Couples Counseling Therapists in Roslyn, WA

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Kimberly Finger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Roslyn, WA 98941
Life can be hard. It can be helpful to have someone to talk to while working through a challenging issue, in order to continue growing and developing as a person or in relationship with another. Together, we can explore new ways to approach your concerns, look deeper for underlying causes and meaning, brainstorm realistic ways to begin making changes, stay motivated, and practice holding on less tightly to those aspects of life that are out of one's control. I offer nearly 20 years of experience helping a diverse variety of people, from under three years old to over 80 years old.
Life can be hard. It can be helpful to have someone to talk to while working through a challenging issue, in order to continue growing and developing as a person or in relationship with another. Together, we can explore new ways to approach your concerns, look deeper for underlying causes and meaning, brainstorm realistic ways to begin making changes, stay motivated, and practice holding on less tightly to those aspects of life that are out of one's control. I offer nearly 20 years of experience helping a diverse variety of people, from under three years old to over 80 years old.
(509) 790-4038 View (509) 790-4038

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Kylar Batten
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MAT
Verified Verified
Cle Elum, WA 98922
I am a therapist who enjoys working with couples, individuals, and youth ages 11-17 . Marginalized folx are my specialty: Queer / GNC / Neurodivergent, POC. My goal is to help you find a better understanding of who you are and who you want to become and then together we will chart a path forward. When I work with couples, I consider your relationship the client. My couples therapy work is from an emotionally focused, trauma informed, and attachment style lens. With all of my clients I find it helpful to examine how your historical and present contexts impact your relationship with yourself and others.
I am a therapist who enjoys working with couples, individuals, and youth ages 11-17 . Marginalized folx are my specialty: Queer / GNC / Neurodivergent, POC. My goal is to help you find a better understanding of who you are and who you want to become and then together we will chart a path forward. When I work with couples, I consider your relationship the client. My couples therapy work is from an emotionally focused, trauma informed, and attachment style lens. With all of my clients I find it helpful to examine how your historical and present contexts impact your relationship with yourself and others.
(503) 832-4876 View (503) 832-4876
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Drue Larson
Counselor, MA-ABS, CC, ACHt
Verified Verified
Cle Elum, WA 98922
Enhance your communication and relationship skills.
Take your next step. Experience what Counseling and Hypnotherapy can do for you. Life often demands more than we are able to handle on our own. Although we do our best, we may reach a point where we feel emotionally overwhelmed, spiritually adrift; stuck in the past, afraid of the future; unable to resolve our issues or move forward in life. If this sounds familiar, recognizing this is the first step. Reaching out for help starts your journey toward healing and creating the life you desire.
Enhance your communication and relationship skills.
Take your next step. Experience what Counseling and Hypnotherapy can do for you. Life often demands more than we are able to handle on our own. Although we do our best, we may reach a point where we feel emotionally overwhelmed, spiritually adrift; stuck in the past, afraid of the future; unable to resolve our issues or move forward in life. If this sounds familiar, recognizing this is the first step. Reaching out for help starts your journey toward healing and creating the life you desire.
(425) 406-3843 View (425) 406-3843
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Jennifer Kassing
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cle Elum, WA 98922  (Online Only)
My particular areas of specialty include trans and gender diverse adolescents, family and parenting issues, and couples therapy.
Today you may be one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. With over ten years of experience, I serve a broad spectrum of clients. With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. Areas of most common practice include affirmative counseling for LGBTQIA+ (youth and adults), family conflict, and couples issues.
My particular areas of specialty include trans and gender diverse adolescents, family and parenting issues, and couples therapy.
Today you may be one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. With over ten years of experience, I serve a broad spectrum of clients. With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. Areas of most common practice include affirmative counseling for LGBTQIA+ (youth and adults), family conflict, and couples issues.
(509) 822-2959 View (509) 822-2959
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Tenzin C Tsorpon
Counselor, MA, LMHCA, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ronald, WA 98940  (Online Only)
Because so much of our work will depend on our therapeutic relationship, you must get a sense of who I am, and consider whether I am someone with whom you can develop a connection.
The work we do is collaborative; it requires us both to be present and fully committed to your journey. My clients are honest about their strengths, virtues, successes and growth areas; curious about their emotions, triggers, and patterns; and committed to designing their lives in a meaningful way. Depending on their inner resources, needs, and concerns, I utilize a tailored, strengths-based approach to promote useful life goals through insight and action. This can be achieved by integrating a variety of modalities, both evidence and non-evidence based; and drawing from my personal, professional and spiritual background.
Because so much of our work will depend on our therapeutic relationship, you must get a sense of who I am, and consider whether I am someone with whom you can develop a connection.
The work we do is collaborative; it requires us both to be present and fully committed to your journey. My clients are honest about their strengths, virtues, successes and growth areas; curious about their emotions, triggers, and patterns; and committed to designing their lives in a meaningful way. Depending on their inner resources, needs, and concerns, I utilize a tailored, strengths-based approach to promote useful life goals through insight and action. This can be achieved by integrating a variety of modalities, both evidence and non-evidence based; and drawing from my personal, professional and spiritual background.
(206) 207-3835 View (206) 207-3835
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Teri Simons
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cle Elum, WA 98922  (Online Only)
I have the ability to be flexible so I can make time available for couples and individuals in crisis.
Immediate Openings! Let's get you out of crisis mode and back to the life you deserve! Whether you are going through a transitional phase in your life, taking your relationship to a new level, needing to work on said relationship, or just feeling lost or overwhelmed in your life and in need of something - I am here to walk alongside you and help guide you through it. I absolutely love helping my couples get back on the right track.
I have the ability to be flexible so I can make time available for couples and individuals in crisis.
Immediate Openings! Let's get you out of crisis mode and back to the life you deserve! Whether you are going through a transitional phase in your life, taking your relationship to a new level, needing to work on said relationship, or just feeling lost or overwhelmed in your life and in need of something - I am here to walk alongside you and help guide you through it. I absolutely love helping my couples get back on the right track.
(253) 867-9440 View (253) 867-9440
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Valley Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Cle Elum, WA 98922
We are an outpatient mental health practice that provides psychotherapy, assessment, dietetics, and medication management. We offer in-person and virtual appointments. Our staff includes psychologists, a psychiatric ARNP, licensed mental health counselors, social workers and a registered dietician. Our clinicians are experienced, utilize evidence-based techniques, and offer clinical specialties.
We are an outpatient mental health practice that provides psychotherapy, assessment, dietetics, and medication management. We offer in-person and virtual appointments. Our staff includes psychologists, a psychiatric ARNP, licensed mental health counselors, social workers and a registered dietician. Our clinicians are experienced, utilize evidence-based techniques, and offer clinical specialties.
(509) 402-1395 View (509) 402-1395

Online Therapists

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Lisa Delaplace
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CST
Verified Verified
Kirkland, WA 98033
I provide EMDR and sex therapy to individuals and couples with diverse sexuality concerns.
Recognize this scenario? Lingering negative experiences from your past are impacting your present, evoking feelings of shame, anxiety, and distrust. You are feeling disconnected from your partner and your sex life is not what you would like for it to be. Maybe you’ve stopped having sex altogether. Every attempt at communication about the issues in your relationship becomes an argument and you don’t know how you got into this cycle or how to get out of it. You’re wondering if these problems are beyond repair and you feel so alone. It doesn't have to stay this way.
I provide EMDR and sex therapy to individuals and couples with diverse sexuality concerns.
Recognize this scenario? Lingering negative experiences from your past are impacting your present, evoking feelings of shame, anxiety, and distrust. You are feeling disconnected from your partner and your sex life is not what you would like for it to be. Maybe you’ve stopped having sex altogether. Every attempt at communication about the issues in your relationship becomes an argument and you don’t know how you got into this cycle or how to get out of it. You’re wondering if these problems are beyond repair and you feel so alone. It doesn't have to stay this way.
(469) 373-9705 View (469) 373-9705
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Clare Honn
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004
Now accepting new clients! A mindfully collaborative approach to counseling begins with a validating and empathetic therapist. I work with adults, couples, and adolescents to help develop insight and awareness through curiosity, not judgement. When we approach ourselves with compassion and kindness, we open the door to growth and a deeper understanding of ourselves. I whole-heartedly believe throughout this process we can cultivate healthier living patterns, reduce stress and anxiety, decrease negative thoughts, improve interpersonal relationships, and increase self awareness, confidence, and worth.
Now accepting new clients! A mindfully collaborative approach to counseling begins with a validating and empathetic therapist. I work with adults, couples, and adolescents to help develop insight and awareness through curiosity, not judgement. When we approach ourselves with compassion and kindness, we open the door to growth and a deeper understanding of ourselves. I whole-heartedly believe throughout this process we can cultivate healthier living patterns, reduce stress and anxiety, decrease negative thoughts, improve interpersonal relationships, and increase self awareness, confidence, and worth.
(360) 997-2814 View (360) 997-2814
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Hilary Ison
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
I aim to be a compassionate partner in your journey.
You are likely seeking therapy feeling a strange mixture of despair and hope. You might be struggling with patterns of behavior, past traumas, or painful emotions; but you also believe that change is possible. Together we can establish safety, look underneath your presenting symptoms, and harness your inherent capacity to heal.
I aim to be a compassionate partner in your journey.
You are likely seeking therapy feeling a strange mixture of despair and hope. You might be struggling with patterns of behavior, past traumas, or painful emotions; but you also believe that change is possible. Together we can establish safety, look underneath your presenting symptoms, and harness your inherent capacity to heal.
(206) 278-7511 View (206) 278-7511
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Shelleigh-Mairi W Ferguson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tacoma, WA 98402
I take a creative, client-centered approach to therapy, utilizing narrative therapy, EMDR, IFS, CBT, and DBT to help clients with symptoms of anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, and relationship issues.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS Do you have a sense that you have no control over your life, thoughts, or feelings, causing you NOT to be an active participant in your own life? Do these feelings cause you to feel that you are drifting through life, becoming depressed and anxious? My goal is to offer a safe, supportive space, to walk with you on your journey, explore aspects of the 'self' that you would like to build, and discover strengths that can be used in your present and future, in order to construct the life you desire. Remember, the steps you take don’t have to be big, they just have to be heading you in the right direction.
I take a creative, client-centered approach to therapy, utilizing narrative therapy, EMDR, IFS, CBT, and DBT to help clients with symptoms of anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD, and relationship issues.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS Do you have a sense that you have no control over your life, thoughts, or feelings, causing you NOT to be an active participant in your own life? Do these feelings cause you to feel that you are drifting through life, becoming depressed and anxious? My goal is to offer a safe, supportive space, to walk with you on your journey, explore aspects of the 'self' that you would like to build, and discover strengths that can be used in your present and future, in order to construct the life you desire. Remember, the steps you take don’t have to be big, they just have to be heading you in the right direction.
(253) 240-4994 x253987 View (253) 240-4994 x253987
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John Paul Gaylor
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98101
As an individual, couples, and sex therapist, my passion lies in helping people to confront and tackle the challenges which deeply impact their personal and relational lives and leave them feeling stuck. Whether you are struggling to cope with anxiety, grief, or depression, navigating conflict or resentment in your relationship, or facing concerns about your sexual health or identity, I strive to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences without fear of rejection.
As an individual, couples, and sex therapist, my passion lies in helping people to confront and tackle the challenges which deeply impact their personal and relational lives and leave them feeling stuck. Whether you are struggling to cope with anxiety, grief, or depression, navigating conflict or resentment in your relationship, or facing concerns about your sexual health or identity, I strive to create a non-judgmental and supportive space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences without fear of rejection.
(206) 472-1678 View (206) 472-1678
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Ian D. Walters
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Issaquah, WA 98027
A relationship of trust and safety between client and therapist is a crucial facet of successful therapy.
I hold a humanistic view of counseling and wellness. I believe everyone is equipped with the potential to heal and fully experience a life well-lived; however, this potential is sometimes stifled by our past hurts, present fears or a feeling of simply being stuck. While diagnostic language is sometimes helpful and appropriate, my therapeutic approach views human suffering through a non-pathologizing lens. I see humanistic, client-centered treatment as a more powerful, humane and effective alternative to the medical model of mental health care.
A relationship of trust and safety between client and therapist is a crucial facet of successful therapy.
I hold a humanistic view of counseling and wellness. I believe everyone is equipped with the potential to heal and fully experience a life well-lived; however, this potential is sometimes stifled by our past hurts, present fears or a feeling of simply being stuck. While diagnostic language is sometimes helpful and appropriate, my therapeutic approach views human suffering through a non-pathologizing lens. I see humanistic, client-centered treatment as a more powerful, humane and effective alternative to the medical model of mental health care.
(206) 590-3342 View (206) 590-3342
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Kerry Billingham
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98115  (Online Only)
I am a therapist in north Seattle. I specialize in adults and couples with depression, anxiety, trauma and relationship problems. I am certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I help people who have unstable emotions, relationships, and are frequently in crisis. I teach mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills. I offer groups. DBT helps identify extreme ends of the spectrum and to find the middle path on the way towards a life worth living. DBT encourages individuals to find a mindfulness practice in their own lives and teaches skills for living successfully in the world.
I am a therapist in north Seattle. I specialize in adults and couples with depression, anxiety, trauma and relationship problems. I am certified in Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I help people who have unstable emotions, relationships, and are frequently in crisis. I teach mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness skills. I offer groups. DBT helps identify extreme ends of the spectrum and to find the middle path on the way towards a life worth living. DBT encourages individuals to find a mindfulness practice in their own lives and teaches skills for living successfully in the world.
(206) 569-5371 View (206) 569-5371
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Briana Pontious
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98023  (Online Only)
Do you ever feel stuck, lost, or unsure of what to do next? But have this overall feeling that something needs to change? Maybe your anxiety feels so heavy with fear of the what-ifs. Maybe you think I could take the next step or do the scary thing if I was just more confident. Maybe you’re facing difficulties in your relationship with yourself, a partner, family, or friends and are not sure how to make it better. If you've ever had similar thoughts, I would love to help you - work through your anxiety, build and grow your self-esteem and confidence, and/or heal your relationship with yourself or others!
Do you ever feel stuck, lost, or unsure of what to do next? But have this overall feeling that something needs to change? Maybe your anxiety feels so heavy with fear of the what-ifs. Maybe you think I could take the next step or do the scary thing if I was just more confident. Maybe you’re facing difficulties in your relationship with yourself, a partner, family, or friends and are not sure how to make it better. If you've ever had similar thoughts, I would love to help you - work through your anxiety, build and grow your self-esteem and confidence, and/or heal your relationship with yourself or others!
(206) 486-6679 View (206) 486-6679
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Meghan Beier
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
Seattle, WA 98107
Together, we will draw on the resources available and develop a relationship built upon support, understanding, and compassion with the goal of aiding you to build an enriched life.
Hello! My name is Meghan Beier, PhD. I am a Health and Rehabilitation Psychologist at the Rowan Center for Behavioral Medicine. While I have experience working with many neurologic disorders, chronic illnesses, disabilities, and rare medical conditions, I have a particular passion and expertise in supporting individuals and families living with multiple sclerosis (MS). I am deeply invested in the MS community, as evidenced by my role on the National MS Society Medical Advisory Board and my role as a patient educator and consultant with Can Do Multiple Sclerosis.
Together, we will draw on the resources available and develop a relationship built upon support, understanding, and compassion with the goal of aiding you to build an enriched life.
Hello! My name is Meghan Beier, PhD. I am a Health and Rehabilitation Psychologist at the Rowan Center for Behavioral Medicine. While I have experience working with many neurologic disorders, chronic illnesses, disabilities, and rare medical conditions, I have a particular passion and expertise in supporting individuals and families living with multiple sclerosis (MS). I am deeply invested in the MS community, as evidenced by my role on the National MS Society Medical Advisory Board and my role as a patient educator and consultant with Can Do Multiple Sclerosis.
(410) 705-2131 View (410) 705-2131
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NUhope Community Counseling Center
PhD
Verified Verified
Kirkland, WA 98033  (Online Only)
We provide compassionate and caring therapy for children, adolescents, adults, and couples.
NUhope Is a university-based community counseling clinic that provides quality psychological assessment as well as affordable counseling services to children, adolescents, and adults in need in our community. We are a training clinic for doctoral students in counseling psychology at Northwest University. Working with each client to develop an individualized treatment plan, we are responsive to the needs of a multicultural community. We provide faith based counseling upon request. Upholding the ethical standards of the American Psychological Association, we provide supervision by experienced licensed psychologists for all student therapists.
We provide compassionate and caring therapy for children, adolescents, adults, and couples.
NUhope Is a university-based community counseling clinic that provides quality psychological assessment as well as affordable counseling services to children, adolescents, and adults in need in our community. We are a training clinic for doctoral students in counseling psychology at Northwest University. Working with each client to develop an individualized treatment plan, we are responsive to the needs of a multicultural community. We provide faith based counseling upon request. Upholding the ethical standards of the American Psychological Association, we provide supervision by experienced licensed psychologists for all student therapists.
(425) 970-9754 View (425) 970-9754
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Dr. Victoria Schroder
Mental Health Counselor, PsyD, LMHC
Verified Verified
Yakima, WA 98902
I specialize in guiding individuals and couples through the complexities of intimacy and relationships, focusing on sex therapy, betrayal trauma, and infidelity. Additionally, I offer compassionate support to those facing infertility challenges and navigating the perinatal period, ensuring comprehensive care during these transformative life stages
I specialize in guiding individuals and couples through the complexities of intimacy and relationships, focusing on sex therapy, betrayal trauma, and infidelity. Additionally, I offer compassionate support to those facing infertility challenges and navigating the perinatal period, ensuring comprehensive care during these transformative life stages
(509) 257-8322 View (509) 257-8322
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Sarah J Kyle
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Seattle, WA 98109
I specialize in couples therapy, where I help partners work toward relational repair after infidelity, betrayal, or ongoing conflict. I also work with individuals who want to work through attachment and relationship issues, identity development, spirituality, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Therapy is work that asks a great deal from us, but it also holds potential for meaningful change: to awaken to your own life, to make strides toward repairing broken bonds, and to imagine new possibilities and new ways of being, for yourself and for your relationships.
I specialize in couples therapy, where I help partners work toward relational repair after infidelity, betrayal, or ongoing conflict. I also work with individuals who want to work through attachment and relationship issues, identity development, spirituality, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Therapy is work that asks a great deal from us, but it also holds potential for meaningful change: to awaken to your own life, to make strides toward repairing broken bonds, and to imagine new possibilities and new ways of being, for yourself and for your relationships.
(206) 339-4277 View (206) 339-4277
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Megan Mitchell
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC, MHP, CMHS
Verified Verified
Wenatchee, WA 98801  (Online Only)
Through the therapeutic relationship, I will provide a non-judgmental, safe, and compassionate space for exploration where you feel seen, heard, and empowered as you take new steps toward healing and growth.
Email is the easiest correspondence, I am often unable to answer phone calls. Are you having difficulty finding balance or meaning in your life? Are you feeling overwhelmed with life's day to day challenges? Are you struggling with your relationships or parenting? Are you suffering the effects of trauma, anxiety or depression? Does healing feel impossible? Sometimes, we might know something has to change, but not know where to start. While the counseling process can feel scary, you are not alone. My goal is to empower change by providing a safe, healing environment that supports self discovery and understanding.
Through the therapeutic relationship, I will provide a non-judgmental, safe, and compassionate space for exploration where you feel seen, heard, and empowered as you take new steps toward healing and growth.
Email is the easiest correspondence, I am often unable to answer phone calls. Are you having difficulty finding balance or meaning in your life? Are you feeling overwhelmed with life's day to day challenges? Are you struggling with your relationships or parenting? Are you suffering the effects of trauma, anxiety or depression? Does healing feel impossible? Sometimes, we might know something has to change, but not know where to start. While the counseling process can feel scary, you are not alone. My goal is to empower change by providing a safe, healing environment that supports self discovery and understanding.
(509) 749-7998 View (509) 749-7998

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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.