LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in Seattle, WA

I specialize in working with queer and trans folks, folks who are navigating trauma, relationship challenges, burnout, identity exploration, people-pleasing, and sexual & domestic violence.
Being alive and navigating our world and relationships right now is harsh to say the least. After experiencing trauma, harm, oppression or grief it’s so normal to notice our sense of self, relationships, and well-being suffer.
Whether you're doubting yourself, feeling anxious, struggling with relationship challenges and changes, or are ready to explore your past experiences, you don't have to do it alone. I believe therapy can offer a chance to reconnect to ourselves and loved ones, break through generational patterns by exploring their roots, learn new skills, and be a space to practice new ways of being.
I specialize in working with queer and trans folks, folks who are navigating trauma, relationship challenges, burnout, identity exploration, people-pleasing, and sexual & domestic violence.
Being alive and navigating our world and relationships right now is harsh to say the least. After experiencing trauma, harm, oppression or grief it’s so normal to notice our sense of self, relationships, and well-being suffer.
Whether you're doubting yourself, feeling anxious, struggling with relationship challenges and changes, or are ready to explore your past experiences, you don't have to do it alone. I believe therapy can offer a chance to reconnect to ourselves and loved ones, break through generational patterns by exploring their roots, learn new skills, and be a space to practice new ways of being.

As a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I wholeheartedly comprehend the struggles of not having access to the necessary support, and that's why I am dedicated to connecting and assisting clients with issues related to gender identity, diverse sexual orientations, and non-traditional relationships.
I truly believe that creating a support system is a joint effort that can begin within the therapeutic relationship and expand outward. My objective as a clinical mental health intern is to empower and provide support to my clients by working together to acknowledge their strengths and resilience. I understand that starting therapy can feel overwhelming,
As a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I wholeheartedly comprehend the struggles of not having access to the necessary support, and that's why I am dedicated to connecting and assisting clients with issues related to gender identity, diverse sexual orientations, and non-traditional relationships.
I truly believe that creating a support system is a joint effort that can begin within the therapeutic relationship and expand outward. My objective as a clinical mental health intern is to empower and provide support to my clients by working together to acknowledge their strengths and resilience. I understand that starting therapy can feel overwhelming,

My "niches" include: young adults who are experiencing difficulty launching: LGBTQIA+ folks (I ID as a gay cis male) ; trans clients before, during, and after transition; creatives like authors songwriters; corporate workers (esp high tech, I’m a former Microsoftie).
We'll collaborate to create therapeutic goals and then find out what works for you. I integrate multiple modalities and use what works for the specific client. My approach is compassionate, empathetic, and client-strength focused. I believe in the power of humor, stories, technology, and music in conjunction with psychotherapeutic technique.
My "niches" include: young adults who are experiencing difficulty launching: LGBTQIA+ folks (I ID as a gay cis male) ; trans clients before, during, and after transition; creatives like authors songwriters; corporate workers (esp high tech, I’m a former Microsoftie).
We'll collaborate to create therapeutic goals and then find out what works for you. I integrate multiple modalities and use what works for the specific client. My approach is compassionate, empathetic, and client-strength focused. I believe in the power of humor, stories, technology, and music in conjunction with psychotherapeutic technique.

David Parks
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98104
Waitlist for new clients
Being Black, queer, and neurodivergent, I have had the same struggles.
Many of us feel out of step with others around us. Difficulties with completing tasks and organization lead to struggles and frustration in relationships. Difficulty with social skills and anxiety make it hard to reach out to others for friendship or dating. Some of us feel shame and isolation from ADHD, autism, and other forms of neurodiversity. Our unique hobbies or interests keep us out of step. Shame keeps us from exploring who we are in friendships, dating, and sexually. People often do not see us. We feel alone. This manifests as depression, anxiety, and difficulty regulating our emotions.
Being Black, queer, and neurodivergent, I have had the same struggles.
Many of us feel out of step with others around us. Difficulties with completing tasks and organization lead to struggles and frustration in relationships. Difficulty with social skills and anxiety make it hard to reach out to others for friendship or dating. Some of us feel shame and isolation from ADHD, autism, and other forms of neurodiversity. Our unique hobbies or interests keep us out of step. Shame keeps us from exploring who we are in friendships, dating, and sexually. People often do not see us. We feel alone. This manifests as depression, anxiety, and difficulty regulating our emotions.

I have expertise in working with individuals around their history of sexual victimization, people healing from trauma and LGBTQ life issues.
Working with sexual abuse survivors and the LGBTQ community means that I am adept at helping clients work-through attachment issues. This is particularly helpful for individuals and couples who are poly, open and/or kinky.
I have expertise in working with individuals around their history of sexual victimization, people healing from trauma and LGBTQ life issues.
Working with sexual abuse survivors and the LGBTQ community means that I am adept at helping clients work-through attachment issues. This is particularly helpful for individuals and couples who are poly, open and/or kinky.

I bring both experience and a deep passion for serving LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities, with a strong focus on the Latine population.
I have the privilege of working with humans who are navigating various challenges, including self-esteem, anxiety, trauma, relationship dynamics, sexuality, and identity. Each counseling session is approached with deep respect for your culture and worldview. It’s important to me to meet you right where you are in your life, as this is essential for building a strong therapeutic connection. I aim to foster a supportive environment where you feel genuinely heard and accepted, free from judgment. You are the expert on your journey toward healing, and I wholeheartedly trust that you will guide me to the areas that matter most to you.
I bring both experience and a deep passion for serving LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities, with a strong focus on the Latine population.
I have the privilege of working with humans who are navigating various challenges, including self-esteem, anxiety, trauma, relationship dynamics, sexuality, and identity. Each counseling session is approached with deep respect for your culture and worldview. It’s important to me to meet you right where you are in your life, as this is essential for building a strong therapeutic connection. I aim to foster a supportive environment where you feel genuinely heard and accepted, free from judgment. You are the expert on your journey toward healing, and I wholeheartedly trust that you will guide me to the areas that matter most to you.

My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-based, relational, sex and body-positive, and affirming of queer, polyamory, and kink identities.
The past is just a story we tell ourselves. Through early formative experiences, we mold core beliefs about belonging, worth, and lovability. Therapy is a place to untangle the narratives we have internalized (perhaps unconsciously) and impact our ability to show up in the world authentically and connect with others deeply. Understanding our past can help us bring compassion and awareness to the present moment. Let us bravely explore the complexity and messiness of the human experience - embracing all that you are.
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-based, relational, sex and body-positive, and affirming of queer, polyamory, and kink identities.
The past is just a story we tell ourselves. Through early formative experiences, we mold core beliefs about belonging, worth, and lovability. Therapy is a place to untangle the narratives we have internalized (perhaps unconsciously) and impact our ability to show up in the world authentically and connect with others deeply. Understanding our past can help us bring compassion and awareness to the present moment. Let us bravely explore the complexity and messiness of the human experience - embracing all that you are.

Growing up Hmong-American (second generation), gay, and Christian (nondenominational, pastor’s kid), I can appreciate the intersectional experience of navigating multiple and competing identities.
I especially enjoy working with those interested in exploring: socialized masculinity and sexuality (e.g. regulating sexual behaviors / OCSB-informed, desire discrepancy, body image, values and beliefs...), the specific interaction of faith/spirituality and sexuality (e.g. shame, trauma...), intersectional identity work (i.e. our complex and interacting layers as people), surviving dating, navigating life transitions, and living with anxiety (e.g. social, highly sensitive person...) and depression.
Growing up Hmong-American (second generation), gay, and Christian (nondenominational, pastor’s kid), I can appreciate the intersectional experience of navigating multiple and competing identities.
I especially enjoy working with those interested in exploring: socialized masculinity and sexuality (e.g. regulating sexual behaviors / OCSB-informed, desire discrepancy, body image, values and beliefs...), the specific interaction of faith/spirituality and sexuality (e.g. shame, trauma...), intersectional identity work (i.e. our complex and interacting layers as people), surviving dating, navigating life transitions, and living with anxiety (e.g. social, highly sensitive person...) and depression.

I offer therapy to queer, trans, and/or neurodivergent adolescents and young adults who are experiencing a range of concerns and hold a range of identities.
You deserve a space where every part of you belongs: where you feel unconditionally cared for and seen. I relate from a stance of non-judgmental acceptance with the goal of communicating that you make sense to me. In our work together, I’ll move towards you with curiosity, warmth, and acceptance as you feel into difficult emotions. At times we’ll play, be silly, and feel into and towards joy, excitement, and hope.
I offer therapy to queer, trans, and/or neurodivergent adolescents and young adults who are experiencing a range of concerns and hold a range of identities.
You deserve a space where every part of you belongs: where you feel unconditionally cared for and seen. I relate from a stance of non-judgmental acceptance with the goal of communicating that you make sense to me. In our work together, I’ll move towards you with curiosity, warmth, and acceptance as you feel into difficult emotions. At times we’ll play, be silly, and feel into and towards joy, excitement, and hope.

As a queer, neurodivergent therapist, I am passionate about working with other LGBTQIA2 people.
Feeling lost can be one of the most disorienting and uncomfortable experiences in life. It’s a profoundly human feeling, and yet, it often leaves us feeling isolated, uncertain, and unsure of where to turn. We’re not given a map for how to live well, and it takes immense courage to begin the process of creating your own. Therapy, in my view, is a form of companionship for this journey—someone to walk beside you as you navigate the complexities of your emotions, identities, narratives, relationships, and experiences.
As a queer, neurodivergent therapist, I am passionate about working with other LGBTQIA2 people.
Feeling lost can be one of the most disorienting and uncomfortable experiences in life. It’s a profoundly human feeling, and yet, it often leaves us feeling isolated, uncertain, and unsure of where to turn. We’re not given a map for how to live well, and it takes immense courage to begin the process of creating your own. Therapy, in my view, is a form of companionship for this journey—someone to walk beside you as you navigate the complexities of your emotions, identities, narratives, relationships, and experiences.

I specialize in working with neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ persons, and those exploring non-monogamy.
ONLY seeing new patients for ADHD/Autism EVALS (13+). Do you often feel misunderstood or out of sync with the world around you? Maybe you're exploring what it means to be neurodivergent—living with ADHD or autism—or uncovering your authentic self in a world that doesn’t always embrace difference. Perhaps you're in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for a space where your choices are celebrated and understood. Whether you're a teen, parent looking for support, an adult, or part of a couple, I’m here to support you. Together, we’ll honor your strengths, foster self-compassion, and build deeper, more meaningful connections.
I specialize in working with neurodivergent individuals, LGBTQ+ persons, and those exploring non-monogamy.
ONLY seeing new patients for ADHD/Autism EVALS (13+). Do you often feel misunderstood or out of sync with the world around you? Maybe you're exploring what it means to be neurodivergent—living with ADHD or autism—or uncovering your authentic self in a world that doesn’t always embrace difference. Perhaps you're in a non-monogamous relationship and looking for a space where your choices are celebrated and understood. Whether you're a teen, parent looking for support, an adult, or part of a couple, I’m here to support you. Together, we’ll honor your strengths, foster self-compassion, and build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Meet Our LGBTQ+ Therapists

I primarily serve teens and young adults from the greater LGBTQIA+ population.
In my practice, I focus on using a strengths-based form of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). I believe that people thrive most when they acknowledge their inherent strengths, and use those to work toward their life goals. I use components from other therapy modalities, such as DBT, to provide a generally eclectic and individualized approach to your care.
I primarily serve teens and young adults from the greater LGBTQIA+ population.
In my practice, I focus on using a strengths-based form of cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). I believe that people thrive most when they acknowledge their inherent strengths, and use those to work toward their life goals. I use components from other therapy modalities, such as DBT, to provide a generally eclectic and individualized approach to your care.

I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
Do you feel broken? Do you struggle to feel connected and present in relationships? Are you often stuck in numbness or struggle with intense emotions and don't know how to cope? You long to decrease the daily distress you experience and I can help you get there. I help people move from surviving to thriving. I am successful at what I do and I can help you become more empowered to improve your mental health and your relationships.
I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
Do you feel broken? Do you struggle to feel connected and present in relationships? Are you often stuck in numbness or struggle with intense emotions and don't know how to cope? You long to decrease the daily distress you experience and I can help you get there. I help people move from surviving to thriving. I am successful at what I do and I can help you become more empowered to improve your mental health and your relationships.

As a queer-identified counselor, I also am passionate about supporting LGBTQIA+ individuals.
Honoring what makes us human guides my approach to counseling. I am passionate about centering openness and compassion as my client and I explore the next stage of their journey. I see counseling as a collaborative relationship which constantly evolves throughout our time together. Through moments of conversation, silence, humor, and play, we will uncover how to best support you in fostering meaningful connection in your life.
As a queer-identified counselor, I also am passionate about supporting LGBTQIA+ individuals.
Honoring what makes us human guides my approach to counseling. I am passionate about centering openness and compassion as my client and I explore the next stage of their journey. I see counseling as a collaborative relationship which constantly evolves throughout our time together. Through moments of conversation, silence, humor, and play, we will uncover how to best support you in fostering meaningful connection in your life.

Our services are affirming for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent individuals, including those with ADHD and autism.
Contact us through our website. Email not working. Now accepting clients (13+) for autism and adhd evals. Are you feeling out of place in a world that seems to misunderstand you because of your identity? Perhaps you or your teen are navigating the challenges of being neurodiverse while trying to be successful in your job or at school. Or maybe you are struggling with connection or communication with your spouse or partner because of unresolved experiences from your past. At Mindful Way our therapists are ready to help you learn to let go of that idea that there is a "right" or "normal" way to exist, and begin to live your true self.
Our services are affirming for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent individuals, including those with ADHD and autism.
Contact us through our website. Email not working. Now accepting clients (13+) for autism and adhd evals. Are you feeling out of place in a world that seems to misunderstand you because of your identity? Perhaps you or your teen are navigating the challenges of being neurodiverse while trying to be successful in your job or at school. Or maybe you are struggling with connection or communication with your spouse or partner because of unresolved experiences from your past. At Mindful Way our therapists are ready to help you learn to let go of that idea that there is a "right" or "normal" way to exist, and begin to live your true self.

You want to work with a therapist who can relate to what you're going through, as a queer person, as a neurodivergent person, as someone with trauma, but doesn't project their experiences onto you or expect to "cure" you with easy answers.
I specialize in doing depth work with queer and trans clients. My approach incorporates elements of the psychoanalytic, existential, and feminist therapy traditions. These are rather different from most mainstream approaches to therapy, and involve less focus on immediate solutions, and more on helping you find direction and create deep and lasting change.
You want to work with a therapist who can relate to what you're going through, as a queer person, as a neurodivergent person, as someone with trauma, but doesn't project their experiences onto you or expect to "cure" you with easy answers.
I specialize in doing depth work with queer and trans clients. My approach incorporates elements of the psychoanalytic, existential, and feminist therapy traditions. These are rather different from most mainstream approaches to therapy, and involve less focus on immediate solutions, and more on helping you find direction and create deep and lasting change.

Whether someone is exploring new feelings or has identified as LGBTQ+ for years, they may face internal or external challenges leading to confusion and stress.
I have been working with the LGBTQ+ community for over a decade providing individual therapy and evaluations/letters for gender-affirming surgery. I also offer consultation to parents who feel anxious about their child coming out. My goal is to promote a supportive and understanding space that will ultimately strengthen the parent-child relationship.
Whether someone is exploring new feelings or has identified as LGBTQ+ for years, they may face internal or external challenges leading to confusion and stress.
I have been working with the LGBTQ+ community for over a decade providing individual therapy and evaluations/letters for gender-affirming surgery. I also offer consultation to parents who feel anxious about their child coming out. My goal is to promote a supportive and understanding space that will ultimately strengthen the parent-child relationship.

As a gay, Latino man who immigrated to the US, I know the weight that our stories carry.
I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I can offer support to those struggling with career-related stress, relationship issues, or coping mechanism that are no longer serving them. No matter who the client, I believe living authentically is key to personal growth and happiness. Our work together will emphasize developing the tools needed to express yourself, build confidence, develop healthy relationships, and overcome the challenges keeping you from your goals.
As a gay, Latino man who immigrated to the US, I know the weight that our stories carry.
I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I can offer support to those struggling with career-related stress, relationship issues, or coping mechanism that are no longer serving them. No matter who the client, I believe living authentically is key to personal growth and happiness. Our work together will emphasize developing the tools needed to express yourself, build confidence, develop healthy relationships, and overcome the challenges keeping you from your goals.

As an artist, DJ, and a queer Jewish trans woman (free Palestine!) I know how important it can be to have a therapist who has lived experience on the margins.
My goal is to support the real you. If you want to create more authentic and empowering communication in your relationships, I hope to hear from you. My approach is open, collaborative, honest, creative, and non-stigmatizing.
As an artist, DJ, and a queer Jewish trans woman (free Palestine!) I know how important it can be to have a therapist who has lived experience on the margins.
My goal is to support the real you. If you want to create more authentic and empowering communication in your relationships, I hope to hear from you. My approach is open, collaborative, honest, creative, and non-stigmatizing.

I work with autistic clients, ADHDers, and other neurotypes; folks who are queer and/or needing support around transition; who are experiencing relationship and attachment issues; who have experienced deep traumas.
Are you overwhelmed by life’s struggles, trauma, relationship or attachment issues? Maybe you have been wondering about autism or ADHD as a something you are experiencing? Do you have questions about gender or sexuality, or feel the need to examine where you exist within an increasingly challenging society and how you are impacted by it? These are all issues that I enjoy navigating with my clients as we find a new, securely attached, unmasked, and comfortable way of living freely and authentically. If you are hurting and do not know where to start I can help. If you feel that you are at the end, we can find a new beginning.
I work with autistic clients, ADHDers, and other neurotypes; folks who are queer and/or needing support around transition; who are experiencing relationship and attachment issues; who have experienced deep traumas.
Are you overwhelmed by life’s struggles, trauma, relationship or attachment issues? Maybe you have been wondering about autism or ADHD as a something you are experiencing? Do you have questions about gender or sexuality, or feel the need to examine where you exist within an increasingly challenging society and how you are impacted by it? These are all issues that I enjoy navigating with my clients as we find a new, securely attached, unmasked, and comfortable way of living freely and authentically. If you are hurting and do not know where to start I can help. If you feel that you are at the end, we can find a new beginning.
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LGBTQ+ Therapists
Do LGBTQ-affirmative therapists receive special training?
Yes. Many therapists who practice LGBTQ-affirmative therapy have completed specialized training, either during their degree program or as continuing education, to learn the core principles of affirmative therapy and how to best support their LGBTQ clients; some have received certifications in LGBTQ-affirmative therapy. Prospective clients should inquire as to a clinician’s background and training to ensure a good fit.
Why might I want to see an LGBTQ-affirming or LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
Queer and gender-non-conforming individuals frequently experience bias and marginalization in day-to-day life. Working with a therapist who understands these unique challenges, as well as accepts and affirms their identity, can help LGBTQ clients feel safe and supported during therapy—allowing them to better navigate their relationships, mental health, and anything else that they wish to explore during therapy. It is important to note that many therapists can be effective in their work with LGBTQ+ individuals, even in the absence of specific training or background knowledge. The most important component in therapy is the alliance between therapist and client, and this alliance can exist between individuals with very different backgrounds.
How can I find an LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
You may wish to inquire about a therapist’s expertise with your specific challenges or concerns—depression, for example, or relationship strife—as well as their past experiences treating LGBTQ+ clients. Prospective clients may also ask whether a therapist has obtained additional training and/or certification in LGBTQ-affirmative techniques.
How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience with LGBTQ issues?
Prospective clients should feel empowered to directly ask therapists whether they have received training or been certified in LGBTQ-affirming therapy; competent therapists will be happy to explain their educational background and preferred approach(es) to help a client find the best match for them. Clients may also wish to ask how a therapist has treated clients with their particular challenges in the past and what they expect treatment to look like.
Are all the therapists listed in the LGBTQ directory themselves members of the LGBTQ community?
While therapists may choose to disclose their sexual orientation or gender identity in their profiles, the LGBTQ directory features not only those who have shared this information but also those who assert specialized training or experience in providing support to queer individuals, couples or families.