LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in Seattle, WA
My Filipino and LGBTQ+ identities provides a unique perspective that others may relate to.
As a dedicated Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I strive to create a safe and warm environment for my clients. I specialize in ADHD, anxiety, and depression, particularly helping young professionals facing career transitions, work performance challenges, and self-esteem issues. By combining medication and psychotherapy, I aim support you in achieving your goals. With my experience at acute psychiatric hospital, I am equipped to handle complex cases, ensuring that you receive the best care possible on your journey toward peace and comfort.
My Filipino and LGBTQ+ identities provides a unique perspective that others may relate to.
As a dedicated Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I strive to create a safe and warm environment for my clients. I specialize in ADHD, anxiety, and depression, particularly helping young professionals facing career transitions, work performance challenges, and self-esteem issues. By combining medication and psychotherapy, I aim support you in achieving your goals. With my experience at acute psychiatric hospital, I am equipped to handle complex cases, ensuring that you receive the best care possible on your journey toward peace and comfort.
Danny Kochanowski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
I love working with queer and trans folks, and often encounter those who've been diagnosed with BPD or treatment-resistant depression.
Wow, it is really hard to be a human these days. For you, it's been particularly exasperating for a while, yeah? You feel the world really, really deeply and you're finding it really hard to manage this. Maybe you're moving through your days with a body-full-of-anchors like fatigue, or that self-critical voice has been even louder than ever. Maybe you're at the point where you're really questioning why you feel so depressed, anxious, or shameful. Or, maybe you know the 'why' already but don't know what to do about it. Maybe you have trust issues and you're not sure you could really trust any therapist with your 'stuff' again.
I love working with queer and trans folks, and often encounter those who've been diagnosed with BPD or treatment-resistant depression.
Wow, it is really hard to be a human these days. For you, it's been particularly exasperating for a while, yeah? You feel the world really, really deeply and you're finding it really hard to manage this. Maybe you're moving through your days with a body-full-of-anchors like fatigue, or that self-critical voice has been even louder than ever. Maybe you're at the point where you're really questioning why you feel so depressed, anxious, or shameful. Or, maybe you know the 'why' already but don't know what to do about it. Maybe you have trust issues and you're not sure you could really trust any therapist with your 'stuff' again.
My professional background includes working with survivors of interpersonal violence, working with LGBTQ+ individuals in a community mental health setting, and providing individual and group therapy in a partial hospitalization and intensive outpatient setting to those experiencing mood, anxiety, and trauma-related disorders.
Welcome! My approach to therapy is collaborative and relational. I work to support clients in developing an increasingly complex and embodied understanding of themselves in the context of the relationships and systems that they interact with. Through our work together, clients can expect to uncover habitual patterns of behavior that interfere with living the life they want, and over time to experience an increased sense of choice and flexibility in their actions. I aim to support individuals in developing a greater sense of comfort with themselves, and an increased ability to cope with the inevitable challenges that life offers.
My professional background includes working with survivors of interpersonal violence, working with LGBTQ+ individuals in a community mental health setting, and providing individual and group therapy in a partial hospitalization and intensive outpatient setting to those experiencing mood, anxiety, and trauma-related disorders.
Welcome! My approach to therapy is collaborative and relational. I work to support clients in developing an increasingly complex and embodied understanding of themselves in the context of the relationships and systems that they interact with. Through our work together, clients can expect to uncover habitual patterns of behavior that interfere with living the life they want, and over time to experience an increased sense of choice and flexibility in their actions. I aim to support individuals in developing a greater sense of comfort with themselves, and an increased ability to cope with the inevitable challenges that life offers.
Allison Avery Decker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98136
I particularly enjoy working with my LGBTQIA+ community.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to deepen emotional and physical intimacy while navigating life’s challenges. My sessions offer a safe, open space to explore emotions, shift unsatisfying dynamics, and develop new ways of communicating. I welcome clients in all types of relationship structures — monogamous, open, polyamorous. Whether you're facing major life changes, a relationship struggles, or simply seeking greater connection, we will work together to build confidence, clarity, and resilience. Let’s create the space you need to move forward with strength and authenticity.
I particularly enjoy working with my LGBTQIA+ community.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to deepen emotional and physical intimacy while navigating life’s challenges. My sessions offer a safe, open space to explore emotions, shift unsatisfying dynamics, and develop new ways of communicating. I welcome clients in all types of relationship structures — monogamous, open, polyamorous. Whether you're facing major life changes, a relationship struggles, or simply seeking greater connection, we will work together to build confidence, clarity, and resilience. Let’s create the space you need to move forward with strength and authenticity.
I work with clients ages 15+ and am passionate about supporting members of the LGBTQIA+ community, especially transgender and non-binary individuals.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, grounded in the belief that everyone can face life’s challenges with courage when provided with individualized tools and support. Adopting an anti-oppression and strengths-based perspective, I strive to create a space where clients can explore their thoughts, experiences, and emotions without shame or judgment.
I work with clients ages 15+ and am passionate about supporting members of the LGBTQIA+ community, especially transgender and non-binary individuals.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, grounded in the belief that everyone can face life’s challenges with courage when provided with individualized tools and support. Adopting an anti-oppression and strengths-based perspective, I strive to create a space where clients can explore their thoughts, experiences, and emotions without shame or judgment.
Jarred Lathrop-Weber
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MHP, CMHS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with all adults and adolescents and specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ folks.
Therapy should be a safe place to explore the depths of your humanity, celebrate your culture and identity, and allow your most positive, beautiful self to surface.
I work with all adults and adolescents and specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ folks.
Therapy should be a safe place to explore the depths of your humanity, celebrate your culture and identity, and allow your most positive, beautiful self to surface.
As a queer, mixed second-generation immigrant, my passions and experiences are rooted in working with LGBTQIA2sNB+, BIPOC, and people living in marginalized bodies.
Our work together will seek to unearth and honor your strengths, what you value, and who you want to be in this life. My hope for you is to feel liberated, to engage in play, patterns and relationships that nurture you, and to help you feel at home in your body and safe in community.
As a queer, mixed second-generation immigrant, my passions and experiences are rooted in working with LGBTQIA2sNB+, BIPOC, and people living in marginalized bodies.
Our work together will seek to unearth and honor your strengths, what you value, and who you want to be in this life. My hope for you is to feel liberated, to engage in play, patterns and relationships that nurture you, and to help you feel at home in your body and safe in community.
As a gay man from the south, I know firsthand how important it is to work with a counselor who can provide the safety to explore one's self, identity, and relationships within a world that does not always feel accepting.
My clients want change and growth in their lives and/or their relationships, but they often don't know where to start. Or, they might have made the enormous first steps of moving towards change and growth only to feel stuck and unsure of how to move forward. My clients find that within the experience of being truly heard, accepted, validated, and supported, that the door between where they are and the change they want begins to unlock and slowly open. My approach focuses on unlocking and discovering the strengths that we don't always realize we have, on building new coping skills, and on creating new understanding and connections.
As a gay man from the south, I know firsthand how important it is to work with a counselor who can provide the safety to explore one's self, identity, and relationships within a world that does not always feel accepting.
My clients want change and growth in their lives and/or their relationships, but they often don't know where to start. Or, they might have made the enormous first steps of moving towards change and growth only to feel stuck and unsure of how to move forward. My clients find that within the experience of being truly heard, accepted, validated, and supported, that the door between where they are and the change they want begins to unlock and slowly open. My approach focuses on unlocking and discovering the strengths that we don't always realize we have, on building new coping skills, and on creating new understanding and connections.
I understand how transphobia, homophobia, and misogyny impact mental health within the LGBTQ+ community.
Accepting new clients as of 4/12/2025. Many people face significant life changes that can raise important questions and challenges. Whether adjusting to single life after a breakup, navigating a career shift, transitioning from student to professional, entering retirement, undergoing gender transition, relocating, or coming out, these transitions can feel overwhelming. During such pivotal times, strong support is essential. I offer professional individual and couples therapy to help my clients navigate these changes, develop resilience, and lead fulfilling, authentic lives.
I understand how transphobia, homophobia, and misogyny impact mental health within the LGBTQ+ community.
Accepting new clients as of 4/12/2025. Many people face significant life changes that can raise important questions and challenges. Whether adjusting to single life after a breakup, navigating a career shift, transitioning from student to professional, entering retirement, undergoing gender transition, relocating, or coming out, these transitions can feel overwhelming. During such pivotal times, strong support is essential. I offer professional individual and couples therapy to help my clients navigate these changes, develop resilience, and lead fulfilling, authentic lives.
Rainbow Connection Counseling Collective
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Verified Verified
Online Only
Rainbow Connection Counseling Collective is a group of licensed queer and/or BIPOC therapists who are passionate about helping people heal and thrive.
We understand the unique challenges and experiences faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, and we tailor our therapy to meet your specific needs. Our therapeutic approach is warm, holistic, affirming, and accepting. We offer support for a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, and more.
Rainbow Connection Counseling Collective is a group of licensed queer and/or BIPOC therapists who are passionate about helping people heal and thrive.
We understand the unique challenges and experiences faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, and we tailor our therapy to meet your specific needs. Our therapeutic approach is warm, holistic, affirming, and accepting. We offer support for a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, and more.
I work with queer and trans young adults.
Many of my clients are taking the first steps in processing childhood trauma and challenges. They might be navigating family disconnection or have had negative, abusive, or toxic experiences within church/religion because of their gender or sexuality. Perhaps they are experiencing significant life transitions and just need some extra support along the way.
I work with queer and trans young adults.
Many of my clients are taking the first steps in processing childhood trauma and challenges. They might be navigating family disconnection or have had negative, abusive, or toxic experiences within church/religion because of their gender or sexuality. Perhaps they are experiencing significant life transitions and just need some extra support along the way.
Meet Our LGBTQ+ Therapists
ADHD Success with G. Goldston, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I'm a LGBTQ Provider.
You can never seem to get on track. You’ve tried everything you can think of, from ideas from YouTube to suggestions from other people. The message you’re getting through life is to try harder. And just trying harder never seems to work. Whether you have ADHD or some of the traits attributed to it, trying harder isn’t going to work. What the well-meaning people who try to help don’t know is that you need to try something different. Each time you lose your keys, forget to turn off the stove, or get sidetracked and lose track of time, you roll your eyes at yourself. Not again!
I'm a LGBTQ Provider.
You can never seem to get on track. You’ve tried everything you can think of, from ideas from YouTube to suggestions from other people. The message you’re getting through life is to try harder. And just trying harder never seems to work. Whether you have ADHD or some of the traits attributed to it, trying harder isn’t going to work. What the well-meaning people who try to help don’t know is that you need to try something different. Each time you lose your keys, forget to turn off the stove, or get sidetracked and lose track of time, you roll your eyes at yourself. Not again!
I enjoy working with folks from all walks of life, especially those within the LGBTQIA+ community.
My primary approach to therapy is Person-Centered, to be present with you in a safe space where deep listening happens as we explore the difficulties you're facing. We may also use approaches from expressive arts therapy, coaching, solution-oriented therapy, mindfulness, and trauma informed work to actualize the change you are seeking.
I enjoy working with folks from all walks of life, especially those within the LGBTQIA+ community.
My primary approach to therapy is Person-Centered, to be present with you in a safe space where deep listening happens as we explore the difficulties you're facing. We may also use approaches from expressive arts therapy, coaching, solution-oriented therapy, mindfulness, and trauma informed work to actualize the change you are seeking.
As a queer therapist and current PhD student in clinical sexology, I bring a deep understanding and specialized expertise to my practice.
I offer diverse therapeutic approaches tailored to your unique needs, including trauma-focused CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Narrative Therapy. Together, we'll navigate challenges and foster growth to improve well-being and fulfilling relationships.
As a queer therapist and current PhD student in clinical sexology, I bring a deep understanding and specialized expertise to my practice.
I offer diverse therapeutic approaches tailored to your unique needs, including trauma-focused CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Narrative Therapy. Together, we'll navigate challenges and foster growth to improve well-being and fulfilling relationships.
I am a gay, poly, Korean American counselor, and I understand the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC community.
As a minority therapist, I understand and speak directly to your unique perspectives. I understand how culture and sexuality intersect with mental health, and I can help you bring more fulfillment to your life. We can work towards solutions and lasting change. The highest compliment a client can give me is "you get me".
I am a gay, poly, Korean American counselor, and I understand the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ and BIPOC community.
As a minority therapist, I understand and speak directly to your unique perspectives. I understand how culture and sexuality intersect with mental health, and I can help you bring more fulfillment to your life. We can work towards solutions and lasting change. The highest compliment a client can give me is "you get me".
As a parent and member of the LGBTQ+ community, you face unique challenges and societal pressures that can strain your relationships.
Clients seek me for my deep understanding of the unique challenges LGBTQ+ couples and families face because therapy should be a place where you feel seen and understood. My sessions blend practical skills and emotional processing tailored to your needs. Together, we build communication skills, foster empathy, and create deeper emotional connections.
As a parent and member of the LGBTQ+ community, you face unique challenges and societal pressures that can strain your relationships.
Clients seek me for my deep understanding of the unique challenges LGBTQ+ couples and families face because therapy should be a place where you feel seen and understood. My sessions blend practical skills and emotional processing tailored to your needs. Together, we build communication skills, foster empathy, and create deeper emotional connections.
As a licensed clinical social worker with a decade of experience, specializing in trauma, LGBTQIA+ issues, and gender-affirming care, I am here to guide and support you every step of the way.
Together, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Utilizing person-centered and strengths-based techniques, such as Internal Family Systems, EMDR, and Positive Psychology, I will support you in unlocking your inner wisdom, identifying your strengths, and overcoming the barriers that stand in the way of your personal growth and fulfillment.
As a licensed clinical social worker with a decade of experience, specializing in trauma, LGBTQIA+ issues, and gender-affirming care, I am here to guide and support you every step of the way.
Together, we will embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Utilizing person-centered and strengths-based techniques, such as Internal Family Systems, EMDR, and Positive Psychology, I will support you in unlocking your inner wisdom, identifying your strengths, and overcoming the barriers that stand in the way of your personal growth and fulfillment.
Deb Dettman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, SUDP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
I work with straight, bisexual and lesbian women.
Has it upset you when people say, "Everything happens for a reason?" I think a better way to think about it is: "We can survive and use everything." I see therapy as an emotional composting. Trauma needs to be transformed into wisdom. We often adapt by becoming anxious over-thinkers, people-pleasers or perfectionists. Do you prioritize other people’s needs over taking care of yourself? This leads to various addictive/numbing behaviors to cope. These patterns get reinforced and even rewarded by our stress junky culture. Eventually it lead to exhaustion, resentments and regret. Turning that around is challenging but therapy can help.
I work with straight, bisexual and lesbian women.
Has it upset you when people say, "Everything happens for a reason?" I think a better way to think about it is: "We can survive and use everything." I see therapy as an emotional composting. Trauma needs to be transformed into wisdom. We often adapt by becoming anxious over-thinkers, people-pleasers or perfectionists. Do you prioritize other people’s needs over taking care of yourself? This leads to various addictive/numbing behaviors to cope. These patterns get reinforced and even rewarded by our stress junky culture. Eventually it lead to exhaustion, resentments and regret. Turning that around is challenging but therapy can help.
In addition, he has training in the psychological treatment of Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), insomnia, and bipolar disorder, as well as an extensive background working with LGBTQ+ clients.
Dr. Mystkowski received a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from UCLA and a B.A. in Psychology from Northwestern University. At UCLA, Dr. Mystkowski acquired a strong foundation in applying behavior theories to the understanding and treatment of anxiety disorders, published several papers on this topic, and serves as a Clinical Professor.
In addition, he has training in the psychological treatment of Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), insomnia, and bipolar disorder, as well as an extensive background working with LGBTQ+ clients.
Dr. Mystkowski received a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from UCLA and a B.A. in Psychology from Northwestern University. At UCLA, Dr. Mystkowski acquired a strong foundation in applying behavior theories to the understanding and treatment of anxiety disorders, published several papers on this topic, and serves as a Clinical Professor.
Being queer is often not easy or simple - and some days will be tougher than others, With over 20 years of experience providing clinical social work services, I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families.
In addition to addressing the more common experiences of the LGBTQIA+ community, I have specialized knowledge in subcultural dynamics, including the BDSM/kink community and polyamorous relationships. If your journey includes navigating less typical issues, you can trust that I approach these topics with understanding, respect, and nonjudgmental support.
Being queer is often not easy or simple - and some days will be tougher than others, With over 20 years of experience providing clinical social work services, I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families.
In addition to addressing the more common experiences of the LGBTQIA+ community, I have specialized knowledge in subcultural dynamics, including the BDSM/kink community and polyamorous relationships. If your journey includes navigating less typical issues, you can trust that I approach these topics with understanding, respect, and nonjudgmental support.
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