Adults Therapists in Fredericksburg, VA

Welcome! I am grateful you stopped by and are considering my services during a vulnerable time in your life. I believe that we are shaped by each experience we have, the systems we interact with, and the relationships we engage in. Every individual is unique in their identities (race, gender, sexual orientation, Roles, culture, religion, etc.). Those identities are key factors in the individual’s view of the world and interaction within it. I am also a gender affirming therapist, and here to help anyone on their journey.

Currently accepting new clients with daytime and evening/weekend availability. I am a licensed clinical social worker who specializes in adolescents and adults experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have a diverse clinical background with experience treating anxiety, depression, grief/loss, mood disorders, interpersonal/relationship issues, life transitions and trauma.

One of my favorite quotes is, “life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain.” My focus in therapy is teaching individuals how to dance in the rain. I have had the pleasure of serving as an honorary dance instructor to children, adolescents, adults , and families in various community behavioral health settings. One of my passions is supporting clients with rediscovering their strengths, embracing their humanness, and finding their balance.

We are excited to offer both in-person and online social skills training using both individual and group formats for clients of all ages. For those living in Northern Virginia, please visit PsychLife.net for our in-person services at our Fredericksburg, Woodbridge, and Oakton offices. If you are interested in our online social skills coaching program, visit SocialSkillsCenter.com. For over 20 years we have taught social skills to 1,000’s of children, adolescents, and adults using our innovative “Peer Process Social Skills” model.

TELEHEALTH AVAILABLE As individuals we face many situations in life that can affect us in different ways. There are times when these situations can become more difficult than others and can affect our relationships, our performance at work or school, or even in our daily activities. At this point we face a challenge to start a learning process, strengthen our coping skills and overcome these obstacles in life. Please know that you don’t have to go through this process alone. In therapy, we can work collaboratively to identify your challenges, define your goals more clearly and create a plan according to your own needs.

As a psychotherapist and provider of neurofeedback services, I am committed to helping children, teens, and adults fulfill their potential and break free from limitations created by stress and difficult life experiences or by developmental and physical challenges. I specialize in providing neurofeedback services, a cutting edge intervention for stress management and relaxation as well as many symptoms of ADHD, high functioning autism, PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder), OCD, insomnia, anxiety, depression, and many other conditions. I also practice cognitive-behavior therapy (CBT), strength-based solution-focused therapy, mindfulness, and other specialized interventions appropriate for unique needs and circumstances.

I have extensive clinical experience in providing psychological services to adults , couples and families as well as members of the Public Safety, Correctional and Armed Forces Communities. Together we journey on a path to identify and target thoughts, feelings and behaviors which are problematic to psychological growth. My goal is to improve the psychological wellbeing of the indiviudals, couples or families that I serve.

Erika Wormeley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who has been working hard with her clients for over a decade. She most enjoys working with adults and emerging adults (13-19 years old) with mental health and substance abuse issues. Erika's specialties include anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and trauma. Erika holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Psychology from the University of Mary Washington, and a Master of Arts degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Argosy University.

Do you or someone you love have a substance use problem? Have you been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and don't know where to turn? Are you struggling with depression or anxiety and having a hard time getting through the day? Are you gay/ lesbian/ bisexual/ gender fluid/ transgender /* and having difficulties coming to terms with this identity? I have over 20 years of experience helping folks with these issues. My basic approach uses humor combined with evidence based approaches including Cognitive-Behavioral, GLBT Affirmative Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Motivational Enhancement, etc.

For many of us therapy is not the first step we take when we desire change. We change our habits, lean on our support system, or continue the mantra: "I can handle this on my own". Therapy is so much more than fixing what you feel is wrong in your life, or returning to "who you were" in the past. It's about being honest and expressive about your feelings, being open to reflective conversations, and learning new ideas and skills that require both patience and growth. I want my clients to see therapy as a resource to help them on their wellness journey of becoming who they want to be.

We all have challenges in varying forms, some we can fix, others we can manage, and yet others we need some help to either fix or manage. I want to come alongside you with a spirit of collaboration to support you in fixing or managing whatever you are dealing with. I will create a safe space, a listening ear, and therapeutic feedback using evidence-based practices. I am going to be honest with you, that I am not here to fix you, but to support you in fixing or managing what you are challenged with. My style is laid back and meeting you where you are but expect to do work. I am genuine, open, compassionate, upbeat, and direct.

My goal is to provide a warm and accepting environment for individuals to explore feelings and life experiences that may allow for personal reflection and growth. We all may experience a feeling of being "stuck" at some point in our lives and may be unsure of how to move forward. I believe the path forward is discovered through personal reflection and self-exploration. I enjoy working with adolescents and adults utilizing a strength based approach. I work with individuals that may be experiencing mood disorder/depression, anxiety, adjustment to life changes, grief/loss, and a variety of other presenting issues.

While life events and transitions can be overwhelming and isolating, you never have to be alone. Through the therapeutic process, I will empathetically work with you to understand your goals and help guide you to wellness. I love working with ages spanning from late teens to older adults during life transitions. I feel as though we can all have a “harsh inner critic”; this critic is difficult to silence or challenge. Many times, we ask ourselves, “why did this happen” or “why do I feel this way”? When we ask ourselves “why”, we tend to reinforce shame. Think about it, “why” indicates there is just one answer.

I am grateful for the opportunity to accompany individuals on their journey and hold a space of support, safety, and healing. I believe that therapy, like life, is about pushing yourself outside your comfort zone and embracing growth. I value the power of connection with others, the willingness to be vulnerable, and exploration into our thoughts and feelings to become aware of our authentic selves. I enjoy working with individuals who are motivated, open-minded, and willing to try new experiences to support them on this path.

TELEHEALTH AVAILABLE I work with children and adolescents experiencing issues with social skills, learning difficulties, Autism, depression, anxiety, divorce and oppositional behaviors. I also work with parents on how to parent a child with ODD, ADHD and Autism. Children, tweens and teens who are struggling with self-esteem, divorce, peer relations, school issues, depression or anxiety are my passion. I want to help them learn to navigate their young world more effectively and achieve their potential.

I have been involved with the recovery community for over 25 years. I have 20 years of experience working with families dealing with addiction and behavioral issues, helping parents develop strategies and tools to help their children.