Divorce Therapists in Seattle, WA
My directions and guidance are practical, with clear boundaries supported by years of working with families of divorce.
With 42 years as a therapist I can say that my passion and joy is sitting with couples and individuals who want more meaning and depth in their relationships. Spirit leads the way in my work. Watching couples light up when they understand how to "be present with curiosity in listening to their partner" adds spark to my day. Knowing that they are beginning to get the tools for change that grow inner confidence is what brings richness to my work and hope for them.
My directions and guidance are practical, with clear boundaries supported by years of working with families of divorce.
With 42 years as a therapist I can say that my passion and joy is sitting with couples and individuals who want more meaning and depth in their relationships. Spirit leads the way in my work. Watching couples light up when they understand how to "be present with curiosity in listening to their partner" adds spark to my day. Knowing that they are beginning to get the tools for change that grow inner confidence is what brings richness to my work and hope for them.
I am a licensed therapist practicing for 20+ years and a trained collaborative divorce child specialist/coparenting coach.
Have trouble saying 'No"? Wondering why you feel scared when everyone else seem fine? Are you avoiding things, feeling guilty and overwhelmed? Are you facing divorce and have no idea of what to do or where to turn? I help adults and older children with anxiety, establishing boundaries, managing ADHD and learning differences, depression and coping with major life changes and transitions. I also offer parenting and child inclusive or focused support for families in the divorce process. My office is located in Seattle's Magnolia Neighborhood (Details given upon request).
I am a licensed therapist practicing for 20+ years and a trained collaborative divorce child specialist/coparenting coach.
Have trouble saying 'No"? Wondering why you feel scared when everyone else seem fine? Are you avoiding things, feeling guilty and overwhelmed? Are you facing divorce and have no idea of what to do or where to turn? I help adults and older children with anxiety, establishing boundaries, managing ADHD and learning differences, depression and coping with major life changes and transitions. I also offer parenting and child inclusive or focused support for families in the divorce process. My office is located in Seattle's Magnolia Neighborhood (Details given upon request).
Mary Jayne Wykowski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98116 (Online Only)
I have worked with folks going through the rigors of a divorce.
Welcome and congratulations on taking the first step so that life may get different for you. The beauty and benefits of re-examining how we can make changes in our lives, continues to fuel my passion for therapeutic dialogue. The integrative nature of my work allows for us to look at family of origin explanations, without blaming, so that you can move toward change. When what feels like roadblocks comes up there are a number of tools that can help, like increasing mindfulness and learning more around boundaries and assertive communication.
I have worked with folks going through the rigors of a divorce.
Welcome and congratulations on taking the first step so that life may get different for you. The beauty and benefits of re-examining how we can make changes in our lives, continues to fuel my passion for therapeutic dialogue. The integrative nature of my work allows for us to look at family of origin explanations, without blaming, so that you can move toward change. When what feels like roadblocks comes up there are a number of tools that can help, like increasing mindfulness and learning more around boundaries and assertive communication.
When we tend lovingly to our grief, transitions like death, separation, divorce, and mid-life challenges can actually be invitations to live more fully.
When the unwanted or unexpected happens, it is as if the whole world has imploded. If left untended, grief can show up in ways that don't serve us. We can lose ourselves in alcohol, sleep, work--anything to numb the pain. Some of us lash out or withdraw from the people and things that give our lives meaning (e.g., family, friends, community). It doesn't have to be this way! I specialize in helping people whose lives have been affected by illness or death, separation or divorce, and mid-life issues (parenting struggles, caring for aging parents, etc.).
When we tend lovingly to our grief, transitions like death, separation, divorce, and mid-life challenges can actually be invitations to live more fully.
When the unwanted or unexpected happens, it is as if the whole world has imploded. If left untended, grief can show up in ways that don't serve us. We can lose ourselves in alcohol, sleep, work--anything to numb the pain. Some of us lash out or withdraw from the people and things that give our lives meaning (e.g., family, friends, community). It doesn't have to be this way! I specialize in helping people whose lives have been affected by illness or death, separation or divorce, and mid-life issues (parenting struggles, caring for aging parents, etc.).
Connie Curlett
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98112 (Online Only)
I help people find healing, empowerment and harmony in their life and relationships. Whether you have something specific you want to address, or have a general feeling of being stuck and don't know where to start, I can help you move towards the life you want and deserve. I am passionate about relationships, specializing in separation and divorce prevention or recovery. I provide a variety of tools along with nonjudgmental support to help you move towards your goals. Trained as a psychotherapist and life coach I bring a unique blend of counseling and coaching into our work together.
I help people find healing, empowerment and harmony in their life and relationships. Whether you have something specific you want to address, or have a general feeling of being stuck and don't know where to start, I can help you move towards the life you want and deserve. I am passionate about relationships, specializing in separation and divorce prevention or recovery. I provide a variety of tools along with nonjudgmental support to help you move towards your goals. Trained as a psychotherapist and life coach I bring a unique blend of counseling and coaching into our work together.
Sarah Gibbs
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
I have a passion for working with people experiencing life transitions, including divorce or loss, forming new step families, co-parenting, or struggling with parenting concerns. My approach is to explore problems systemically, viewing each client within the context of the world around them. In therapy sessions we will explore trans-generational patterns of behavior that exist within you, and within your family of origin and your family of choice.
I have a passion for working with people experiencing life transitions, including divorce or loss, forming new step families, co-parenting, or struggling with parenting concerns. My approach is to explore problems systemically, viewing each client within the context of the world around them. In therapy sessions we will explore trans-generational patterns of behavior that exist within you, and within your family of origin and your family of choice.
I most frequently work with individuals and couples who want to better navigate conflict resolution, life transitions, connection, infidelity recovery, sex & intimacy, mental health concerns, communication, and breakups & divorce.
Facing a pivotal moment in your relationship? You’re in the right place. I help individuals and couples navigate the big moments that can happen in romantic relationships: the happy transitions, like getting married & the painful situations, like recovering from infidelity or contemplating divorce. I have specialized training in Discernment Counseling, which helps couples on the brink of divorce get clarity on what they want to do with the future of their relationship, as well as Pre-Marital Counseling for couples who want to set up their relationship for success.
I most frequently work with individuals and couples who want to better navigate conflict resolution, life transitions, connection, infidelity recovery, sex & intimacy, mental health concerns, communication, and breakups & divorce.
Facing a pivotal moment in your relationship? You’re in the right place. I help individuals and couples navigate the big moments that can happen in romantic relationships: the happy transitions, like getting married & the painful situations, like recovering from infidelity or contemplating divorce. I have specialized training in Discernment Counseling, which helps couples on the brink of divorce get clarity on what they want to do with the future of their relationship, as well as Pre-Marital Counseling for couples who want to set up their relationship for success.
Anne Clemente
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115 (Online Only)
My specialties include Complicated Relationships, Divorce, Trauma/PTSD/Anxiety, EMDR Therapy & EMDR Intensives.
Accepting New Clients. Therapy for Healing from Complicated Pasts, Presents and Relationships. Whether it’s stuff from childhood that is holding you back, a current difficulty with a partner or spouse, a divorce, or a trauma that you don’t want to keep stuffed down anymore, I am here for you. I help people with the difficult events and relationships in their lives. And you don't have to recount the worst things that have happened to you for therapy to work. We will start with where you want to be, how you want to feel and make a plan from there.
My specialties include Complicated Relationships, Divorce, Trauma/PTSD/Anxiety, EMDR Therapy & EMDR Intensives.
Accepting New Clients. Therapy for Healing from Complicated Pasts, Presents and Relationships. Whether it’s stuff from childhood that is holding you back, a current difficulty with a partner or spouse, a divorce, or a trauma that you don’t want to keep stuffed down anymore, I am here for you. I help people with the difficult events and relationships in their lives. And you don't have to recount the worst things that have happened to you for therapy to work. We will start with where you want to be, how you want to feel and make a plan from there.
Nuri Kahn - N. W. Family Psychology
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MHP, DBH
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98112
Dr. Kahn is experienced in providing behavioral health services to children, adolescents, and adults seeking treatment for a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety, depression, impulse control, phobias, somatoform disorders, trauma, adjustment challenges, relationship discord and behavioral disorders. Dr. Kahn also specializes in evidence-based reunification therapy for families in transition and at crossroads with the court system, such as following separation, divorce, and relocation.
Dr. Kahn is experienced in providing behavioral health services to children, adolescents, and adults seeking treatment for a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety, depression, impulse control, phobias, somatoform disorders, trauma, adjustment challenges, relationship discord and behavioral disorders. Dr. Kahn also specializes in evidence-based reunification therapy for families in transition and at crossroads with the court system, such as following separation, divorce, and relocation.
Postgraduate training includes hypnosis; family systems therapy; advanced training in mediation, collaborative divorce, Gottman communication model and cognitive-behavioral therapy.
I have had over 25 years experience working with children, adults and their families on both the East and West Coasts. I was born and raised in New York City, and have had professional experience in New York, New Jersey, Los Angeles and Seattle. My special expertise includes child development, populations with special needs (learning disabilities, attention deficit disorders, developmental disabilities, and autism), and services for families who are engaged in high conflict divorce. I am here to help you, and if your family needs help, work with the issues life brings us.
Postgraduate training includes hypnosis; family systems therapy; advanced training in mediation, collaborative divorce, Gottman communication model and cognitive-behavioral therapy.
I have had over 25 years experience working with children, adults and their families on both the East and West Coasts. I was born and raised in New York City, and have had professional experience in New York, New Jersey, Los Angeles and Seattle. My special expertise includes child development, populations with special needs (learning disabilities, attention deficit disorders, developmental disabilities, and autism), and services for families who are engaged in high conflict divorce. I am here to help you, and if your family needs help, work with the issues life brings us.
Areas of Special Interest include Co-dependency and Navigating Intimate Partnerships, Parenting, Divorce, Parenting Anxiety.
I hold Master's degree in Counseling from Seattle University. I work with clients on relationship issues, co-dependency, separation, divorce and co-parenting, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, sexual trauma and major life transitions. It is my belief that the ultimate human need is connection and meaningful relationships. My desire is to help clients clarify feelings, improve communication, and strengthen and deepen connections.
Areas of Special Interest include Co-dependency and Navigating Intimate Partnerships, Parenting, Divorce, Parenting Anxiety.
I hold Master's degree in Counseling from Seattle University. I work with clients on relationship issues, co-dependency, separation, divorce and co-parenting, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, sexual trauma and major life transitions. It is my belief that the ultimate human need is connection and meaningful relationships. My desire is to help clients clarify feelings, improve communication, and strengthen and deepen connections.
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Glyn Deputy, M.Ed, LMHC, brings a keen awareness of both the necessities and subtleties of surviving our human condition and reaching one’s full potential, particularly when clients are experiencing significant life transitions (e.g., separation, divorce, parent child conflicts, etc.), as well as clinical experience spanning the past 20 years. Glyn has worked with generational family issues in rural and frontier communities, has assisted youth and young adults with many types of disability in pursuing higher education, and has gained exceptional skills in dual diagnosis treatment – both individually and in the family system.
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I can help you repair trust, resolve issues that lead to divorce, and rebuild intimacy after infidelity.
Are you feeling betrayed and lost after discovering infidelity? Whether from a physical or emotional affair, the shock and pain of finding out your partner has been unfaithful can be overwhelming. If you're struggling to heal and rebuild trust, now is the time to work with a therapist who can help. I will guide you through the recovery process and offer hope that your relationship can be repaired. We'll create a plan that reassures you that healing is possible and your relationship can emerge stronger. Booking a session today is a courageous step towards rebuilding trust and finding hope.
I can help you repair trust, resolve issues that lead to divorce, and rebuild intimacy after infidelity.
Are you feeling betrayed and lost after discovering infidelity? Whether from a physical or emotional affair, the shock and pain of finding out your partner has been unfaithful can be overwhelming. If you're struggling to heal and rebuild trust, now is the time to work with a therapist who can help. I will guide you through the recovery process and offer hope that your relationship can be repaired. We'll create a plan that reassures you that healing is possible and your relationship can emerge stronger. Booking a session today is a courageous step towards rebuilding trust and finding hope.
David supports individuals and groups during changes such as loss, career shifts, traumatic divorce, criminal/legal, (in)justice, parenting, co-parenting, reunification, stepparenting, adoption, aging, heartbreak, as well as partnering and marriage.
David works with clients to understand challenges, to develop specific goals, and to promote wellness using a variety of tools from therapeutic modalities including empathetic Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), and Motivational Interviewing (MI). David draws from experience working with individuals and families as an educator, birth doula, Guardian ad Litem, mediator, and counselor. David is also approved by WA State to complete DVIT Domestic Violence Assessments and Treatment.
David supports individuals and groups during changes such as loss, career shifts, traumatic divorce, criminal/legal, (in)justice, parenting, co-parenting, reunification, stepparenting, adoption, aging, heartbreak, as well as partnering and marriage.
David works with clients to understand challenges, to develop specific goals, and to promote wellness using a variety of tools from therapeutic modalities including empathetic Person-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), and Motivational Interviewing (MI). David draws from experience working with individuals and families as an educator, birth doula, Guardian ad Litem, mediator, and counselor. David is also approved by WA State to complete DVIT Domestic Violence Assessments and Treatment.
I specialize in working through life transitions, such as separation or divorce, loss of loved ones due to death or substance use, and other major shifts that can leave us feeling frozen and reflective.
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Reactive toward things outside your control? Thinking about your past more often than your present? Struggling to achieve your goals or connect with others? These can be common symptoms of unresolved stress or trauma, often leaving us feeling stagnant or in a fog. We are inherently social creatures, not designed to navigate many stresses as individuals. Together we can identify the causes of your difficulties, and explore methods that will allow you to connect with yourself and others. You will develop skills that can help you achieve the fulfilling life you deserve.
I specialize in working through life transitions, such as separation or divorce, loss of loved ones due to death or substance use, and other major shifts that can leave us feeling frozen and reflective.
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Reactive toward things outside your control? Thinking about your past more often than your present? Struggling to achieve your goals or connect with others? These can be common symptoms of unresolved stress or trauma, often leaving us feeling stagnant or in a fog. We are inherently social creatures, not designed to navigate many stresses as individuals. Together we can identify the causes of your difficulties, and explore methods that will allow you to connect with yourself and others. You will develop skills that can help you achieve the fulfilling life you deserve.
Yolanda Christianson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98106
Waitlist for new clients
My practice supports clients from college age to retirement age, covering the gamut of life's milestones from launching to retirement. I work with people that feel challenged by partner relationships, family relationships, friend relationships, work relationships, commitment, divorce, parenting stress, caregiver roles, aging, grief, loss and more. With a corporate career spanning 20+ years prior to Therapist, my approach is highly engaged, interactive and works best for those looking for collaborative approaches to finding strategies that work.
My practice supports clients from college age to retirement age, covering the gamut of life's milestones from launching to retirement. I work with people that feel challenged by partner relationships, family relationships, friend relationships, work relationships, commitment, divorce, parenting stress, caregiver roles, aging, grief, loss and more. With a corporate career spanning 20+ years prior to Therapist, my approach is highly engaged, interactive and works best for those looking for collaborative approaches to finding strategies that work.
I work with individuals who are navigating their way through divorce.
As a Level 3 trained therapist in the Gottman Method and EFT, I provide couples therapy focused on repairing bonds, and strengthening connections. I also love working with couples who would like to build strong skills before their relationship is in crisis. I offer pre-marital counseling for couples wanting to start their marriage with strong skills for healthy communication. I am trained in EMDR for adult individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and distressing life changes.
I work with individuals who are navigating their way through divorce.
As a Level 3 trained therapist in the Gottman Method and EFT, I provide couples therapy focused on repairing bonds, and strengthening connections. I also love working with couples who would like to build strong skills before their relationship is in crisis. I offer pre-marital counseling for couples wanting to start their marriage with strong skills for healthy communication. I am trained in EMDR for adult individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and distressing life changes.
Liz Silvestrini
Counselor, LMHC, MA, JD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98104 (Online Only)
I help people like you piece together their lives after divorce.
It was a long time coming, but somehow, it still doesn’t feel real. You spent so much time and energy building a life with your spouse. But now that the marriage is over, it feels like it was all for nothing. The bright future you’ve been dreaming about is destroyed – the new one is dark and frightening. You can’t stop thinking about where things went wrong. Is it my fault? Should I have done something differently? Have I made a huge mistake? You’ve defined your identity as part of this relationship for so long that you’re unsure who you are outside of it. And you’re scared to make a new plan for your life when the last one failed.
I help people like you piece together their lives after divorce.
It was a long time coming, but somehow, it still doesn’t feel real. You spent so much time and energy building a life with your spouse. But now that the marriage is over, it feels like it was all for nothing. The bright future you’ve been dreaming about is destroyed – the new one is dark and frightening. You can’t stop thinking about where things went wrong. Is it my fault? Should I have done something differently? Have I made a huge mistake? You’ve defined your identity as part of this relationship for so long that you’re unsure who you are outside of it. And you’re scared to make a new plan for your life when the last one failed.
Areas of focus: Relationship (and dating) problems, workplace stress, depression, anxiety, breakups/ divorce, issues related to sexual orientation and gender, fertility, public speaking, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, test anxiety, substance abuse, animal-related issues and helping clients recover from relationships with narcissists.
I help clients live more authentically and develop a greater love for themselves and others. My client-centered sessions are collaborative. Together, we help you gain insight, take action and achieve positive change. I trained at Harvard University (doctoral intern and postdoctoral fellow). In addition to my work with clients, I have taught for several universities such as UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine and Pepperdine University.
Areas of focus: Relationship (and dating) problems, workplace stress, depression, anxiety, breakups/ divorce, issues related to sexual orientation and gender, fertility, public speaking, lack of confidence, low self-esteem, test anxiety, substance abuse, animal-related issues and helping clients recover from relationships with narcissists.
I help clients live more authentically and develop a greater love for themselves and others. My client-centered sessions are collaborative. Together, we help you gain insight, take action and achieve positive change. I trained at Harvard University (doctoral intern and postdoctoral fellow). In addition to my work with clients, I have taught for several universities such as UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine and Pepperdine University.
Emily Patterson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98104 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy working with adults of all ages as they navigate: life transitions, anxiety, depression, divorce/break-ups, spirituality, questions of identity, school or job challenges, relationship and dating struggles, family of origin and complex trauma, PTSD, and attachment issues. I believe in supporting my clients in their desire to find more wholeness, aliveness, acceptance, and peace within themselves. The therapeutic relationship is at the core of my work with clients.
I enjoy working with adults of all ages as they navigate: life transitions, anxiety, depression, divorce/break-ups, spirituality, questions of identity, school or job challenges, relationship and dating struggles, family of origin and complex trauma, PTSD, and attachment issues. I believe in supporting my clients in their desire to find more wholeness, aliveness, acceptance, and peace within themselves. The therapeutic relationship is at the core of my work with clients.
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Divorce Therapists
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.