
Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
2 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11222
Let's Connect (718) 831-6621

We all deserve a space to truly be ourselves free from judgment or fear. I'm dedicated to providing that for you through vulnerability, curiosity, and compassion. With 10 years of experience in clinical sexology and coaching, I bring unique perspectives to the therapeutic setting providing a gentle yet direct framework from which to collaborate. As a Latina therapist, I understand the necessity of a trauma-informed multicultural lens and the power it has to ignite great change. I aim to support you in developing healthy boundaries while expanding tolerance for discomfort. Because after all, pain is essential, suffering is a choice.
My work integrates humanistic, psychodynamic, somatic, CBT, and mindfulness practices. In session, we will focus on nurturing healthy sexuality, thriving intimate networks, and showing up authentically in the world. My work includes but is not limited to diverse and alternative communities such as BIPOC, ethical non-monogamy, LGBTQ+, sex workers, and kink.
Together, we’ll navigate the complexities of relational and personal experiences—whether facing trauma, overcoming betrayal, addressing attachment wounds, struggling with paraphilias, or discovering your personal needs and desires. It takes courage to explore these parts of yourself, and I’m here to walk this path with you. Let’s begin this journey together!
Call or Email Valarie Merced now for a free 15 minute consultation - (718) 831-6621
Let's Connect (718) 831-6621

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $250
- Couple Sessions $350
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Valarie Merced
Counselor, LMHC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 831-6621
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 015288 Valarie Merced
- In Practice for 4 years
- Attended Northwestern University
- Licensed by State of New York / 015288
- Certificate from World Association of Sex Coaches
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Body Positivity
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Dual Diagnosis
- Emotional Disturbance
- Infidelity
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Paraphilias
- Peer Relationships
- Racial Identity
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Existential
- Family / Marital
- Feminist
- Integrative
- Interpersonal
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Transpersonal
- Trauma Focused