Sex Therapists in Charlottesville, VA

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Thomas Cooke
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Charlottesville, VA 22903
I am also a sex therapy provider.
I provide couple counseling both in person and online. The majority of my clients are ready to continue to grow, both as individuals and in their relationships, but are finding that old patterns might be getting in the way. My goal as a clinician is to balance emotional validation and safety with action-oriented approaches.
I am also a sex therapy provider.
I provide couple counseling both in person and online. The majority of my clients are ready to continue to grow, both as individuals and in their relationships, but are finding that old patterns might be getting in the way. My goal as a clinician is to balance emotional validation and safety with action-oriented approaches.
(434) 280-3104 View (434) 280-3104
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Joardan Thornton
Supervisee in Clinical Social Work, MSW
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Maybe one of you wants sex and the other doesn't.
I specialize in sex therapy and relationship repair for couples and individuals. I help couples navigate intimacy issues, communication breakdowns, infidelity recovery, and mismatched desire. For men, I address erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety. I integrate evidence-based sex therapy with couples counseling.
Maybe one of you wants sex and the other doesn't.
I specialize in sex therapy and relationship repair for couples and individuals. I help couples navigate intimacy issues, communication breakdowns, infidelity recovery, and mismatched desire. For men, I address erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety. I integrate evidence-based sex therapy with couples counseling.
(217) 571-4652 View (217) 571-4652
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Tova Sularz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
I provide sex therapy for exploration related to physical and emotional intimacy, relationship challenges, pleasure (kink +), non-monogamy, and gender and sexual identity.
I enjoy working with couples and individuals on a wide range of concerns and goals, including attachment and intimacy, emotional regulation, self-worth, decision-making, identity exploration, and healing from trauma. I work with people seeking clarity about who they are, and how to come into alignment with their values and desires.
I provide sex therapy for exploration related to physical and emotional intimacy, relationship challenges, pleasure (kink +), non-monogamy, and gender and sexual identity.
I enjoy working with couples and individuals on a wide range of concerns and goals, including attachment and intimacy, emotional regulation, self-worth, decision-making, identity exploration, and healing from trauma. I work with people seeking clarity about who they are, and how to come into alignment with their values and desires.
(434) 260-0595 View (434) 260-0595
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Eliza Segell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, CST
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
In my practice, I specialize in relationships and sexuality.
Using elements of relational and somatic therapies (Developmental Model, Wheel of Consent, IFS) sessions support the mind and nervous system you have and harness the emergent qualities of your neurobiology. You will experience researched methods which support deeper connection and growth, first with yourself, and then in the context of your relationship(s).
In my practice, I specialize in relationships and sexuality.
Using elements of relational and somatic therapies (Developmental Model, Wheel of Consent, IFS) sessions support the mind and nervous system you have and harness the emergent qualities of your neurobiology. You will experience researched methods which support deeper connection and growth, first with yourself, and then in the context of your relationship(s).
(434) 201-4934 View (434) 201-4934
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Alexis Schneider
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Charlottesville, VA 22901
Rooted in a love of community and new experiences, Alexis brings curiosity and balance to both her personal and professional life. Born in Jacksonville, North Carolina, and raised in Fredericksburg, Virginia, Alexis has lived in Mount Holly, New Jersey, Augusta, Georgia, and now Washington, DC, alongside her husband of four years, who is active duty in the United States Air Force.
Rooted in a love of community and new experiences, Alexis brings curiosity and balance to both her personal and professional life. Born in Jacksonville, North Carolina, and raised in Fredericksburg, Virginia, Alexis has lived in Mount Holly, New Jersey, Augusta, Georgia, and now Washington, DC, alongside her husband of four years, who is active duty in the United States Air Force.
(434) 686-6102 View (434) 686-6102
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Tova Sularz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I provide sex therapy for exploration related to physical and emotional intimacy, relationship challenges, pleasure (kink +), non-monogamy, and gender and sexual identity.
I enjoy working with couples and individuals on a wide range of concerns and goals, including attachment and intimacy, emotional regulation, self-worth, decision-making, identity exploration, and healing from trauma. I work with people seeking clarity about who they are, and how to come into alignment with their values and desires.
I provide sex therapy for exploration related to physical and emotional intimacy, relationship challenges, pleasure (kink +), non-monogamy, and gender and sexual identity.
I enjoy working with couples and individuals on a wide range of concerns and goals, including attachment and intimacy, emotional regulation, self-worth, decision-making, identity exploration, and healing from trauma. I work with people seeking clarity about who they are, and how to come into alignment with their values and desires.
(307) 313-2129 View (307) 313-2129
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Kate Double
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LISW-CP
4 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Focusing primarily on relationships, sexuality and trauma; and starting with the belief that relationships are central to our well-being, I partner with clients to create a warm and safe space in which to explore patterns that impact growth.
Each individual or couple is unique and will need an individualized approach. Individuals and couples with diverse gender expressions/identities and sexual orientations are welcome and embraced. I work with adult individuals and couples of all ages, with a particular interest in those that are midlife and beyond.
Focusing primarily on relationships, sexuality and trauma; and starting with the belief that relationships are central to our well-being, I partner with clients to create a warm and safe space in which to explore patterns that impact growth.
Each individual or couple is unique and will need an individualized approach. Individuals and couples with diverse gender expressions/identities and sexual orientations are welcome and embraced. I work with adult individuals and couples of all ages, with a particular interest in those that are midlife and beyond.
(919) 726-3883 View (919) 726-3883
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Kate Meade
Psychologist, PsyD, LCP, CCTP
3 Endorsed
Online Only
One of my core beliefs as a therapist is that there is power and healing in our human connections, in the words and lived experiences we share with one another. Therapy is a space for you to share your story and your experiences, and for us to work together to identify and address your unique needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to create this space and foster growth through warmth, humor, vulnerability, authenticity, and the relationship we build together. My goal is to create a space that is safe and supportive of your whole self and embraces all of your identities.
One of my core beliefs as a therapist is that there is power and healing in our human connections, in the words and lived experiences we share with one another. Therapy is a space for you to share your story and your experiences, and for us to work together to identify and address your unique needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to create this space and foster growth through warmth, humor, vulnerability, authenticity, and the relationship we build together. My goal is to create a space that is safe and supportive of your whole self and embraces all of your identities.
(540) 787-2152 View (540) 787-2152
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Dr. Danielle Armour, Sex & Relationship Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in sexual health, intimacy, and relationships, especially the one we have with self. I am passionate about helping you and yours enrich your lives—by empowering you to unpack what’s preventing you from fully embracing all of life’s pleasures. I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to heal ourselves. In my practice, psychotherapy is a journey of self healing, with me as your guide. Connection is one of our most powerful tools, and through connecting with me, together, we will cultivate transformation and uncover the peace that lies within you.
I specialize in sexual health, intimacy, and relationships, especially the one we have with self. I am passionate about helping you and yours enrich your lives—by empowering you to unpack what’s preventing you from fully embracing all of life’s pleasures. I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to heal ourselves. In my practice, psychotherapy is a journey of self healing, with me as your guide. Connection is one of our most powerful tools, and through connecting with me, together, we will cultivate transformation and uncover the peace that lies within you.
(804) 531-5166 View (804) 531-5166
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Dr. Ashley Sweet, Sex + Relationship Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LMHC, LCPC, CST
3 Endorsed
Online Only
You deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. I provide an expert, pleasure-positive space to help you move from "surviving" to thriving in your skin and your bedroom. Many of my clients come to me feeling a quiet disconnect—from their partners, their bodies, or their sense of joy. You might be struggling with communication loops that lead nowhere, untangling years of religious shame, or navigating the unique nuances of Poly/ENM and LGBTQ+ relationships. With nearly two decades of experience as a "sexpert", I am passionate about sexual wellbeing. Fees are $250/ $225 per session; NO Insurance).
You deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. I provide an expert, pleasure-positive space to help you move from "surviving" to thriving in your skin and your bedroom. Many of my clients come to me feeling a quiet disconnect—from their partners, their bodies, or their sense of joy. You might be struggling with communication loops that lead nowhere, untangling years of religious shame, or navigating the unique nuances of Poly/ENM and LGBTQ+ relationships. With nearly two decades of experience as a "sexpert", I am passionate about sexual wellbeing. Fees are $250/ $225 per session; NO Insurance).
(757) 720-2613 View (757) 720-2613
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Alexandria Da Ponte-Cheatham
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd, MDiv
7 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you looking for a therapist you can talk to openly about intimacy, sex, or desire without fear of judgment or shame?
I work from a person-centered, narrative, and mindfulness-based foundation and integrate evidence-based approaches to provide trauma-informed care. I believe that healing happens when therapy is grounded in authenticity, compassion, and respect for the full complexity of who you are.
Are you looking for a therapist you can talk to openly about intimacy, sex, or desire without fear of judgment or shame?
I work from a person-centered, narrative, and mindfulness-based foundation and integrate evidence-based approaches to provide trauma-informed care. I believe that healing happens when therapy is grounded in authenticity, compassion, and respect for the full complexity of who you are.
(804) 589-5353 View (804) 589-5353
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The Pincus Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CST
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
The Pincus Center specializes in sex positive therapy for individuals and relationships.
The Pincus Center specializes in working with clients to build a life filled with pleasure and joy. We will help you to find your inner voice, establish your own goals and find a path that works for you. There is no one true way to do therapy or to live your life. We understand that the world is a very hard place to be right now. We can't make everything perfect but we can make it better. We focus on issues around neurodiversity, self acceptance, relationship communication, sexual freedom, shame, low desire, sexual functioning issues and a wide variety of other mental health issues.
The Pincus Center specializes in sex positive therapy for individuals and relationships.
The Pincus Center specializes in working with clients to build a life filled with pleasure and joy. We will help you to find your inner voice, establish your own goals and find a path that works for you. There is no one true way to do therapy or to live your life. We understand that the world is a very hard place to be right now. We can't make everything perfect but we can make it better. We focus on issues around neurodiversity, self acceptance, relationship communication, sexual freedom, shame, low desire, sexual functioning issues and a wide variety of other mental health issues.
(202) 499-2602 View (202) 499-2602
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John McDowell
Counselor, LPC, MEd
Charlottesville, VA 22911
Whatever the issue at hand you are dealing with, there is hope. It can be nerve-racking and scary to begin the journey of self-reflection, growth and development but John believes in the healing and restoration of individuals, couples, and families! His specialties are marriage therapy and individual therapy for anxiety, depression, and dealing with the pain of life. I practice in Virginia and Colorado.
Whatever the issue at hand you are dealing with, there is hope. It can be nerve-racking and scary to begin the journey of self-reflection, growth and development but John believes in the healing and restoration of individuals, couples, and families! His specialties are marriage therapy and individual therapy for anxiety, depression, and dealing with the pain of life. I practice in Virginia and Colorado.
(719) 631-1577 View (719) 631-1577
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Glen Denlinger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
6 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22901
I am the President & Clinical Director of Well Marriage Center, LLC. Couples counseling is my specialty and what I offer exclusively. For over 35 years I've helped couples change the trajectory of their relationship with counseling and coaching techniques that heal trust, rekindle intimacy, and increase the positive aspects of your relationship. I listen intently but don't only listen; you get my thoughts, ideas, suggestions and feedback every step of the way. I'm active with you in this process. Please click on the "visit my website" tab under my picture to learn more about my specialty.
I am the President & Clinical Director of Well Marriage Center, LLC. Couples counseling is my specialty and what I offer exclusively. For over 35 years I've helped couples change the trajectory of their relationship with counseling and coaching techniques that heal trust, rekindle intimacy, and increase the positive aspects of your relationship. I listen intently but don't only listen; you get my thoughts, ideas, suggestions and feedback every step of the way. I'm active with you in this process. Please click on the "visit my website" tab under my picture to learn more about my specialty.
(540) 268-0921 View (540) 268-0921
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Pamela Lurie
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Maintaining a sexuality and gender-affirming environment is also important to me, as well as addressing anti-racism and systemic oppression as it relates to someone's life experience matters the most to me in my practice.
My goal as your therapist is to help you develop your personal tool kits to cope with the human experience. I am dedicated to helping my clients to navigate life transitions with compassion, to have vulnerable conversations with loved ones, and to live more liberated lives.
Maintaining a sexuality and gender-affirming environment is also important to me, as well as addressing anti-racism and systemic oppression as it relates to someone's life experience matters the most to me in my practice.
My goal as your therapist is to help you develop your personal tool kits to cope with the human experience. I am dedicated to helping my clients to navigate life transitions with compassion, to have vulnerable conversations with loved ones, and to live more liberated lives.
(434) 331-9720 View (434) 331-9720
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Daniel L. Price
Psychologist, PsyD
Charlottesville, VA 22903
Psychotherapy helps people achieve what they want in their lives by mobilizing their energy in a positive way and problem solving the things that stand in their way. Emotional issues from the past can be worked through to happier healthier functioning. Improved mood and functioning without anxiety can be achieved.
Psychotherapy helps people achieve what they want in their lives by mobilizing their energy in a positive way and problem solving the things that stand in their way. Emotional issues from the past can be worked through to happier healthier functioning. Improved mood and functioning without anxiety can be achieved.
(434) 204-9803 View (434) 204-9803
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Kris Shea
Psychologist, PsyD
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you navigating a life transition, shifting relationships, or a period of emotional uncertainty? You may be feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I bring compassion, curiosity, and deep respect for your lived experience. I understand how personal history, relationships, culture, and society shape our inner world—and how distressing it can be when those forces leave you feeling stuck or unseen.
Are you navigating a life transition, shifting relationships, or a period of emotional uncertainty? You may be feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I bring compassion, curiosity, and deep respect for your lived experience. I understand how personal history, relationships, culture, and society shape our inner world—and how distressing it can be when those forces leave you feeling stuck or unseen.
(434) 623-5858 View (434) 623-5858
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Kate Double
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LISW-CP
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Focusing primarily on relationships, sexuality and trauma, often at the intersection of all three, I partner with clients to create a warm and safe space in which to explore patterns that impact growth.
Each individual or couple is unique and will need an individualized approach. Those with diverse gender expressions/identities and sexual orientations are welcome and embraced. I work with adult individuals and couples of all ages. I will see adolescents on a case-by-base basis.
Focusing primarily on relationships, sexuality and trauma, often at the intersection of all three, I partner with clients to create a warm and safe space in which to explore patterns that impact growth.
Each individual or couple is unique and will need an individualized approach. Those with diverse gender expressions/identities and sexual orientations are welcome and embraced. I work with adult individuals and couples of all ages. I will see adolescents on a case-by-base basis.
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Jen Patterson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
1 Endorsed
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Some gentle reminders from me to you: Not everyone can see the weight you’ve been carrying for years. That weight is real, and it’s heavy; Your body is not not overreacting, it's remembering; You deserve to heal from experiences that were never your fault; Your sensitivity and softness are not a burden-they are part of your deep, caring nature; You are not responsible for the poor behavior of others-you can set boundaries, know your worth and trust yourself; It's okay (and necessary) to grieve younger versions of yourself who felt unseen, people-pleased or who felt out of place; It makes sense to feel the way you do.
Some gentle reminders from me to you: Not everyone can see the weight you’ve been carrying for years. That weight is real, and it’s heavy; Your body is not not overreacting, it's remembering; You deserve to heal from experiences that were never your fault; Your sensitivity and softness are not a burden-they are part of your deep, caring nature; You are not responsible for the poor behavior of others-you can set boundaries, know your worth and trust yourself; It's okay (and necessary) to grieve younger versions of yourself who felt unseen, people-pleased or who felt out of place; It makes sense to feel the way you do.
(434) 608-9404 View (434) 608-9404
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Kimberly P Bickford
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdS, LPC, SEP
Charlottesville, VA 22902
Many of people I work with are functioning well on the surface but underneath they are carrying emotional pain or a sense of disconnection. Some are navigating life transitions, relationship struggles, or the impact of past experiences that still echo in the present. Others are simply tired of repeating the same patterns and long for a different way of being, one that feels more aligned with who they truly are. I work with individuals and couples who seek deeper self-understanding and more fulfilling, connected ways of living and relating.
Many of people I work with are functioning well on the surface but underneath they are carrying emotional pain or a sense of disconnection. Some are navigating life transitions, relationship struggles, or the impact of past experiences that still echo in the present. Others are simply tired of repeating the same patterns and long for a different way of being, one that feels more aligned with who they truly are. I work with individuals and couples who seek deeper self-understanding and more fulfilling, connected ways of living and relating.
(540) 585-1917 View (540) 585-1917

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Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.