Infidelity Therapists in Pacific County, WA

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Salina Mecham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, SUDP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with individuals navigating relationship challenges, domestic violence, substance use, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Some days we use structured approaches like IFS or cognitive-based strategies, and other days focus on creating a safe, nonjudgmental space to process thoughts and emotions openly. Humans are complex and intricate, and I tailor each session to what is most needed in the moment—whether that’s insight, skill-building, or simply giving space for them to feel heard—so clients can move forward with greater clarity, stability, and self-understanding.
I work with individuals navigating relationship challenges, domestic violence, substance use, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Some days we use structured approaches like IFS or cognitive-based strategies, and other days focus on creating a safe, nonjudgmental space to process thoughts and emotions openly. Humans are complex and intricate, and I tailor each session to what is most needed in the moment—whether that’s insight, skill-building, or simply giving space for them to feel heard—so clients can move forward with greater clarity, stability, and self-understanding.
(360) 677-3125 View (360) 677-3125
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David L Rodriguez II
Counselor, MA, LHMC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling lost? Life is full of many challenges. Therapy is a great place to find an objective alliance to explore answers to life dilemma's. I provide a safe non-judgmental place for processing thoughts and emotions and to discover barriers to change. Whether you are an individual, couple, youth or need family therapy, this is a safe place for you.
Feeling lost? Life is full of many challenges. Therapy is a great place to find an objective alliance to explore answers to life dilemma's. I provide a safe non-judgmental place for processing thoughts and emotions and to discover barriers to change. Whether you are an individual, couple, youth or need family therapy, this is a safe place for you.
(360) 706-1967 View (360) 706-1967
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Roseway Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
2 Endorsed
Long Beach, WA 98631
Sometimes life just gets confusing, feels hopeless and becomes hard to find your way. I can offer the experience of thousands of hours from over 27 year working with people who were in similar situations and found renewed hope and a better way. I work with you where you are and together we can make the journey to where you want to be. I offer telehealth counseling with individuals and couples in Washington and Oregon. I offer counseling from a Christian perspective and respect the perspective you offer.
Sometimes life just gets confusing, feels hopeless and becomes hard to find your way. I can offer the experience of thousands of hours from over 27 year working with people who were in similar situations and found renewed hope and a better way. I work with you where you are and together we can make the journey to where you want to be. I offer telehealth counseling with individuals and couples in Washington and Oregon. I offer counseling from a Christian perspective and respect the perspective you offer.
(360) 845-1605 View (360) 845-1605
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Deb Montgomery
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CPCL
1 Endorsed
Online Only
In a rapidly changing world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, or uncertain about your direction. You don’t have to navigate it alone. I offer a supportive, thoughtful space where we can explore what matters most to you and work toward meaningful, lasting change. For over 15 years, I’ve accompanied people through personal and professional challenges using a psychodynamic and relational approach to therapy. I believe that what is wounded in relationships can also heal through a safe, authentic therapeutic relationship. In and out of network insurance available. Sliding Scale also if no insurance.
In a rapidly changing world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, anxious, depressed, or uncertain about your direction. You don’t have to navigate it alone. I offer a supportive, thoughtful space where we can explore what matters most to you and work toward meaningful, lasting change. For over 15 years, I’ve accompanied people through personal and professional challenges using a psychodynamic and relational approach to therapy. I believe that what is wounded in relationships can also heal through a safe, authentic therapeutic relationship. In and out of network insurance available. Sliding Scale also if no insurance.
(206) 535-1358 View (206) 535-1358

Online Therapists

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Elva Flannery
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Online Only
My work with my clients is based on respect and trust, while promoting growth. As a therapist it is my goal to aid my clients by teaching positive communication skills, conflict resolution, and tools to learn how to identify and change problematic interaction, patterns or behaviors. My therapeutic style is encouraging and engaging. I work with couples, families, individuals, children, and teens. I strive to support my clients in meeting their goals and find solutions to achieve successful happy results. I will maintain a honest, open, and safe therapeutic space for my clients, while building upon their strengths!
My work with my clients is based on respect and trust, while promoting growth. As a therapist it is my goal to aid my clients by teaching positive communication skills, conflict resolution, and tools to learn how to identify and change problematic interaction, patterns or behaviors. My therapeutic style is encouraging and engaging. I work with couples, families, individuals, children, and teens. I strive to support my clients in meeting their goals and find solutions to achieve successful happy results. I will maintain a honest, open, and safe therapeutic space for my clients, while building upon their strengths!
(360) 295-4606 View (360) 295-4606
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John P Hahn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SUDP
Camas, WA 98607
I have been a therapist since 1985, specializing in all types of relationship issues, anxiety, depression, traumatic events, co-parenting, long-term substance use recovery, and adult children of alcoholic or dysfunctional families. After graduating with a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, I moved from Indiana to the Pacific Northwest and have called it home ever since. I enjoy biking, hiking, and reading about science. My passion is in working with people who are curious about themselves. I work with adults and couples who want more than advice and a quick fix, we all know that people and relationships are complex.
I have been a therapist since 1985, specializing in all types of relationship issues, anxiety, depression, traumatic events, co-parenting, long-term substance use recovery, and adult children of alcoholic or dysfunctional families. After graduating with a Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, I moved from Indiana to the Pacific Northwest and have called it home ever since. I enjoy biking, hiking, and reading about science. My passion is in working with people who are curious about themselves. I work with adults and couples who want more than advice and a quick fix, we all know that people and relationships are complex.
(360) 564-5763 View (360) 564-5763
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Laura McDowell
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Online Only
Your mind feels like it's stuck in a loop. Intrusive thoughts, worry and fear fill your days. Anxiety keeps you up at night, second-guessing your decisions and doubting your worth. These patterns leave you exhausted, frustrated, and unsure of how to regain control. You want to stop feeling trapped by the obsessive thoughts, constant self-doubt, and the "what-ifs" that dominate your mind. You're ready to break free from these cycles and find peace and clarity in life again.
Your mind feels like it's stuck in a loop. Intrusive thoughts, worry and fear fill your days. Anxiety keeps you up at night, second-guessing your decisions and doubting your worth. These patterns leave you exhausted, frustrated, and unsure of how to regain control. You want to stop feeling trapped by the obsessive thoughts, constant self-doubt, and the "what-ifs" that dominate your mind. You're ready to break free from these cycles and find peace and clarity in life again.
(509) 745-5948 View (509) 745-5948
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Rachael Jordan
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CMHS
1 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98373
We're so proud of you for taking these first steps! We know it’s not always easy, but it’s a true sign of strength. In today’s world, so many of us are dealing with uncertainties, stress, fears, and feeling isolated. If you’re experiencing symptoms of ADHD, depression, anxiety or other things, therapy can be a wonderful way to learn helpful coping strategies. Remember, you’re not alone. Therapy can help you find a sense of calm and take control of your life and learn how to manage what feels unmanageable. Help comes in various ways and we can tailor it to your needs for growth! We work with couples, families, adults, kids & teens!
We're so proud of you for taking these first steps! We know it’s not always easy, but it’s a true sign of strength. In today’s world, so many of us are dealing with uncertainties, stress, fears, and feeling isolated. If you’re experiencing symptoms of ADHD, depression, anxiety or other things, therapy can be a wonderful way to learn helpful coping strategies. Remember, you’re not alone. Therapy can help you find a sense of calm and take control of your life and learn how to manage what feels unmanageable. Help comes in various ways and we can tailor it to your needs for growth! We work with couples, families, adults, kids & teens!
(253) 242-9970 View (253) 242-9970
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Jaben Houk
Counselor, MA, LMHC-WA, LPC-OR, CSAT
7 Endorsed
Federal Way, WA 98003
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) I work primarily with men who have cheated, committed infidelity, compulsively use porn/sex and want to heal their relationships and live free.
Additionally, I work with individuals who have attachment wounds from their past. Often childhood neglect/abuse, inconsistent/insecure caregivers, violence and other traumas lead to anxiety/depression among a host of other symptoms including unhealthy relationship patterns and addictions. Internal Family Systems-IFS provides a great approach for this healing
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) I work primarily with men who have cheated, committed infidelity, compulsively use porn/sex and want to heal their relationships and live free.
Additionally, I work with individuals who have attachment wounds from their past. Often childhood neglect/abuse, inconsistent/insecure caregivers, violence and other traumas lead to anxiety/depression among a host of other symptoms including unhealthy relationship patterns and addictions. Internal Family Systems-IFS provides a great approach for this healing
(253) 753-1994 View (253) 753-1994
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Clarissa Day-Commock
Pre-Licensed Professional, LMHC-A
6 Endorsed
Online Only
If you’re feeling persistently on edge, overwhelmed, emotionally detached, or stuck in cycles of overthinking and self‑doubt, you’re not alone. I work with adults who want relief from anxiety, stress, identity shifts, and the pressure of carrying so much on their own. As a Black biracial woman, spouse of 15 years, and mother, I understand the complexity of navigating life transitions while trying to stay connected to yourself. I offer a grounded, supportive space to help you find clarity and feel more like yourself again.
If you’re feeling persistently on edge, overwhelmed, emotionally detached, or stuck in cycles of overthinking and self‑doubt, you’re not alone. I work with adults who want relief from anxiety, stress, identity shifts, and the pressure of carrying so much on their own. As a Black biracial woman, spouse of 15 years, and mother, I understand the complexity of navigating life transitions while trying to stay connected to yourself. I offer a grounded, supportive space to help you find clarity and feel more like yourself again.
(509) 210-8031 View (509) 210-8031
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Dr. Alexandra Emery
Psychologist, PhD
4 Endorsed
Online Only
From the outside it seems like you have it all together, so why aren't you content? Maybe it's work, your relationships, or something else you can't quite put your finger on. Maybe you're struggling with feelings of sadness, unfulfillment, or pain. Maybe you find it difficult to relax, be present, and are constantly looking forward to when you'll finally be happy. Whatever it is, it doesn't feel good, and it definitely doesn't have to be this way. In therapy, I will work to build a collaborative relationship where we can explore these feelings together, and help you to tap into a life that holds more meaning, ease, and fulfilment.
From the outside it seems like you have it all together, so why aren't you content? Maybe it's work, your relationships, or something else you can't quite put your finger on. Maybe you're struggling with feelings of sadness, unfulfillment, or pain. Maybe you find it difficult to relax, be present, and are constantly looking forward to when you'll finally be happy. Whatever it is, it doesn't feel good, and it definitely doesn't have to be this way. In therapy, I will work to build a collaborative relationship where we can explore these feelings together, and help you to tap into a life that holds more meaning, ease, and fulfilment.
(253) 262-0647 View (253) 262-0647
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Dr. Sean Morrison
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Tacoma, WA 98402
***I accept First Choice Health insurance, which frequently contracts with some Kaiser plans. Please call to confirm I am in-network with your plan.*** I approach therapy from an evidence-based perspective by letting you know what the research has shown to be the most effective way of handling whatever problems you’re struggling with. From there, we can work together to adapt that type of therapy to fit your specific needs & life circumstances so we can figure out how to make our sessions most helpful for you. I specialize in CBT, DBT, CPT/PE, Schema Therapy & Mindfulness-based therapies amongst other evidence-based psychotherapies.
***I accept First Choice Health insurance, which frequently contracts with some Kaiser plans. Please call to confirm I am in-network with your plan.*** I approach therapy from an evidence-based perspective by letting you know what the research has shown to be the most effective way of handling whatever problems you’re struggling with. From there, we can work together to adapt that type of therapy to fit your specific needs & life circumstances so we can figure out how to make our sessions most helpful for you. I specialize in CBT, DBT, CPT/PE, Schema Therapy & Mindfulness-based therapies amongst other evidence-based psychotherapies.
(253) 243-2258 View (253) 243-2258
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Megan M. Woods
Counselor, MS, CCTP, CIMHP, LMHC, LCPC
1 Endorsed
South Hill, WA 98374
Megan M. Woods, MS, CCTP, CNC, CIMHP, LMHC, LCPC is a highly committed professional who holds licenses as a licensed therapist and qualified supervisor. With extensive personal and professional training, she offers valuable expertise in various life areas. Megan is dedicated to assisting individuals in navigating unexpected circumstances, such as life stages, decision-making, grief and loss, trauma, women empowerment, relationship issues, and wellness. Megan provides support for LGBTQIA+, polyamory, and the promotion of sexuality. Her objective is to support clients in achieving clarity, focus, and momentum toward their goals.
Megan M. Woods, MS, CCTP, CNC, CIMHP, LMHC, LCPC is a highly committed professional who holds licenses as a licensed therapist and qualified supervisor. With extensive personal and professional training, she offers valuable expertise in various life areas. Megan is dedicated to assisting individuals in navigating unexpected circumstances, such as life stages, decision-making, grief and loss, trauma, women empowerment, relationship issues, and wellness. Megan provides support for LGBTQIA+, polyamory, and the promotion of sexuality. Her objective is to support clients in achieving clarity, focus, and momentum toward their goals.
(406) 597-6761 View (406) 597-6761
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Kristine Sandt
Counselor, MC, MHCA
Online Only
Welcome! I'm Kristine, a compassionate therapist dedicated to supporting individuals, and polycules navigating the complexities of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, LGBTQ+ issues, and sex addiction. This is a safe and inclusive space where you can explore your unique journey, heal from past traumas, and build healthier relationships. In working with ethically non-monogamous humans, I address challenges such as managing jealousy, establishing healthy boundaries, and effective communication across multiple partners.
Welcome! I'm Kristine, a compassionate therapist dedicated to supporting individuals, and polycules navigating the complexities of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, LGBTQ+ issues, and sex addiction. This is a safe and inclusive space where you can explore your unique journey, heal from past traumas, and build healthier relationships. In working with ethically non-monogamous humans, I address challenges such as managing jealousy, establishing healthy boundaries, and effective communication across multiple partners.
(253) 352-4520 View (253) 352-4520
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Jennifer Drake
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Tacoma, WA 98403
I’m here to walk with you through life’s challenges, whether you’re facing anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, or struggles in relationships and identity. Together, we’ll work toward healing and hope. I have experience supporting children and families in the foster care system, as well as those at risk of separation. I've also worked as a mental health professional in hospital emergency rooms, providing hands-on crisis intervention to individuals navigating intense emotional situations. I bring this experience t every session, creating a safe, compassion
I’m here to walk with you through life’s challenges, whether you’re facing anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, or struggles in relationships and identity. Together, we’ll work toward healing and hope. I have experience supporting children and families in the foster care system, as well as those at risk of separation. I've also worked as a mental health professional in hospital emergency rooms, providing hands-on crisis intervention to individuals navigating intense emotional situations. I bring this experience t every session, creating a safe, compassion
(253) 252-5079 View (253) 252-5079
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Jitani Mosley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFTA
Online Only
Life can be messy. Relationships can feel confusing. Parenting can be exhausting. Anxiety, self-doubt, and overwhelm can leave you feeling stuck and unsure of where to go next. You don't have to figure it all out alone. I'm Jitani, a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families seeking greater understanding, connection, and balance in their lives. One of the core beliefs that guides my work is simple: everything is connected to everything. The way we feel about ourselves impacts our relationships. When one area of life is struggling, it often affects many others.
Life can be messy. Relationships can feel confusing. Parenting can be exhausting. Anxiety, self-doubt, and overwhelm can leave you feeling stuck and unsure of where to go next. You don't have to figure it all out alone. I'm Jitani, a Marriage and Family Therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families seeking greater understanding, connection, and balance in their lives. One of the core beliefs that guides my work is simple: everything is connected to everything. The way we feel about ourselves impacts our relationships. When one area of life is struggling, it often affects many others.
(253) 400-2663 View (253) 400-2663
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Alive Holistic Counseling Washington
Licensed Professional Counselor
Vancouver, WA 98684
Alive Holistic Counseling is an integrative counseling clinic that uses client-centered, strengths-based therapies to help people achieve their personal goals and cultivate authenticity in their relationships. Our therapists are specially trained in holistic therapies such as EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Hakomi that enable clients to go deeper into their healing journey. Our focus on evidence-based approaches that integrate the body with the busy mind allow for work to go beyond what keeps us trapped in old patterns of being.
Alive Holistic Counseling is an integrative counseling clinic that uses client-centered, strengths-based therapies to help people achieve their personal goals and cultivate authenticity in their relationships. Our therapists are specially trained in holistic therapies such as EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Hakomi that enable clients to go deeper into their healing journey. Our focus on evidence-based approaches that integrate the body with the busy mind allow for work to go beyond what keeps us trapped in old patterns of being.
(360) 531-7537 View (360) 531-7537
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Sara Joy
Counselor, MHP, LMHC, SUDP
2 Endorsed
Sumner, WA 98390
Are you or your family facing a difficult season? Whether you are navigating the hurdles of adolescence, recovering from addiction, or seeking to heal family bonds through reunification, you don't have to walk this path alone.
Are you or your family facing a difficult season? Whether you are navigating the hurdles of adolescence, recovering from addiction, or seeking to heal family bonds through reunification, you don't have to walk this path alone.
(253) 215-8848 View (253) 215-8848
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Ajay Christoph
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSWAIC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Everyone has a story, and sometimes, the stories we carry about ourselves, our relationships, and our challenges can feel heavy or limiting. Therapy can be a powerful way to reshape those stories, strengthen relationships, and navigate struggles like trauma, anxiety, depression, behavioral concerns, family conflict, and child development. I believe that healing happens through connection, collaboration, and openness to change.
Everyone has a story, and sometimes, the stories we carry about ourselves, our relationships, and our challenges can feel heavy or limiting. Therapy can be a powerful way to reshape those stories, strengthen relationships, and navigate struggles like trauma, anxiety, depression, behavioral concerns, family conflict, and child development. I believe that healing happens through connection, collaboration, and openness to change.
(253) 802-7113 View (253) 802-7113
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Rebecca Nystrom
Counselor, LMHC
5 Endorsed
Bremerton, WA 98310
Waitlist for new clients
I take a relational approach when working with clients. We have all been shaped by both our personal history and intergenerational history. Anyone who would invest considerable time, energy, emotion, and money into therapy desires clarity and awareness. Oftentimes, clients have never been given a safe place to process the underlying reasons for the present-day issues. Nor have they been asked the right questions that would help them reflect on the joy and pain that was and is present. This is needed to develop a sense of self. We were harmed in relationship and we heal in relationship. This is why therapy is so powerful.
I take a relational approach when working with clients. We have all been shaped by both our personal history and intergenerational history. Anyone who would invest considerable time, energy, emotion, and money into therapy desires clarity and awareness. Oftentimes, clients have never been given a safe place to process the underlying reasons for the present-day issues. Nor have they been asked the right questions that would help them reflect on the joy and pain that was and is present. This is needed to develop a sense of self. We were harmed in relationship and we heal in relationship. This is why therapy is so powerful.
(360) 549-9536 View (360) 549-9536

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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.