
Vanessa Tan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
San Diego, CA 92103
Let's Connect (858) 321-8288

Hi! I'm Vanessa, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I'm a first generation immigrant based in San Diego, CA. Originally from South East Asia, I've worked and lived in Singapore, Taiwan, and Buffalo, NY. I love cooking, board game nights, heated blankets, and playing fetch with my dog! I love the story-telling of my clients - there's so much to be learned from the life experiences that we have, the minute details that stick with us after all these years, and the takeaways from each life circumstance.
I typically work with teenagers, couples, and young adults. I have been practicing since 2015 and my areas of focus are relationships - familial, romantic, platonic. I believe our core relationships are foundational to the self and inform the ways in which we make the life decisions we do and choose the people we choose.
Throughout our time together, I'm going to be real with you and I hope you will be with me too. Think of me like a teammate, fostering a supportive space for you to feel open to tapping into things that may feel difficult to tackle alone. We feel what we feel and I will honor that. I hope you will come to find a safe space for yourself in our sessions.
Call or Email Vanessa Tan now for a free 15 minute consultation - (858) 321-8288
Let's Connect (858) 321-8288

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Couple Sessions $200
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Visa, WireInsurance
- Aetna
- Anthem
- Blue Cross
- Blue Shield
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Carelon Behavioral Health
- Carelon Health IPA of California (CHIPA)
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
- Managed Health Network (MHN)
- Medi-Cal
- MHNet Behavioral Health
- Optum
- Quest Behavioral Health
- Sierra Health | SHL
- Sutter
- TRICARE
- Tricare West
- United Medical Resources (UMR)
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH

Vanessa Tan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (858) 321-8288
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 124217 Vanessa Tan
- Attended San Diego State University, Master of Science in Counseling with a concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2017
Education and Years In Practice
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Life Transitions
- Women's Issues
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Codependency
- Depression
- Divorce
- Domestic Abuse
- Domestic Violence
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Peer Relationships
- Racial Identity
- School Issues
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
- Veterans
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Humanistic
- Interpersonal
- Multicultural
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused