Codependency Therapists in Seattle, WA

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Marc Anderson
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CMHS
5 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
Welcome! There is a lot to figure out in your 20's and 30's. On the outside, things look good. But underneath, you feel like something is missing. The demand, pressure, obligation are all a lot, and you feel stuck. Often, patterns are cyclical and repeat from the past into the present. Society often neglects what afflicts one's internal world, and we then learn that the norm in life is to be alone in emotional pain. Unprocessed negativity is internalized, which in turn shapes how we view ourselves, our relationships, and life experiences.
Welcome! There is a lot to figure out in your 20's and 30's. On the outside, things look good. But underneath, you feel like something is missing. The demand, pressure, obligation are all a lot, and you feel stuck. Often, patterns are cyclical and repeat from the past into the present. Society often neglects what afflicts one's internal world, and we then learn that the norm in life is to be alone in emotional pain. Unprocessed negativity is internalized, which in turn shapes how we view ourselves, our relationships, and life experiences.
(425) 696-4124 View (425) 696-4124
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DJ Burr - Addiction , Codependency, PTSD, Group
Verified Verified
17 Endorsed
Online Only
Recover from sex addiction, trauma, and codependency.
I help men caught in cycles of compulsive sexual behavior and porn use break free from shame so they can rebuild trust with themselves and the people who matter most. If your secret life is bleeding into your real one - affecting your work, your relationship, or how you see yourself - you're not broken. You're stuck in a pattern that makes sense once you understand where it started. I work with men who are tired of white-knuckling it alone and ready for something that actually works. Suffering in silence is optional. Let's get started.
Recover from sex addiction, trauma, and codependency.
I help men caught in cycles of compulsive sexual behavior and porn use break free from shame so they can rebuild trust with themselves and the people who matter most. If your secret life is bleeding into your real one - affecting your work, your relationship, or how you see yourself - you're not broken. You're stuck in a pattern that makes sense once you understand where it started. I work with men who are tired of white-knuckling it alone and ready for something that actually works. Suffering in silence is optional. Let's get started.
(206) 278-2932 View (206) 278-2932
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Mark L Rose
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, SUDP, ICRC, CIP
Seattle, WA 98103
I am an interventionist, case manager, and addition professional. My client base are families, employer, individual, and stakeholders that need addiction services and family consultation. I work with clients with a need for referral to follow up services following treatment such as therapy, psychiatry, medical, and legal. I posses a specific expertise on executive intervention working with large corporations, trust companies, high net worth people.
I am an interventionist, case manager, and addition professional. My client base are families, employer, individual, and stakeholders that need addiction services and family consultation. I work with clients with a need for referral to follow up services following treatment such as therapy, psychiatry, medical, and legal. I posses a specific expertise on executive intervention working with large corporations, trust companies, high net worth people.
(206) 785-3835 View (206) 785-3835
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Alexandra Valentin
Pre-Licensed Professional, LMHCA
Online Only
If you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, or past experiences that still affect your life, you're not alone. Therapy can provide a supportive space to slow down, process your emotions, and better understand yourself. Together, we can work on building resilience, healing from the past, and developing practical tools to manage difficult emotions. My goal is to help you gain clarity, improve relationships, and feel more empowered and balanced in your life.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, or past experiences that still affect your life, you're not alone. Therapy can provide a supportive space to slow down, process your emotions, and better understand yourself. Together, we can work on building resilience, healing from the past, and developing practical tools to manage difficult emotions. My goal is to help you gain clarity, improve relationships, and feel more empowered and balanced in your life.
(425) 600-3092 View (425) 600-3092
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Carolann Freedman
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC, NBCCH
Seattle, WA 98105
As a clinical therapist, I help people who are struggling with feelings of anxiety, depression and loss. I teach my clients to practice what I call "the reverse golden rule": treat yourself as you would treat others! We are often so critical of ourselves, while with a friend we would be kind, supportive, compassionate. My 20+ years of experience have given me the tools to work using an eclectic approach that I tailor to each client. I offer a comfortable, safe environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, where you can feel heard, understood and validated.
As a clinical therapist, I help people who are struggling with feelings of anxiety, depression and loss. I teach my clients to practice what I call "the reverse golden rule": treat yourself as you would treat others! We are often so critical of ourselves, while with a friend we would be kind, supportive, compassionate. My 20+ years of experience have given me the tools to work using an eclectic approach that I tailor to each client. I offer a comfortable, safe environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, where you can feel heard, understood and validated.
(206) 999-3883 View (206) 999-3883
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Jonathan Coopersmith
Counselor, MA, LMHC
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with identity shifts, life transitions, codependency, grief, sexual abuse, and relational struggles.
Counseling is a space where we get to focus on helping you move towards a life that is more fulfilling, meaningful, and connected. I work with people struggling with anxious thoughts, depression, or challenging relationships. Some are trying to navigate dating, intimacy, and partnership. Some have experienced spiritual abuse or are coming out of religious systems that have left them confused and even traumatized. Some are queer identified or navigating non-normative relational structures. Many people are just stuck and want some help figuring out why. Counseling helps you get unstuck.
I work with identity shifts, life transitions, codependency, grief, sexual abuse, and relational struggles.
Counseling is a space where we get to focus on helping you move towards a life that is more fulfilling, meaningful, and connected. I work with people struggling with anxious thoughts, depression, or challenging relationships. Some are trying to navigate dating, intimacy, and partnership. Some have experienced spiritual abuse or are coming out of religious systems that have left them confused and even traumatized. Some are queer identified or navigating non-normative relational structures. Many people are just stuck and want some help figuring out why. Counseling helps you get unstuck.
(425) 215-0186 View (425) 215-0186
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Fred Ingham
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CSAT
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98102
Is out-of-control sexual behavior hurting you or someone you care about? Pornography, prostitution, infidelity and other secretive sexual activity can contribute to physical, legal and relationship problems, and destroy families and careers. I work with adults in the greater Seattle area who want to stop acting out sexually and restore their sense of integrity and wholeness. I also help families and partners heal and move forward. My compassionate, non-judgmental approach works by addressing not only the problematic sexual behaviors but also the personal and relationship issues that are intertwined with them.
Is out-of-control sexual behavior hurting you or someone you care about? Pornography, prostitution, infidelity and other secretive sexual activity can contribute to physical, legal and relationship problems, and destroy families and careers. I work with adults in the greater Seattle area who want to stop acting out sexually and restore their sense of integrity and wholeness. I also help families and partners heal and move forward. My compassionate, non-judgmental approach works by addressing not only the problematic sexual behaviors but also the personal and relationship issues that are intertwined with them.
(206) 966-6215 View (206) 966-6215
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Sydney Davis
Counselor, LMHCA
4 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98103
I am now accepting new clients! My approach to therapy is open minded, collaborative, and inclusive. I take a "come as you are" approach and encourage my clients to show up as their true selves for us to form a trusting therapeutic relationship. I offer support to my clients in their healing, pattern-breaking, life transitions, exploration of self, depression, anxiety, and relationship issues. I personally tailor my approach to each individual as therapy is not a “one size fits all.” I find value in community, connection, and laughter in both my daily life and therapy.
I am now accepting new clients! My approach to therapy is open minded, collaborative, and inclusive. I take a "come as you are" approach and encourage my clients to show up as their true selves for us to form a trusting therapeutic relationship. I offer support to my clients in their healing, pattern-breaking, life transitions, exploration of self, depression, anxiety, and relationship issues. I personally tailor my approach to each individual as therapy is not a “one size fits all.” I find value in community, connection, and laughter in both my daily life and therapy.
(206) 203-3616 View (206) 203-3616
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Bree R Lemasters
Pre-Licensed Professional
1 Endorsed
Online Only
It's common to struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, relationship issues, and meaning-making, but learning how to navigate those issues is so tricky. As a trauma-informed counselor, I understand that moving into alignment with what we want isn't easy and it's a learned skill to turn toward it anyway. My aim is to be an ally amongst challenges with repetitive cycles. I know from personal experience that accessibility to mental health can feel like it's only for people with money. Taking Medicaid is a huge value of mine because support should be available for everyone.
It's common to struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, relationship issues, and meaning-making, but learning how to navigate those issues is so tricky. As a trauma-informed counselor, I understand that moving into alignment with what we want isn't easy and it's a learned skill to turn toward it anyway. My aim is to be an ally amongst challenges with repetitive cycles. I know from personal experience that accessibility to mental health can feel like it's only for people with money. Taking Medicaid is a huge value of mine because support should be available for everyone.
(206) 672-3397 View (206) 672-3397
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Edmund Park
Counselor, MDiv, LMHC, NCC
Seattle, WA 98112
You may feel stuck despite insight and effort, noticing repeated patterns in relationships, work, or faith. While life may look functional on the outside, internally you may struggle with anxiety, shame, emotional reactivity, or a sense that something essential is missing. You want more than symptom relief—you want to understand how past experiences shaped these patterns and how to live with greater freedom and integrity.
You may feel stuck despite insight and effort, noticing repeated patterns in relationships, work, or faith. While life may look functional on the outside, internally you may struggle with anxiety, shame, emotional reactivity, or a sense that something essential is missing. You want more than symptom relief—you want to understand how past experiences shaped these patterns and how to live with greater freedom and integrity.
(206) 724-7911 View (206) 724-7911
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Misty Noster
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
12 Endorsed
Online Only
As an experienced anxiety & codependency couples therapist, I believe that you can live a calm, confident, and fulfilled life.
Currently accepting Couples- You probably aren't surprised when I tell you that overanalyzing WHY you might be anxious rarely helps. You feel at a loss on how to communicate your needs to your partner. You don't need "get over it" it or minimize your pain, but instead learn how to work with it. You used to be good at hiding it, but lately you can't hold it all together and now it's affecting your relationship. Maybe you don't even remember life without anxiety. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for relief. You're ready to trust and feel secure in your relationship again, ready to handle whatever life throws at you, together.
As an experienced anxiety & codependency couples therapist, I believe that you can live a calm, confident, and fulfilled life.
Currently accepting Couples- You probably aren't surprised when I tell you that overanalyzing WHY you might be anxious rarely helps. You feel at a loss on how to communicate your needs to your partner. You don't need "get over it" it or minimize your pain, but instead learn how to work with it. You used to be good at hiding it, but lately you can't hold it all together and now it's affecting your relationship. Maybe you don't even remember life without anxiety. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for relief. You're ready to trust and feel secure in your relationship again, ready to handle whatever life throws at you, together.
(206) 486-4228 View (206) 486-4228
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Mary Anne Bennick Counseling
Counselor, MA, LMHC
6 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98117
I help adults navigate challenges related to perfectionism, anxiety, and codependency.
My work focuses on fostering insight, emotional resilience, and lasting personal growth. With ten years in practice, I have extensive experience helping adults understand and heal from patterns related to toxic communication, complex dynamics, and emotional neglect.
I help adults navigate challenges related to perfectionism, anxiety, and codependency.
My work focuses on fostering insight, emotional resilience, and lasting personal growth. With ten years in practice, I have extensive experience helping adults understand and heal from patterns related to toxic communication, complex dynamics, and emotional neglect.
(206) 966-4576 View (206) 966-4576
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Stephanie A Phillips
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98117
Suffering is not evidence of failure. It is evidence of one thing... your humanity. We all suffer sometimes and we all deserve compassion and care simply because we're human. Coming to therapy can be scary. Even as you're reaching out to have a chance at a better experience in life, you want to know that who you are, and where you are now, will be respected and cared for. I believe good therapy can be both challenging and gentle, supportive and enlivening.
Suffering is not evidence of failure. It is evidence of one thing... your humanity. We all suffer sometimes and we all deserve compassion and care simply because we're human. Coming to therapy can be scary. Even as you're reaching out to have a chance at a better experience in life, you want to know that who you are, and where you are now, will be respected and cared for. I believe good therapy can be both challenging and gentle, supportive and enlivening.
(206) 489-3712 View (206) 489-3712
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Natalie V Roche
Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Let's be real, very few people are doing ok right now. Instability in our country and world greatly impacts emotional, mental, and physical well-being. This instability makes work stress & unexpected life events feel unbearable. It's ok to need extra support right now. I often work with clients navigating multiple identities—BIPOC women & teens, LGBTQ+ folks, college students & professionals facing increased stress & burnout. Many wrestle with duty, autonomy & identity; often caught between people-pleasing, over-functioning & self-doubt.
Let's be real, very few people are doing ok right now. Instability in our country and world greatly impacts emotional, mental, and physical well-being. This instability makes work stress & unexpected life events feel unbearable. It's ok to need extra support right now. I often work with clients navigating multiple identities—BIPOC women & teens, LGBTQ+ folks, college students & professionals facing increased stress & burnout. Many wrestle with duty, autonomy & identity; often caught between people-pleasing, over-functioning & self-doubt.
(206) 260-3313 View (206) 260-3313
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Jess Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from multiple wise teachers to find what works for you.
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from multiple wise teachers to find what works for you.
(206) 944-3959 View (206) 944-3959
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Terri Lechnyr
Psychologist, PhD
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Weekend & Evening options- Are you a woman that suffers from anxiety? Are you a codependent and struggle with people pleasing behaviors and boundaries? Are you wanting to improve your self confidence and empowerment? I will work with you to be happy, calm, brave, and take your power back!
Weekend & Evening options- Are you a woman that suffers from anxiety? Are you a codependent and struggle with people pleasing behaviors and boundaries? Are you wanting to improve your self confidence and empowerment? I will work with you to be happy, calm, brave, and take your power back!
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Maria Costello
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in working with individuals and couples struggling with addiction, trauma, and codependency.
I use therapeutic interventions drawn from evidence-based modalities such as EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) and Somatic Experiencing. I integrate somatic therapy techniques to help clients process and release stored trauma from the body.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples struggling with addiction, trauma, and codependency.
I use therapeutic interventions drawn from evidence-based modalities such as EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) and Somatic Experiencing. I integrate somatic therapy techniques to help clients process and release stored trauma from the body.
(206) 944-5536 View (206) 944-5536
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Dr. Duncan Benjamin
Psychologist
Seattle, WA 98118
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I am a licensed psychologist specializing in challenges with self-worth and relational trauma, as well as the feelings of depression, anxiety, or numbness that often occur with these experiences. My work is rooted in attachment-focused and trauma-informed approaches - I help people understand how relationships (especially the earliest ones in our lives) impact being able to feel emotionally safe with themselves and others. I especially enjoy helping people get out of their heads and into their hearts, or do the opposite when it would help to slow down our emotional experiences to make sense of them.
Welcome! I am a licensed psychologist specializing in challenges with self-worth and relational trauma, as well as the feelings of depression, anxiety, or numbness that often occur with these experiences. My work is rooted in attachment-focused and trauma-informed approaches - I help people understand how relationships (especially the earliest ones in our lives) impact being able to feel emotionally safe with themselves and others. I especially enjoy helping people get out of their heads and into their hearts, or do the opposite when it would help to slow down our emotional experiences to make sense of them.
(253) 465-9054 View (253) 465-9054
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Alissa O'Hare
Pre-Licensed Professional
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you navigating a major transition or feeling stuck in old patterns? You don’t have to face it alone. I am passionate about supporting clients as they navigate life’s challenges and shift unhelpful patterns. I look forward to exploring your story and supporting your goals in a way that resonates and empowers you. Whether you need an empathetic ear and a soft place to land or are eager to turn new insights into meaningful action, I look forward to supporting your growth and healing. I offer a warm, judgment free space where we can untangle what is keeping you stuck. I am available by Telehealth for afternoon and evening sessions.
Are you navigating a major transition or feeling stuck in old patterns? You don’t have to face it alone. I am passionate about supporting clients as they navigate life’s challenges and shift unhelpful patterns. I look forward to exploring your story and supporting your goals in a way that resonates and empowers you. Whether you need an empathetic ear and a soft place to land or are eager to turn new insights into meaningful action, I look forward to supporting your growth and healing. I offer a warm, judgment free space where we can untangle what is keeping you stuck. I am available by Telehealth for afternoon and evening sessions.
(206) 678-1108 View (206) 678-1108
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Denise Wallace
Counselor, MA, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98119
Are you ready to overcome the belief that something is wrong with you? Do you struggle with: low self-esteem, dis-empowerment, creating healthy relationships, setting boundaries, self-compassion, or self-care? These issues are common in our society today- there is a collective belief that somehow, no matter what we do, we are intrinsically flawed or broken. We have traded the sacred truth of our own experience for self-aggression, self-judgment, and self-loathing, and we feel miserable.
Are you ready to overcome the belief that something is wrong with you? Do you struggle with: low self-esteem, dis-empowerment, creating healthy relationships, setting boundaries, self-compassion, or self-care? These issues are common in our society today- there is a collective belief that somehow, no matter what we do, we are intrinsically flawed or broken. We have traded the sacred truth of our own experience for self-aggression, self-judgment, and self-loathing, and we feel miserable.
(720) 515-2966 View (720) 515-2966

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Codependency Therapists
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.