT perspective but does utilize a collaborative style. My approach is to work with you and help you realize your strengths and to find healthy ways to cope with difficult situations in your life. I work with adolescents(13-18), adults and geriatric on a variety of mental health concerns, however, I specialize in helping individuals with mood disorders and
sexual addiction
/dysfunction.
Waitlist for new clients

Shelley Bartels
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I specialize in helping you work through traumatic events, both big or small that have left you feeling shattered or overwhelmed. Trauma can include events that happened long ago or recently. Also, as a Certified
Sexual Addiction
therapist I assist female sex and love addicts or treat partners of those who are addicted to porn or sex. Working from a Christian worldview I help clients understand themselves better and develop better coping strategies. If you are depressed or dealing with painful anxiety I help you heal from past wounds and gain self confidence and a new more helpful perspective.
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Chris Chandler
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LMHC, CSAT-S, AF-EMDR
Verified
13 Endorsed
Verified
13 Endorsed
My passion is helping people build healthy and meaningful lives. I am a Certified
Sexual Addiction
Therapist trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes, the pioneer in the field of sex addiction. I have extensive experience working with individuals struggling with all forms of addictions and compulsive behaviors including: sex, pornography, drugs, alcohol, food, work, spending, codependent relationships, etc. I use Attachment-Focused EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and Lifespan Integration to help people become free from underlying relational/attachment wounds.

ABLE Life Recovery, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified
Verified
If you are struggling with
sexual addiction
, whether it's to pornography, compulsive masturbation, or soliciting sex workers, I can help. Accepting that you need help is the first stage of change. I imagine that you may be scared to make a move. You may worry that recovery will be hard and take forever. I hear you, and I understand. This journey can be an emotional ride of fear, shame, and guilt. You most likely deal with anxiety, depression, insomnia, or other emotions or behaviors you are powerless over. Right now, life may feel unmanageable. Things will change soon.

Gianetta Griffitts
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFTA
Verified
Verified
I provide individual and couples counseling with mindful and compassionate approach around subjects such as relationships, depression and anxiety, grief and loss,
sexual addiction
and trauma, self-esteem and conflict resolution to name a few.
Seeking therapy can feel scary, but I believe it is a courageous and empowering step. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy and that therapy can be a means for personal growth. I have a family systems approach to my counseling, that is, I see how our upbringing shaped and molded us into who we are today. I believe that some of the difficulties we have with others is rooted in the learned relationships we have with our family members.
Waitlist for new clients

Patrick Johnson
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
The services I currently provide include: management of depression and/or problems with mood and pervasive unhappiness; chemical dependency (alcohol and other drugs) and other kinds of addiction (including gambling and
sexual addiction
); debilitating anxiety and fears, including social phobia; issues and concerns specific to the LGBT community; Behavioral Medicine/chronic health problems (e.g. heart disease, diabetes, MS); Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder I only work with individual adult clients.. I'm very comfortable collaborating with other health care professionals when appropriate.

Jonathan Barry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialize in supporting couples and individuals navigating trauma,
sexual addiction
, and infidelity.
Throughout the 16 years I have been a therapist, I continually grow in my love for this work. I am in awe of the profound healing nature that each of us carry. Whether it’s couples counseling or individual therapy you are looking for, my hope is to create a nourishing environment to promote your personal goals and healing.

Carly Haeck Rappaport
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
Throughout my work, I have learned that many people feel confused, lost, alone and ashamed when it comes to sex. In particular, many people I work with feel conflicted about their porn and masturbation habits, paying for sex, or their ability to keep agreements with partners. As a certified sex therapist, I offer a non-judgmental space to help you identify which behaviors are no longer serving you, as well as to cultivate the kind of relationship you want to have with your sexuality. I am also qualified to treat sexual dysfunction issues (low desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain).

Conner Cress
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
Verified
There exists in all of us a wound or hurt that we have learned to either live with, or maybe disguise-a protective and gracious attempt at avoiding pain. Therapy is a unique setting to safely explore not only past wounds, but how they impact your present life and relationships. In this way, we can learn to have compassion for the parts of us that have not felt cared for and move towards healing and new ways of relating to self and others.

Hirsch Counseling & Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I've over 20 years experience helping couples and individuals with relationship issues, depression, sexual issues, including porn and sex addiction, and stress management. I have a holistic approach, helping clients examine what they do from when they awake to when they go to bed - what is helpful for their growth and well-being and what would be a better way to handle the challenges of their lives. Life is very challenging. It can be a hard school. Give yourself the gift of receiving compassionate, straightforward guidance.

MacPherson Pacific Counseling Services
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, SUDP, CSAT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am the director of MacPherson Pacific Counseling Services, a dynamic new option in the treatment of chemical dependency, problem gambling, and sex addiction in the Seattle area. Your experience will be individualized and goal focused. You will develop the tools to reclaim your life from addiction and compulsive behavior and begin to develop a path towards healing and wholeness for both yourself and your support network of family and loved ones. In both individual sessions and groups with others also walking the healing path you will challenge yourself, access reservoirs of strength within yourself, learn to connect, and you will grow.
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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.