Couples Counseling Therapists in North Highland, Arlington, VA

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Melinda Mecham Jensen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I work with individuals and couples struggling with depression, anxiety or stress, difficulty communicating and understanding themselves and others.
www.mindymjensen.com Most People explore therapy when they are aware they want more out of life. Therapy is a process of examining wants and behaviors, and establishing a course to achieve those goals more effectively. I work with people in individual and group psychotherapy. I also work with couples with a co-therapist, allowing each client to feel like they have an advocate in the room. This helps the couple identify, negotiate and achieve their goals whether individually or collectively.
I work with individuals and couples struggling with depression, anxiety or stress, difficulty communicating and understanding themselves and others.
www.mindymjensen.com Most People explore therapy when they are aware they want more out of life. Therapy is a process of examining wants and behaviors, and establishing a course to achieve those goals more effectively. I work with people in individual and group psychotherapy. I also work with couples with a co-therapist, allowing each client to feel like they have an advocate in the room. This helps the couple identify, negotiate and achieve their goals whether individually or collectively.
(540) 212-2081 View (540) 212-2081
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Ben Orlando
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MFA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I enjoy working with adults, teenagers, couples, and groups, and treat depression, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, relationship issues, somatic pain, and trauma. From my personal experiences I have learned how important it is to understand the causes of our current behaviors and how challenging it can be to express emotions suppressed over a lifetime. From my professional experience as a long-time university professor, I understand how anxiety and emotional dysregulation can hinder progress in school and work, and how addressing and working through these issues can lead to betterment in all areas of life.
I enjoy working with adults, teenagers, couples, and groups, and treat depression, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, relationship issues, somatic pain, and trauma. From my personal experiences I have learned how important it is to understand the causes of our current behaviors and how challenging it can be to express emotions suppressed over a lifetime. From my professional experience as a long-time university professor, I understand how anxiety and emotional dysregulation can hinder progress in school and work, and how addressing and working through these issues can lead to betterment in all areas of life.
(703) 260-8922 x119 View (703) 260-8922 x119
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Lauren Kane
Resident in Counseling, MEd
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I treat anxiety, depression, eating disorders, couples, and families.
Does it ever seem like everyone around you is happier than you are? Do you look around and wonder if people are pretending to feel good, because you feel so awful? The answer is, it’s normal to have seasons of anxiety and depression. My goal is to support you through this season and bring you out of it.
I treat anxiety, depression, eating disorders, couples, and families.
Does it ever seem like everyone around you is happier than you are? Do you look around and wonder if people are pretending to feel good, because you feel so awful? The answer is, it’s normal to have seasons of anxiety and depression. My goal is to support you through this season and bring you out of it.
(703) 952-3469 View (703) 952-3469
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Heidi Lapham Murphy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I treat eating disorders, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship difficulties, and exercise compulsion.
I believe in the power of therapy and the changes that can occur within each session. The most beautiful parts of therapy work are when both the client and therapist can be open, honest, and vulnerable with their struggles, observations, and successes. I seek to provide a supportive environment that can nurture vulnerability and true progress. By using mindfulness and grounding techniques, self-awareness can occur in order not to just live, but to thrive.
I treat eating disorders, anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship difficulties, and exercise compulsion.
I believe in the power of therapy and the changes that can occur within each session. The most beautiful parts of therapy work are when both the client and therapist can be open, honest, and vulnerable with their struggles, observations, and successes. I seek to provide a supportive environment that can nurture vulnerability and true progress. By using mindfulness and grounding techniques, self-awareness can occur in order not to just live, but to thrive.
(703) 691-5478 View (703) 691-5478
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Heather Leahy Hecht
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
"New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings." - Lao Tzu. Have you lost your sense of peace and wholeness? Are you feeling alone and unfulfilled? I specialize in treating adults, as well as children and adolescents, using several treatment modalities that are among the most evidence-based in the field, including CBT. I also specialize in the treatment of couples, and am a Certified Level One Gottman Couples Therapist. I am committed to helping adults regain their well-being, to allowing children to improve behavior and reconnect with their joy, and to assisting couples in increasing intimacy and friendship.
"New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings." - Lao Tzu. Have you lost your sense of peace and wholeness? Are you feeling alone and unfulfilled? I specialize in treating adults, as well as children and adolescents, using several treatment modalities that are among the most evidence-based in the field, including CBT. I also specialize in the treatment of couples, and am a Certified Level One Gottman Couples Therapist. I am committed to helping adults regain their well-being, to allowing children to improve behavior and reconnect with their joy, and to assisting couples in increasing intimacy and friendship.
(703) 436-4259 View (703) 436-4259
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Elizabeth (Puma) Cornick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I work in a number of different modalities including: individual, couples, group and family therapy.
I have been a practicing psychotherapist in the metropolitan area for the past 25 years. I received my B.A. from the University of Virginia and MSW from Catholic University. Emotional distress, as uncomfortable as it is, represents not only an opportunity to heal, but a chance to grow. It can be a chance to discover how to be effective at reaching one's objectives and achieving fulfillment, whether it be emotional, relational, or professional. My aim is to assist in this process.
I work in a number of different modalities including: individual, couples, group and family therapy.
I have been a practicing psychotherapist in the metropolitan area for the past 25 years. I received my B.A. from the University of Virginia and MSW from Catholic University. Emotional distress, as uncomfortable as it is, represents not only an opportunity to heal, but a chance to grow. It can be a chance to discover how to be effective at reaching one's objectives and achieving fulfillment, whether it be emotional, relational, or professional. My aim is to assist in this process.
(703) 662-1961 View (703) 662-1961
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Jared Neslen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
We all have a story and experience to share. I am here to sit with you in yours. I believe in compassion and personal empowerment as the doorway to change and real growth. If you are struggling with expressing emotions, managing behavior, speaking up for yourself, finding personal value, struggles in your relationship or with your confidence, identity, or faith, you do not have to do so alone. I believe in providing you with a safe place to explore, set goals, and to be heard.
We all have a story and experience to share. I am here to sit with you in yours. I believe in compassion and personal empowerment as the doorway to change and real growth. If you are struggling with expressing emotions, managing behavior, speaking up for yourself, finding personal value, struggles in your relationship or with your confidence, identity, or faith, you do not have to do so alone. I believe in providing you with a safe place to explore, set goals, and to be heard.
(571) 429-3932 x105 View (571) 429-3932 x105
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Willow Rose Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT, RYT-200
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209  (Online Only)
I counsel individuals, couples, and families and enjoy working with children.
Are you tired of feeling depressed, anxious and need a change? I offer a safe atmosphere for children, teens, and adults struggling with life challenges, trauma, mental illness, self-esteem, & strained family/couple dynamics. I can help you explore emotions and overcome your struggles! I use approaches including: cognitive behavioral therapy, person-centered, family systems, meditation, and creative arts techniques. I'm certified in Accelerated Resolution Trauma Therapy. I believe it takes courage to attend therapy and I provide empathy in every client session. I am caring, warm, compassionate, and I would love to help you!
I counsel individuals, couples, and families and enjoy working with children.
Are you tired of feeling depressed, anxious and need a change? I offer a safe atmosphere for children, teens, and adults struggling with life challenges, trauma, mental illness, self-esteem, & strained family/couple dynamics. I can help you explore emotions and overcome your struggles! I use approaches including: cognitive behavioral therapy, person-centered, family systems, meditation, and creative arts techniques. I'm certified in Accelerated Resolution Trauma Therapy. I believe it takes courage to attend therapy and I provide empathy in every client session. I am caring, warm, compassionate, and I would love to help you!
(571) 339-5889 View (571) 339-5889
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Resolve Psychological Services
PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
Resolve Psychological Services provides top of the line treatment for anxiety/anxiety-related conditions, depression, eating disorders, trauma, and couples. Resolve treats adults, adolescents, children, and families, and uses cutting-edge, evidence based interventions so you know you are receiving the best treatment available when you are in care at Resolve. Relationships are our speciality, including help for the chronically single. We welcome you to begin a relationship with us! You will be so glad you did.
Resolve Psychological Services provides top of the line treatment for anxiety/anxiety-related conditions, depression, eating disorders, trauma, and couples. Resolve treats adults, adolescents, children, and families, and uses cutting-edge, evidence based interventions so you know you are receiving the best treatment available when you are in care at Resolve. Relationships are our speciality, including help for the chronically single. We welcome you to begin a relationship with us! You will be so glad you did.
(703) 997-7356 View (703) 997-7356
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Aaron J. Dodini
Psychologist, PhD, MS, MA, LMFT, CGP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
We work with individuals, couples, and in a group therapy format to help people better understand themselves--why they do what they do, their strengths and weaknesses so that they can live mindfully and effectively get what they want in life.
At Dodini Behavioral Health we are committed to personal growth & development, and living well with balance. We believe that psychotherapy can be very helpful to some in their pursuit of happiness and a remittance of symptoms like depression, anxiety, or relationship difficulty that keep them distracted from living the life they want. We're interpersonal in our style which fits our overarching philosophy that many of our issues develop and or are maintained in the context of our relationships. It makes sense to us that the best way to address these issues is in the context of a therapeutic relationship.
We work with individuals, couples, and in a group therapy format to help people better understand themselves--why they do what they do, their strengths and weaknesses so that they can live mindfully and effectively get what they want in life.
At Dodini Behavioral Health we are committed to personal growth & development, and living well with balance. We believe that psychotherapy can be very helpful to some in their pursuit of happiness and a remittance of symptoms like depression, anxiety, or relationship difficulty that keep them distracted from living the life they want. We're interpersonal in our style which fits our overarching philosophy that many of our issues develop and or are maintained in the context of our relationships. It makes sense to us that the best way to address these issues is in the context of a therapeutic relationship.
(571) 200-4380 x101 View (571) 200-4380 x101
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Dodini Behavioral Health
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD, LCSW, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
We also offer virtual ADHD testing, co-therapy couples counseling, different process groups & psychoeducational groups, trauma therapy, and much more.
Dodini Behavioral Health is a multidisciplinary private group practice for personal growth, healing, and development currently open to virtual and in person. We help individuals, couples, and families get beyond symptoms and into living the fullest version of their life and self. Our clinical providers are among the top in their fields and have a variety of areas of interest and expertise, and all are devoted to exceptionally good psychotherapy, therapeutic alliance, and continual education. We often work as a team and as co-therapists to give the absolute best in personalized and expert care for you and those you love.
We also offer virtual ADHD testing, co-therapy couples counseling, different process groups & psychoeducational groups, trauma therapy, and much more.
Dodini Behavioral Health is a multidisciplinary private group practice for personal growth, healing, and development currently open to virtual and in person. We help individuals, couples, and families get beyond symptoms and into living the fullest version of their life and self. Our clinical providers are among the top in their fields and have a variety of areas of interest and expertise, and all are devoted to exceptionally good psychotherapy, therapeutic alliance, and continual education. We often work as a team and as co-therapists to give the absolute best in personalized and expert care for you and those you love.
(703) 844-9909 View (703) 844-9909
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Meredith Luttrell
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
I view therapy as a collaborative process where the client is the expert on themselves, and the therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in creating change. It is important to have a safe, empowering, and supportive environment in order to examine hurtful relationship patterns and emotional difficulties, and in turn change negative self-evaluations to better respond to life's challenges. I am genuinely interested in and committed to helping my clients gain insight and express their needs in order to engage in more healthy relationships and live the life they want.
I view therapy as a collaborative process where the client is the expert on themselves, and the therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in creating change. It is important to have a safe, empowering, and supportive environment in order to examine hurtful relationship patterns and emotional difficulties, and in turn change negative self-evaluations to better respond to life's challenges. I am genuinely interested in and committed to helping my clients gain insight and express their needs in order to engage in more healthy relationships and live the life they want.
(757) 793-2859 View (757) 793-2859
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Sarah Nealy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, CCMHC, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22207
SC Nealy currently specializes in self-esteem, religious trauma or "church hurt," sexual trauma and other trauma, complex PTSD, body image issues, resilience building, depression/anxiety, mindfulness, LGBTQIA+ issues (especially premarital and queer couples counseling in LGBTQ+ relationships), couples counseling, premarital counseling, & women's issues.
With over 15 years working in the mental health field, Sarah "SC" Nealy has their second Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and is the Clinical Director at LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative, a group therapy practice for queer therapists for queer clients and their allies/families. With a person-centered, emotion-focused approach aimed at finding solutions, healing trauma, building resilience, improving interpersonal relationships, connecting the mind and body, and working through triggers and past pain, SC wants their clients to feel heard, understood, and valued in the therapeutic space and in their lives.
SC Nealy currently specializes in self-esteem, religious trauma or "church hurt," sexual trauma and other trauma, complex PTSD, body image issues, resilience building, depression/anxiety, mindfulness, LGBTQIA+ issues (especially premarital and queer couples counseling in LGBTQ+ relationships), couples counseling, premarital counseling, & women's issues.
With over 15 years working in the mental health field, Sarah "SC" Nealy has their second Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and is the Clinical Director at LGBT+ Counseling Collaborative, a group therapy practice for queer therapists for queer clients and their allies/families. With a person-centered, emotion-focused approach aimed at finding solutions, healing trauma, building resilience, improving interpersonal relationships, connecting the mind and body, and working through triggers and past pain, SC wants their clients to feel heard, understood, and valued in the therapeutic space and in their lives.
(703) 688-8812 View (703) 688-8812
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Sonia Kahn
Psychologist, PsyD, CGP
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
Waitlist for new clients
Though I specialize in relationship and couple/marital/romantic concerns, I enjoy working with an array of therapeutic issues including mood and anxiety symptoms; self-esteem; trauma; substance issues; sexual issues; and/or LGBTQ identity concerns.
Our personal difficulties are often a "Catch 22," -- comfortable, familiar patterns of behavior inadvertently keep us in unhealthy/unsatisfactory circumstances or relationships. As your therapist, I aim to help you understand your current problems in the context of your unique life experiences, allowing you to develop insight into how your difficulties developed while growing in ways that get you 'unstuck.' I do this by facilitating conversations about your interpersonal relationships (past and present); early life experiences; what you are thinking and feeling (or may be preventing yourself from feeling); and how you communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs with others.
Though I specialize in relationship and couple/marital/romantic concerns, I enjoy working with an array of therapeutic issues including mood and anxiety symptoms; self-esteem; trauma; substance issues; sexual issues; and/or LGBTQ identity concerns.
Our personal difficulties are often a "Catch 22," -- comfortable, familiar patterns of behavior inadvertently keep us in unhealthy/unsatisfactory circumstances or relationships. As your therapist, I aim to help you understand your current problems in the context of your unique life experiences, allowing you to develop insight into how your difficulties developed while growing in ways that get you 'unstuck.' I do this by facilitating conversations about your interpersonal relationships (past and present); early life experiences; what you are thinking and feeling (or may be preventing yourself from feeling); and how you communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs with others.
(703) 596-1781 View (703) 596-1781
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Kate Vitolo
Resident in Counseling, LGPC, CSAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
Are you thriving professionally but struggling internally? Have you always been an exceptional student while also being overwhelmed by what that takes out of you? If you have it all together but still struggle with your mental health, I can help. Whether it's anxiety, depression, issues with relationships, or maybe leaning on that glass of wine a bit too much, therapy can help you overcome the issues you may be experiencing.
Are you thriving professionally but struggling internally? Have you always been an exceptional student while also being overwhelmed by what that takes out of you? If you have it all together but still struggle with your mental health, I can help. Whether it's anxiety, depression, issues with relationships, or maybe leaning on that glass of wine a bit too much, therapy can help you overcome the issues you may be experiencing.
(571) 470-5516 View (571) 470-5516
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Dr. Taylor Bonanni Hawk
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209  (Online Only)
“Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength” -Sigmund Freud. I work with clients who have felt the heartache of hopelessness, despair, and sadness. Whether the presenting problems stem from anxiety, depression, trauma, eating concerns, or a combination of these or other issues, I aim to help clients learn new ways in which to alleviate some of the negative symptoms associated with dissatisfaction or despair.
“Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength” -Sigmund Freud. I work with clients who have felt the heartache of hopelessness, despair, and sadness. Whether the presenting problems stem from anxiety, depression, trauma, eating concerns, or a combination of these or other issues, I aim to help clients learn new ways in which to alleviate some of the negative symptoms associated with dissatisfaction or despair.
(703) 420-7120 View (703) 420-7120
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Kate D'Amica Hostetter
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209  (Online Only)
Have you been struggling to understand your emotions, cope with changes or reduce depression, anxiety or guilt? Through encouragement and empowerment, we will work to reduce and heal the challenges you face. Having supported a wide variety of clients, I am passionate about working with both men and women to find and maintain freedom from their eating and co-occurring disorders by gently confronting barriers, building on strengths and challenging unhelpful relational and thought patterns. It is never too late to seek help and make change!
Have you been struggling to understand your emotions, cope with changes or reduce depression, anxiety or guilt? Through encouragement and empowerment, we will work to reduce and heal the challenges you face. Having supported a wide variety of clients, I am passionate about working with both men and women to find and maintain freedom from their eating and co-occurring disorders by gently confronting barriers, building on strengths and challenging unhelpful relational and thought patterns. It is never too late to seek help and make change!
(757) 568-7853 View (757) 568-7853

Online Therapists

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Jacqueline Buarque de Macedo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination” – Carl Rogers. Are you feeling stuck and lost in a cycle of repetition? Are you unsure how to change your relationship with yourself and others? I am experienced in treating adults, children, and adolescents, who have struggled with a combination of issues. Additionally, I have a special interest in couples therapy and work out of a Gottman and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy perspective. My areas of expertise include trauma, anxiety, panic, depression, and adjustment disorders.
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination” – Carl Rogers. Are you feeling stuck and lost in a cycle of repetition? Are you unsure how to change your relationship with yourself and others? I am experienced in treating adults, children, and adolescents, who have struggled with a combination of issues. Additionally, I have a special interest in couples therapy and work out of a Gottman and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy perspective. My areas of expertise include trauma, anxiety, panic, depression, and adjustment disorders.
(703) 440-7619 View (703) 440-7619
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Amy Taddeo
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209  (Online Only)
In addition to my specialization in eating disorders, I enjoy supporting clients working through struggles with self-esteem, life transitions, trauma, relationship concerns, and mood disorders.
I enjoy working with individuals of all genders and ages, though I particularly enjoy working with older adolescents (14+) and young adults as they navigate the more transitional stages of life. I use a person-centered approach to therapy that allows my clients to be their own experts, and to use their own understanding of their experiences as a baseline for their healing. I also integrate relational therapy techniques, supporting clients in building their sense of self and autonomy, while also developing patience with and trust in their relationships with others.
In addition to my specialization in eating disorders, I enjoy supporting clients working through struggles with self-esteem, life transitions, trauma, relationship concerns, and mood disorders.
I enjoy working with individuals of all genders and ages, though I particularly enjoy working with older adolescents (14+) and young adults as they navigate the more transitional stages of life. I use a person-centered approach to therapy that allows my clients to be their own experts, and to use their own understanding of their experiences as a baseline for their healing. I also integrate relational therapy techniques, supporting clients in building their sense of self and autonomy, while also developing patience with and trust in their relationships with others.
(571) 520-5917 View (571) 520-5917
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Alexis Buckheit
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEd, LPC, LCPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
North Highland, Arlington, VA 22209
It's such a big step to reach out for help and so important to find a therapist that feels like the right fit. I am passionate about working together with clients during challenging times in their lives and believe in healing for all. I see the therapeutic relationship as the most important factor in supporting clients to explore and understand themselves and move towards self-discovery, self-acceptance, and healing. I am a warm, empathetic person and strive to provide a safe and supportive space to foster a productive therapeutic relationship, allowing individuals to create enduring and lasting change within their lives.
It's such a big step to reach out for help and so important to find a therapist that feels like the right fit. I am passionate about working together with clients during challenging times in their lives and believe in healing for all. I see the therapeutic relationship as the most important factor in supporting clients to explore and understand themselves and move towards self-discovery, self-acceptance, and healing. I am a warm, empathetic person and strive to provide a safe and supportive space to foster a productive therapeutic relationship, allowing individuals to create enduring and lasting change within their lives.
(703) 420-3055 View (703) 420-3055

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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.