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Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC

Counselor, MA, LMHC

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New York, NY 10007
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New York, NY 10007
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Do you feel overwhelmed or anxious despite being insightful and capable? It is exhausting to feel stuck in old patterns while trying to hold it all together. Whether you are burdened by past trauma, navigating relationship challenges, or questioning your identity, I am here to guide you toward genuine healing. You don't have to just "push through" anymore. Let’s work together to unlock your potential and build a life that feels as good as it looks.
I support clients moving through anxiety, trauma, OCD, and relational stress. Drawing from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and psychodynamic therapy, I tailor every session to you. Together, we will build insight, strengthen your coping tools, and create the necessary space for meaningful growth and lasting change.
Starting therapy is not easy, especially if you are used to doing it all alone. This process offers relief, clarity, and a deeper connection to your true self. If you are ready to explore what is beneath the surface and feel supported in your daily life, I would be honored to walk alongside you. Reach out today to begin your journey toward a fulfilling life.
Call or Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC now for a free 15 minute consultation - (646) 640-8955

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

New York, NY 10007

(646) 640-8955

Brooklyn, NY 11201

Website
All available services and scheduling are offered via telehealth with limited in-person availability.
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Peer Relationships 
$300 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (646) 640-8955
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

New York, NY 10007

(646) 640-8955

Brooklyn, NY 11201

Website
All available services and scheduling are offered via telehealth with limited in-person availability.
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Peer Relationships 
$300 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $300
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Northwell Direct
  • Reach out to verify coverage
  • Out of Network
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I am in-network with Northwell Direct and out of network with all other major insurance companies. My office offers a superbill to be submitted to insurance and can assist with verifying and explaining out of network benefits and submissions. Please reach out to learn more.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955
"
I am in-network with Northwell Direct and out of network with all other major insurance companies. My office offers a superbill to be submitted to insurance and can assist with verifying and explaining out of network benefits and submissions. Please reach out to learn more.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955

Qualifications

    Counselor: Vilija Paulius

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 016038 Vilija Paulius
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended New York University , Masters of Counseling
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: New Jersey 37PC01247100 / 2026
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I have experience in helping clients working towards the goal of living their best and most full lives. I'm a licensed LMHC in NY and focus on supporting adolescents through adulthood managing anxiety, chronic illness, stress and more.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955
"
I have experience in helping clients working towards the goal of living their best and most full lives. I'm a licensed LMHC in NY and focus on supporting adolescents through adulthood managing anxiety, chronic illness, stress and more.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Relationship Issues
  • Peer Relationships

Expertise

  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Eating Disorders
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I specialize in helping individuals from diverse backgrounds overcome trauma related to interpersonal relationships and family dynamics. My work also focuses on reducing anxiety symptoms and addressing various challenges that impact daily life. Together, we will explore and process effective strategies to tackle your difficulties, fostering hope and a brighter future.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955
"
I specialize in helping individuals from diverse backgrounds overcome trauma related to interpersonal relationships and family dynamics. My work also focuses on reducing anxiety symptoms and addressing various challenges that impact daily life. Together, we will explore and process effective strategies to tackle your difficulties, fostering hope and a brighter future.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955

11 Endorsements

Alexis J Sturnick
Alexis J Sturnick
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWPMH-C
Vilija combines professionalism with genuine care, making her a trusted and effective therapist for those on their healing journey.
Rebecca Snyder
Rebecca Snyder
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSWEMDR
I have referred several clients to Vilija and have only heard positive feedback. Her ability to connect with clients and provide tailored therapeutic interventions is commendable. I highly recommend her as a skilled and trusted therapist.
Josie Mansergh-Johnson
Josie Mansergh-Johnson
MAMHC-LPMBACPC-DBT
Vilija's ability to thoughtfully integrate skills-based (CBT/DBT) and insight-oriented approaches is impressive. She is a thorough and compassionate therapist for complex anxiety and trauma.
Samantha Sundborg
Samantha Sundborg
LMSW
Vilija is a wonderful therapist. She is fantastic at helping clients understand why they feel stuck and then giving them the practical tools to move forward. I confidently recommend her.
Alecia Denillo
Alecia Denillo
Licensed Professional CounselorMSCPLPCLMHC
Vilija is an incredibly warm and skilled therapist. I truly admire her ability to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients can do meaningful work. Her expertise in anxiety, OCD, and trauma is so needed. I would confidently refer any client to her.
Rebecca Snyder
Rebecca Snyder
Licensed Social WorkerLMSWEMDR
I really appreciate Vilija's balanced approach. She skillfully blends deep, insight-oriented work with the practical, in-the-moment skills from CBT and DBT. It's an ideal combination for anyone tackling anxiety, OCD, or complex family dynamics.
Dr. Lauren Hoffman
Dr. Lauren Hoffman
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWPhDC-DBT
Vilija's blend of insight and practical skills is so effective. As a fellow DBT-informed clinician, I appreciate her work with OCD and anxiety. She gives clients tools that work.
Micaela Schiff
Micaela Schiff
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
I really appreciate Vilija's practical side. She gives clients a solid, effective toolkit (CBT/DBT) for managing anxiety and OCD. A wonderful, compassionate colleague.
Emily Stern
Emily Stern
MSLMHC
As a fellow DBT-informed clinician, I really appreciate Vilija's blend. She offers the 'why' (psychodynamic) with the 'how' (CBT/DBT). It's so effective for anxiety and OCD.
Victoria Kalinina Ortega
Victoria Kalinina Ortega
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSWCASAC
Vilija has such a smart, balanced approach. As a fellow psychodynamic therapist, I value how she blends deep insight with the practical, empowering skills of CBT and DBT. It's a perfect combination for lasting growth.
Anastasia Voron
Anastasia Voron
Licensed Mental Health CounselorMALMHC
Vilija is a wonderful, warm, and highly skilled clinician. I highly recommend her!

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I utilize psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) with a multicultural perspective to effectively address your challenges. By integrating a variety of therapeutic modalities, I ensure personalized treatment that delivers the highest standard of care.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955
"
I utilize psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) with a multicultural perspective to effectively address your challenges. By integrating a variety of therapeutic modalities, I ensure personalized treatment that delivers the highest standard of care.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 640-8955

Location

Primary Location

New York, NY 10007

(646) 640-8955

Additional Location

Brooklyn, NY 11201

(646) 640-8955
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All available services and scheduling are offered via telehealth with limited in-person availability.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 640-8955
"
All available services and scheduling are offered via telehealth with limited in-person availability.
Photo of Vilija Paulius - Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC, Counselor, MA, LMHC
Vilija Paulius, MA, LMHC
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (646) 640-8955