Therapists in Des Moines, WA
I understand the power of hope, deepened by over 30 years' experience supporting individuals through adversity, life changes, and periods of emotional difficulty. If you're living with anxiety, trauma, depression, or a sense that something isn’t quite working, I offer therapy attuned to your emotional needs and grounded in real-life healing. I’m a good fit for adults 21+ who are seeking a collaborative, empathetic, and warm environment where it is okay to shed some tears and even enjoy the benefits of some stress-relieving laughter, as you face challenges, including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma history, and life decisions.
I understand the power of hope, deepened by over 30 years' experience supporting individuals through adversity, life changes, and periods of emotional difficulty. If you're living with anxiety, trauma, depression, or a sense that something isn’t quite working, I offer therapy attuned to your emotional needs and grounded in real-life healing. I’m a good fit for adults 21+ who are seeking a collaborative, empathetic, and warm environment where it is okay to shed some tears and even enjoy the benefits of some stress-relieving laughter, as you face challenges, including anxiety, stress, depression, trauma history, and life decisions.
It's too much to deal with at times; what life throws at you. Anxiety, anger and relationship stress have become normal in your daily life. Therapy isnt something you have tried or you feel hasn't worked for you in the past. It's hard to tell your story...again. I support couples navigating high-conflict dynamics, relationship ruptures, and the desire to reconnect; individuals who are moving through life transitions or exploring their sense of identity and direction with a focus on emotional regulation of anger and anxiety, the unique challenges of the military population, and 50+ lifestyles.
It's too much to deal with at times; what life throws at you. Anxiety, anger and relationship stress have become normal in your daily life. Therapy isnt something you have tried or you feel hasn't worked for you in the past. It's hard to tell your story...again. I support couples navigating high-conflict dynamics, relationship ruptures, and the desire to reconnect; individuals who are moving through life transitions or exploring their sense of identity and direction with a focus on emotional regulation of anger and anxiety, the unique challenges of the military population, and 50+ lifestyles.
I am here to help people get out of their emotional ruts and into healing. Kids, teens, and adults struggling with school, jobs, and/or relationships are my specialty. My job is to help alleviate some of your suffering and present tools that you can use to find more satisfaction in life. This therapy is designed to get where you want to be fast.
I am here to help people get out of their emotional ruts and into healing. Kids, teens, and adults struggling with school, jobs, and/or relationships are my specialty. My job is to help alleviate some of your suffering and present tools that you can use to find more satisfaction in life. This therapy is designed to get where you want to be fast.
I collaborate with clients on cultivating safe relationships with their minds and bodies. Whether you're adjusting to life with a new chronic illness, are feeling ready (even cautiously) to address lifelong disordered eating and body image, or just want a break from anxiety, social pressures, and your harsh inner critic, I'm here to walk that path with you. Together, we'll create a courageous space for you to explore and reconnect with yourself.
I collaborate with clients on cultivating safe relationships with their minds and bodies. Whether you're adjusting to life with a new chronic illness, are feeling ready (even cautiously) to address lifelong disordered eating and body image, or just want a break from anxiety, social pressures, and your harsh inner critic, I'm here to walk that path with you. Together, we'll create a courageous space for you to explore and reconnect with yourself.
Life transitions can be some of the most challenging times in our lives. These inflection points often bring emotional and mental overwhelm, and can leave people feeling stuck or uncertain. Getting support from a trained professional can help during these turning points to see more clearly and to successfully navigate through. I believe that meaningful growth is possible even in the most challenging of situations. These pivotal moments can be change catalysts where we can learn new things about ourselves and grow in new ways we could not have believed possible. I see my role as being a person who believes in your potential with you.
Life transitions can be some of the most challenging times in our lives. These inflection points often bring emotional and mental overwhelm, and can leave people feeling stuck or uncertain. Getting support from a trained professional can help during these turning points to see more clearly and to successfully navigate through. I believe that meaningful growth is possible even in the most challenging of situations. These pivotal moments can be change catalysts where we can learn new things about ourselves and grow in new ways we could not have believed possible. I see my role as being a person who believes in your potential with you.
You want to feel better in your life and relationships. You’re tired of feeling stressed and overwhelmed, and you’re ready for personal clarity and deeper connection with the people you care about. Revisiting the same situations has kept you tied to the past, yet you know you’re ready to move forward. If this resonates, you’re not alone, and noticing what you need is already a meaningful step. When we work together, we’ll look at the patterns in your life that are no longer working for you and together, we'll help you build healthier ways of relating and coping so you can move forward and build the life you want.
You want to feel better in your life and relationships. You’re tired of feeling stressed and overwhelmed, and you’re ready for personal clarity and deeper connection with the people you care about. Revisiting the same situations has kept you tied to the past, yet you know you’re ready to move forward. If this resonates, you’re not alone, and noticing what you need is already a meaningful step. When we work together, we’ll look at the patterns in your life that are no longer working for you and together, we'll help you build healthier ways of relating and coping so you can move forward and build the life you want.
Do you feel stuck? Have you noticed that past traumatic experiences are impacting the way you show up in the world and navigate relationships? Maybe you have noticed an increase in anxiety or depression and are starting to feel disconnected from your emotions and feelings and are noticing how these are all impacting your day to day life. Taking the first steps to attend to your whole self and explore your mental health needs and goals can be daunting. With support, empathy, and understanding it is easier to navigate challenging periods in our lives together instead of doing it alone.
Do you feel stuck? Have you noticed that past traumatic experiences are impacting the way you show up in the world and navigate relationships? Maybe you have noticed an increase in anxiety or depression and are starting to feel disconnected from your emotions and feelings and are noticing how these are all impacting your day to day life. Taking the first steps to attend to your whole self and explore your mental health needs and goals can be daunting. With support, empathy, and understanding it is easier to navigate challenging periods in our lives together instead of doing it alone.
You wake up one day realizing something isn't working. You might be experiencing anxiety, persistent disconnection, ongoing low-grade depression or grief. You might be struggling with relationship issues. Or perhaps deep in your bones you're longing to feel more alive. I'm here to support you navigate difficult emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and conflicted relationships. I believe your emotions and internal experiences are messengers, seeking your attention and pointing the way towards growth, healing, and connection. My style is warm and direct, working with you towards clarity, depth, and expansion of the self.
You wake up one day realizing something isn't working. You might be experiencing anxiety, persistent disconnection, ongoing low-grade depression or grief. You might be struggling with relationship issues. Or perhaps deep in your bones you're longing to feel more alive. I'm here to support you navigate difficult emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and conflicted relationships. I believe your emotions and internal experiences are messengers, seeking your attention and pointing the way towards growth, healing, and connection. My style is warm and direct, working with you towards clarity, depth, and expansion of the self.
Many of my clients need help with anxiety, pain, bad habits, relationships, sexuality, fears, and phobias. Issues my clients have and specific treatment areas (see my web site) range from tooth grinding, reducing chronic pain, improving performance in sports, stopping smoking, weight loss, anxiety about medical or dental procedures, sex issues, sleep problems, spiritual conflicts, setting goals and addressing mental "blocks," resolving past issues in life, to improving relationships. I help people learn to relax and how to have personal "tools" to "dial down" stress, pain, and anxiety to become healthy, happy, and centered.
Many of my clients need help with anxiety, pain, bad habits, relationships, sexuality, fears, and phobias. Issues my clients have and specific treatment areas (see my web site) range from tooth grinding, reducing chronic pain, improving performance in sports, stopping smoking, weight loss, anxiety about medical or dental procedures, sex issues, sleep problems, spiritual conflicts, setting goals and addressing mental "blocks," resolving past issues in life, to improving relationships. I help people learn to relax and how to have personal "tools" to "dial down" stress, pain, and anxiety to become healthy, happy, and centered.
It is scary when our sense of self is challenged. It can feel like the entire scaffolding holding our lives together is crumbling, toppling us from our safe perches and into the weeds. It doesn’t have to be that way. There are paths forward through the darkest brambles and it is up to us to find them, following them to a better place. We don’t have to traverse these tracks alone; building a support system and locating a good trail guide go a long way toward helping us find our way out sooner rather than later. Which is where I come in. I am ready and waiting to accompany you out of the tangled brush and back to a place of refuge.
It is scary when our sense of self is challenged. It can feel like the entire scaffolding holding our lives together is crumbling, toppling us from our safe perches and into the weeds. It doesn’t have to be that way. There are paths forward through the darkest brambles and it is up to us to find them, following them to a better place. We don’t have to traverse these tracks alone; building a support system and locating a good trail guide go a long way toward helping us find our way out sooner rather than later. Which is where I come in. I am ready and waiting to accompany you out of the tangled brush and back to a place of refuge.
You deserve mental health support that honors all of who you are. I provide culturally responsive, collaborative therapy to help you navigate relationship concerns, personal stressors, and social challenges. Therapy can be a space where your experiences are understood within their full context and where your goals remain at the center of our work.
As a person of color, I understand the impact of systemic oppression and the importance of honoring cultural identity in the therapy space. Every part of who you are matters, and your background is welcomed and respected in session.
You deserve mental health support that honors all of who you are. I provide culturally responsive, collaborative therapy to help you navigate relationship concerns, personal stressors, and social challenges. Therapy can be a space where your experiences are understood within their full context and where your goals remain at the center of our work.
As a person of color, I understand the impact of systemic oppression and the importance of honoring cultural identity in the therapy space. Every part of who you are matters, and your background is welcomed and respected in session.
Paige Kelso-Znak, LICSW at Dahlia Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
7 Endorsed
Des Moines, WA 98198
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Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, lonely or not good enough? Whether you are struggling with trauma, anxiety, parenting stress, relationship issues or body image, you can feel better. The more we realize our power and our right to set boundaries, value ourselves and choose the path of our life, the more happiness we cultivate.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, lonely or not good enough? Whether you are struggling with trauma, anxiety, parenting stress, relationship issues or body image, you can feel better. The more we realize our power and our right to set boundaries, value ourselves and choose the path of our life, the more happiness we cultivate.
I have over 35 years of service in individual, couples and group counseling. I am a compassionate friend, open to healing your heart and opening your mind by deepening spirit and celebrating the Real You. I have worked in community mental health centers, schools and private practice facilitating domestic violence offender programs, recovery programs, anger management programs, protective non-risk parenting groups, providing spiritual, emotional, cognitive and behavioral counseling to individuals. I love working with individuals around issues of trauma, relationships, and emotional regulation.
I have over 35 years of service in individual, couples and group counseling. I am a compassionate friend, open to healing your heart and opening your mind by deepening spirit and celebrating the Real You. I have worked in community mental health centers, schools and private practice facilitating domestic violence offender programs, recovery programs, anger management programs, protective non-risk parenting groups, providing spiritual, emotional, cognitive and behavioral counseling to individuals. I love working with individuals around issues of trauma, relationships, and emotional regulation.
Exploring your own life and story can be overwhelming, and I am grateful you are here. I work primarily with adults struggling with complex trauma, breaking generational cycles, and relationship issues such as divorce, domestic violence, family of origin issues, and estrangement. These issues may be causing you to feel overwhelmed with depression, anxiety, and shame with little understanding of how you got here. Our work together will be in a compassionate, anti-oppression centered space in the hopes to lead to more self connection and self compassion.
Exploring your own life and story can be overwhelming, and I am grateful you are here. I work primarily with adults struggling with complex trauma, breaking generational cycles, and relationship issues such as divorce, domestic violence, family of origin issues, and estrangement. These issues may be causing you to feel overwhelmed with depression, anxiety, and shame with little understanding of how you got here. Our work together will be in a compassionate, anti-oppression centered space in the hopes to lead to more self connection and self compassion.
You may be navigating a major life transition, feeling disconnected in your relationship, or finding yourself caught in cycles of anxious thoughts. Even in the midst of feeling overwhelmed, you may sense a desire for deeper insight—wanting to relate to yourself and your closest loved ones in new, more meaningful ways. You’re seeking a compassionate, collaborative space to explore what’s happening and to grow. I support clients through these challenging and often emotional experiences by offering a safe, nonjudgmental environment where your concerns are truly heard
You may be navigating a major life transition, feeling disconnected in your relationship, or finding yourself caught in cycles of anxious thoughts. Even in the midst of feeling overwhelmed, you may sense a desire for deeper insight—wanting to relate to yourself and your closest loved ones in new, more meaningful ways. You’re seeking a compassionate, collaborative space to explore what’s happening and to grow. I support clients through these challenging and often emotional experiences by offering a safe, nonjudgmental environment where your concerns are truly heard
Hi, I’m glad you’re here. Reaching out for support takes real courage, and I understand how hard that step can be. Navigating stress, relationship challenges, communication issues, trauma, anxiety, identity concerns, and major life transitions has left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of your next steps. You are looking for a nonjudgmental space where you don’t have to perform, stay strong, or hold everything in. I am honored to work with all clients and particularly enjoy working with men who often feel like they are expected to “handle it on their own."
Hi, I’m glad you’re here. Reaching out for support takes real courage, and I understand how hard that step can be. Navigating stress, relationship challenges, communication issues, trauma, anxiety, identity concerns, and major life transitions has left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of your next steps. You are looking for a nonjudgmental space where you don’t have to perform, stay strong, or hold everything in. I am honored to work with all clients and particularly enjoy working with men who often feel like they are expected to “handle it on their own."
You may feel anxious or worn down from trying to manage everything on your own. From the outside, it may look like you are doing fine, yet internally you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward. You may be longing for greater steadiness, clarity, and support. My goal is to offer a calm, supportive space where you can talk things through and begin taking small, meaningful steps that make daily life feel more manageable.
You may feel anxious or worn down from trying to manage everything on your own. From the outside, it may look like you are doing fine, yet internally you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward. You may be longing for greater steadiness, clarity, and support. My goal is to offer a calm, supportive space where you can talk things through and begin taking small, meaningful steps that make daily life feel more manageable.
Looking for more than traditional talk therapy? I offer Art Therapy to children, adults, and families seeking an alternative way to express feelings that could be difficult to formulate using words. Art Therapy can be beneficial to individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, and trauma as it fosters self-awareness, emotional release, and personal growth. In July 2026 I am offering an in-person pre-teen Art Therapy group in North Seattle. Please visit my website for more information and to register.
Looking for more than traditional talk therapy? I offer Art Therapy to children, adults, and families seeking an alternative way to express feelings that could be difficult to formulate using words. Art Therapy can be beneficial to individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, and trauma as it fosters self-awareness, emotional release, and personal growth. In July 2026 I am offering an in-person pre-teen Art Therapy group in North Seattle. Please visit my website for more information and to register.
Life ebbs and flows, sometimes challenging your inner thoughts, emotions, and feelings. You may experience discomfort or pitfalls so challenging that it may make you feel dysregulated or disconnected from yourself and those around you. You’re aware that something isn't feeling right; it tugs at you as a reminder that you must be attended to.
Life ebbs and flows, sometimes challenging your inner thoughts, emotions, and feelings. You may experience discomfort or pitfalls so challenging that it may make you feel dysregulated or disconnected from yourself and those around you. You’re aware that something isn't feeling right; it tugs at you as a reminder that you must be attended to.
Do you feel stuck? Through living our lives, we develop mechanisms to navigate specific contexts, but sometimes, those methods no longer work or we grow tired of them. Some signs of being stuck manifest as complicated relationships, a lack of creativity, loss of agency, inability to rest, hesitancy to play, feelings of overwhelm or a lack of interest in life. Together, we can empower your story and regain movement by having an empathetic witness journey with you, navigate your particular context, the relationships/systems around you, your unique brain and perception of self.
Do you feel stuck? Through living our lives, we develop mechanisms to navigate specific contexts, but sometimes, those methods no longer work or we grow tired of them. Some signs of being stuck manifest as complicated relationships, a lack of creativity, loss of agency, inability to rest, hesitancy to play, feelings of overwhelm or a lack of interest in life. Together, we can empower your story and regain movement by having an empathetic witness journey with you, navigate your particular context, the relationships/systems around you, your unique brain and perception of self.
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Number of Therapists in Des Moines, WA
30+
Average cost per session
$150
Therapists in Des Moines, WA who prioritize treating:
| 97% | Anxiety |
| 89% | Depression |
| 81% | Relationship Issues |
| 78% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Stress |
| 69% | Marriage Counseling |
| 67% | Grief |
Average years in practice
7 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 92% | Premera Blue Cross |
| 84% | Regence |
| 80% | Aetna |
How Therapists in Des Moines, WA see their clients
| 69% | In Person and Online | |
| 31% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 72% | Female | |
| 25% | Male | |
| 3% | Non-Binary |
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How can I find a therapist in Des Moines?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.

