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Vera Shao

Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR (she, her)

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Currently unable to accept new clients
244 Madison Avenue New York, NY 10016
Hi there, I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with Diagnostic Privilege specializing in anxiety, depression, complex trauma, grief, anger management, and somatic symptoms, including disordered eating behaviors. I integrate evidence-based and empirical approaches, including EMDR, CBT, DBT, ACT, and Internal Family Systems (IFS), to help you get deeper understandings, learn practical tools for emotions, and achieve meaningful changes. My style is calm, thoughtful, and grounding, welcoming open expression while emphasizing clarity, agency, and emotional expression and regulation. I work with neurodivergent individuals.
With extensive clinical experience, I specialize in working with individuals who are ready to move beyond long-term patterns and symptoms. Using an individualized, evidence-informed approach, I help you understand the roots of your struggles, build practical skills for lasting change, and establish sustainable relationships.
No matter where you are in your own journey, you deserve good mental health. Feel free to reach out by phone or email to schedule your free 15–20 minute consultation.
Call or Vera Shao now for a free 15 minute consultation - (929) 470-6186

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

244 Madison Avenue

New York, NY 10016

(929) 470-6186

New York, NY 10001

To get a response within 24 hours, text (646) 481- 7805.
I specialize in Anger Management, Grief and Anxiety 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (929) 470-6186
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

244 Madison Avenue

New York, NY 10016

(929) 470-6186

New York, NY 10001

To get a response within 24 hours, text (646) 481- 7805.
I specialize in Anger Management, Grief and Anxiety 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $175
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
  • Excellus BlueCross BlueShield
  • Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
  • Meritain Health
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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If I am in-network with your insurance (listed) and you are coming to me for your primary mental health care, you'll only be responsible for your deductible and copay. I believe high-quality care should remain accessible.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 470-6186
"
If I am in-network with your insurance (listed) and you are coming to me for your primary mental health care, you'll only be responsible for your deductible and copay. I believe high-quality care should remain accessible.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 470-6186

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 012530 Vera Shao
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended Teachers College, Columbia University, M.A., Ed.M., Graduated 2020
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from EMDR International Association 156919453 / 2025
  • Certificate from Certificate in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy 193098 / 2023
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I am licensed in NY and NJ.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 470-6186
"
I am licensed in NY and NJ.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (929) 470-6186

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anger Management
  • Grief
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family Conflict
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infertility
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Personality Disorders
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Do these issues align with your needs? or (929) 470-6186
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Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Do these issues align with your needs? or (929) 470-6186

3 Endorsements

Kathy Koller
Kathy Koller
CounselorLMHC
Vera is an intelligent and thoughtful therapist who brings deep care and insight to her work with clients.
Leon Tsao
Leon Tsao
CounselorMALMHCCPC
I had the pleasure to know Vera for a long time. She is a diligent and kind, and will do her best to provide you with the therapy you need. I seen her supervise other therapists, and she possess a vast knowledge and is always learning. Highly recommend.
May Kho
May Kho
CounselorLMHCLPCCASAC
Vera has always been deeply committed to her craft, continually pursuing advanced training and staying up-to-date in order to provide quality care. Her combination of compassion, clinical expertise, and intellectual curiosity is unmatched. 11 out of 10!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Blind Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Mandarin

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Blind Allied
Deaf Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Pacific Islander

I also speak

Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (929) 470-6186
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (929) 470-6186

Location

Primary Location

244 Madison Avenue

New York, NY 10016

(929) 470-6186

Additional Location

New York, NY 10001

(929) 470-6186
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To get a response within 24 hours, text (646) 481- 7805.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call for a free consultation now - (929) 470-6186
"
To get a response within 24 hours, text (646) 481- 7805.
Photo of Vera Shao, Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Vera Shao
Counselor, LMHC, MA, IFS, DBT, EMDR
Call for a free consultation now - (929) 470-6186