Male Therapists in Graham, WA

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Russell Alfaro
CCHT, CHT
Verified Verified
Graham, WA 98338
First, I believe it is my duty to be able to actively listen to my client, obtain a good understanding of where they are and where they want to go. Together, we will move you and/or your team or organization in the desired direction to reach your goals. As a young man growing up in North Chicago, I quickly learned that life is full of rewards and upsets, if I allowed it to happen. At 3 months old, I was abandoned by my mother, left inside of a garbage can in an alley waiting to die. However, life had other plans for me. A passerby heard my faint cries and pulled me from the garbage can. Later, I was adopted but went on to experience years of physical and emotional abuse by my adopted mother. At the age of 12, I ran away from home and was placed in foster care. I was adopted again, but I experienced more mental and physical abuse. I dropped out of the 9th grade and began running away again. At the age of 16, the authorities declared me an emancipated teenager. With a story like mine, you would probably think there was no hope for finding happiness or for finding quality of life. However, I have learned to use my negative experiences as a testimony to reach out and help others.
First, I believe it is my duty to be able to actively listen to my client, obtain a good understanding of where they are and where they want to go. Together, we will move you and/or your team or organization in the desired direction to reach your goals. As a young man growing up in North Chicago, I quickly learned that life is full of rewards and upsets, if I allowed it to happen. At 3 months old, I was abandoned by my mother, left inside of a garbage can in an alley waiting to die. However, life had other plans for me. A passerby heard my faint cries and pulled me from the garbage can. Later, I was adopted but went on to experience years of physical and emotional abuse by my adopted mother. At the age of 12, I ran away from home and was placed in foster care. I was adopted again, but I experienced more mental and physical abuse. I dropped out of the 9th grade and began running away again. At the age of 16, the authorities declared me an emancipated teenager. With a story like mine, you would probably think there was no hope for finding happiness or for finding quality of life. However, I have learned to use my negative experiences as a testimony to reach out and help others.
(253) 780-6061 View (253) 780-6061
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Edmond Ryan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Graham, WA 98338  (Online Only)
Struggling with strong emotions? Overwhelmed with anxiety or negative thoughts? Do your thoughts and emotions keep you from achieving your goals and living an authentic life with those you love? Sometimes we avoid dealing with these difficult emotions and this keeps us from true connection with others and keeps us stuck in negative patterns of behavior.
Struggling with strong emotions? Overwhelmed with anxiety or negative thoughts? Do your thoughts and emotions keep you from achieving your goals and living an authentic life with those you love? Sometimes we avoid dealing with these difficult emotions and this keeps us from true connection with others and keeps us stuck in negative patterns of behavior.
(253) 523-2637 View (253) 523-2637
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Brett Joseph Singleton
Counselor, MDiv, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Graham, WA 98338  (Online Only)
Many people these days find themselves empty and alone. Is this you? Maybe you feel stuck in your relationship, or recently experienced a break-up. Perhaps you are overwhelmed with a difficult life transition, or you are suffering from past trauma. Our wounds can provide a doorway to becoming our best and most authentic selves. Our journey to mental health begins with a single, yet often difficult step. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing anxiety, depression, anger, negative self-image as well as other symptoms holding us back from being our best and living a fulfilling life.
Many people these days find themselves empty and alone. Is this you? Maybe you feel stuck in your relationship, or recently experienced a break-up. Perhaps you are overwhelmed with a difficult life transition, or you are suffering from past trauma. Our wounds can provide a doorway to becoming our best and most authentic selves. Our journey to mental health begins with a single, yet often difficult step. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing anxiety, depression, anger, negative self-image as well as other symptoms holding us back from being our best and living a fulfilling life.
(253) 400-2905 View (253) 400-2905
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Professional Psychology
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MA
Verified Verified
Graham, WA 98338
32+ Years Private Practice. Direct Line Call: (206) 809 0226 Licensed Therapist: Offering Online Psychotherapy in all 50 states (USA), Archetypal Psychology, Depth Psychology, Gestalt and Family Systems. Life coaching, Mentoring. Treating: Midlife Crisis, Grief Work, Anxiety, Depression, Incest/Molest, PTSD, Masculine Psychology, Addictions, Identity, Sexual problems, Child/Teen, Separation/Divorce, Hospice Work. Student of Comparative Religion including the Eastern Philosophies of India: Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Development, Advanced levels of realization. 32+ years in private practice. Video Conferencing all 50 States.
32+ Years Private Practice. Direct Line Call: (206) 809 0226 Licensed Therapist: Offering Online Psychotherapy in all 50 states (USA), Archetypal Psychology, Depth Psychology, Gestalt and Family Systems. Life coaching, Mentoring. Treating: Midlife Crisis, Grief Work, Anxiety, Depression, Incest/Molest, PTSD, Masculine Psychology, Addictions, Identity, Sexual problems, Child/Teen, Separation/Divorce, Hospice Work. Student of Comparative Religion including the Eastern Philosophies of India: Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Development, Advanced levels of realization. 32+ years in private practice. Video Conferencing all 50 States.
(360) 564-6573 View (360) 564-6573
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Paul Scarberry
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LMHC-A, SUDP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Graham, WA 98338  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself reaching for substances to help manage depression, anxiety, PTSD? Whether you have recently developed an unhealthy relationship with alcohol or have been coping with recovery issues for a while, I can help you explore new and effective coping tools. Together we can design the path to living your best life.
Do you find yourself reaching for substances to help manage depression, anxiety, PTSD? Whether you have recently developed an unhealthy relationship with alcohol or have been coping with recovery issues for a while, I can help you explore new and effective coping tools. Together we can design the path to living your best life.
(253) 262-0467 View (253) 262-0467

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Jim Robinson
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Puyallup, WA 98373  (Online Only)
Hi, I have worked with hurting people for a long time and my hope is to support you through this difficult, possibly overwhelming time in your life. Your struggle is unique and personal and I respect your need to feel understood. During our first visit, I will simply listen and seek to understand what is causing you sorrow, anxiety, hurt, or anger. Together we will work towards wholeness and my firm hope is that I can help you find that place in life again where you are at peace with yourself and your situation.
Hi, I have worked with hurting people for a long time and my hope is to support you through this difficult, possibly overwhelming time in your life. Your struggle is unique and personal and I respect your need to feel understood. During our first visit, I will simply listen and seek to understand what is causing you sorrow, anxiety, hurt, or anger. Together we will work towards wholeness and my firm hope is that I can help you find that place in life again where you are at peace with yourself and your situation.
(253) 243-3832 View (253) 243-3832
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Mauricio Perez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MHP, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98374  (Online Only)
I’ve counseled people in some form or fashion for most of my life. When I was younger, friends came to me with their problems and left our conversation feeling better. Seeing the change in them was moving and made me realize I wanted to do this professionally. However, my journey to becoming a therapist was an unusual one. I was a monk for more than a decade and worked abroad. During that time, I gained a deeper understanding of the human experience and struggle. It shaped me as a therapist and has since helped me identify people’s deeper issues as well as give concrete and practical advice.
I’ve counseled people in some form or fashion for most of my life. When I was younger, friends came to me with their problems and left our conversation feeling better. Seeing the change in them was moving and made me realize I wanted to do this professionally. However, my journey to becoming a therapist was an unusual one. I was a monk for more than a decade and worked abroad. During that time, I gained a deeper understanding of the human experience and struggle. It shaped me as a therapist and has since helped me identify people’s deeper issues as well as give concrete and practical advice.
(253) 387-1175 View (253) 387-1175
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Russell E Peters
Counselor, DMin, MDiv, LMHC
Verified Verified
Puyallup, WA 98373
You have served your community, patients, and faith groups, for many years. The excellent care that you provide you deserve. I have 25 years experience serving first responders, military, and faith group leaders. My focus is on individuals exposed to repetitive traumatic experiences in service focus occupations and faith group leadership. Providing tools to cope with various traumas, I am client centered, trained in EMDR and skilled in experiences that provoke trauma. My therapeutic approach is to journey with clients during dark times and support them as they discover the life they deserve.
You have served your community, patients, and faith groups, for many years. The excellent care that you provide you deserve. I have 25 years experience serving first responders, military, and faith group leaders. My focus is on individuals exposed to repetitive traumatic experiences in service focus occupations and faith group leadership. Providing tools to cope with various traumas, I am client centered, trained in EMDR and skilled in experiences that provoke trauma. My therapeutic approach is to journey with clients during dark times and support them as they discover the life they deserve.
(253) 393-9337 View (253) 393-9337
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S. Mike Monks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tacoma, WA 98445  (Online Only)
Visit website for initial appointment availability. Improving yourself can be a rewarding and lifelong positive enhancement. My role as a Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) is to help you in this journey. I believe that every person has room for improvement and seeking professional mental health counseling is a great step to take to improve yourself. I practice from a strengths perspective, helping you realize how to use what you do best to your maximum benefit. I also enjoy helping individuals who are not coping well in the context of their relationships with others and their families.
Visit website for initial appointment availability. Improving yourself can be a rewarding and lifelong positive enhancement. My role as a Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) is to help you in this journey. I believe that every person has room for improvement and seeking professional mental health counseling is a great step to take to improve yourself. I practice from a strengths perspective, helping you realize how to use what you do best to your maximum benefit. I also enjoy helping individuals who are not coping well in the context of their relationships with others and their families.
(206) 558-9429 View (206) 558-9429
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Mike Thomas
Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98373
I believe that every individual has the inherent strength, expertise, and wisdom to live a life that is in sync with their values. My mission is to provide a nurturing and secure environment for clients to face life's challenges and connect more deeply with their values and with what’s most important to them.
I believe that every individual has the inherent strength, expertise, and wisdom to live a life that is in sync with their values. My mission is to provide a nurturing and secure environment for clients to face life's challenges and connect more deeply with their values and with what’s most important to them.
(253) 446-7176 View (253) 446-7176
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Roger Hoeschen
Counselor, MS, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spanaway, WA 98387
Accepting New Patients In Person and Telehealth offering evening and weekend sessions to meet the needs of working professional. Roger is enthusiastic about implementing creative techniques to help clients achieve their goals, make meaning, improve their relationships, find empowerment, and engage in self-understanding and discovery. Roger’s theoretical approach to clients is person-centered and humanistic, paired with eclectic interventions including dialectical behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, relational-cultural therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, mindfulness, and existential techniques.
Accepting New Patients In Person and Telehealth offering evening and weekend sessions to meet the needs of working professional. Roger is enthusiastic about implementing creative techniques to help clients achieve their goals, make meaning, improve their relationships, find empowerment, and engage in self-understanding and discovery. Roger’s theoretical approach to clients is person-centered and humanistic, paired with eclectic interventions including dialectical behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, relational-cultural therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, mindfulness, and existential techniques.
(253) 265-4278 View (253) 265-4278
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Graham Murtaugh
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Tacoma, WA 98402
He has special clinical interest in the areas of healthy masculinity, life transitions, spirituality, creative expression, and pregnancy loss and IVF, particularly as it relates to male and male-identifying partners.
Graham holds a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Graham employs a variety of therapeutic modalities (including somatic, narrative, mindfulness, Internal Family Systems and psychodynamic approaches), but his primary focus is utilizing the relationship between therapist and client to foster change. Graham believes we all experience pain, sadness, fear, anger, trauma and uncertainty; these feelings and experiences are often pushed away and can result in distressing or unwanted behaviors.
He has special clinical interest in the areas of healthy masculinity, life transitions, spirituality, creative expression, and pregnancy loss and IVF, particularly as it relates to male and male-identifying partners.
Graham holds a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Graham employs a variety of therapeutic modalities (including somatic, narrative, mindfulness, Internal Family Systems and psychodynamic approaches), but his primary focus is utilizing the relationship between therapist and client to foster change. Graham believes we all experience pain, sadness, fear, anger, trauma and uncertainty; these feelings and experiences are often pushed away and can result in distressing or unwanted behaviors.
(253) 364-4307 View (253) 364-4307
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Troy Huffman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spanaway, WA 98387
I enjoy working with couples, families and individuals. As a therapist, I look to identify your strengths and utilize those to find solutions to the specific problems you are experiencing. Some of the ways we will accomplish this are by looking at the various ways that thoughts and emotions may be driving your behaviors. I also like to explore the context of your life and situations that may be contributing to the problem in ways you may not have recognized. We'll use the insights, information, and strengths to help you transition more into your solutions.
I enjoy working with couples, families and individuals. As a therapist, I look to identify your strengths and utilize those to find solutions to the specific problems you are experiencing. Some of the ways we will accomplish this are by looking at the various ways that thoughts and emotions may be driving your behaviors. I also like to explore the context of your life and situations that may be contributing to the problem in ways you may not have recognized. We'll use the insights, information, and strengths to help you transition more into your solutions.
(253) 766-5537 View (253) 766-5537
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Tim Skipworth
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MHP, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98374  (Online Only)
Anxiety, depression, trauma, and relational conflict can weigh on us and interfere with our day-to-day functioning. Those of us who come to therapy are often needing someone to process experiences with so these problems don't rob us of joy. You deserve to have a space to process your experiences without judgment or simply being told what you want to hear. You deserve authenticity and compassion. If you are feeling overwhelmed with personal mental health challenges or relationship issues, I want to help you find peace and happiness.
Anxiety, depression, trauma, and relational conflict can weigh on us and interfere with our day-to-day functioning. Those of us who come to therapy are often needing someone to process experiences with so these problems don't rob us of joy. You deserve to have a space to process your experiences without judgment or simply being told what you want to hear. You deserve authenticity and compassion. If you are feeling overwhelmed with personal mental health challenges or relationship issues, I want to help you find peace and happiness.
(253) 600-2496 View (253) 600-2496
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Lucas Pettengill
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Tacoma, WA 98446  (Online Only)
Life is complex, and every person’s journey is unique. As a therapist, I am here to help you navigate the intricacies of your relationships and personal experiences. I use a blend of proven therapeutic methods, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Narrative Therapy, and Bowen Family Therapy, to meet you where you are—not where you think you should be. I understand that the path to self-awareness and growth starts with acknowledging your current reality. We’ll work together to uncover the patterns and dynamics that shape your life, allowing you to create a clear and meaningful path f
Life is complex, and every person’s journey is unique. As a therapist, I am here to help you navigate the intricacies of your relationships and personal experiences. I use a blend of proven therapeutic methods, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Narrative Therapy, and Bowen Family Therapy, to meet you where you are—not where you think you should be. I understand that the path to self-awareness and growth starts with acknowledging your current reality. We’ll work together to uncover the patterns and dynamics that shape your life, allowing you to create a clear and meaningful path f
(425) 332-1068 View (425) 332-1068
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Eric John Lundstrom
Counselor, LICSW
Verified Verified
Puyallup, WA 98373
If you find yourself over-burdened by worry, anxiety, depression, or grief, blindsided by unexpected intense reactions to painful memories, or just plain stuck, it might be a good time to talk to a counselor. I have a passion for helping people overcome depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, and grief, and manage various forms of chronic mental health conditions. I use evidence and time tested approaches to help people clarify what they want and realize and develop their own capabilities.
If you find yourself over-burdened by worry, anxiety, depression, or grief, blindsided by unexpected intense reactions to painful memories, or just plain stuck, it might be a good time to talk to a counselor. I have a passion for helping people overcome depression, anxiety, post traumatic stress, and grief, and manage various forms of chronic mental health conditions. I use evidence and time tested approaches to help people clarify what they want and realize and develop their own capabilities.
(253) 766-5057 View (253) 766-5057
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Nick Etherington
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
Puyallup, WA 98373
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you”-Maya Angelou. It can be difficult taking the first step to seek out help when life seems unmanageable. However, it is often more difficult to work through the issues causing this disruption alone. Whether this is due to limited support in your life, or feeling that you have to take care of it yourself, you do not have to work through it alone.
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you”-Maya Angelou. It can be difficult taking the first step to seek out help when life seems unmanageable. However, it is often more difficult to work through the issues causing this disruption alone. Whether this is due to limited support in your life, or feeling that you have to take care of it yourself, you do not have to work through it alone.
(253) 446-7176 View (253) 446-7176
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Brandon Zahl
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
South Hill, WA 98374  (Online Only)
Your trauma deserves expert care. I combine EMDR and somatic therapy in unique ways to help you heal quickly and fully. My approach uses the innate abilities of the mind plus the body to build coping skills and to heal deep, hidden trauma. Right now, is feeling good about yourself and about your relationships a struggle? Are you spending most days being driven by fear or heavy with despair even though you try to stay positive? Maybe you're trapped in patterns you’re trying to break but they always seem to win. Its probably feeling like an exhausting battle with yourself and you don’t know if things will ever really get better.
Your trauma deserves expert care. I combine EMDR and somatic therapy in unique ways to help you heal quickly and fully. My approach uses the innate abilities of the mind plus the body to build coping skills and to heal deep, hidden trauma. Right now, is feeling good about yourself and about your relationships a struggle? Are you spending most days being driven by fear or heavy with despair even though you try to stay positive? Maybe you're trapped in patterns you’re trying to break but they always seem to win. Its probably feeling like an exhausting battle with yourself and you don’t know if things will ever really get better.
(425) 307-4501 View (425) 307-4501
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Deane Benninghoven
CH, CI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98375
Hypnosis is not what you think it is. People get the idea from pop culture that hypnosis is something I will put on you or do to you. This isn't true. You’ve already been in a hypnotic state thousands of times throughout your life. Hypnotherapy is simply using this perfectly natural state to create positive change. This typically requires 3 to 5 sessions. As a certified hypnotherapist, I use hypnosis to help clients overcome limiting and negative behaviors, feelings, & chronic pain. The issues you struggle with originate below the conscious level. If they didn’t, you would easily be able to overcome them using your conscious mind.
Hypnosis is not what you think it is. People get the idea from pop culture that hypnosis is something I will put on you or do to you. This isn't true. You’ve already been in a hypnotic state thousands of times throughout your life. Hypnotherapy is simply using this perfectly natural state to create positive change. This typically requires 3 to 5 sessions. As a certified hypnotherapist, I use hypnosis to help clients overcome limiting and negative behaviors, feelings, & chronic pain. The issues you struggle with originate below the conscious level. If they didn’t, you would easily be able to overcome them using your conscious mind.
(253) 650-1518 View (253) 650-1518
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Joshua Chambers
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Puyallup, WA 98374
I’m dedicated to helping others thrive by addressing emotional challenges and life struggles. I understand the difficulties of living in a society where emotional expression is often suppressed, and I'm here to offer support and understanding. If you are goal oriented and determined to heal from the things that are holding you back, then I am the therapist for you. I work best with those wanting to heal from trauma, emotional expression, and grief. At this time I am only taking adolescents who are athletes. As a former college athlete, coach, and now performance consultant I can help athletes reach their performance goals.
I’m dedicated to helping others thrive by addressing emotional challenges and life struggles. I understand the difficulties of living in a society where emotional expression is often suppressed, and I'm here to offer support and understanding. If you are goal oriented and determined to heal from the things that are holding you back, then I am the therapist for you. I work best with those wanting to heal from trauma, emotional expression, and grief. At this time I am only taking adolescents who are athletes. As a former college athlete, coach, and now performance consultant I can help athletes reach their performance goals.
(253) 527-5982 View (253) 527-5982

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Male Therapists

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.