Personality Disorders Therapists in Seattle, WA

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Jennifer Jahahn
Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, 200YTT
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98104
I am an experiential therapist and work with challenges around emotion regulation, mood regulation, personality disorders and trauma using both talk therapy and body-based practices to heal from within.
You have struggled with feeling, naming, tolerating, regulating and expressing your emotions. You may have been diagnosed with CPTSD, Bipolar disorder, or Borderline personality disorder. You may have been in therapy for years, done DBT, and it has been helpful, but you find yourself wondering if there might be something more. Something feels like it's missing. The deep wounding is still there. You may have heard your intuition whispering to you, but have been afraid to listen and trust what its communicating. You want to connect with your most authentic Self and live the life you want. You CAN, and there IS more.
I am an experiential therapist and work with challenges around emotion regulation, mood regulation, personality disorders and trauma using both talk therapy and body-based practices to heal from within.
You have struggled with feeling, naming, tolerating, regulating and expressing your emotions. You may have been diagnosed with CPTSD, Bipolar disorder, or Borderline personality disorder. You may have been in therapy for years, done DBT, and it has been helpful, but you find yourself wondering if there might be something more. Something feels like it's missing. The deep wounding is still there. You may have heard your intuition whispering to you, but have been afraid to listen and trust what its communicating. You want to connect with your most authentic Self and live the life you want. You CAN, and there IS more.
(206) 237-5580 View (206) 237-5580
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Carla Jo Hilderbrand
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
5 Endorsed
Online Only
If you have been told by other providers your conditions are too severe for private practice or you have BiPolar, Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, self-harming behaviors, suicidal thoughts, I can help you take the necessary steps for self acceptance.
What If Counseling Was Actually Helpful AND Fun? Support doesn’t have to feel clinical or uncomfortable. I believe healing works best when it’s genuine, empowering, and—yes—even a little fun. I bring humor, honesty, and compassion into every session to help you feel seen, supported, and accepted for who you are. I enjoy working with people from diverse backgrounds who face complex, multi-layered challenges. Many therapists shy away from certain diagnoses, but I believe in destigmatizing all mental health concerns. My goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore even the most confusing or painful emotions.
If you have been told by other providers your conditions are too severe for private practice or you have BiPolar, Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, self-harming behaviors, suicidal thoughts, I can help you take the necessary steps for self acceptance.
What If Counseling Was Actually Helpful AND Fun? Support doesn’t have to feel clinical or uncomfortable. I believe healing works best when it’s genuine, empowering, and—yes—even a little fun. I bring humor, honesty, and compassion into every session to help you feel seen, supported, and accepted for who you are. I enjoy working with people from diverse backgrounds who face complex, multi-layered challenges. Many therapists shy away from certain diagnoses, but I believe in destigmatizing all mental health concerns. My goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore even the most confusing or painful emotions.
(206) 237-5690 View (206) 237-5690
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Laura Eastwick
Counselor, LCSW, LICSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Life comes with challenges; at times it feels like they keep piling on, making it difficult not to become overwhelmed. This overwhelm can be magnified when we feel as if we’re facing hardship alone. Powerlessness to make a meaningful difference, despite our best efforts, can be disheartening. During these times the weight of our burdens seem unbearable; the path forward unclear. You don't have to navigate this alone. As your therapist, I'll meet you where you are using a trauma-informed, neurobiologically based approach to help you understand how your brain works, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and build skills for managing distress.
Life comes with challenges; at times it feels like they keep piling on, making it difficult not to become overwhelmed. This overwhelm can be magnified when we feel as if we’re facing hardship alone. Powerlessness to make a meaningful difference, despite our best efforts, can be disheartening. During these times the weight of our burdens seem unbearable; the path forward unclear. You don't have to navigate this alone. As your therapist, I'll meet you where you are using a trauma-informed, neurobiologically based approach to help you understand how your brain works, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and build skills for managing distress.
(425) 475-2625 View (425) 475-2625
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Joseph David Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Seattle, WA 98107
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals and couples aged 13 to 65 who are struggling with anxiety, depression, psychosis, OCD, personality disorders, chronic health conditions, grief and loss, and suicidality.
I am primarily trained in DBT, CBT, CBTp, CPT, IFS, and MI. These therapeutic interventions are concerned with teaching you skills to improve your life, identify patterns in your thoughts that may need to be changed, and encourage you to enact change in your life with compassion and understanding.
I work with individuals and couples aged 13 to 65 who are struggling with anxiety, depression, psychosis, OCD, personality disorders, chronic health conditions, grief and loss, and suicidality.
I am primarily trained in DBT, CBT, CBTp, CPT, IFS, and MI. These therapeutic interventions are concerned with teaching you skills to improve your life, identify patterns in your thoughts that may need to be changed, and encourage you to enact change in your life with compassion and understanding.
(206) 496-0687 View (206) 496-0687
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Mark Conley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
Seattle, WA 98104
My approach to therapy is client centered utilizing evidence based therapies and customizing treatment to the client. I specialize in couples and individual treatment.
My approach to therapy is client centered utilizing evidence based therapies and customizing treatment to the client. I specialize in couples and individual treatment.
(206) 558-0238 View (206) 558-0238
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Seth Aichele
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Pain is the best teacher, but often it can be difficult to understand what emotional pain is trying to speak. It may be trying to get your attention through an unwanted behavior, an unbearable feeling, or an unbreakable thought pattern. It may show itself in repeated relational dysfunction, addiction, or disturbances in mood or sleep. I find I work well with people who are exhausted from trying to manage or control emotional pain, and are ready to face it holistically and head-on. I also help people suffering from complicated and acute psychological problems which have not responded well to other therapy treatments.
Pain is the best teacher, but often it can be difficult to understand what emotional pain is trying to speak. It may be trying to get your attention through an unwanted behavior, an unbearable feeling, or an unbreakable thought pattern. It may show itself in repeated relational dysfunction, addiction, or disturbances in mood or sleep. I find I work well with people who are exhausted from trying to manage or control emotional pain, and are ready to face it holistically and head-on. I also help people suffering from complicated and acute psychological problems which have not responded well to other therapy treatments.
(206) 203-4134 View (206) 203-4134
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Kerry Billingham
Counselor, MS, LMHC
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115
I am a female therapist in north Seattle. I specialize in adults with depression, anxiety, trauma and relationship problems. I am certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I help people who have unstable emotions, relationships, and are frequently in crisis. I teach mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills. I offer DBT groups. I also work with couples, specifically neurodiverse couples where at least one person is ADHD or on the autism spectrum. For couples, I use a combination of DBT, attachment theory, Gottman, and when applicable Neurodiverse Relationship interventions.
I am a female therapist in north Seattle. I specialize in adults with depression, anxiety, trauma and relationship problems. I am certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I help people who have unstable emotions, relationships, and are frequently in crisis. I teach mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills. I offer DBT groups. I also work with couples, specifically neurodiverse couples where at least one person is ADHD or on the autism spectrum. For couples, I use a combination of DBT, attachment theory, Gottman, and when applicable Neurodiverse Relationship interventions.
(206) 569-5371 View (206) 569-5371
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Madeline Elledge
Counselor, LMHCA, MA
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98107
I approach therapy first and foremost as a relationship and focus on the parts of you that may not be fully conscious. Often, meaningful change happens not by forcing it, but by allowing something deeper in you—something naturally oriented toward growth and wholeness—to lead the way.
I approach therapy first and foremost as a relationship and focus on the parts of you that may not be fully conscious. Often, meaningful change happens not by forcing it, but by allowing something deeper in you—something naturally oriented toward growth and wholeness—to lead the way.
(206) 338-6863 View (206) 338-6863
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Kendra Singleton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSW-I
Online Only
My specialty encompasses anxiety, depression, PTSD, and personality disorders.
Do you ever find yourself stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to take the next steps in life due to worry, fear, or stress? I know how you feel. You may feel overwhelmed with sadness or uncontrolled thoughts. You may also have trouble with your emotions. There is a brighter day ahead of you! Today so many feel alone and undeserving, and not ready to cope with what comes next. I would like to work with you to help you reach your highest level of functioning. Respectably, with empathy, I'd like to be the non-judgemental help you can depend on. Please contact me with any questions you may have.
My specialty encompasses anxiety, depression, PTSD, and personality disorders.
Do you ever find yourself stuck, overwhelmed, or afraid to take the next steps in life due to worry, fear, or stress? I know how you feel. You may feel overwhelmed with sadness or uncontrolled thoughts. You may also have trouble with your emotions. There is a brighter day ahead of you! Today so many feel alone and undeserving, and not ready to cope with what comes next. I would like to work with you to help you reach your highest level of functioning. Respectably, with empathy, I'd like to be the non-judgemental help you can depend on. Please contact me with any questions you may have.
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Jessica Hoene
Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate, MA, LMHCA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with neurodivergent individuals (autism and ADHD), trauma survivors, and those impacted by narcissistic abuse, complex family systems, or high-control environments.
I offer a trauma-informed, humanistic, and somatic approach grounded in mindfulness and self-awareness. Therapy with me is collaborative and nonjudgmental, focused on helping you process experiences, understand patterns, and reconnect with your sense of self in a way that feels authentic and sustainable.
I work with neurodivergent individuals (autism and ADHD), trauma survivors, and those impacted by narcissistic abuse, complex family systems, or high-control environments.
I offer a trauma-informed, humanistic, and somatic approach grounded in mindfulness and self-awareness. Therapy with me is collaborative and nonjudgmental, focused on helping you process experiences, understand patterns, and reconnect with your sense of self in a way that feels authentic and sustainable.
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Kate DeGraaf
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFTC
Online Only
Many of my clients have been the truth-teller, problem solver, or black sheep in families carrying trauma many generations back. They have often lived through abuse, gaslighting, neglect, chronic illness, self-harm, or suicide attempts. Yet they are resilient, perceptive, and often very funny. Many have tried therapy before and want something deeper than surface-level support. They want a roadmap and a serious plan for healing. They want relief from trauma symptoms and a way out of the systems they were born into. They are driven by the desire for something better for themselves. They are the survivors who break the cycle.
Many of my clients have been the truth-teller, problem solver, or black sheep in families carrying trauma many generations back. They have often lived through abuse, gaslighting, neglect, chronic illness, self-harm, or suicide attempts. Yet they are resilient, perceptive, and often very funny. Many have tried therapy before and want something deeper than surface-level support. They want a roadmap and a serious plan for healing. They want relief from trauma symptoms and a way out of the systems they were born into. They are driven by the desire for something better for themselves. They are the survivors who break the cycle.
(206) 558-8778 View (206) 558-8778
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Elizabeth Burdzy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Navigating mood disorders such as depression, anxiety, and trauma-related challenges can feel overwhelming, leaving you disconnected from yourself and those around you. These experiences can shape thoughts, emotions, and relationships in ways that feel isolating. Therapy is a space to explore these patterns, uncover new ways of coping, and build a sense of stability.
Navigating mood disorders such as depression, anxiety, and trauma-related challenges can feel overwhelming, leaving you disconnected from yourself and those around you. These experiences can shape thoughts, emotions, and relationships in ways that feel isolating. Therapy is a space to explore these patterns, uncover new ways of coping, and build a sense of stability.
(206) 495-0489 View (206) 495-0489
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Dr. Chris Brubaker
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98103
Some common ones are stress, anxiety, depression, family and relationship troubles, and personality disorders.
My training is as a psychiatrist and psychotherapist. I've completed medical school and a PhD in neuroscience. I'm board-certified in adult, child and adolescent psychiatry, and have done further training in psychotherapy and psychoanalysis. I enjoy bringing my range of expertise and experience to bear helping you.
Some common ones are stress, anxiety, depression, family and relationship troubles, and personality disorders.
My training is as a psychiatrist and psychotherapist. I've completed medical school and a PhD in neuroscience. I'm board-certified in adult, child and adolescent psychiatry, and have done further training in psychotherapy and psychoanalysis. I enjoy bringing my range of expertise and experience to bear helping you.
(206) 558-9243 View (206) 558-9243
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Justice Browning
Pre-Licensed Professional, LSWAIC
Online Only
As a therapist, I specialize in helping individuals facing anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and social or behavioral challenges. My ideal client is ready to gain control over their emotions, learn effective ways to manage stress, and break through barriers to create meaningful change. Together, we work on strengthening self-awareness, building resilience, and enhancing interpersonal skills, aiming for lasting improvements in daily life and relationships. If you're looking for compassionate, tailored support to help you achieve a more fulfilling, balanced life, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
As a therapist, I specialize in helping individuals facing anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and social or behavioral challenges. My ideal client is ready to gain control over their emotions, learn effective ways to manage stress, and break through barriers to create meaningful change. Together, we work on strengthening self-awareness, building resilience, and enhancing interpersonal skills, aiming for lasting improvements in daily life and relationships. If you're looking for compassionate, tailored support to help you achieve a more fulfilling, balanced life, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
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Mel LaBelle III
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Are you experiencing difficulty managing emotions? Do you notice increasing problems within areas of your life that used to be more manageable? Especially with today's world events it can be difficult to keep up with each passing day. If you are looking to gain more control over your life and learn new skills to master areas of your world we might be a match to work together.
Are you experiencing difficulty managing emotions? Do you notice increasing problems within areas of your life that used to be more manageable? Especially with today's world events it can be difficult to keep up with each passing day. If you are looking to gain more control over your life and learn new skills to master areas of your world we might be a match to work together.
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Dr. Christopher Robin Carver
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DBA, LICSW
10 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with clients struggling with Past Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, and Personality disorders, using primarily EMDR and bilateral stimulation to process stuck points.
Hello, my name is Christopher Carver, and welcome to your Next Mission. I am located in the Eastern Washington Spokane area and conduct telehealth sessions throughout the state of Washington. I'm passionate about helping individuals overcome trauma and achieve a better future. I can assist all those stuck in their lives due to a relationship, job situation, life challenges, or past trauma. I am accepting some insurance providers or private pay. Don't hesitate to contact me, and let's schedule an appointment. 509-290-0992
I work with clients struggling with Past Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, and Personality disorders, using primarily EMDR and bilateral stimulation to process stuck points.
Hello, my name is Christopher Carver, and welcome to your Next Mission. I am located in the Eastern Washington Spokane area and conduct telehealth sessions throughout the state of Washington. I'm passionate about helping individuals overcome trauma and achieve a better future. I can assist all those stuck in their lives due to a relationship, job situation, life challenges, or past trauma. I am accepting some insurance providers or private pay. Don't hesitate to contact me, and let's schedule an appointment. 509-290-0992
(509) 245-1684 View (509) 245-1684
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Rabia Khara
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, MFT, PCC, RDT
Seattle, WA 98101
As a clinician, the therapeutic process is only meaningful and complete with the reciprocity and engagement of those I work with. Each individual is unique and their stories are interwoven with a rich tapestry of diverse emotions. By balancing the abstract, creative, philosophical, and introspective aspects of life with friendliness, compassion, empathy and care, I walk the path with you on your journey toward peace and happiness.
As a clinician, the therapeutic process is only meaningful and complete with the reciprocity and engagement of those I work with. Each individual is unique and their stories are interwoven with a rich tapestry of diverse emotions. By balancing the abstract, creative, philosophical, and introspective aspects of life with friendliness, compassion, empathy and care, I walk the path with you on your journey toward peace and happiness.
(215) 709-9225 View (215) 709-9225
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Christine Treski
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PCGC, CADC
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I want you to experience happiness and fulfillment in life. My goal as a therapist is to co-create a supportive and understanding space where we can explore what’s troubling you and holding you back. With warmth and encouragement, I am here to help you tap into your inner strengths and create meaningful change, so you can move forward with confidence toward a life that feels true to you. "Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. " - Marie Curie
I want you to experience happiness and fulfillment in life. My goal as a therapist is to co-create a supportive and understanding space where we can explore what’s troubling you and holding you back. With warmth and encouragement, I am here to help you tap into your inner strengths and create meaningful change, so you can move forward with confidence toward a life that feels true to you. "Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. " - Marie Curie
(708) 350-6057 View (708) 350-6057
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Valley Psychological Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Online Only
We are an outpatient mental health practice located in Ellensburg, WA. We providespsychotherapy, assessment, dietetics, and medication management. We are expanding our telehealth options to reach other rural areas. Our staff includes psychologists, a psychiatric ARNP, licensed mental health counselors, social workers and a registered dietician. Our clinicians are experienced, utilize evidence-based techniques, and offer a wide variety of clinical specialties.
We are an outpatient mental health practice located in Ellensburg, WA. We providespsychotherapy, assessment, dietetics, and medication management. We are expanding our telehealth options to reach other rural areas. Our staff includes psychologists, a psychiatric ARNP, licensed mental health counselors, social workers and a registered dietician. Our clinicians are experienced, utilize evidence-based techniques, and offer a wide variety of clinical specialties.
(509) 722-9780 View (509) 722-9780
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Dr. Scott A Whitmer
Mental Health Counselor, PsyD, LMHC, CFMHE, ABVE, IPEC
Serves Area
Dr. Whitmer treats individuals, couples, and families. His doctoral training in clinical psychology has prepared him to treat many mental health disorders with various interventions. Dr. Whitmer is board certified as a Certified Forensic Mental Health Evaluator and a Forensic Vocational Expert. He is nationally certified as Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, and is International Psychometric Evaluation Certified. Dr. Whitmer is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State.
Dr. Whitmer treats individuals, couples, and families. His doctoral training in clinical psychology has prepared him to treat many mental health disorders with various interventions. Dr. Whitmer is board certified as a Certified Forensic Mental Health Evaluator and a Forensic Vocational Expert. He is nationally certified as Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, and is International Psychometric Evaluation Certified. Dr. Whitmer is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State.
(509) 257-4173 View (509) 257-4173

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Personality Disorders Therapists
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specializes in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.