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Valarie Merced

Counselor, LMHC (she, her)

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3 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11222
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Available both in-person and online
Brooklyn, NY 11222
Let's Connect (718) 831-6621
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We all deserve a space to truly be ourselves free from judgment or fear. I'm dedicated to providing that for you through vulnerability, curiosity, and compassion. With 10 years of experience in clinical sexology and coaching, I bring unique perspectives to the therapeutic setting providing a gentle yet direct framework from which to collaborate. As a Latina therapist, I understand the necessity of a trauma-informed multicultural lens and the power it has to ignite great change. I aim to support you in developing healthy boundaries while expanding tolerance for discomfort. Because after all, pain is essential, suffering is a choice.
My work integrates humanistic, psychodynamic, somatic, CBT, and mindfulness practices. In session, we will focus on nurturing healthy sexuality, thriving intimate networks, and showing up authentically in the world. My work includes but is not limited to diverse and alternative communities such as BIPOC, ethical non-monogamy, LGBTQ+, sex workers, and kink.
Together, we’ll navigate the complexities of relational and personal experiences—whether facing trauma, overcoming betrayal, addressing attachment wounds, struggling with paraphilias, or discovering your personal needs and desires. It takes courage to explore these parts of yourself, and I’m here to walk this path with you. Let’s begin this journey together!
Call or Valarie Merced now for a free 15 minute consultation - (718) 831-6621

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Brooklyn, NY 11222

(718) 831-6621
I offer in-person sessions in NYC and virtual state-wide. I am available most weekdays and in the evenings.
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (718) 831-6621
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Brooklyn, NY 11222

(718) 831-6621
I offer in-person sessions in NYC and virtual state-wide. I am available most weekdays and in the evenings.
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $300
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
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I can provide a superbill for those who wish to be reimbursed by their insurance companies. Please reach out with any questions.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621
"
I can provide a superbill for those who wish to be reimbursed by their insurance companies. Please reach out with any questions.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 015288 Valarie Merced
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 5 years
  • Attended Northwestern University
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from World Association of Sex Coaches
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I have over 10 years of experience as a clinical sexologist and sex coach working with a diverse group of individuals and couples throughout the country. I am currently licensed in NY and provide compassionate and affirming care to individuals, couples, and intimate networks.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621
"
I have over 10 years of experience as a clinical sexologist and sex coach working with a diverse group of individuals and couples throughout the country. I am currently licensed in NY and provide compassionate and affirming care to individuals, couples, and intimate networks.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Paraphilias
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (718) 831-6621
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Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (718) 831-6621

3 Endorsements

Matthew Willner
Matthew Willner
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Valarie is a brilliant therapist, and offers empowering support to diverse clients. She has an ability to connect that makes her really unique, and brings an extensive background in clinical sexology and numerous modalities to support her work.
Alain Zagorin
Alain Zagorin
CounselorLMHC
I had the pleasure of working with Valarie, an exceptional psychotherapist with deep expertise in sexuality issues and couples therapy. Her insightful, empathetic, and direct approach empowers clients to foster growth and meaningful change.
Chris Black
Chris Black
Pre-Licensed Professional
Valerie's ability to convey radical empathy to her clients is uncanny. Don't let her down-to-earth approachability fool you; she possesses a razor-sharp clinical mind that she deftly wields to cut away at even the most pervasive of presenting problems.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Integrative
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
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I customize my approach to each individual. Your treatment should be as unique as you are!
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621
"
I customize my approach to each individual. Your treatment should be as unique as you are!
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621

Location

Primary Location

Brooklyn, NY 11222

(718) 831-6621
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I offer in-person sessions in NYC and virtual state-wide. I am available most weekdays and in the evenings.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (718) 831-6621
"
I offer in-person sessions in NYC and virtual state-wide. I am available most weekdays and in the evenings.
Photo of Valarie Merced, Counselor, LMHC
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (718) 831-6621