Infidelity Therapists in Seattle, WA

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Alexis Hipp
Counselor, LMHC
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115
I support couples address the underlying issues that contribute to their divorce decision- conflict, infidelity, connection, sex, perpetual problems, mental health, addiction.
Considering divorce but you're not sure? You’re in the right place. I help individuals couples on the brink of divorce get clarity and confidence about what they want to do with the future of their relationship. Through Discernment Counseling- an evidence-based, short-term, specialized process- I can help you and your partner make this big decision. I’m not here to tell you what to do or sway you towards a certain decision. Instead, i’ll hold the space for you to process the complexity of your situation and guide you towards deeper insights.
I support couples address the underlying issues that contribute to their divorce decision- conflict, infidelity, connection, sex, perpetual problems, mental health, addiction.
Considering divorce but you're not sure? You’re in the right place. I help individuals couples on the brink of divorce get clarity and confidence about what they want to do with the future of their relationship. Through Discernment Counseling- an evidence-based, short-term, specialized process- I can help you and your partner make this big decision. I’m not here to tell you what to do or sway you towards a certain decision. Instead, i’ll hold the space for you to process the complexity of your situation and guide you towards deeper insights.
(206) 672-4460 View (206) 672-4460
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Christopher Hipp
Counselor, MA, LMHC
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Has infidelity taken a painful toll on your relationship?
Together, we can work towards gaining control of unwanted sexual behaviors and healing from past experiences that have caused shame or pain. You can build healthy habits and boundaries in your sexual life and repair your relationship by creating a vision of intimacy based on trust and connection.
Has infidelity taken a painful toll on your relationship?
Together, we can work towards gaining control of unwanted sexual behaviors and healing from past experiences that have caused shame or pain. You can build healthy habits and boundaries in your sexual life and repair your relationship by creating a vision of intimacy based on trust and connection.
(206) 339-4435 View (206) 339-4435
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Connie Curlett
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CPCC
4 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with infidelity as well as other issues in their relationship.
I help people find healing, empowerment and harmony in their life and relationships. Whether you have something specific you want to address, or have a general feeling of being stuck and don't know where to start, I can help you move towards the life you want and deserve. I am passionate about relationships, specializing in separation and divorce prevention or recovery. I provide a variety of tools along with nonjudgmental support to help you move towards your goals. Trained as a psychotherapist and life coach I bring a unique blend of counseling and coaching into our work together.
I specialize in working with couples who are struggling with infidelity as well as other issues in their relationship.
I help people find healing, empowerment and harmony in their life and relationships. Whether you have something specific you want to address, or have a general feeling of being stuck and don't know where to start, I can help you move towards the life you want and deserve. I am passionate about relationships, specializing in separation and divorce prevention or recovery. I provide a variety of tools along with nonjudgmental support to help you move towards your goals. Trained as a psychotherapist and life coach I bring a unique blend of counseling and coaching into our work together.
(253) 248-4280 View (253) 248-4280
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Jess Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Opening relationships, infidelity, sexual issues, shadow work, self-esteem, accessing emotions, nervous system regulation, depression, anxiety, suicidality, boundary setting, communication difficulties, support through losses and major life transitions, increasing relationship trust and intimacy, and support in separating well.
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from many wise teachers to find what works for you.
Opening relationships, infidelity, sexual issues, shadow work, self-esteem, accessing emotions, nervous system regulation, depression, anxiety, suicidality, boundary setting, communication difficulties, support through losses and major life transitions, increasing relationship trust and intimacy, and support in separating well.
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from many wise teachers to find what works for you.
(206) 944-3959 View (206) 944-3959
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Telishia Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A
Online Only
Struggling with communication, integrity, and cheating in your relationship?
Are you ready to create a new relationship that is more fulfilling and intimate than the one you had before the affair? I will help you and your partner explore each others' inner worlds. Strengthen your communication skills and spark intimate connection, leading to a stronger, more resilient relationship.
Struggling with communication, integrity, and cheating in your relationship?
Are you ready to create a new relationship that is more fulfilling and intimate than the one you had before the affair? I will help you and your partner explore each others' inner worlds. Strengthen your communication skills and spark intimate connection, leading to a stronger, more resilient relationship.
(206) 289-9347 View (206) 289-9347
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Constellation Therapy PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Our Skilled Therapists have skills for clients facing the following issues: Anxiety Depression PTSD Neurodiversity Infidelity Grief Family Issues Couples and Relationship Issues Life Transition Blended households Multicultural households Work/Life Balance Parenting issues Dating Identity formation Low Self Esteem
Constellation Therapy Seattle, a Couples Therapy focused practice dedicated to helping relationships thrive. Located in the Center of the Universe (Fremont Neighborhood of Seattle, WA) and offering virtual/in-person options, we aim to make Couples therapy easier than ever to start so you can get to the work of healing and growing your relationship.
Our Skilled Therapists have skills for clients facing the following issues: Anxiety Depression PTSD Neurodiversity Infidelity Grief Family Issues Couples and Relationship Issues Life Transition Blended households Multicultural households Work/Life Balance Parenting issues Dating Identity formation Low Self Esteem
Constellation Therapy Seattle, a Couples Therapy focused practice dedicated to helping relationships thrive. Located in the Center of the Universe (Fremont Neighborhood of Seattle, WA) and offering virtual/in-person options, we aim to make Couples therapy easier than ever to start so you can get to the work of healing and growing your relationship.
(206) 466-3011 View (206) 466-3011
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Audrey Phillips
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT
7 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98122
I work with couples around topics like sex (pain with sex, different libidos, healing from affairs, feeling emotionally or sexually disconnected) as well as other conflict around chores, roles, money, etc.
I have completed intensive training as a sex therapist, meaning I can provide sex therapy whether for couples or families. I am comfortable helping couples and/or individuals navigate pain with sex, different libidos, sexual dysfunction, affairs, or other topics related to sex.
I work with couples around topics like sex (pain with sex, different libidos, healing from affairs, feeling emotionally or sexually disconnected) as well as other conflict around chores, roles, money, etc.
I have completed intensive training as a sex therapist, meaning I can provide sex therapy whether for couples or families. I am comfortable helping couples and/or individuals navigate pain with sex, different libidos, sexual dysfunction, affairs, or other topics related to sex.
(206) 207-9238 View (206) 207-9238
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Divorce and Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Psychologist, PsyD
Seattle, WA 98105
Emily Andresen, and I am a Stanford-trained psychologist specializing in therapy to help you navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity, separation, and broken trust.
I use evidence-based practices to support recovery from divorce and betrayal trauma, grounding my work in proven therapeutic approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), ACT, and trauma-informed care. These methods help client process painful emotions, reduce anxiety, and rebuild a sense of safety and self-worth.
Emily Andresen, and I am a Stanford-trained psychologist specializing in therapy to help you navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity, separation, and broken trust.
I use evidence-based practices to support recovery from divorce and betrayal trauma, grounding my work in proven therapeutic approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), ACT, and trauma-informed care. These methods help client process painful emotions, reduce anxiety, and rebuild a sense of safety and self-worth.
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Wendy L Olsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98107
Accepting New Clients: In my work with clients, the major areas of focus include: issues with relationship conflict, sexual compatibility, infidelity and intimacy.
Sex therapy can be intimidating. I'm often asked, "what is that?" It is therapy that focuses on specific sexual issues. People/relationships and sex, in therapy even, go hand in hand.
Accepting New Clients: In my work with clients, the major areas of focus include: issues with relationship conflict, sexual compatibility, infidelity and intimacy.
Sex therapy can be intimidating. I'm often asked, "what is that?" It is therapy that focuses on specific sexual issues. People/relationships and sex, in therapy even, go hand in hand.
(206) 557-3850 View (206) 557-3850
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Ellina Bokov
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFTA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Couples therapy involves working on communication, rebuilding trust, care towards each other, belief systems that affect the relationship, infidelity, parenting, sex dissatisfaction/issues, conflict management, blended families, and emotional/physical intimacy.
Relationships are so beautifully complex. The relationship that was created has the power to be your source of joy or your most painful place in life. Unfortunately, many couples decide to stay in their discomfort as opposed to seeking out help and potentially transforming their lives together. If your relationship hit a roadblock, if you feel hopeless for the future, or if you are seeking greater fulfillment in your relationship, I would love to help you.
Couples therapy involves working on communication, rebuilding trust, care towards each other, belief systems that affect the relationship, infidelity, parenting, sex dissatisfaction/issues, conflict management, blended families, and emotional/physical intimacy.
Relationships are so beautifully complex. The relationship that was created has the power to be your source of joy or your most painful place in life. Unfortunately, many couples decide to stay in their discomfort as opposed to seeking out help and potentially transforming their lives together. If your relationship hit a roadblock, if you feel hopeless for the future, or if you are seeking greater fulfillment in your relationship, I would love to help you.
(425) 578-5806 View (425) 578-5806
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Gina Guddat Counseling
Counselor, BA, MA, LMHC, Directo
Seattle, WA 98119
I work with people in all seasons of their relationships including premarital counseling, infidelity, conscious uncoupling, divorce care, discernment counseling, couples in crisis, mediation, improving communication, intimacy, and romance.
Relationship Counseling is my specialty! As a seasoned Couple's Therapist I can help you no matter what stage or phase you are in with your partner. I offer everything from pre-marital counseling, communication tools, enrichment, discernment counseling, conscious uncoupling, crisis counseling, divorce care, mediation, post divorce recovery, and dating coaching.
I work with people in all seasons of their relationships including premarital counseling, infidelity, conscious uncoupling, divorce care, discernment counseling, couples in crisis, mediation, improving communication, intimacy, and romance.
Relationship Counseling is my specialty! As a seasoned Couple's Therapist I can help you no matter what stage or phase you are in with your partner. I offer everything from pre-marital counseling, communication tools, enrichment, discernment counseling, conscious uncoupling, crisis counseling, divorce care, mediation, post divorce recovery, and dating coaching.
(855) 848-5968 View (855) 848-5968
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Emily Anderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFTA
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Are you feeling betrayed and lost after discovering infidelity?
My expertise is in relationships, infidelity, and sex therapy. I specialize in helping couples connect, improve communication, and work together. I can help you repair trust, resolve issues that lead to divorce, and rebuild intimacy after infidelity. We'll work together to strengthen your relationship and work through the trauma from the betrayal.
Are you feeling betrayed and lost after discovering infidelity?
My expertise is in relationships, infidelity, and sex therapy. I specialize in helping couples connect, improve communication, and work together. I can help you repair trust, resolve issues that lead to divorce, and rebuild intimacy after infidelity. We'll work together to strengthen your relationship and work through the trauma from the betrayal.
(425) 578-5497 View (425) 578-5497
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Pacific Behavioral Healthcare
Psychologist, PhD, CST, CCPS, EMDR, CSAT
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Is your relationship struggling to recover after infidelity?
We specialize in relationship conflicts, affair recovery, online infidelity, sex addiction, compulsive porn use, and betrayal trauma. We are trauma specialists and have expertise in sex therapy. Our therapists have helped countless individuals & couples reconnect, deepen intimacy, achieve emotional closeness, rebuild trust, and repair their relationship.
Is your relationship struggling to recover after infidelity?
We specialize in relationship conflicts, affair recovery, online infidelity, sex addiction, compulsive porn use, and betrayal trauma. We are trauma specialists and have expertise in sex therapy. Our therapists have helped countless individuals & couples reconnect, deepen intimacy, achieve emotional closeness, rebuild trust, and repair their relationship.
(425) 214-9123 View (425) 214-9123
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Talor Lee-Stiles
Pre-Licensed Professional
5 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98122
I work with couples who are recovering from infidelity/ betrayal, experiencing communication challenges, dealing with intimacy issues and emotional distance, and/or coping with life transitions in their relationship.
I combine evidence-based therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Somatic Mindfulness with intuitive presence. I offer both in-person and telehealth therapy across Washington—including Port Townsend, Poulsbo, Bainbridge Island, Tacoma, Seattle, Olympia, Bellingham, and Spokane.
I work with couples who are recovering from infidelity/ betrayal, experiencing communication challenges, dealing with intimacy issues and emotional distance, and/or coping with life transitions in their relationship.
I combine evidence-based therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Somatic Mindfulness with intuitive presence. I offer both in-person and telehealth therapy across Washington—including Port Townsend, Poulsbo, Bainbridge Island, Tacoma, Seattle, Olympia, Bellingham, and Spokane.
(360) 515-4195 View (360) 515-4195
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Allyson Clemmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Online Only
Discovering your spouse's infidelity has left you reeling.
Here's what we'll do together: Phase 1: Rebuild trust by answering questions about the affair, information gathering, showing real remorse. Phase 2: Address the pre-existing marital issues (conflict management, friendship, recurring problems, trust, etc.). Phase 3: Safely re-establish emotional and physical/sexual intimacy.
Discovering your spouse's infidelity has left you reeling.
Here's what we'll do together: Phase 1: Rebuild trust by answering questions about the affair, information gathering, showing real remorse. Phase 2: Address the pre-existing marital issues (conflict management, friendship, recurring problems, trust, etc.). Phase 3: Safely re-establish emotional and physical/sexual intimacy.
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Kate Zachary
Psychologist, PsyD, LPsy
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Is you relationship struggling to heal from an affair, infidelity, or other sexual betrayal?
I understand the challenges couples face today. Healing from broken trust, becoming close again, and learning to communicate to be understood and not just heard can transform your relationship. I can help you build emotional closeness, learn to be vulnerable, repair relational wounds, and create a healthy relationship dynamic that you never thought possible.
Is you relationship struggling to heal from an affair, infidelity, or other sexual betrayal?
I understand the challenges couples face today. Healing from broken trust, becoming close again, and learning to communicate to be understood and not just heard can transform your relationship. I can help you build emotional closeness, learn to be vulnerable, repair relational wounds, and create a healthy relationship dynamic that you never thought possible.
(425) 400-2783 View (425) 400-2783
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Debbie Bayer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SUDP, CSAT, CPTT
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98117
I am certified in Betrayal Trauma and Sex Addiction Therapy.
My expertise lies in understanding and addressing the intricate dynamics within interpersonal relationships while also recognizing the impact of alcohol, drug, and sex addiction on individual, couples and families. With my background in addiction, I am well-versed in the challenges individuals face when trying to overcome substance abuse or behavioral addictions. This knowledge enables me to tailor your therapeutic interventions to address the specific issues related to addiction within the context of relationships. I have received training in relational life therapy, emotion-focused therapy, and various models of psychotherapy.
I am certified in Betrayal Trauma and Sex Addiction Therapy.
My expertise lies in understanding and addressing the intricate dynamics within interpersonal relationships while also recognizing the impact of alcohol, drug, and sex addiction on individual, couples and families. With my background in addiction, I am well-versed in the challenges individuals face when trying to overcome substance abuse or behavioral addictions. This knowledge enables me to tailor your therapeutic interventions to address the specific issues related to addiction within the context of relationships. I have received training in relational life therapy, emotion-focused therapy, and various models of psychotherapy.
(425) 441-3351 View (425) 441-3351
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Jamie Boulding-Bridges
Counselor, LPC, CST, FAC
15 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98105
Whether you're navigating betrayal, struggling with intimacy, blending families, or preparing for a life-changing transition, with years of clinical experience and evidence based training, I'm here to help.
If you've experienced betrayal through infidelity, pornography addiction, financial deceit, or any other form of trust violation, I understand how deeply these issues can affect the foundation of your relationship. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, I help couples rebuild trust, heal wounds, and restore intimacy.
Whether you're navigating betrayal, struggling with intimacy, blending families, or preparing for a life-changing transition, with years of clinical experience and evidence based training, I'm here to help.
If you've experienced betrayal through infidelity, pornography addiction, financial deceit, or any other form of trust violation, I understand how deeply these issues can affect the foundation of your relationship. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method, I help couples rebuild trust, heal wounds, and restore intimacy.
(425) 537-6031 View (425) 537-6031
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Dr. Priyal Ranasinghe
Psychologist, PsyD, MBA, LMHCA
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
Has infidelity or sexual addiction caused a rupture in trust with your relationship?
I help couples communicate, build trust, & reignite intimacy. For those facing infidelity, we will navigate the aftermath, heal wounds, and create a path towards a stronger relationship. I help those coping with trauma to get relief from emotional pain, and I support neurodivergent individuals to feel understood and learn specific strategies to thrive.
Has infidelity or sexual addiction caused a rupture in trust with your relationship?
I help couples communicate, build trust, & reignite intimacy. For those facing infidelity, we will navigate the aftermath, heal wounds, and create a path towards a stronger relationship. I help those coping with trauma to get relief from emotional pain, and I support neurodivergent individuals to feel understood and learn specific strategies to thrive.
(425) 437-2386 View (425) 437-2386
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Felicia Molano
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC, CST
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Has infidelity or sexual trauma hurt your ability to feel safe and connect?
With over 20 years of experience, I incorporate EMDR, somatic, and emotion focused therapy in my work. My goal is to give you that space to support and promote lifelong change that will allow you to connect-the-dots, find solutions, and learn tools you can use right away. This will lead to meaningful relationships and foster an overall sense of well-being.
Has infidelity or sexual trauma hurt your ability to feel safe and connect?
With over 20 years of experience, I incorporate EMDR, somatic, and emotion focused therapy in my work. My goal is to give you that space to support and promote lifelong change that will allow you to connect-the-dots, find solutions, and learn tools you can use right away. This will lead to meaningful relationships and foster an overall sense of well-being.
(855) 941-5117 View (855) 941-5117

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.