LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in Hayes, VA
Sometimes our mental health is healthy and works for us, and sometimes, our mental health needs support to achieve our goals. I provide a safe place for individuals and families while you are going through stress; from managing family conflict, to coping with ADHD, depression, anxiety, chronic and life-threatening illnesses, divorce, foster care, and other difficult situations. As your therapist, I believe that my role is to provide thorough assessment and treatment to support you and your family.
Sometimes our mental health is healthy and works for us, and sometimes, our mental health needs support to achieve our goals. I provide a safe place for individuals and families while you are going through stress; from managing family conflict, to coping with ADHD, depression, anxiety, chronic and life-threatening illnesses, divorce, foster care, and other difficult situations. As your therapist, I believe that my role is to provide thorough assessment and treatment to support you and your family.
I have spent much of my life driving the success of mental health initiatives from the systems and counseling level. This involved tackling issues through policy development and direct counseling initiatives. As a psychotherapist, I bring my wealth of experience to the outpatient setting, facilitating others to become their best selves through kindness and strategic supports. I practice from the belief that we can all live meaningful, fulfilling lives if we have genuine, knowledgeable supports cheering us forward.
I have spent much of my life driving the success of mental health initiatives from the systems and counseling level. This involved tackling issues through policy development and direct counseling initiatives. As a psychotherapist, I bring my wealth of experience to the outpatient setting, facilitating others to become their best selves through kindness and strategic supports. I practice from the belief that we can all live meaningful, fulfilling lives if we have genuine, knowledgeable supports cheering us forward.
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I work with adult individuals 21 years and older from all backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ communities.
Greetings, Dr. Clarke here!
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, or the pain of relationship maintenance? It can feel lonely and frightening. Please know, you don't have to do do this alone You can navigate these challenges with my support. I’m a Counseling Psychologist (LMFT, LPC) specializing in:
• Anxiety & Depression
• Personal Development and Self Worth
• Relationship Recovery
Additionally, I provide support for Active Duty, Veterans, and Military Families. My military background provides me with an ability to understand the stresses unique to the transitions, and unspoken expectations that come with military life.
I work with adult individuals 21 years and older from all backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ communities.
Greetings, Dr. Clarke here!
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, or the pain of relationship maintenance? It can feel lonely and frightening. Please know, you don't have to do do this alone You can navigate these challenges with my support. I’m a Counseling Psychologist (LMFT, LPC) specializing in:
• Anxiety & Depression
• Personal Development and Self Worth
• Relationship Recovery
Additionally, I provide support for Active Duty, Veterans, and Military Families. My military background provides me with an ability to understand the stresses unique to the transitions, and unspoken expectations that come with military life.
Early adulthood is a time of profound change and self-discovery. I specialize in working with young adults, college students, and professionals who are exploring their individuality, and place in the world. You may be navigating complex family issues, pursuing healthy friendships and relationships, and figuring out self-acceptance. This time period can bring about feelings of uncertainty and stress as you explore your values, how your experiences have shaped you, and how you want to experience the life ahead of you. I'm here to help you explore your feelings, experiences, and feel confident about your future.
Early adulthood is a time of profound change and self-discovery. I specialize in working with young adults, college students, and professionals who are exploring their individuality, and place in the world. You may be navigating complex family issues, pursuing healthy friendships and relationships, and figuring out self-acceptance. This time period can bring about feelings of uncertainty and stress as you explore your values, how your experiences have shaped you, and how you want to experience the life ahead of you. I'm here to help you explore your feelings, experiences, and feel confident about your future.
At All Tides Counseling & Enrichment, therapy invites reconnection—with yourself, community, and the living world that sustains us. Many people seek this approach when feeling stuck, isolated, or overwhelmed. Together, we create space to slow down, find direction, and navigate life’s changing tides with greater calm and presence. Through a blend of traditional talk therapy and nature-based practices—outdoors or online—we explore creative ways to bring the restorative power of nature into your healing process and daily life, wherever you are.
At All Tides Counseling & Enrichment, therapy invites reconnection—with yourself, community, and the living world that sustains us. Many people seek this approach when feeling stuck, isolated, or overwhelmed. Together, we create space to slow down, find direction, and navigate life’s changing tides with greater calm and presence. Through a blend of traditional talk therapy and nature-based practices—outdoors or online—we explore creative ways to bring the restorative power of nature into your healing process and daily life, wherever you are.
Are you hesitant to trying therapy? As a veteran, I know how hard it can be to find the right support. My goal is to help you resolve patterns that no longer serve you and create practical steps toward lasting change. I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the challenges of anxiety, trauma, and relationship stress. I have extensive experience supporting military service members, veterans, and first responders, who often face unique pressures and invisible wounds. I also work with inter-abled couples & help them reconnect after the trauma of injury & navigate complicated dynamics.
Are you hesitant to trying therapy? As a veteran, I know how hard it can be to find the right support. My goal is to help you resolve patterns that no longer serve you and create practical steps toward lasting change. I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the challenges of anxiety, trauma, and relationship stress. I have extensive experience supporting military service members, veterans, and first responders, who often face unique pressures and invisible wounds. I also work with inter-abled couples & help them reconnect after the trauma of injury & navigate complicated dynamics.
My specialties include mood disorders, women's issues, and LGBTQIA related concerns.
One of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor that operates from a place of compassion and empathy that cultivates an environment to encourage you, the client to openly express their thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving.
My specialties include mood disorders, women's issues, and LGBTQIA related concerns.
One of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor that operates from a place of compassion and empathy that cultivates an environment to encourage you, the client to openly express their thoughts/feelings so that we can focus on setting goals, identifying feelings and patterns, developing healthy/positive attitudes and behaviors, and problem solving.
What does it take to the hero of your own story? Difficulties don't have to be insurmountable barriers, but opportunities for growth. Learn from the more trying times, adapt to changes and persist despite the odds. Resilience shapes your character and sets a precedent for future challenges. It can be hard to adopt a proactive mindset when life is happening nonstop around you but I would like to build an authentic connection with you to explore making some positive and lasting changes.
I have learned that there are three aspects of life no one can escape: pain, uncertainty and constant work. You have to learn to love the process.
What does it take to the hero of your own story? Difficulties don't have to be insurmountable barriers, but opportunities for growth. Learn from the more trying times, adapt to changes and persist despite the odds. Resilience shapes your character and sets a precedent for future challenges. It can be hard to adopt a proactive mindset when life is happening nonstop around you but I would like to build an authentic connection with you to explore making some positive and lasting changes.
I have learned that there are three aspects of life no one can escape: pain, uncertainty and constant work. You have to learn to love the process.
I specialize in working with LGBT adults and adolescents, especially those navigating family dynamics or fertility planning.
In our work together, we will explore the challenges you may be experiencing. I offer a safe place free of judgement where you can unload and unpack. My approach integrates Solution-Focused Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman method, psychodynamic theory, and strength-based approaches.
I specialize in working with LGBT adults and adolescents, especially those navigating family dynamics or fertility planning.
In our work together, we will explore the challenges you may be experiencing. I offer a safe place free of judgement where you can unload and unpack. My approach integrates Solution-Focused Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, the Gottman method, psychodynamic theory, and strength-based approaches.
As we live, we write the stories of our lives. Sometimes the pen gets too heavy. Sometimes we don’t know where to start… or how to continue. And then there’s writer’s block, the faltering of the creative process somewhere in our hearts, our minds, our bodies producing dis-orders and dis-eases. Maybe you have lost a Loved one. Maybe you’re starting a new relationship. Maybe you want a new job. Maybe you just want change. I believe the remedy is in the beliefs/feelings, thoughts, and behaviors fueling the writer’s block or dis-ease, and I am a dis-ease specialist.
As we live, we write the stories of our lives. Sometimes the pen gets too heavy. Sometimes we don’t know where to start… or how to continue. And then there’s writer’s block, the faltering of the creative process somewhere in our hearts, our minds, our bodies producing dis-orders and dis-eases. Maybe you have lost a Loved one. Maybe you’re starting a new relationship. Maybe you want a new job. Maybe you just want change. I believe the remedy is in the beliefs/feelings, thoughts, and behaviors fueling the writer’s block or dis-ease, and I am a dis-ease specialist.
I strongly believe that everyone has a story to tell. Sometimes, life and circumstances outside of our control muddy that story, leaving us confused and stuck in the same chapter over and over again. I work with clients from a person-centered perspective to identify their current needs and strengths. Utilizing evidenced-based practices and interventions, I aim to work alongside clients to foster resiliency and personal agency in writing their own narrative.
I strongly believe that everyone has a story to tell. Sometimes, life and circumstances outside of our control muddy that story, leaving us confused and stuck in the same chapter over and over again. I work with clients from a person-centered perspective to identify their current needs and strengths. Utilizing evidenced-based practices and interventions, I aim to work alongside clients to foster resiliency and personal agency in writing their own narrative.
I have worked in multiple settings and obtained generalist training experiences with special focus on trauma, religiosity and spirituality, and the LGBTQ population.
You may feel like you're struggling with memories that haunt you no matter how hard you avoid them, emotions that overwhelm you, and the sense something inside of you remains fractured. Trauma can leave you feeling unsafe in your own body, disconnected from others, and trapped in patterns you may not fully understand. You might also be navigating questions of identity, faith, and belonging, especially if your experiences within religion have been painful, confusing, or even abusive. You may have faced rejection, shame, or the exhausting need to hide parts of yourself. You don't have to keep doing this alone; there is a path forward.
I have worked in multiple settings and obtained generalist training experiences with special focus on trauma, religiosity and spirituality, and the LGBTQ population.
You may feel like you're struggling with memories that haunt you no matter how hard you avoid them, emotions that overwhelm you, and the sense something inside of you remains fractured. Trauma can leave you feeling unsafe in your own body, disconnected from others, and trapped in patterns you may not fully understand. You might also be navigating questions of identity, faith, and belonging, especially if your experiences within religion have been painful, confusing, or even abusive. You may have faced rejection, shame, or the exhausting need to hide parts of yourself. You don't have to keep doing this alone; there is a path forward.
Life can be overwhelming, especially when you're carrying the weight of depression, anxiety, trauma, or addiction. I believe therapy should be a space where you're seen, heard, and supported without judgment. I work with adults navigating difficult transitions, emotional pain, and patterns they’re ready to break. Together, we can explore your story, clarify your goals, and create a path forward that aligns with your values.
Life can be overwhelming, especially when you're carrying the weight of depression, anxiety, trauma, or addiction. I believe therapy should be a space where you're seen, heard, and supported without judgment. I work with adults navigating difficult transitions, emotional pain, and patterns they’re ready to break. Together, we can explore your story, clarify your goals, and create a path forward that aligns with your values.
I’m a doctoral counseling intern passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ youth, adults, and families.
Hey y’all – my name is DeHaven. My approach to therapy is to center the therapeutic relationship above all else. I believe in the power of laughter, play, and genuine connection to help you feel safer to explore your most vulnerable moments. My goal is to create a trauma-informed environment so we can build a collaborative relationship to help you navigate this thing called life.
I’m a doctoral counseling intern passionate about supporting LGBTQ+ youth, adults, and families.
Hey y’all – my name is DeHaven. My approach to therapy is to center the therapeutic relationship above all else. I believe in the power of laughter, play, and genuine connection to help you feel safer to explore your most vulnerable moments. My goal is to create a trauma-informed environment so we can build a collaborative relationship to help you navigate this thing called life.
Andrew is a 3rd year resident in counseling specializing in anxiety, depression, school-related challenges, and LGBTQIA+ concerns.
My specialty areas include: Anxiety, Depression, Anger Management, School-Related Issues, LGBTQIA+, ADHD (Adults and Children), Couples, and Emergency Crisis.
Andrew is a 3rd year resident in counseling specializing in anxiety, depression, school-related challenges, and LGBTQIA+ concerns.
My specialty areas include: Anxiety, Depression, Anger Management, School-Related Issues, LGBTQIA+, ADHD (Adults and Children), Couples, and Emergency Crisis.
Therapy can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. My approach is grounded, compassionate, and when appropriate a little lighthearted, because healing doesn’t mean we can’t laugh along the way. I specialize in helping people work through trauma, grief, and the unique challenges that come with sex offender treatment. My goal is to create a safe, judgment-free space where we can face difficult truths, build resilience, and discover new ways to push forward together. I hope to meet you soon!
Therapy can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. My approach is grounded, compassionate, and when appropriate a little lighthearted, because healing doesn’t mean we can’t laugh along the way. I specialize in helping people work through trauma, grief, and the unique challenges that come with sex offender treatment. My goal is to create a safe, judgment-free space where we can face difficult truths, build resilience, and discover new ways to push forward together. I hope to meet you soon!
Adam Lang, LCSW, Individual and Couples Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with individuals and couples navigating chronic illness, pain, loss, identity shifts, and life transitions - experiences that reshape how you see yourself, relate to others, and feel in your body. You may experience yourself pulling away from loved ones, overextending to hold things together, or feeling less sure about who you are. In relationships, this can show up as shutting down, overfunctioning, or getting caught in pursue–withdraw cycles that leave you both feeling alone. Together, we make sense of these patterns, what they’ve protected, what you need, and ways to shift toward greater connection, clarity, and calm.
I work with individuals and couples navigating chronic illness, pain, loss, identity shifts, and life transitions - experiences that reshape how you see yourself, relate to others, and feel in your body. You may experience yourself pulling away from loved ones, overextending to hold things together, or feeling less sure about who you are. In relationships, this can show up as shutting down, overfunctioning, or getting caught in pursue–withdraw cycles that leave you both feeling alone. Together, we make sense of these patterns, what they’ve protected, what you need, and ways to shift toward greater connection, clarity, and calm.
Hello there, I have over 19 years of experience in public service and mental health. Are you tired of your relationships failing? If so my service is for you, unfortunately my service is a non-medical service which is better because instead of placing a band aide on the problem like most insurance providers do, I get to the root of the problem so you can start having healthy relationships. Free 15 minute consultation. Session are $125 and couples counseling is $180. The consultation fee is taken off your first session as well. For the month of December all sessions are 50% off.
Hello there, I have over 19 years of experience in public service and mental health. Are you tired of your relationships failing? If so my service is for you, unfortunately my service is a non-medical service which is better because instead of placing a band aide on the problem like most insurance providers do, I get to the root of the problem so you can start having healthy relationships. Free 15 minute consultation. Session are $125 and couples counseling is $180. The consultation fee is taken off your first session as well. For the month of December all sessions are 50% off.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in psychotherapy in VA and DC. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is the main driver of trying to create change within your life. I consider my clients to be the experts of their experiences as I walk alongside them. I want to help you discover your inner strengths to be able to thrive in life and not just survive.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in psychotherapy in VA and DC. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is the main driver of trying to create change within your life. I consider my clients to be the experts of their experiences as I walk alongside them. I want to help you discover your inner strengths to be able to thrive in life and not just survive.
I’ve worked with children and adults of all ages, individuals and groups, and clients struggling with mental health diagnoses, substance use, relationship issues, or any kind of daily life stressors.
I personally have a background in Women, Gender, & Sexuality studies (with a focus in Sexuality) and in intensive addiction counseling, but I love working with clients with all sorts of concerns!
Coming to therapy with a goal or strong drive you'd like to accomplish gives me a lot to work with in terms of treatment planning, but if all you know is that you need to talk to somebody that's still a good place to start.
I’ve worked with children and adults of all ages, individuals and groups, and clients struggling with mental health diagnoses, substance use, relationship issues, or any kind of daily life stressors.
I personally have a background in Women, Gender, & Sexuality studies (with a focus in Sexuality) and in intensive addiction counseling, but I love working with clients with all sorts of concerns!
Coming to therapy with a goal or strong drive you'd like to accomplish gives me a lot to work with in terms of treatment planning, but if all you know is that you need to talk to somebody that's still a good place to start.
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LGBTQ+ Therapists
Do LGBTQ-affirmative therapists receive special training?
Yes. Many therapists who practice LGBTQ-affirmative therapy have completed specialized training, either during their degree program or as continuing education, to learn the core principles of affirmative therapy and how to best support their LGBTQ clients; some have received certifications in LGBTQ-affirmative therapy. Prospective clients should inquire as to a clinician’s background and training to ensure a good fit.
Why might I want to see an LGBTQ-affirming or LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
Queer and gender-non-conforming individuals frequently experience bias and marginalization in day-to-day life. Working with a therapist who understands these unique challenges, as well as accepts and affirms their identity, can help LGBTQ clients feel safe and supported during therapy—allowing them to better navigate their relationships, mental health, and anything else that they wish to explore during therapy. It is important to note that many therapists can be effective in their work with LGBTQ+ individuals, even in the absence of specific training or background knowledge. The most important component in therapy is the alliance between therapist and client, and this alliance can exist between individuals with very different backgrounds.
How can I find an LGBTQ-friendly therapist?
You may wish to inquire about a therapist’s expertise with your specific challenges or concerns—depression, for example, or relationship strife—as well as their past experiences treating LGBTQ+ clients. Prospective clients may also ask whether a therapist has obtained additional training and/or certification in LGBTQ-affirmative techniques.
How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience with LGBTQ issues?
Prospective clients should feel empowered to directly ask therapists whether they have received training or been certified in LGBTQ-affirming therapy; competent therapists will be happy to explain their educational background and preferred approach(es) to help a client find the best match for them. Clients may also wish to ask how a therapist has treated clients with their particular challenges in the past and what they expect treatment to look like.
Are all the therapists listed in the LGBTQ directory themselves members of the LGBTQ community?
While therapists may choose to disclose their sexual orientation or gender identity in their profiles, the LGBTQ directory features not only those who have shared this information but also those who assert specialized training or experience in providing support to queer individuals, couples or families.