LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in Seattle, WA
Throughout my practice, I have offered support to trans and queer clients during various life changes and transitions.
Do you ever wonder why the same patterns keep playing out? Why feelings like anxiety, self-doubt, or loneliness linger no matter what you do? Maybe you're asking questions about who you are, what you want, or how to feel safe in yourself and the world. Whether you're navigating depression, trauma, identity, or relationship challenges, you're looking for change. I work best with clients who want to feel their full emotional range without fear, understand themselves without shame, navigate and tolerate uncertainty, break free from old patterns, build deeper relationships, and trust themselves to move through life with confidence.
Throughout my practice, I have offered support to trans and queer clients during various life changes and transitions.
Do you ever wonder why the same patterns keep playing out? Why feelings like anxiety, self-doubt, or loneliness linger no matter what you do? Maybe you're asking questions about who you are, what you want, or how to feel safe in yourself and the world. Whether you're navigating depression, trauma, identity, or relationship challenges, you're looking for change. I work best with clients who want to feel their full emotional range without fear, understand themselves without shame, navigate and tolerate uncertainty, break free from old patterns, build deeper relationships, and trust themselves to move through life with confidence.
My approach to counseling involves elements of humanistic theory, experiential and existential therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gay Affirmative Therapy, mindfulness, and family systems and multicultural theories.
I help clients to feel like they are in the driver's seat of their lives by facilitating clarity amidst the chaos of distractions that impede engagement in their present experience. I believe the fundamental vehicle of change is the relationship between the counselor and the client. For me, therapy is a collaborative approach in which the therapist helps clients confront issues by staying present and exploring their narratives and relationships through different dynamics and perspectives.
My approach to counseling involves elements of humanistic theory, experiential and existential therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gay Affirmative Therapy, mindfulness, and family systems and multicultural theories.
I help clients to feel like they are in the driver's seat of their lives by facilitating clarity amidst the chaos of distractions that impede engagement in their present experience. I believe the fundamental vehicle of change is the relationship between the counselor and the client. For me, therapy is a collaborative approach in which the therapist helps clients confront issues by staying present and exploring their narratives and relationships through different dynamics and perspectives.
As an artist, DJ, and a queer Jewish trans woman (free Palestine!)
My goal is to support the real you. If you want to create more authentic and empowering communication in your relationships, I hope to hear from you. My approach is open, collaborative, honest, creative, and non-stigmatizing.
As an artist, DJ, and a queer Jewish trans woman (free Palestine!)
My goal is to support the real you. If you want to create more authentic and empowering communication in your relationships, I hope to hear from you. My approach is open, collaborative, honest, creative, and non-stigmatizing.
Whether someone is exploring new feelings or has identified as LGBTQ+ for years, they may face internal or external challenges leading to confusion and stress.
I have been working with the LGBTQ+ community for over a decade providing individual therapy and evaluations/letters for gender-affirming surgery. I also offer consultation to parents who feel anxious about their child coming out. My goal is to promote a supportive and understanding space that will ultimately strengthen the parent-child relationship.
Whether someone is exploring new feelings or has identified as LGBTQ+ for years, they may face internal or external challenges leading to confusion and stress.
I have been working with the LGBTQ+ community for over a decade providing individual therapy and evaluations/letters for gender-affirming surgery. I also offer consultation to parents who feel anxious about their child coming out. My goal is to promote a supportive and understanding space that will ultimately strengthen the parent-child relationship.
I am passionate about LGBTQIA+ issues and will assist with integration of all nuances of the self.
When thinking about the therapeutic journey of the client, I look towards the whole self of the client. When presenting issues of emotions and behaviors, feeling like they are not in control in life, I collaborate with people to identify goals that take them toward a path of full autonomy over their feelings. Whether they are asking for help with anxiety, depression, life transitions, or just need some encouragement, I, without judgement or assumptions, help them be aware in the moment. I welcome people who struggle with being present and are seeking a long-term collaboration that is compassionate, empathetic, and empowering
I am passionate about LGBTQIA+ issues and will assist with integration of all nuances of the self.
When thinking about the therapeutic journey of the client, I look towards the whole self of the client. When presenting issues of emotions and behaviors, feeling like they are not in control in life, I collaborate with people to identify goals that take them toward a path of full autonomy over their feelings. Whether they are asking for help with anxiety, depression, life transitions, or just need some encouragement, I, without judgement or assumptions, help them be aware in the moment. I welcome people who struggle with being present and are seeking a long-term collaboration that is compassionate, empathetic, and empowering
I'm queer and specialize in supporting LGBTQ+ and/or non-monogamous adults around trauma, family of origin issues, gender affirming care, and anxiety, including OCD.
My approach is trauma-informed, relational, and evidence-based. We may look at your childhood, systems of oppression, traumas, context, and/or culture in making sense of your experience. As we collaborate over time, you will gain a variety of skills to feel more at ease in your mind and body. I may draw from IFS, CPT, ERP, ACT, or DBT in our work together.
I'm queer and specialize in supporting LGBTQ+ and/or non-monogamous adults around trauma, family of origin issues, gender affirming care, and anxiety, including OCD.
My approach is trauma-informed, relational, and evidence-based. We may look at your childhood, systems of oppression, traumas, context, and/or culture in making sense of your experience. As we collaborate over time, you will gain a variety of skills to feel more at ease in your mind and body. I may draw from IFS, CPT, ERP, ACT, or DBT in our work together.
I work with adults and teens in the state of Washington and focus on issues of depression, anxiety, complex trauma and abuse, religious trauma, LGBTQ+ concerns, relationship concerns, and more.
Since moving to Seattle from the Deep South, I've dedicated much of my personal and academic work to studying trauma and its effect on our minds and bodies. Prior to starting my own practice, I spent three years working with Seattle Counseling Service, an agency centered around LGBTQ+ mental health care.
I work with adults and teens in the state of Washington and focus on issues of depression, anxiety, complex trauma and abuse, religious trauma, LGBTQ+ concerns, relationship concerns, and more.
Since moving to Seattle from the Deep South, I've dedicated much of my personal and academic work to studying trauma and its effect on our minds and bodies. Prior to starting my own practice, I spent three years working with Seattle Counseling Service, an agency centered around LGBTQ+ mental health care.
I am particularly passionate about serving LGB, trans, and gender diverse clients, clients navigating ex-evangelical identity, clients and couples navigating non-traditional relationships, and grad/non-traditional students.
I value creating a close, personal connection with my clients and using our therapeutic relationship to explore and understand other relationships in your life. I work predominantly from an interpersonal perspective, but incorporate ACT, psychodynamic, feminist-multicultural, and other techniques as the needs of my clients require.
I am particularly passionate about serving LGB, trans, and gender diverse clients, clients navigating ex-evangelical identity, clients and couples navigating non-traditional relationships, and grad/non-traditional students.
I value creating a close, personal connection with my clients and using our therapeutic relationship to explore and understand other relationships in your life. I work predominantly from an interpersonal perspective, but incorporate ACT, psychodynamic, feminist-multicultural, and other techniques as the needs of my clients require.
Many of my clients are processing religious trauma, looking for support in their LGBTQ identity, need help coping with attachment-related stressors, or are processing grief.
I use a psychodynamic approach to therapy; this means the healthy therapeutic relationship we establish is a space for healing relational traumas and exploring your identity. Additionally, I use components of narrative therapy, CBT, Internal Family Systems, and attachment-based therapy to help you build skills reflective of your unique strengths and goals.
Many of my clients are processing religious trauma, looking for support in their LGBTQ identity, need help coping with attachment-related stressors, or are processing grief.
I use a psychodynamic approach to therapy; this means the healthy therapeutic relationship we establish is a space for healing relational traumas and exploring your identity. Additionally, I use components of narrative therapy, CBT, Internal Family Systems, and attachment-based therapy to help you build skills reflective of your unique strengths and goals.
I specialize in working with neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ persons, and those exploring non-monogamy.
ONLY seeing new patients for ADHD/Autism EVALS (13+). Do you often feel misunderstood or out of sync with the world around you? Maybe you're exploring what it means to be neurodivergent—living with ADHD or autism—or uncovering your authentic self in a world that doesn’t always embrace difference. Perhaps you're in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for a space where your choices are celebrated and understood. Whether you're a teen, parent looking for support, an adult, or part of a couple, I’m here to support you. Together, we’ll honor your strengths, foster self-compassion, and build deeper, more meaningful connections.
I specialize in working with neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ persons, and those exploring non-monogamy.
ONLY seeing new patients for ADHD/Autism EVALS (13+). Do you often feel misunderstood or out of sync with the world around you? Maybe you're exploring what it means to be neurodivergent—living with ADHD or autism—or uncovering your authentic self in a world that doesn’t always embrace difference. Perhaps you're in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for a space where your choices are celebrated and understood. Whether you're a teen, parent looking for support, an adult, or part of a couple, I’m here to support you. Together, we’ll honor your strengths, foster self-compassion, and build deeper, more meaningful connections.
As I have practiced, I have become even more passionate in working with LGBTQ+ specific issues, religious harm, neurodivergence, attachment, depression, anxiety, identity, and trauma.
I operate out of a relational psychodynamic stance, giving extra attention to the relationship between the client and therapist. Through this relationship, we can identify patterns, feelings, and dynamics in order to bring about healing. I also use EMDR, frameworks from DBT, motivational interviewing, and narrative roleplay games.
As I have practiced, I have become even more passionate in working with LGBTQ+ specific issues, religious harm, neurodivergence, attachment, depression, anxiety, identity, and trauma.
I operate out of a relational psychodynamic stance, giving extra attention to the relationship between the client and therapist. Through this relationship, we can identify patterns, feelings, and dynamics in order to bring about healing. I also use EMDR, frameworks from DBT, motivational interviewing, and narrative roleplay games.
Meet Our LGBTQ+ Therapists
I work with clients ages 15+ and am passionate about supporting members of the LGBTQIA+ community, especially transgender and non-binary individuals.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, grounded in the belief that everyone can face life’s challenges with courage when provided with individualized tools and support. Adopting an anti-oppression and strengths-based perspective, I strive to create a space where clients can explore their thoughts, experiences, and emotions without shame or judgment.
I work with clients ages 15+ and am passionate about supporting members of the LGBTQIA+ community, especially transgender and non-binary individuals.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, grounded in the belief that everyone can face life’s challenges with courage when provided with individualized tools and support. Adopting an anti-oppression and strengths-based perspective, I strive to create a space where clients can explore their thoughts, experiences, and emotions without shame or judgment.
Allison Avery Decker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98136
I particularly enjoy working with my LGBTQIA+ community.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to deepen emotional and physical intimacy while navigating life’s challenges. My sessions offer a safe, open space to explore emotions, shift unsatisfying dynamics, and develop new ways of communicating. I welcome clients in all types of relationship structures — monogamous, open, polyamorous. Whether you're facing major life changes, a relationship struggles, or simply seeking greater connection, we will work together to build confidence, clarity, and resilience. Let’s create the space you need to move forward with strength and authenticity.
I particularly enjoy working with my LGBTQIA+ community.
I work with individuals, couples, and families to deepen emotional and physical intimacy while navigating life’s challenges. My sessions offer a safe, open space to explore emotions, shift unsatisfying dynamics, and develop new ways of communicating. I welcome clients in all types of relationship structures — monogamous, open, polyamorous. Whether you're facing major life changes, a relationship struggles, or simply seeking greater connection, we will work together to build confidence, clarity, and resilience. Let’s create the space you need to move forward with strength and authenticity.
I'm passionate about working with BIPOC/multiracial, LGBTQIA+, and/or neurodiverse (ADHD/autism) individuals who value deep reflection and would like to co-create a vision for their healing.
Growing up as a biracial child of an immigrant, I’m familiar with balancing multiple worlds while seeking a sense of place. My lived experience has been influenced by dual cultures and multiple overlapping identities. This has deepened my appreciation for multicultural perspectives, challenging dominant Eurocentric ideologies, and the value of community.
I'm passionate about working with BIPOC/multiracial, LGBTQIA+, and/or neurodiverse (ADHD/autism) individuals who value deep reflection and would like to co-create a vision for their healing.
Growing up as a biracial child of an immigrant, I’m familiar with balancing multiple worlds while seeking a sense of place. My lived experience has been influenced by dual cultures and multiple overlapping identities. This has deepened my appreciation for multicultural perspectives, challenging dominant Eurocentric ideologies, and the value of community.
I specialize in supporting individuals as they navigate the complexities of LGBTQ+ identities, trauma, alternative relationship dynamics, and intersectionality.
Using a blend of trauma-informed, evidence-based practices such as EMDR, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, and Internal Family Systems, I focus on creating a therapy experience that is as unique as you are. I offer affirmative, sex-positive support for diverse relationship structures and lifestyles, including polyamory, sex work, and kink identities.
I specialize in supporting individuals as they navigate the complexities of LGBTQ+ identities, trauma, alternative relationship dynamics, and intersectionality.
Using a blend of trauma-informed, evidence-based practices such as EMDR, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, and Internal Family Systems, I focus on creating a therapy experience that is as unique as you are. I offer affirmative, sex-positive support for diverse relationship structures and lifestyles, including polyamory, sex work, and kink identities.
I specialize in working with queer adults and couples, as well as folks navigating grief, religious trauma, identity work, life transitions, chronic health issues, and existential questions.
Through a trusted therapeutic relationship, a return to wholeness and inner peace is possible. I believe this is your birthright. In our work, we will meet what shows up with care and compassion. We will meet inner and relational changes that lead to a greater sense of well-being. Often, we can't change outer circumstances; we can change our inner landscape. Since our wounding happens in relationships, so does healing. We usually need another to repair those hurt parts. All parts of you are welcome when working with me. I draw from feminist, existential, Buddhist, and parts frameworks and work from a trauma-informed lens.
I specialize in working with queer adults and couples, as well as folks navigating grief, religious trauma, identity work, life transitions, chronic health issues, and existential questions.
Through a trusted therapeutic relationship, a return to wholeness and inner peace is possible. I believe this is your birthright. In our work, we will meet what shows up with care and compassion. We will meet inner and relational changes that lead to a greater sense of well-being. Often, we can't change outer circumstances; we can change our inner landscape. Since our wounding happens in relationships, so does healing. We usually need another to repair those hurt parts. All parts of you are welcome when working with me. I draw from feminist, existential, Buddhist, and parts frameworks and work from a trauma-informed lens.
As a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I wholeheartedly comprehend the struggles of not having access to the necessary support, and that's why I am dedicated to connecting and assisting clients with issues related to gender identity, diverse sexual orientations, and non-traditional relationships.
I truly believe that creating a support system is a joint effort that can begin within the therapeutic relationship and expand outward. My objective as a clinical mental health intern is to empower and provide support to my clients by working together to acknowledge their strengths and resilience. I understand that starting therapy can feel overwhelming,
As a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I wholeheartedly comprehend the struggles of not having access to the necessary support, and that's why I am dedicated to connecting and assisting clients with issues related to gender identity, diverse sexual orientations, and non-traditional relationships.
I truly believe that creating a support system is a joint effort that can begin within the therapeutic relationship and expand outward. My objective as a clinical mental health intern is to empower and provide support to my clients by working together to acknowledge their strengths and resilience. I understand that starting therapy can feel overwhelming,
Hi there, I am a queer-identified therapist who specializes in working with adult individuals and couples.
My theoretical framework is rooted in a relational psychodynamic approach, though I pull from other theories as needed including existentialism, somatic therapy and parts work. Whether working with individuals or couples, I work to maintain a stance of curiosity and empathy, while emphasizing the importance of responsibility to self and others.
Hi there, I am a queer-identified therapist who specializes in working with adult individuals and couples.
My theoretical framework is rooted in a relational psychodynamic approach, though I pull from other theories as needed including existentialism, somatic therapy and parts work. Whether working with individuals or couples, I work to maintain a stance of curiosity and empathy, while emphasizing the importance of responsibility to self and others.
Alyx Steadman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98102
Waitlist for new clients
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-based, relational, sex and body-positive, and affirming of queer, polyamory, and kink identities.
The past is just a story we tell ourselves. Through early formative experiences, we mold core beliefs about belonging, worth, and lovability. Therapy is a place to untangle the narratives we have internalized (perhaps unconsciously) and impact our ability to show up in the world authentically and connect with others deeply. Understanding our past can help us bring compassion and awareness to the present moment. Let us bravely explore the complexity and messiness of the human experience - embracing all that you are.
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-based, relational, sex and body-positive, and affirming of queer, polyamory, and kink identities.
The past is just a story we tell ourselves. Through early formative experiences, we mold core beliefs about belonging, worth, and lovability. Therapy is a place to untangle the narratives we have internalized (perhaps unconsciously) and impact our ability to show up in the world authentically and connect with others deeply. Understanding our past can help us bring compassion and awareness to the present moment. Let us bravely explore the complexity and messiness of the human experience - embracing all that you are.
I grew up in Omaha, Nebraska as a Jewish gay kid who always felt “out of place” in a community where these identities were largely invisible.
I focus on attachment work, and my approach includes Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), psychodynamic, relational cultural therapy, and somatics. I integrate an anti-oppressive lens centered in cultural humility. As a white therapist I help white people better understand how whiteness impacts all of our relationships.
I grew up in Omaha, Nebraska as a Jewish gay kid who always felt “out of place” in a community where these identities were largely invisible.
I focus on attachment work, and my approach includes Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), psychodynamic, relational cultural therapy, and somatics. I integrate an anti-oppressive lens centered in cultural humility. As a white therapist I help white people better understand how whiteness impacts all of our relationships.
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