Lesbian Therapists in Hayes, VA
I have spent much of my life driving the success of mental health initiatives from the systems and counseling level. This involved tackling issues through policy development and direct counseling initiatives. As a psychotherapist, I bring my wealth of experience to the outpatient setting, facilitating others to become their best selves through kindness and strategic supports. I practice from the belief that we can all live meaningful, fulfilling lives if we have genuine, knowledgeable supports cheering us forward.
I have spent much of my life driving the success of mental health initiatives from the systems and counseling level. This involved tackling issues through policy development and direct counseling initiatives. As a psychotherapist, I bring my wealth of experience to the outpatient setting, facilitating others to become their best selves through kindness and strategic supports. I practice from the belief that we can all live meaningful, fulfilling lives if we have genuine, knowledgeable supports cheering us forward.
Sometimes our mental health is healthy and works for us, and sometimes, our mental health needs support to achieve our goals. I provide a safe place for individuals and families while you are going through stress; from managing family conflict, to coping with ADHD, depression, anxiety, chronic and life-threatening illnesses, divorce, foster care, and other difficult situations. As your therapist, I believe that my role is to provide thorough assessment and treatment to support you and your family.
Sometimes our mental health is healthy and works for us, and sometimes, our mental health needs support to achieve our goals. I provide a safe place for individuals and families while you are going through stress; from managing family conflict, to coping with ADHD, depression, anxiety, chronic and life-threatening illnesses, divorce, foster care, and other difficult situations. As your therapist, I believe that my role is to provide thorough assessment and treatment to support you and your family.
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One of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor that operates from a place of compassion and empathy that cultivates an environment to encourage you, the client to openly express their thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving.
One of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor that operates from a place of compassion and empathy that cultivates an environment to encourage you, the client to openly express their thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving.
As an EMDR-certified, lesbian-identified therapist, I create a safe, supportive space for LGBTQ+ adults navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, transitions, and stress.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, trauma-informed, and grounded in reality-based, trauma narrative, childhood exploration, solution-focused, and cognitive behavioral techniques. I am a queer therapist who offers a direct yet compassionate space to explore your experiences, heal from trauma, and reconnect with your inner strength and sense of self. I believe healing happens through authentic connection and walk beside you with honesty, empathy, and respect as you process trauma, explore identity, and build resilience in an ever-changing world.
As an EMDR-certified, lesbian-identified therapist, I create a safe, supportive space for LGBTQ+ adults navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, transitions, and stress.
My approach to therapy is person-centered, trauma-informed, and grounded in reality-based, trauma narrative, childhood exploration, solution-focused, and cognitive behavioral techniques. I am a queer therapist who offers a direct yet compassionate space to explore your experiences, heal from trauma, and reconnect with your inner strength and sense of self. I believe healing happens through authentic connection and walk beside you with honesty, empathy, and respect as you process trauma, explore identity, and build resilience in an ever-changing world.
I am currently accepting new clients and referrals. If you're exhausted from carrying the effects of trauma, struggling to feel safe in relationships, navigating military life transitions, or exploring your identity, therapy can help you move from surviving to feeling grounded, connected, and more like yourself again. I am a member of the LGBTQIA+, military spouse, and veteran community. I enjoy working with client's who have traumatic backgrounds and through the use of trauma-focused interventions we are able to begin processing and working through these past events in your life.
I am currently accepting new clients and referrals. If you're exhausted from carrying the effects of trauma, struggling to feel safe in relationships, navigating military life transitions, or exploring your identity, therapy can help you move from surviving to feeling grounded, connected, and more like yourself again. I am a member of the LGBTQIA+, military spouse, and veteran community. I enjoy working with client's who have traumatic backgrounds and through the use of trauma-focused interventions we are able to begin processing and working through these past events in your life.
I believe everyone can benefit from therapy. Whether you come to explore your identities, your relationships, a life-changing event, or just the feeling that something is “off,” I believe powerful change can happen in the context of a supportive therapeutic relationship. It can be so difficult to seek out a therapist and I understand you may have had negative experiences with therapy in the past. I appreciate the resilience that led you to this page.
I believe everyone can benefit from therapy. Whether you come to explore your identities, your relationships, a life-changing event, or just the feeling that something is “off,” I believe powerful change can happen in the context of a supportive therapeutic relationship. It can be so difficult to seek out a therapist and I understand you may have had negative experiences with therapy in the past. I appreciate the resilience that led you to this page.
Life brings joy, connection, and growth— it also brings challenges that can feel heavy or even overwhelming. When those harder moments start to overshadow the good, it’s okay to reach out for support. Therapy can offer a space to slow down, make sense of what you’ve been through, and reconnect with yourself. You don’t have to navigate it alone.
I began working in the mental health field in 2017. I work primarily with adults and support individuals facing a wide range of experiences, including: depression, anxiety, bipolar, suicidal thoughts/ideation, adoption, and childhood trauma.
Life brings joy, connection, and growth— it also brings challenges that can feel heavy or even overwhelming. When those harder moments start to overshadow the good, it’s okay to reach out for support. Therapy can offer a space to slow down, make sense of what you’ve been through, and reconnect with yourself. You don’t have to navigate it alone.
I began working in the mental health field in 2017. I work primarily with adults and support individuals facing a wide range of experiences, including: depression, anxiety, bipolar, suicidal thoughts/ideation, adoption, and childhood trauma.
Congratulations and thank you for initiating the first step in achieving a healthy state of well-being. This journey can be a difficult one on your own, but I look forward to being the one to assist you in accomplishing your goals in treatment. I will assist you to feel the rewarding benefits of therapy and the balance that you have been looking for. My professional experience is varied and unique which allows me to meet the needs of a diverse population.
Congratulations and thank you for initiating the first step in achieving a healthy state of well-being. This journey can be a difficult one on your own, but I look forward to being the one to assist you in accomplishing your goals in treatment. I will assist you to feel the rewarding benefits of therapy and the balance that you have been looking for. My professional experience is varied and unique which allows me to meet the needs of a diverse population.
As a Black queer woman, I entered this field to create spaces for people to reconnect with the parts of themselves that have gone unseen, overextended, or unsupported. Many of my clients present as responsible and high-achieving on the outside, but are carrying more than others may realize. They are navigating demanding careers, cultural expectations, painful relationship dynamics, identity exploration, or environments where they have learned to overperform or shrink parts of themselves in order to feel accepted or safe. I specialize in helping People of Color & LGBTQ+ adults explore life beyond this reality.
As a Black queer woman, I entered this field to create spaces for people to reconnect with the parts of themselves that have gone unseen, overextended, or unsupported. Many of my clients present as responsible and high-achieving on the outside, but are carrying more than others may realize. They are navigating demanding careers, cultural expectations, painful relationship dynamics, identity exploration, or environments where they have learned to overperform or shrink parts of themselves in order to feel accepted or safe. I specialize in helping People of Color & LGBTQ+ adults explore life beyond this reality.
Hi! My name is Ruth-Ann Acors. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I work with adults navigating anxiety, mood concerns, substance use, identity-related stress, and the impact of difficult or complicated life experiences. I work with many LGBTQ+ folks and care deeply about offering an affirming, nonjudgmental space where people feel respected and understood.
Hi! My name is Ruth-Ann Acors. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I work with adults navigating anxiety, mood concerns, substance use, identity-related stress, and the impact of difficult or complicated life experiences. I work with many LGBTQ+ folks and care deeply about offering an affirming, nonjudgmental space where people feel respected and understood.
Are you currently adjusting to a major change in life? Are you attempting to navigate issues within yourself or your relationship? What we think and feel often shows up through our behaviors in our relationships and everyday interactions. I help adults with anxiety, depression, life transitions, and more. I specialize in working with LGBT adults and adolescents, especially those navigating family dynamics or fertility planning. If any of that resonates with you, you came to the right place!
Are you currently adjusting to a major change in life? Are you attempting to navigate issues within yourself or your relationship? What we think and feel often shows up through our behaviors in our relationships and everyday interactions. I help adults with anxiety, depression, life transitions, and more. I specialize in working with LGBT adults and adolescents, especially those navigating family dynamics or fertility planning. If any of that resonates with you, you came to the right place!
I’m glad you’re here right now, reading through different bios. The interest you’re taking in yourself is huge. I recognize starting with a counselor may feel daunting, but I am here to make that process as open and as safe as possible. Many come to therapy feeling burned out, anxious, or unsure why things feel so difficult despite their best efforts. If you’re feeling alone, stuck, or overwhelmed by the same patterns showing up in your life, therapy can be a place to slow down, make sense of what’s happening, and begin creating meaningful, sustainable change.
I’m glad you’re here right now, reading through different bios. The interest you’re taking in yourself is huge. I recognize starting with a counselor may feel daunting, but I am here to make that process as open and as safe as possible. Many come to therapy feeling burned out, anxious, or unsure why things feel so difficult despite their best efforts. If you’re feeling alone, stuck, or overwhelmed by the same patterns showing up in your life, therapy can be a place to slow down, make sense of what’s happening, and begin creating meaningful, sustainable change.
I want to assist clients recognize and manifest their full potential. Given the appropriate and adequate support, no matter how difficult the situation, you can change/heal and thrive. Even if we are working with difficult subjects, therapy is meant to engage a part of us that loves to know the truth about ourselves.
I want to assist clients recognize and manifest their full potential. Given the appropriate and adequate support, no matter how difficult the situation, you can change/heal and thrive. Even if we are working with difficult subjects, therapy is meant to engage a part of us that loves to know the truth about ourselves.
What does it take to the hero of your own story? Difficulties don't have to be insurmountable barriers, but opportunities for growth. Learn from the more trying times, adapt to changes and persist despite the odds. Resilience shapes your character and sets a precedent for future challenges. It can be hard to adopt a proactive mindset when life is happening nonstop around you but I would like to build an authentic connection with you to explore making some positive and lasting changes.
I have learned that there are three aspects of life no one can escape: pain, uncertainty and constant work. You have to learn to love the process.
What does it take to the hero of your own story? Difficulties don't have to be insurmountable barriers, but opportunities for growth. Learn from the more trying times, adapt to changes and persist despite the odds. Resilience shapes your character and sets a precedent for future challenges. It can be hard to adopt a proactive mindset when life is happening nonstop around you but I would like to build an authentic connection with you to explore making some positive and lasting changes.
I have learned that there are three aspects of life no one can escape: pain, uncertainty and constant work. You have to learn to love the process.
Greetings, Dr. Clarke here!
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, or the pain of relationship maintenance? It can feel lonely and frightening. Please know, you don't have to do do this alone You can navigate these challenges with my support. I’m a Counseling Psychologist (LMFT, LPC) specializing in:
• Anxiety & Depression
• Personal Development and Self Worth
• Relationship Recovery
Additionally, I provide support for Active Duty, Veterans, and Military Families. My military background provides me with an ability to understand the stresses unique to the transitions, and unspoken expectations that come with military life.
Greetings, Dr. Clarke here!
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, or the pain of relationship maintenance? It can feel lonely and frightening. Please know, you don't have to do do this alone You can navigate these challenges with my support. I’m a Counseling Psychologist (LMFT, LPC) specializing in:
• Anxiety & Depression
• Personal Development and Self Worth
• Relationship Recovery
Additionally, I provide support for Active Duty, Veterans, and Military Families. My military background provides me with an ability to understand the stresses unique to the transitions, and unspoken expectations that come with military life.
If you are struggling with painful emotions, interpersonal problems, substance use challenges, or difficult life transitions, I am here to help. You will find that I work hard to understand you and to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. I believe that every person has an inner potential for healthy growth and development, and my role as a counselor is to facilitate that growth. I provide a safe and nonjudgmental space to share and better understand your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I see clients by telehealth throughout Virginia.
If you are struggling with painful emotions, interpersonal problems, substance use challenges, or difficult life transitions, I am here to help. You will find that I work hard to understand you and to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. I believe that every person has an inner potential for healthy growth and development, and my role as a counselor is to facilitate that growth. I provide a safe and nonjudgmental space to share and better understand your thoughts, feelings, and challenges. I see clients by telehealth throughout Virginia.
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, but it also can be an exciting one! I applaud you for taking this first step toward growth, healing, and self-discovery. My passion is helping individuals navigate life transitions, anxiety, OCD, depression, and trauma, providing a space where you feel heard, supported, and empowered. Therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience, which is why I take a client-centered, collaborative approach, shaping each session to fit your unique needs and goals.
Starting therapy can feel like a big step, but it also can be an exciting one! I applaud you for taking this first step toward growth, healing, and self-discovery. My passion is helping individuals navigate life transitions, anxiety, OCD, depression, and trauma, providing a space where you feel heard, supported, and empowered. Therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all experience, which is why I take a client-centered, collaborative approach, shaping each session to fit your unique needs and goals.
At All Tides Counseling & Enrichment, therapy invites reconnection—with yourself, community, and the living world that sustains us. Many people seek this approach when feeling stuck, isolated, or overwhelmed. Together, we create space to slow down, find direction, and navigate life’s changing tides with greater calm and presence. Through a blend of traditional talk therapy and nature-based practices—outdoors or online—we explore creative ways to bring the restorative power of nature into your healing process and daily life, wherever you are.
At All Tides Counseling & Enrichment, therapy invites reconnection—with yourself, community, and the living world that sustains us. Many people seek this approach when feeling stuck, isolated, or overwhelmed. Together, we create space to slow down, find direction, and navigate life’s changing tides with greater calm and presence. Through a blend of traditional talk therapy and nature-based practices—outdoors or online—we explore creative ways to bring the restorative power of nature into your healing process and daily life, wherever you are.
Facing a serious medical diagnosis like cancer can feel overwhelming. Our trauma informed counseling supports individuals, loved ones, and professional caregivers with flexible, evidence-based care-in person or virtually. From the moment of diagnosis and through every stage of the cancer journey, you don’t have to face it alone. You will work closely with your therapist to identify personalized and achievable goals, authentic and sustainable coping strategies, and supportive care. During our pilot program, we are offering services to individuals, and their loved one's, impacted by a cancer diagnosis.
Facing a serious medical diagnosis like cancer can feel overwhelming. Our trauma informed counseling supports individuals, loved ones, and professional caregivers with flexible, evidence-based care-in person or virtually. From the moment of diagnosis and through every stage of the cancer journey, you don’t have to face it alone. You will work closely with your therapist to identify personalized and achievable goals, authentic and sustainable coping strategies, and supportive care. During our pilot program, we are offering services to individuals, and their loved one's, impacted by a cancer diagnosis.
Early adulthood is a time of profound change and self-discovery. I specialize in working with young adults, college students, and professionals who are exploring their individuality, and place in the world. You may be navigating complex family issues, pursuing healthy friendships and relationships, and figuring out self-acceptance. This time period can bring about feelings of uncertainty and stress as you explore your values, how your experiences have shaped you, and how you want to experience the life ahead of you. I'm here to help you explore your feelings, experiences, and feel confident about your future.
Early adulthood is a time of profound change and self-discovery. I specialize in working with young adults, college students, and professionals who are exploring their individuality, and place in the world. You may be navigating complex family issues, pursuing healthy friendships and relationships, and figuring out self-acceptance. This time period can bring about feelings of uncertainty and stress as you explore your values, how your experiences have shaped you, and how you want to experience the life ahead of you. I'm here to help you explore your feelings, experiences, and feel confident about your future.
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Lesbian Therapists
What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.
How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.