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Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT (she, her)

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7 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90402
Let's Connect (424) 392-6764
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I offer therapy and coaching for individuals and couples, specializing in alternative lifestyles, including non-monogamy, polyamory, BDSM/kink, and sex work. Utilizing Gottman's couples methods, I address relationship and intimacy issues, helping you navigate the complexities of your unique lifestyle and its societal pressures with understanding and depth. My work is committed to promoting emotional resilience and connection within a safe, non-judgemental, supportive environment. Let’s collaborate to foster your growth and well-being. Together, we'll explore new paths to enhance your relationships and personal growth.
Together we delve into the emotional depths of relationship dynamics, emphasizing open communication and trust. We challenge conventional norms and foster unique paths to intimacy and connection, ensuring a non-conservative, affirming space. My approach is integrative, rooted in Psychodynamic theory, tailored for those exploring alternative lifestyles.
Please email me for a free 15-minute phone consultation or schedule directly using this link - rb.gy/cll8rr to ensure a good fit. Our practice offers a unique Concierge Billing Service in which we file your out-of-network claims, on your behalf, to expedite your reimbursement. I look forward to the opportunity to work together!
Call or Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex now for a free 15 minute consultation - (424) 392-6764

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pacific MFT Network- Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(424) 392-6764

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Escondido, CA 92026

I am available through Telehealth only Monday - Friday!
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Open Relationships Non-Monogamy and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Let's Connect (424) 392-6764
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Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pacific MFT Network- Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(424) 392-6764

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Escondido, CA 92026

I am available through Telehealth only Monday - Friday!
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Open Relationships Non-Monogamy and Sex-Positive, Kink Allied 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Accepts Out of Network Only
  • Aetna
  • All Out of Network Only
  • Anthem
  • Blue Cross
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Concierge Billing PPO OON
  • Health Net
  • Humana
  • Managed Health Network (MHN)
  • Optum
  • Special Billing Like InNetwork
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I am out of network with all insurance companies, but our concierge billing service will file all claims for you as if in-network to help with reimbursement.
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Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764
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I am out of network with all insurance companies, but our concierge billing service will file all claims for you as if in-network to help with reimbursement.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist Associate: Valeriya Pestrikova

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 141497 Supervised by Tracy Kovacs Bevington (California / 53455) Valeriya Pestrikova
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Pepperdine University, Masters of Arts in Clinical Psychology with Emphas
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
  • Membership with American Psychological Association
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I enjoy supporting individuals and couples through a relational lens, addressing different types of couples' dynamics and barriers to intimacy. I have experience working with adults and couples in a telehealth setting.
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Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764
"
I enjoy supporting individuals and couples through a relational lens, addressing different types of couples' dynamics and barriers to intimacy. I have experience working with adults and couples in a telehealth setting.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied

Expertise

  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
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I primarily serve couples seeking to strengthen their relationship and individuals grappling with relationship issues, sexual dysfunction, or intimacy barriers. I offer specialized support for the LGBTQ community, non-monogamous/polyamorous individuals, sex workers, and those exploring BDSM/kink.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764
"
I primarily serve couples seeking to strengthen their relationship and individuals grappling with relationship issues, sexual dysfunction, or intimacy barriers. I offer specialized support for the LGBTQ community, non-monogamous/polyamorous individuals, sex workers, and those exploring BDSM/kink.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764

7 Endorsements

Pacific MFT Network SF- Couples, EMDR, LGBTQ
Pacific MFT Network SF- Couples, EMDR, LGBTQ
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Valeriya is kind and compassionate therapist. She creates space that is safe, non-judgemental, open, and flexible. Her specialty in alternative lifestyles is highly appreciated.
Christina Coons
Christina Coons
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Valeriya is an intuitive, open minded and supportive therapist who empowers clients to explore their relationships and lived experiences from a place of compassion and curiosity. Working with Valeriya offers a unique opportunity for collaborative growth!
Bryn Hickey - Couples, LGBTQ, IFS
Bryn Hickey - Couples, LGBTQ, IFS
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorLPCC
I hold great respect and admiration for Valeriya as a colleague. Valeriya organically creates a safe and supportive environment for clients, enabling them to explore a myriad of issues and experiences. I highly recommend!
Paul Carter - ADHD, Anxiety, Creatives
Paul Carter - ADHD, Anxiety, Creatives
Licensed Professional Clinical CounselorLPCC
Valeriya excels in creating a warm, non-judgmental space for individuals and couples exploring alternative lifestyles, using an empathetic yet direct approach to empower clients in navigating relationship dynamics and fostering emotional resilience.
Darcy Manav - Trauma, IFS, EMDR
Darcy Manav - Trauma, IFS, EMDR
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCYT
Valeriya is an excellent choice for couples/ individuals seeking support with challenges related to sexual wellness and intimacy! She also offers a judgement free, safe space for sex workers and those interested in exploring polyamory and BDSM/ kink.
Eri Nagai Ashlock- Anxiety, Self Esteem, Identity
Eri Nagai Ashlock- Anxiety, Self Esteem, Identity
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Valeriya specializes in couples counseling, non-monogamy, and BDSM. She can offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore complex emotions, communication challenges, and power dynamics. I highly recommend Valeriya - she is amazing!
Anandita Bahri
Anandita Bahri
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalMAAPCC
I highly recommend Valeriya for individuals or couples seeking support around intimacy, sexuality, connections, or anxiety. She is very knowledgeable in her speciality and creates a safe and inclusive space for all folks to freely explore their challenges!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Russian

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Russian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Integrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
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My approach is integrative, with a strong foundation in Psychodynamic theory, which allows me to delve deeply into the emotional and psychological underpinnings of relationship dynamics. Each session is a step towards healthier, more rewarding relationships, tailored to your unique experiences and goals.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764
"
My approach is integrative, with a strong foundation in Psychodynamic theory, which allows me to delve deeply into the emotional and psychological underpinnings of relationship dynamics. Each session is a step towards healthier, more rewarding relationships, tailored to your unique experiences and goals.
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (424) 392-6764

Groups

Location

Primary Location

Pacific MFT Network- Telehealth

Santa Monica, CA 90402

(424) 392-6764

Additional Location

Pacific MFT Network - Telehealth

Escondido, CA 92026

(424) 392-6764
"
I am available through Telehealth only Monday - Friday!
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (424) 392-6764
"
I am available through Telehealth only Monday - Friday!
Photo of Valeriya Pestrikova - Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex , Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Valeriya Pestrikova - NonMonogamy, Kink, Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (424) 392-6764