Sexual Addiction Therapists in Seattle, WA
As a relationship and sex therapist, my background and training are in relationship treatment as well as sexuality therapy. I work with heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, asexual, and transgender individuals, couples, and partnerships to heal and find fulfillment. I see adults on a variety of discomforts that affect individuals, partnerships, and sexuality (e.g., orgasmic issues, erectile issues, desire issues, sexual pain). Additionally, I see couples for a myriad of relational issues. I am LGBTIQA, kink, and poly friendly and knowledgeable.
As a relationship and sex therapist, my background and training are in relationship treatment as well as sexuality therapy. I work with heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, asexual, and transgender individuals, couples, and partnerships to heal and find fulfillment. I see adults on a variety of discomforts that affect individuals, partnerships, and sexuality (e.g., orgasmic issues, erectile issues, desire issues, sexual pain). Additionally, I see couples for a myriad of relational issues. I am LGBTIQA, kink, and poly friendly and knowledgeable.
Are you struggling with unwanted sexual thoughts or behaviors that feel difficult to control (sex addiction)? Do you worry that you're addicted to porn? Has infidelity taken a painful toll on your relationship? Maybe you're tired of having sexual difficulties affecting your intimacy? My clients want a path forward that helps them break unhealthy cycles and repair their relationship. They're tired of living a double life and carrying sexual secrets. As a sexual health specialist, I understand that these challenges can be overwhelming. I offer effective strategies to help you regain control and successfully navigate your recovery.
Are you struggling with unwanted sexual thoughts or behaviors that feel difficult to control (sex addiction)? Do you worry that you're addicted to porn? Has infidelity taken a painful toll on your relationship? Maybe you're tired of having sexual difficulties affecting your intimacy? My clients want a path forward that helps them break unhealthy cycles and repair their relationship. They're tired of living a double life and carrying sexual secrets. As a sexual health specialist, I understand that these challenges can be overwhelming. I offer effective strategies to help you regain control and successfully navigate your recovery.
This life is too hard to journey alone. I believe that healing, growth and change needs accompaniment, someone to go with. Together we will look at what is causing the pain, strain, depression, frustration, fragmentation in life and work to find wholeness.
You want to feel confident in who you are, instead of feeling like an imposter. You want truth rather than lies, peace in place of anxiety. This is what is possible in the deep healing work that lies ahead.
This life is too hard to journey alone. I believe that healing, growth and change needs accompaniment, someone to go with. Together we will look at what is causing the pain, strain, depression, frustration, fragmentation in life and work to find wholeness.
You want to feel confident in who you are, instead of feeling like an imposter. You want truth rather than lies, peace in place of anxiety. This is what is possible in the deep healing work that lies ahead.
I am passionate about creating a safe and welcoming space for people to process their struggles and their desires. Whether you are struggling with a specific problem (anxiety, stress, healthy sexuality, grief, marriage or relationship issues); questions about your work, career, vocation; or want someone to process life changes with, I will collaborate with you for hope, healing and change. I draw from emotion-focused, narrative, psychodynamic, and solution-focused approaches.
I am passionate about creating a safe and welcoming space for people to process their struggles and their desires. Whether you are struggling with a specific problem (anxiety, stress, healthy sexuality, grief, marriage or relationship issues); questions about your work, career, vocation; or want someone to process life changes with, I will collaborate with you for hope, healing and change. I draw from emotion-focused, narrative, psychodynamic, and solution-focused approaches.
I comprehensively treat individuals and couples with sexual/relationship issues. I address communication/intimacy problems and all sexual concerns, including inhibited or low sexual desire, male erection and female arousal problems, premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, vaginismus, lack of orgasm, sexual and emotional skills, sexual "addiction," and sexual trauma. I also fine-tune sex lives.
I am a cognitive (CBT) therapist. AASECT and five other national boards certify me as a sex therapist and a sexologist. I help clients get rid of distorted and negative thinking, which has a positive effect on emotions, behaviors and relationships. I assign homework/home-play!
I comprehensively treat individuals and couples with sexual/relationship issues. I address communication/intimacy problems and all sexual concerns, including inhibited or low sexual desire, male erection and female arousal problems, premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, vaginismus, lack of orgasm, sexual and emotional skills, sexual "addiction," and sexual trauma. I also fine-tune sex lives.
I am a cognitive (CBT) therapist. AASECT and five other national boards certify me as a sex therapist and a sexologist. I help clients get rid of distorted and negative thinking, which has a positive effect on emotions, behaviors and relationships. I assign homework/home-play!
Life is complex, and every person’s journey is unique. As a therapist, I am here to help you navigate the intricacies of your relationships and personal experiences. I use a blend of proven therapeutic methods, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Narrative Therapy, and Bowen Family Therapy, to meet you where you are—not where you think you should be. I understand that the path to self-awareness and growth starts with acknowledging your current reality. We’ll work together to uncover the patterns and dynamics that shape your life, allowing you to create a clear and meaningful path f
Life is complex, and every person’s journey is unique. As a therapist, I am here to help you navigate the intricacies of your relationships and personal experiences. I use a blend of proven therapeutic methods, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Narrative Therapy, and Bowen Family Therapy, to meet you where you are—not where you think you should be. I understand that the path to self-awareness and growth starts with acknowledging your current reality. We’ll work together to uncover the patterns and dynamics that shape your life, allowing you to create a clear and meaningful path f
Throughout my work, I have learned that many people feel confused, lost, alone and ashamed when it comes to sex. In particular, many people I work with feel conflicted about their porn and masturbation habits, paying for sex, or their ability to keep agreements with partners. As a certified sex therapist, I offer a non-judgmental space to help you identify which behaviors are no longer serving you, as well as to cultivate the kind of relationship you want to have with your sexual self. I am also qualified to treat sexual dysfunction issues (low desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain).
Throughout my work, I have learned that many people feel confused, lost, alone and ashamed when it comes to sex. In particular, many people I work with feel conflicted about their porn and masturbation habits, paying for sex, or their ability to keep agreements with partners. As a certified sex therapist, I offer a non-judgmental space to help you identify which behaviors are no longer serving you, as well as to cultivate the kind of relationship you want to have with your sexual self. I am also qualified to treat sexual dysfunction issues (low desire, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain).
I treat those who suffer from mood, sexual addiction/compulsion issues, I treat spouses/partners who have betrayal trauma and help couples find their way back to each other.
I help clients achieve freedom from limiting compulsions, behaviors, and beliefs, and freedom to live in balance. Whether you are experiencing mood, eating, or other disorders, or compulsions you will have tools to manage symptoms, release preoccupations and anxieties, and enjoy a rewarding life.
Currently accepting new clients in a weekly Women's Group.
I treat those who suffer from mood, sexual addiction/compulsion issues, I treat spouses/partners who have betrayal trauma and help couples find their way back to each other.
I help clients achieve freedom from limiting compulsions, behaviors, and beliefs, and freedom to live in balance. Whether you are experiencing mood, eating, or other disorders, or compulsions you will have tools to manage symptoms, release preoccupations and anxieties, and enjoy a rewarding life.
Currently accepting new clients in a weekly Women's Group.
I specialize in individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, bipolar, LGBTQ+, or sexual addiction issues.
Life is often scary and filled with unpredictable pain. My job is to be present with you as we work through those difficult experiences together. As an identifying queer, Asian-American, cis-man I believe identity is a crucial part of understanding one’s self. This knowledge is the first step to change.
I specialize in individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, bipolar, LGBTQ+, or sexual addiction issues.
Life is often scary and filled with unpredictable pain. My job is to be present with you as we work through those difficult experiences together. As an identifying queer, Asian-American, cis-man I believe identity is a crucial part of understanding one’s self. This knowledge is the first step to change.
I've served as director of a Seattle sexual addiction recovery agency, hosted a syndicated radio show on recovery and relationships, and am the author of Men's Secret Wars and The Boundaries Book.
I believe that almost all change that occurs in therapy comes from forming a safe therapeutic relationship, and in the context of that relationship increasing your awareness of self, challenging your old beliefs, establishing appropriate boundaries in relationships with others, and experiencing and letting go of old pain. My task is to support you in that process. I tend to be active in therapy. I ask questions, offer observations, and look for patterns in the client's life. However, I believe the client is the final expert on themselves, and I trust in their unique healing process.
I've served as director of a Seattle sexual addiction recovery agency, hosted a syndicated radio show on recovery and relationships, and am the author of Men's Secret Wars and The Boundaries Book.
I believe that almost all change that occurs in therapy comes from forming a safe therapeutic relationship, and in the context of that relationship increasing your awareness of self, challenging your old beliefs, establishing appropriate boundaries in relationships with others, and experiencing and letting go of old pain. My task is to support you in that process. I tend to be active in therapy. I ask questions, offer observations, and look for patterns in the client's life. However, I believe the client is the final expert on themselves, and I trust in their unique healing process.
I also understand that personality disorders often present additional barriers to recovery from chemical or sexual addiction, two areas where I bring focused expertise.
The initial sessions focus on achieving diagnostic clarity. It's essential to carefully distinguish personality disorders from personality issues, just as it is to differentiate between substance abuse and dependence, or between sexual addiction and other sexual concerns. Let's figure out what is going on to get you the treatment you need.
I also understand that personality disorders often present additional barriers to recovery from chemical or sexual addiction, two areas where I bring focused expertise.
The initial sessions focus on achieving diagnostic clarity. It's essential to carefully distinguish personality disorders from personality issues, just as it is to differentiate between substance abuse and dependence, or between sexual addiction and other sexual concerns. Let's figure out what is going on to get you the treatment you need.
I've over 30 years experience helping couples and individuals with relationship issues, depression, sexual issues, including porn and sex addiction, and stress management. I have a holistic approach, helping clients examine what they do from when they awake to when they go to bed - what is helpful for their growth and well-being and what would be a better way to handle the challenges of their lives. Life is very challenging. It can be a hard school. Give yourself the gift of receiving compassionate, straightforward guidance.
I've over 30 years experience helping couples and individuals with relationship issues, depression, sexual issues, including porn and sex addiction, and stress management. I have a holistic approach, helping clients examine what they do from when they awake to when they go to bed - what is helpful for their growth and well-being and what would be a better way to handle the challenges of their lives. Life is very challenging. It can be a hard school. Give yourself the gift of receiving compassionate, straightforward guidance.
Is out-of-control sexual behavior hurting you or someone you care about? Pornography, prostitution, infidelity and other secretive sexual activity can contribute to physical, legal and relationship problems, and destroy families and careers. I work with adults in the greater Seattle area who want to stop acting out sexually and restore their sense of integrity and wholeness. I also help families and partners heal and move forward. My compassionate, non-judgmental approach works by addressing not only the problematic sexual behaviors but also the personal and relationship issues that are intertwined with them.
Is out-of-control sexual behavior hurting you or someone you care about? Pornography, prostitution, infidelity and other secretive sexual activity can contribute to physical, legal and relationship problems, and destroy families and careers. I work with adults in the greater Seattle area who want to stop acting out sexually and restore their sense of integrity and wholeness. I also help families and partners heal and move forward. My compassionate, non-judgmental approach works by addressing not only the problematic sexual behaviors but also the personal and relationship issues that are intertwined with them.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sex addiction and porn addiction regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships. Many men find themselves stuck despite a genuine desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore whether working together may be a good fit.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sex addiction and porn addiction regain control and build healthier, more productive lives.
When unwanted sexual behaviors feel hard to stop, it can be painful, discouraging, and damaging to relationships. Many men find themselves stuck despite a genuine desire to change. If you or someone you care about is struggling, I offer a free consultation to explore whether working together may be a good fit.
Specialized therapy for sex addiction, PTSD, and trauma recovery. I help individuals break free from compulsive sexual behaviors and reclaim authentic relationships with themselves and others. Virtual sessions available across six states.
Specialized therapy for sex addiction, PTSD, and trauma recovery. I help individuals break free from compulsive sexual behaviors and reclaim authentic relationships with themselves and others. Virtual sessions available across six states.
Note: I am now accepting new group coaching clients only. I no longer offer individual therapy services. I am a Christian counselor/coach and my passion is helping people experience the power of real connection and break free from addictive and compulsive behaviors such as porn, sex, alcohol, drugs, food, work, video games, etc. After 20 years of providing both individual and group therapy, I have discovered that group work is the game-changer. Clients in weekly recovery groups consistently experience faster, deeper, and more lasting transformation, period. That’s why I now focus exclusively on the power of group coaching work.
Note: I am now accepting new group coaching clients only. I no longer offer individual therapy services. I am a Christian counselor/coach and my passion is helping people experience the power of real connection and break free from addictive and compulsive behaviors such as porn, sex, alcohol, drugs, food, work, video games, etc. After 20 years of providing both individual and group therapy, I have discovered that group work is the game-changer. Clients in weekly recovery groups consistently experience faster, deeper, and more lasting transformation, period. That’s why I now focus exclusively on the power of group coaching work.
MacPherson Pacific Counseling Services
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, SUDP, CSAT
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I am the director of MacPherson Pacific Counseling Services, a dynamic new option in the treatment of chemical dependency, problem gambling, and sex addiction in the Seattle area. Your experience will be individualized and goal focused. You will develop the tools to reclaim your life from addiction and compulsive behavior and begin to develop a path towards healing and wholeness for both yourself and your support network of family and loved ones. In both individual sessions and groups with others also walking the healing path you will challenge yourself, access reservoirs of strength within yourself, learn to connect, and you will grow.
I am the director of MacPherson Pacific Counseling Services, a dynamic new option in the treatment of chemical dependency, problem gambling, and sex addiction in the Seattle area. Your experience will be individualized and goal focused. You will develop the tools to reclaim your life from addiction and compulsive behavior and begin to develop a path towards healing and wholeness for both yourself and your support network of family and loved ones. In both individual sessions and groups with others also walking the healing path you will challenge yourself, access reservoirs of strength within yourself, learn to connect, and you will grow.
I work with adolescents(13-18), adults and geriatric on a variety of mental health concerns, however, I specialize in helping individuals with mood disorders and sexual addiction/dysfunction.
Focus: mood disorders, sexual addiction/dysfunction, pornography addiction, geriatric issues, trauma-physical/sexual abuse, PTSD issues, domestic violence, sexuality issues.
I work with adolescents(13-18), adults and geriatric on a variety of mental health concerns, however, I specialize in helping individuals with mood disorders and sexual addiction/dysfunction.
Focus: mood disorders, sexual addiction/dysfunction, pornography addiction, geriatric issues, trauma-physical/sexual abuse, PTSD issues, domestic violence, sexuality issues.
I help individuals and couples struggling with substance use, sexual addiction, infidelity.
I specialize in substance use, sex addiction, trauma, and ruptures from infidelity. If you struggle with feelings of despair, and want to make sense of destructive decisions and to repair your relationship, I can help. At times we may find ourselves stuck, unable to move past certain experiences and it is in these phases of life that feelings of emptiness, or the experience of shame, or the quiet desperation to feel alive again, consume us. When these experiences are not understood and cared for, they often lead to poor decisions and ruptured relationships. Together we can create a plan for you to thrive and heal your relationship.
I help individuals and couples struggling with substance use, sexual addiction, infidelity.
I specialize in substance use, sex addiction, trauma, and ruptures from infidelity. If you struggle with feelings of despair, and want to make sense of destructive decisions and to repair your relationship, I can help. At times we may find ourselves stuck, unable to move past certain experiences and it is in these phases of life that feelings of emptiness, or the experience of shame, or the quiet desperation to feel alive again, consume us. When these experiences are not understood and cared for, they often lead to poor decisions and ruptured relationships. Together we can create a plan for you to thrive and heal your relationship.
Olsen is a national leader in sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behaviors, men's sexual health, and intimacy disorders.
Dr. Olsen has helped countless individuals regain control over their lives and repair damage done to their relationships. He values a collaborative approach which includes insight and feedback from hurting partners. He can help you better understand your partner's pain, develop empathy, rebuild trust, repair damage, and save your relationship.
Olsen is a national leader in sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behaviors, men's sexual health, and intimacy disorders.
Dr. Olsen has helped countless individuals regain control over their lives and repair damage done to their relationships. He values a collaborative approach which includes insight and feedback from hurting partners. He can help you better understand your partner's pain, develop empathy, rebuild trust, repair damage, and save your relationship.
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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.


