Therapists in Gig Harbor, WA
Navigating unexpected situations or traumas, dealing with anxiety/depression can overwhelm our sense of being present in the moment and we may feel trapped inside our feelings. Sometimes difficulties have been present since childhood, left unattended or pushed down repeatedly over the years. Some clients come to counseling seeking ways to deal with a specific trauma, domestic violence, grief, loss, anger, or other distressing emotions, leaving someone feeling isolated, stuck, and without resources. Taking the next step, asking for help inside of counseling, brings you closer to the destination of recovery.
Navigating unexpected situations or traumas, dealing with anxiety/depression can overwhelm our sense of being present in the moment and we may feel trapped inside our feelings. Sometimes difficulties have been present since childhood, left unattended or pushed down repeatedly over the years. Some clients come to counseling seeking ways to deal with a specific trauma, domestic violence, grief, loss, anger, or other distressing emotions, leaving someone feeling isolated, stuck, and without resources. Taking the next step, asking for help inside of counseling, brings you closer to the destination of recovery.
Oftentimes we seek out therapy because components in our lives are causing us significant distress and disrupt our ability to function effectively and feel happiness. I ask clients who come into therapy to bring with them an open attitude, a willingness to explore their life perspectives and their relationships with others, that they may experience true change and healing. This journey towards emotional maturity often involves a certain amount of discomfort and pain before the healing and change can occur. I provide a warm, trusting, safe space to assist people so that they may continue that journey.
Oftentimes we seek out therapy because components in our lives are causing us significant distress and disrupt our ability to function effectively and feel happiness. I ask clients who come into therapy to bring with them an open attitude, a willingness to explore their life perspectives and their relationships with others, that they may experience true change and healing. This journey towards emotional maturity often involves a certain amount of discomfort and pain before the healing and change can occur. I provide a warm, trusting, safe space to assist people so that they may continue that journey.
Entrepreneur, relationship and life transition specialist, naturalist, builder, father, husband and community builder all describe me. I am great at helping people with life transitions, work life balance, addiction, trauma, relationships and divorce. I am an entrepreneur, craftsman, part time stay at home dad and outdoorsman. People feel comfortable working with me because I believe in the good in them and because my experience working outside of therapy helps me to understand a wide range of individuals and families.
Entrepreneur, relationship and life transition specialist, naturalist, builder, father, husband and community builder all describe me. I am great at helping people with life transitions, work life balance, addiction, trauma, relationships and divorce. I am an entrepreneur, craftsman, part time stay at home dad and outdoorsman. People feel comfortable working with me because I believe in the good in them and because my experience working outside of therapy helps me to understand a wide range of individuals and families.
I have been a practicing counselor/mediator for 26 year. I specialize in the issues of child custody and divorce. I work with families taking a difficult life situation and handling it in a constructive compassionate manner. My focus is to help families build a future that will help them learn and grow from the experience, while protecting their children from conflict. I value helping people build a healthy well functioning future for themselves and their children.
I work with both adults and children and have evening and Sunday hours available.
I have been a practicing counselor/mediator for 26 year. I specialize in the issues of child custody and divorce. I work with families taking a difficult life situation and handling it in a constructive compassionate manner. My focus is to help families build a future that will help them learn and grow from the experience, while protecting their children from conflict. I value helping people build a healthy well functioning future for themselves and their children.
I work with both adults and children and have evening and Sunday hours available.
I admire anyone who is willing to take steps toward healing and personal growth, and I look forward to supporting others in their mental health journey. I enjoy using personal strengths, art, humor, and other activities to promote insight and progress toward individual goals. I use a combination of evidence-based and person-centered approaches to tailor interventions to each client. While I specialize in individual therapy adolescents and young adults, I also frequently work with those further into adulthood as well. I provide family sessions when needed, but do not provide family therapy as a primary modality.
I admire anyone who is willing to take steps toward healing and personal growth, and I look forward to supporting others in their mental health journey. I enjoy using personal strengths, art, humor, and other activities to promote insight and progress toward individual goals. I use a combination of evidence-based and person-centered approaches to tailor interventions to each client. While I specialize in individual therapy adolescents and young adults, I also frequently work with those further into adulthood as well. I provide family sessions when needed, but do not provide family therapy as a primary modality.
There comes a time when we all need a little help to cope with some of life's challenges. Life can often feel overwhelming and even exhausting, especially in today's environment. If this is one of those times that you are struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues, or a death or loss that you are grieving, I am here. My goal in therapy is to create a safe space for you to explore difficult emotions, while leading you towards a place of healing and self-discovery.
There comes a time when we all need a little help to cope with some of life's challenges. Life can often feel overwhelming and even exhausting, especially in today's environment. If this is one of those times that you are struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues, or a death or loss that you are grieving, I am here. My goal in therapy is to create a safe space for you to explore difficult emotions, while leading you towards a place of healing and self-discovery.
Hillary Flieder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate in Washington who has been practicing since 2023. She has a Master of Arts in Counseling. Hillary provides clients empathy while utilizing cognitive behavior therapy interventions, psychoeducation, grounding, and mindfulness skills. She works with individuals 18 and older. Many of her clients come in when they are struggling with self-esteem, depression, and anxiety. Hillary is particularly passionate about serving adults who struggle with PTSD and grief and loss.
Hillary Flieder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate in Washington who has been practicing since 2023. She has a Master of Arts in Counseling. Hillary provides clients empathy while utilizing cognitive behavior therapy interventions, psychoeducation, grounding, and mindfulness skills. She works with individuals 18 and older. Many of her clients come in when they are struggling with self-esteem, depression, and anxiety. Hillary is particularly passionate about serving adults who struggle with PTSD and grief and loss.
I believe that all of us have the ability to be great, but there are challenges that get in the way. My passion is to help you realize who you are and what you can accomplish despite those challenges. I want to motivate and help you to do the work you need to be a better person, spouse, partner, parent, or friend. I know that we all have things going on, my goal is to be there for you through it, good or bad. Building you up or being there through a tough time that's what therapy is for.
I believe that all of us have the ability to be great, but there are challenges that get in the way. My passion is to help you realize who you are and what you can accomplish despite those challenges. I want to motivate and help you to do the work you need to be a better person, spouse, partner, parent, or friend. I know that we all have things going on, my goal is to be there for you through it, good or bad. Building you up or being there through a tough time that's what therapy is for.
At the core of my treatment philosophy is the belief that families heal when movement occurs and people begin to step out of their comfort zones to unlock their potential and capacity for growth. Often there is underlying pain and/or trauma that needs to be addressed in order for the system to recover and break the cycle. Whether the results of the family dysfunction is abuse, addiction, estrangement, divorce, suicide, broken communication paths, or some other behavior, treatment can provide relief.
At the core of my treatment philosophy is the belief that families heal when movement occurs and people begin to step out of their comfort zones to unlock their potential and capacity for growth. Often there is underlying pain and/or trauma that needs to be addressed in order for the system to recover and break the cycle. Whether the results of the family dysfunction is abuse, addiction, estrangement, divorce, suicide, broken communication paths, or some other behavior, treatment can provide relief.
It is my hope that clients gain from counseling specific tools they can apply to their lives to feel better equipped in dealing effectively with their life circumstances. I tailor my counseling to the needs of the client, using various therapeutic techniques to provide clients skills such as communication, emotion management, mindfulness techniques, coping, parenting, etc. I incorporate an educational component, presenting information to enhance knowledge regarding various issues that clients face. I often include homework to make use of the time between sessions. When desired, I approach issues from a Biblical perspective.
It is my hope that clients gain from counseling specific tools they can apply to their lives to feel better equipped in dealing effectively with their life circumstances. I tailor my counseling to the needs of the client, using various therapeutic techniques to provide clients skills such as communication, emotion management, mindfulness techniques, coping, parenting, etc. I incorporate an educational component, presenting information to enhance knowledge regarding various issues that clients face. I often include homework to make use of the time between sessions. When desired, I approach issues from a Biblical perspective.
My approach to counseling is to focus on strengths and help to assist with solutions rather than telling my patients what to do. My focus is to address short-term problems as well as long-term psychological well-being. The more you can tell me about what and how you are feeling, the more effectively I will be able to assist you in resolving your personal problems and issues. I believe all individuals are deserving of acceptance, respect, compassion, and understanding, and all children are capable of success in academics, extracurricular activities, and social interactions.
My approach to counseling is to focus on strengths and help to assist with solutions rather than telling my patients what to do. My focus is to address short-term problems as well as long-term psychological well-being. The more you can tell me about what and how you are feeling, the more effectively I will be able to assist you in resolving your personal problems and issues. I believe all individuals are deserving of acceptance, respect, compassion, and understanding, and all children are capable of success in academics, extracurricular activities, and social interactions.
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Sheri A Lane
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Gig Harbor, WA 98335
Not accepting new clients
Are you struggling to communicate effectively with your spouse, partner, children or co-workers? Are you confused by the current circumstances you find yourself in? Life isn't easy, but finding someone to talk to about life's challenges should be. As a licensed Marriage and Family therapist, I am passionate about relationships and I am committed to helping individuals, couples and families reach their greatest potential. Using a collaborative approach, I offer my clients a safe environment to learn practical skills to help improve communication and decrease negativity in their relationships.
Are you struggling to communicate effectively with your spouse, partner, children or co-workers? Are you confused by the current circumstances you find yourself in? Life isn't easy, but finding someone to talk to about life's challenges should be. As a licensed Marriage and Family therapist, I am passionate about relationships and I am committed to helping individuals, couples and families reach their greatest potential. Using a collaborative approach, I offer my clients a safe environment to learn practical skills to help improve communication and decrease negativity in their relationships.
Everyone faces unique challenges shaped by their history, identities, and the systems around them—social, political, and familial. Tragedy and trauma are part of the human experience. Often, strong emotions like anger, depression, or anxiety drive us to seek help. By exploring these feelings, we may uncover recurring patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others that cause suffering and keep us stuck. Psychotherapy can help identify and address these patterns, offering a path to growth and healing. Just as adversity is part of being human, so is the potential for recovery and change.
Everyone faces unique challenges shaped by their history, identities, and the systems around them—social, political, and familial. Tragedy and trauma are part of the human experience. Often, strong emotions like anger, depression, or anxiety drive us to seek help. By exploring these feelings, we may uncover recurring patterns in how we relate to ourselves and others that cause suffering and keep us stuck. Psychotherapy can help identify and address these patterns, offering a path to growth and healing. Just as adversity is part of being human, so is the potential for recovery and change.
Your time in session will be an ongoing conversation supporting skill building empowering you to fully live your unique purpose in life. The goal of Therapy is for you to discover new things about yourself, and take action to reshape your life around that learning.
Therapy, is a process where you will address and manage emotional, psychological, and behavioral issues. It provides a safe space for you to explore thoughts and feelings, gain insights, and develop coping strategies.
Your time in session will be an ongoing conversation supporting skill building empowering you to fully live your unique purpose in life. The goal of Therapy is for you to discover new things about yourself, and take action to reshape your life around that learning.
Therapy, is a process where you will address and manage emotional, psychological, and behavioral issues. It provides a safe space for you to explore thoughts and feelings, gain insights, and develop coping strategies.
Virtual Walk-In Times: CLOSED today, Next: 11/2. Are you stressed and having difficulty getting along with your family or spouse? Can't get your partner into counseling but you need relationship help? Do you suspect you might have a mood disorder like bipolar? Are you haunted by trauma you can't shake? Are you struggling with abandonment fears and even self-inflicted violence? Are you living with adult autism or ADHD or other neurodiversity, or trying to manage a neurodiverse relationship? To get started, I offer free 15-minute consultations by phone or video. Email for consults or visit my website to schedule!
Virtual Walk-In Times: CLOSED today, Next: 11/2. Are you stressed and having difficulty getting along with your family or spouse? Can't get your partner into counseling but you need relationship help? Do you suspect you might have a mood disorder like bipolar? Are you haunted by trauma you can't shake? Are you struggling with abandonment fears and even self-inflicted violence? Are you living with adult autism or ADHD or other neurodiversity, or trying to manage a neurodiverse relationship? To get started, I offer free 15-minute consultations by phone or video. Email for consults or visit my website to schedule!
You can take a breath, your help is here. I work with those struggling with depression & anxiety. While my niche is women of color processing micro aggressions, discrimination, and struggles navigating being a person of color living in a predominantly homogenous community, I welcome clients of all walks of life. The weight you feel is too heavy to lift alone. Having a therapist who looks like you, and understands your cultural lens, is paramount to partnering with you to achieve wellness. If you are struggling with attachment issues, if your FYP is hitting a little too close to home, let’s unpack what’s at the root of it all.
You can take a breath, your help is here. I work with those struggling with depression & anxiety. While my niche is women of color processing micro aggressions, discrimination, and struggles navigating being a person of color living in a predominantly homogenous community, I welcome clients of all walks of life. The weight you feel is too heavy to lift alone. Having a therapist who looks like you, and understands your cultural lens, is paramount to partnering with you to achieve wellness. If you are struggling with attachment issues, if your FYP is hitting a little too close to home, let’s unpack what’s at the root of it all.
My therapeutic approaches/techniques are tailored specifically to you, providing you with a higher level of comfort and facilitating change.rnCHILDREN: Use of play therapy techniques to provide a positive experience and means to openly express themselves.rnrnTEENS: An open, accepting, and safe environment for self expression so that together we may address their individual challenges in a positive manner.rnCOUPLES: A neutral and structured atmosphere where each individual may feel comfortable to express and address their concerns. Together we work to introduce new elements into the relationship to resolve conflict and strengthen the relationship bond.
My therapeutic approaches/techniques are tailored specifically to you, providing you with a higher level of comfort and facilitating change.rnCHILDREN: Use of play therapy techniques to provide a positive experience and means to openly express themselves.rnrnTEENS: An open, accepting, and safe environment for self expression so that together we may address their individual challenges in a positive manner.rnCOUPLES: A neutral and structured atmosphere where each individual may feel comfortable to express and address their concerns. Together we work to introduce new elements into the relationship to resolve conflict and strengthen the relationship bond.
Debbie J Parnell
Pre-Licensed Professional, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Gig Harbor, WA 98335
Waitlist for new clients
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate level clinician working from a systemic lens to foster growth, healing, and lasting change. Areas of focus are couples, teens 13+, individuals, and families. I pull from many theoretical frameworks based on client needs with an emphasis on Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Gottman interventions.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate level clinician working from a systemic lens to foster growth, healing, and lasting change. Areas of focus are couples, teens 13+, individuals, and families. I pull from many theoretical frameworks based on client needs with an emphasis on Solution Focused Brief Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Gottman interventions.
Spencer Erwin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gig Harbor, WA 98335
I am currently offering both Telehealth and in-person sessions. I work specifically with clients who have a desire to learn more about themselves, and to increase their experience of vulnerability. While employing a holistic mind, body and spirit perspective, my approach validates each client as having the answers and abilities within themselves to become the best person they can be.
I am currently offering both Telehealth and in-person sessions. I work specifically with clients who have a desire to learn more about themselves, and to increase their experience of vulnerability. While employing a holistic mind, body and spirit perspective, my approach validates each client as having the answers and abilities within themselves to become the best person they can be.
Sex addiction is real. As someone familiar with addictions, I understand the desperation and desire to be free of your compulsion. I can show you a proven method to recover from sexual addiction and return to the life you were intended to live with integrity and serenity. Have you lost enough? Have you and your family suffered enough? Trying harder has led you to where you are now. Isn't it time to try something better. If you are ready to follow a simple program to recovery, let me show you. I am here to help.
Sex addiction is real. As someone familiar with addictions, I understand the desperation and desire to be free of your compulsion. I can show you a proven method to recover from sexual addiction and return to the life you were intended to live with integrity and serenity. Have you lost enough? Have you and your family suffered enough? Trying harder has led you to where you are now. Isn't it time to try something better. If you are ready to follow a simple program to recovery, let me show you. I am here to help.
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How does your Therapist compare?
Number of Therapists in Gig Harbor, WA
200+
Average cost per session
$160
Therapists in Gig Harbor, WA who prioritize treating:
93% | Anxiety |
86% | Depression |
77% | Relationship Issues |
74% | Self Esteem |
74% | Stress |
69% | Trauma and PTSD |
69% | Life Transitions |
Average years in practice
11 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
81% | Premera Blue Cross |
62% | Regence |
60% | Aetna |
How Therapists in Gig Harbor, WA see their clients
71% | In Person and Online | |
29% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
82% | Female | |
17% | Male | |
1% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Gig Harbor?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.