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Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
or

Vera Fleischer

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
24 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94114
Let's Connect (415) 723-1443
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I work best with people who have experienced Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN). This phenomenon occurs when your caregivers weren't able or willing to adequately respond to your emotional needs as they arise in you. If you grew up in this way, you are inevitably suppressing or walling off your emotions as an adult because you were taught that your emotions aren’t important or valid. CEN is largely invisible, and therein lies its power. It is traumatic but, unlike abuse, it is characterized not by an event or a presence but by a non-event or an absence. Breaking the hold of this phenomenon on you would be my goal for you.
Symptoms of Childhood Emotional Neglect include inner emptiness, lack of self-compassion, anger and blame, guilt and shame, fear of depending on and trusting others, difficulty identifying and expressing emotions, and a feeling of being defective or broken. Shame management is an important part of recovery from CEN.
What we can do: When you know and value yourself on the inside, you can start to change your life on the outside. Healing happens by accessing and valuing your emotions. Call or email me to get started on this process.
Call or Vera Fleischer now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 723-1443

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 723-1443

Santa Monica, CA 90403

My website
I have switched to telehealth indefinitely. This is still true in 2026. Get cozy and wear pajama pants if you like!
I specialize in Self Esteem, Codependency and Women's Issues 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (415) 723-1443
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 723-1443

Santa Monica, CA 90403

My website
I have switched to telehealth indefinitely. This is still true in 2026. Get cozy and wear pajama pants if you like!
I specialize in Self Esteem, Codependency and Women's Issues 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I can issue superbills for out-of-network reimbursement if your health plan offers this. A diagnosis is required on superbills.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443
"
I can issue superbills for out-of-network reimbursement if your health plan offers this. A diagnosis is required on superbills.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / LMFT 97057 Vera Fleischer
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 13 years
  • Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Graduated 2014
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) 128726 / 2017
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Over 12 years of accompanying people on their journey of discovery and healing say: This is the best job in the world.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443
"
Over 12 years of accompanying people on their journey of discovery and healing say: This is the best job in the world.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Self Esteem
  • Codependency
  • Women's Issues

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Childlessness
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Shame
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I like to start each session by picking you up exactly where you are in that moment. This can be a feeling or thought you woke up with that day, an experience you had earlier in the week, a pattern you've been noticing since childhood, a topic from a previous session, or something awkward I said last time (it happens!). From that starting point we explore what's possible over time.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443
"
I like to start each session by picking you up exactly where you are in that moment. This can be a feeling or thought you woke up with that day, an experience you had earlier in the week, a pattern you've been noticing since childhood, a topic from a previous session, or something awkward I said last time (it happens!). From that starting point we explore what's possible over time.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443

24 Endorsements

Adelaide Fulconis
Adelaide Fulconis
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMALLM
Vera is a talented Gestalt therapist and I highly recommend her. I admire her for her integrity and her courage to stand up for what she believes. As a clinician, she is animated by a very strong desire to explore with her clients what is most alive for th...
Zachary Sandler
Zachary Sandler
Clinical Social Work/TherapistMALCSW
I experience Vera as caring, thoughtful and ever committed to connecting authentically. She is great and I highly recommend her.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

German

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

German

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Depth-Oriented
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Gestalt
  • Humanistic
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Multicultural
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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I am currently open to taking on new couples who want to work on their communication patterns in monogamous or non-monogamous relationships and also individual clients who want to explore in their bodies how some of their early experiences inform how they respond to certain situations today.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443
"
I am currently open to taking on new couples who want to work on their communication patterns in monogamous or non-monogamous relationships and also individual clients who want to explore in their bodies how some of their early experiences inform how they respond to certain situations today.
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 723-1443

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94114

(415) 723-1443

Additional Location

Santa Monica, CA 90403

(415) 723-1443
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I have switched to telehealth indefinitely. This is still true in 2026. Get cozy and wear pajama pants if you like!
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 723-1443
"
I have switched to telehealth indefinitely. This is still true in 2026. Get cozy and wear pajama pants if you like!
Photo of Vera Fleischer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Vera Fleischer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 723-1443