Relationship Issues Therapists in Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA

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Mel Roque
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
It means that we will seek to understand how relationships, environments, & stories impact your well-being If we are wounded in relationship, we heal in safe relationship.
Pain is a sign that something needs our attention. When we are not aware of helpful ways to manage it, we look to what is available to us to cope as a survival tactic. We might numb our symptoms through food, social media, strained relationships, substances, negative self talk, excessive busyness--leaving us feeling disconnected or in constant conflict with others & ourselves. I believe in truth, empathy, & belonging. I vow to create a space where you will not be judged but held in all that you are. I view therapy as collaborative. You are the expert of your story & I am responsible to help you get grounded to anchor it.
It means that we will seek to understand how relationships, environments, & stories impact your well-being If we are wounded in relationship, we heal in safe relationship.
Pain is a sign that something needs our attention. When we are not aware of helpful ways to manage it, we look to what is available to us to cope as a survival tactic. We might numb our symptoms through food, social media, strained relationships, substances, negative self talk, excessive busyness--leaving us feeling disconnected or in constant conflict with others & ourselves. I believe in truth, empathy, & belonging. I vow to create a space where you will not be judged but held in all that you are. I view therapy as collaborative. You are the expert of your story & I am responsible to help you get grounded to anchor it.
(425) 979-7249 View (425) 979-7249
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Sinikka Fitelson, LICSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I work with people who need help with anxiety, depression, trauma and victimization, grief, school issues, social and relationship problems and parenting issues. I have completed a certificate in the Secure Beginnings, program which helps to address postpartum depression and other attachment issues. I also work with people who are struggle with medical problems. I speak fluent Finnish helping cultural integration and diversity issues.
I work with people who need help with anxiety, depression, trauma and victimization, grief, school issues, social and relationship problems and parenting issues. I have completed a certificate in the Secure Beginnings, program which helps to address postpartum depression and other attachment issues. I also work with people who are struggle with medical problems. I speak fluent Finnish helping cultural integration and diversity issues.
(206) 693-2819 View (206) 693-2819
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Jason Summers
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I believe that people innately have the internal resources to meet life's challenges. We all have great potential for growth and change when we are empowered to access these resources within ourselves. But it is in relationship with others that these resources are inspired and engaged. My approach to therapy is collaborative. My hope is to help create the conditions where you feel encouraged and supported to explore the themes that are present in your life.
I believe that people innately have the internal resources to meet life's challenges. We all have great potential for growth and change when we are empowered to access these resources within ourselves. But it is in relationship with others that these resources are inspired and engaged. My approach to therapy is collaborative. My hope is to help create the conditions where you feel encouraged and supported to explore the themes that are present in your life.
(206) 483-1685 View (206) 483-1685
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Viviana Castillo Contreras
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I strive to hold a genuine therapeutic relationship with my clients by coming into session with a gentle, accepting, and warm energy.
Having the courage to take such a big step in your healing can be a difficult decision but I'm glad you have taken this step. You might be here because you find yourself having difficult experiences, emotions and thoughts. My goal is to offer a space in which we work through life’s inevitable challenges together. I offer goal oriented and strength-based care for my clients. I believe that you have a strength within you that will be beneficial in your healing. I genuinely care for my clients and believe everyone has the capacity within them to live a fulfilling life. Please reach out over email instead of phone call.
I strive to hold a genuine therapeutic relationship with my clients by coming into session with a gentle, accepting, and warm energy.
Having the courage to take such a big step in your healing can be a difficult decision but I'm glad you have taken this step. You might be here because you find yourself having difficult experiences, emotions and thoughts. My goal is to offer a space in which we work through life’s inevitable challenges together. I offer goal oriented and strength-based care for my clients. I believe that you have a strength within you that will be beneficial in your healing. I genuinely care for my clients and believe everyone has the capacity within them to live a fulfilling life. Please reach out over email instead of phone call.
(206) 466-3771 View (206) 466-3771
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Laurie J Crivello
MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
You are the expert in your life. I know it's challenging to navigate difficult emotions and relationships with others. Sometimes we need assistance in knowing how to start making positive changes. I am positive and hopeful. We will focus on your strengths and how to nurture and grow them. I specialize in helping to identify complex issues as well as identifying root causes. I feel it is beneficial to the therapy process, to get to know you as a whole person as we progress in building trust in the therapeutic relationship. I have over 21 years of counseling experience with adults, children, and families.
You are the expert in your life. I know it's challenging to navigate difficult emotions and relationships with others. Sometimes we need assistance in knowing how to start making positive changes. I am positive and hopeful. We will focus on your strengths and how to nurture and grow them. I specialize in helping to identify complex issues as well as identifying root causes. I feel it is beneficial to the therapy process, to get to know you as a whole person as we progress in building trust in the therapeutic relationship. I have over 21 years of counseling experience with adults, children, and families.
(206) 222-0097 View (206) 222-0097
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Ruby Howes
Pre-Licensed Professional, LSWAIC
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I am a trauma-informed therapist that strives to create a collaborative relationship to build safety and trust so that you can move towards healing and growth. I help clients by identifying how their past is still affecting them in the present, process difficult and painful memories, and use cognitive approaches to challenge feelings of shame and fixed negative beliefs. In addition, I explore with clients the impact trauma and family dynmaics has on their relationships and teach skills to help them meet their emotional needs with friends, family, and partners.
I am a trauma-informed therapist that strives to create a collaborative relationship to build safety and trust so that you can move towards healing and growth. I help clients by identifying how their past is still affecting them in the present, process difficult and painful memories, and use cognitive approaches to challenge feelings of shame and fixed negative beliefs. In addition, I explore with clients the impact trauma and family dynmaics has on their relationships and teach skills to help them meet their emotional needs with friends, family, and partners.
(509) 903-8316 View (509) 903-8316
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Jen Hargrove
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, CMHS
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
Stress, perfectionism, and relationship challenges can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Sometimes we need support to enhance communication, foster respectful relationships, and cultivate loving connections with those we care about. I am an attachment-based therapist who believes that through a trusting and secure therapeutic relationship, we can all access what we need to make changes and strengthen our connection to ourselves and others. I hold a special affinity for supporting neurodivergent individuals as well as LGBTQ+ teens and their families. Having supportive, affirming care is essential to well-being.
Stress, perfectionism, and relationship challenges can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Sometimes we need support to enhance communication, foster respectful relationships, and cultivate loving connections with those we care about. I am an attachment-based therapist who believes that through a trusting and secure therapeutic relationship, we can all access what we need to make changes and strengthen our connection to ourselves and others. I hold a special affinity for supporting neurodivergent individuals as well as LGBTQ+ teens and their families. Having supportive, affirming care is essential to well-being.
(206) 672-5051 View (206) 672-5051
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Parisa Ghebleh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98125  (Online Only)
My style of therapy uses relationship building at its core while drawing from the following therapeutic modalities: trauma-informed, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, and Solution-Focused Therapy.
I believe that everyone has the tools, strengths, and solutions to assist them through any life challenges—we just may need a little support and guidance to find them. My goal as a therapist is to create a warm, supportive and collaborative partnership with you so we can work together to highlight your strengths, validate your struggles, and reflect and challenge unhelpful thought patterns that can sometimes get in our way. By providing a safe space and listening ear, I hope to help you discover your resiliency and empower you to move towards the meaningful change that you desire.
My style of therapy uses relationship building at its core while drawing from the following therapeutic modalities: trauma-informed, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, and Solution-Focused Therapy.
I believe that everyone has the tools, strengths, and solutions to assist them through any life challenges—we just may need a little support and guidance to find them. My goal as a therapist is to create a warm, supportive and collaborative partnership with you so we can work together to highlight your strengths, validate your struggles, and reflect and challenge unhelpful thought patterns that can sometimes get in our way. By providing a safe space and listening ear, I hope to help you discover your resiliency and empower you to move towards the meaningful change that you desire.
(206) 385-1805 View (206) 385-1805
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Rowan Carrick
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
You are the expert on your own identity, experience, and challenges. Our work together will be guided by your intuition and understanding as we collaborate on a path forward. I can support you to navigate questions and challenges around identity, relationships, gender and sexuality, grief, trauma, anxiety and stress. I deeply value my connection with each client and know how important our relationship is in your healing. My goal is to provide a safe space where you can be in the moment and recognize the places you already feel empowered and strong, so you can apply those skills in other areas.
You are the expert on your own identity, experience, and challenges. Our work together will be guided by your intuition and understanding as we collaborate on a path forward. I can support you to navigate questions and challenges around identity, relationships, gender and sexuality, grief, trauma, anxiety and stress. I deeply value my connection with each client and know how important our relationship is in your healing. My goal is to provide a safe space where you can be in the moment and recognize the places you already feel empowered and strong, so you can apply those skills in other areas.
(206) 237-8192 x5 View (206) 237-8192 x5
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Jess Scola
MEd, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
In our work together, my hope is to provide a relationship in which you feel empowered to connect with yourself, make positive changes in your life and give yourself the permission to feel and think, free of judgment.
It takes courage to seek therapy, and I commend you for taking this step. Are you looking for a safe space to process challenging feelings, thoughts, events and/or relationships? Do you want to learn tools to help you be more actively engaged and present in your life? Is fear or sadness preventing you from living in alignment with your values or accomplishing your goals? I believe that we all have an innate ability and desire to live our lives with intent, and sometimes we need support and guidance to connect to those values as we navigate our ever changing circumstances.
In our work together, my hope is to provide a relationship in which you feel empowered to connect with yourself, make positive changes in your life and give yourself the permission to feel and think, free of judgment.
It takes courage to seek therapy, and I commend you for taking this step. Are you looking for a safe space to process challenging feelings, thoughts, events and/or relationships? Do you want to learn tools to help you be more actively engaged and present in your life? Is fear or sadness preventing you from living in alignment with your values or accomplishing your goals? I believe that we all have an innate ability and desire to live our lives with intent, and sometimes we need support and guidance to connect to those values as we navigate our ever changing circumstances.
(206) 737-0603 View (206) 737-0603
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McKenzie Hoyt
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
My goal is to create a collaborative relationship that enables you to find wellness and hope, whatever that may look like for you.
Seeking counseling can be scary, it is hard to take that first step. Congratulations, by reading this and contemplating therapy, you have taken that first step already!
My goal is to create a collaborative relationship that enables you to find wellness and hope, whatever that may look like for you.
Seeking counseling can be scary, it is hard to take that first step. Congratulations, by reading this and contemplating therapy, you have taken that first step already!
(206) 761-1225 View (206) 761-1225
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Kimberly Gerst
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSWA
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
I believe that therapy is a synergistic relationship between client and therapist.
I provide Telehealth therapy for individuals 25+ years of age and couples counseling, including pre-marital. Symbis trained facilitator. I bring to therapy a diverse and expansive array of professional experiences. My experience has equipped me to work with clients with a wide range of issues including trauma, grief, loss, divorce, recovery and healing from emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, marital issues, struggles with self-esteem, family of origin issues, anxiety, depression, attachment issues and those experiencing major life changes. I love working with those authentically ready for change.
I believe that therapy is a synergistic relationship between client and therapist.
I provide Telehealth therapy for individuals 25+ years of age and couples counseling, including pre-marital. Symbis trained facilitator. I bring to therapy a diverse and expansive array of professional experiences. My experience has equipped me to work with clients with a wide range of issues including trauma, grief, loss, divorce, recovery and healing from emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, marital issues, struggles with self-esteem, family of origin issues, anxiety, depression, attachment issues and those experiencing major life changes. I love working with those authentically ready for change.
(206) 752-5477 View (206) 752-5477
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Nicholas G Jzyk
Counselor, LMHCA, MA
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98125
I have personal experience working with those experiencing depression, ADHD, anxiety, relationship issues, and PTSD.
We all experience struggles in life. I believe sometimes we just need a bit of help to overcome them. I am an authentic strength-based and solution-focused counselor who aims to assist my clients in them using strengths to find solutions and overcome whatever those struggles may be. I value staying open-minded, warm, authentic, and honest with my clients. I want to give you space to express yourself and feel safe. I see the world in "grey” not black and white. When facing challenges I believe there are many paths to improvement. As your counselor, I aim to help and empower you to explore them so you can move toward a better place.
I have personal experience working with those experiencing depression, ADHD, anxiety, relationship issues, and PTSD.
We all experience struggles in life. I believe sometimes we just need a bit of help to overcome them. I am an authentic strength-based and solution-focused counselor who aims to assist my clients in them using strengths to find solutions and overcome whatever those struggles may be. I value staying open-minded, warm, authentic, and honest with my clients. I want to give you space to express yourself and feel safe. I see the world in "grey” not black and white. When facing challenges I believe there are many paths to improvement. As your counselor, I aim to help and empower you to explore them so you can move toward a better place.
(360) 615-3429 View (360) 615-3429
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Alyssa Hodge
Counselor, LPC, LMHCA
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98125  (Online Only)
I have worked in treatment settings such as non-profit organizations, working with sexual assault survivors, as well as in outpatient settings, providing teletherapy services for concerns such as social anxiety, adjustment, relationship distress, self-esteem, and trauma/PTSD.
As a clinician, I believe that it takes a lot of strength to take the initial step towards opening yourself and beginning to heal from things that have felt overwhelming. I feel that it is a privilege to be a part of my clients’ healing journey through life’s challenges, and I work to create a safe space for you to be heard, supported, and understood. I believe that finding the right provider is an essential part of successful therapy. I am an Associate Licensed Mental Health Counselor who has a Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling.
I have worked in treatment settings such as non-profit organizations, working with sexual assault survivors, as well as in outpatient settings, providing teletherapy services for concerns such as social anxiety, adjustment, relationship distress, self-esteem, and trauma/PTSD.
As a clinician, I believe that it takes a lot of strength to take the initial step towards opening yourself and beginning to heal from things that have felt overwhelming. I feel that it is a privilege to be a part of my clients’ healing journey through life’s challenges, and I work to create a safe space for you to be heard, supported, and understood. I believe that finding the right provider is an essential part of successful therapy. I am an Associate Licensed Mental Health Counselor who has a Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling.
(206) 589-2133 View (206) 589-2133
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Bob Viola Therapy, PLLC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I have experience and enjoy working with clients of various cultures who are seeking help in working through life challenges around anxiety, depression, interpersonal relationship conflicts, past trauma, self esteem, and grief. If you are currently struggling with any of these problems and are not sure how to address them, I can help. Together we can work to explore the issues that are getting in the way of a more happy and productive lifestyle in an environment that is safe, comfortable, and conducive to achieving your goals for counseling.
I have experience and enjoy working with clients of various cultures who are seeking help in working through life challenges around anxiety, depression, interpersonal relationship conflicts, past trauma, self esteem, and grief. If you are currently struggling with any of these problems and are not sure how to address them, I can help. Together we can work to explore the issues that are getting in the way of a more happy and productive lifestyle in an environment that is safe, comfortable, and conducive to achieving your goals for counseling.
(206) 557-6614 View (206) 557-6614
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Lindsey Ferris
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFTA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
Looking to work with a therapist who can support and help you heal your critical inner voice, or relationship struggles? My therapeutic approach is collaborative and empathetic, with a primary focus on validating and understanding my clients’ perspectives and lived experiences. I particularly enjoy working with individuals who grapple with shame and self-criticism cycles, as well as couples where one or both individuals are neurodiverse. My passionate approach revolves around helping individuals foster self-trust and self-acceptance, both on an individual and relational level.
Looking to work with a therapist who can support and help you heal your critical inner voice, or relationship struggles? My therapeutic approach is collaborative and empathetic, with a primary focus on validating and understanding my clients’ perspectives and lived experiences. I particularly enjoy working with individuals who grapple with shame and self-criticism cycles, as well as couples where one or both individuals are neurodiverse. My passionate approach revolves around helping individuals foster self-trust and self-acceptance, both on an individual and relational level.
(206) 339-5596 View (206) 339-5596
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Neusha Hejazinia
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
I believe in healing the whole person. There are many factors that shape who we are and affect our understanding of ourselves and our environment. I believe in working with my client to work through these factors to reach true acceptance of one self. My specialties include Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Codependency. We are all unique, in our personalities and in the way we process our emotions and environment. Therefore, I focus on building unique relationships with my clients to work towards self-acceptance, self-love, and self-worth.
I believe in healing the whole person. There are many factors that shape who we are and affect our understanding of ourselves and our environment. I believe in working with my client to work through these factors to reach true acceptance of one self. My specialties include Depression, Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Codependency. We are all unique, in our personalities and in the way we process our emotions and environment. Therefore, I focus on building unique relationships with my clients to work towards self-acceptance, self-love, and self-worth.
(425) 276-6901 View (425) 276-6901
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Ingrid Buchan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
And you will gain insight to your ruminating thoughts and how to have a different relationship with yourself.
I am currently accepting new clients! My areas of focus are those stuck in family attachment puzzles, trauma/stress response and ADHD difficulties. If you are self-diagnosed or formally diagnosed with ADHD, chances are you're trying to adapt in a world that isn’t designed for you. You feel that you were born with a “race car brain with bicycle breaks,” with unpredictable motivation & energy. You feel overwhelmed by the smallest tasks & tormented by deep restlessness. Whether this is ADHD, trauma or attachment difficulties, I want to help!
And you will gain insight to your ruminating thoughts and how to have a different relationship with yourself.
I am currently accepting new clients! My areas of focus are those stuck in family attachment puzzles, trauma/stress response and ADHD difficulties. If you are self-diagnosed or formally diagnosed with ADHD, chances are you're trying to adapt in a world that isn’t designed for you. You feel that you were born with a “race car brain with bicycle breaks,” with unpredictable motivation & energy. You feel overwhelmed by the smallest tasks & tormented by deep restlessness. Whether this is ADHD, trauma or attachment difficulties, I want to help!
(360) 392-5829 View (360) 392-5829
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Brittany Casavant
Counselor, MACP, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98115
Our relationship can be the revealer of previous patterns, blocks, conflict styles and relational tendencies.
We all know that life is full of messiness, but what if we didn’t have to hold it together. What if we didn’t show a version of ourselves or wear a facade. And what if we could be really honest about our experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Sometimes it’s hard to find places to allow our chaos, confusion and pain to come out of hiding and be seen. My hope is that you find comfort and safety to allow the mess to show up. I believe therapy offers us the invitation to do something different — to choose a new way. It can be an uncomfortable and powerful offer to be seen, known and heard for who you really are.
Our relationship can be the revealer of previous patterns, blocks, conflict styles and relational tendencies.
We all know that life is full of messiness, but what if we didn’t have to hold it together. What if we didn’t show a version of ourselves or wear a facade. And what if we could be really honest about our experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Sometimes it’s hard to find places to allow our chaos, confusion and pain to come out of hiding and be seen. My hope is that you find comfort and safety to allow the mess to show up. I believe therapy offers us the invitation to do something different — to choose a new way. It can be an uncomfortable and powerful offer to be seen, known and heard for who you really are.
(206) 289-9145 View (206) 289-9145
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Jess Flynn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Maple Leaf, Seattle, WA 98125  (Online Only)
Opening relationships, infidelity, sexual issues, shadow work, self-esteem, accessing emotions, nervous system regulation, depression, anxiety, suicidality, boundary setting, communication difficulties, support through losses and major life transitions, increasing relationship trust and intimacy, and support in separating well.
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep emotional work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from many wise teachers to find what works for you.
Opening relationships, infidelity, sexual issues, shadow work, self-esteem, accessing emotions, nervous system regulation, depression, anxiety, suicidality, boundary setting, communication difficulties, support through losses and major life transitions, increasing relationship trust and intimacy, and support in separating well.
I have a conversational approach and welcome humor alongside the deep emotional work of therapy. I come alongside adults and relationships to support you in your healing and connection mainly through the lens of Attachment Theory, Psychodynamic therapy, and Internal Family Systems, but most importantly, I pull from many wise teachers to find what works for you.
(206) 944-3959 View (206) 944-3959

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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.