Infidelity Therapists in San Antonio, TX
Dr. Claire C Loucka
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78232 (Online Only)
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples and families addressing issues of infidelity, breaches of trust, re-igniting desire, co-parenting, and exploring sexual orientation.
Not Accepting New Clients at This Time. Therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home, online sessions! Sometimes life gets messy, it can feel like everything is all jumbled up in knots with no way to untangle things—that’s where I come in. I am a disentanglement expert. As a solution-orientated therapist I am most interested in exploring your strengths and resources as the building blocks for therapy and change.
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples and families addressing issues of infidelity, breaches of trust, re-igniting desire, co-parenting, and exploring sexual orientation.
Not Accepting New Clients at This Time. Therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home, online sessions! Sometimes life gets messy, it can feel like everything is all jumbled up in knots with no way to untangle things—that’s where I come in. I am a disentanglement expert. As a solution-orientated therapist I am most interested in exploring your strengths and resources as the building blocks for therapy and change.
Dr. Monte Miller - Christian Psychologist
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78209 (Online Only)
Infidelity, porn addiction, other sexual issues (performance anxiety, depression, anxiety) can be devastating to you and your family. I know all the steps needed to rebuild trust and intimacy, some that others miss. Have repaired many marriages. Am a full psychologist & sex therapist. No shaming, judging. I offer direct & tough, but compassionate, Biblically-based Christian care. I also deal with general relationship problems. I work with Performance Anxiety, & PTSD Abuse/Trauma recovery. Have both my Masters & Doctoral degrees. I use CBT. No psychobabble BS. 20 yrs of experience.
Infidelity, porn addiction, other sexual issues (performance anxiety, depression, anxiety) can be devastating to you and your family. I know all the steps needed to rebuild trust and intimacy, some that others miss. Have repaired many marriages. Am a full psychologist & sex therapist. No shaming, judging. I offer direct & tough, but compassionate, Biblically-based Christian care. I also deal with general relationship problems. I work with Performance Anxiety, & PTSD Abuse/Trauma recovery. Have both my Masters & Doctoral degrees. I use CBT. No psychobabble BS. 20 yrs of experience.
Tracey D Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78232
Treatment specialization includes:
- Marriage & Relationship Issues
- Pre-marital Counseling
- Marriage & Relationship Enhancement
- Infidelity
- Self-Esteem & Personal Growth
- Work and Career Issues
- Stress Management
- Adjustment Issues
- Life Changes/Challenges.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!
Treatment specialization includes:
- Marriage & Relationship Issues
- Pre-marital Counseling
- Marriage & Relationship Enhancement
- Infidelity
- Self-Esteem & Personal Growth
- Work and Career Issues
- Stress Management
- Adjustment Issues
- Life Changes/Challenges.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!
Align Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LCDC
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78232
Do you feel alone, powerless and stuck in the same repeated arguments? Do you long for the connection and friendship you once had with your partner? When relationships are hurting, it affects everything. Underneath the painful surface could be many issues such as depression, ADHD, anxiety, shame, infidelity, substance use or parenting challenges. You deserve counseling based on science and research. You deserve respect and acceptance as you work through strengthening your relationship. Each couple has strengths and resiliencies that just need to be connected to the right tools for effective connection.
Do you feel alone, powerless and stuck in the same repeated arguments? Do you long for the connection and friendship you once had with your partner? When relationships are hurting, it affects everything. Underneath the painful surface could be many issues such as depression, ADHD, anxiety, shame, infidelity, substance use or parenting challenges. You deserve counseling based on science and research. You deserve respect and acceptance as you work through strengthening your relationship. Each couple has strengths and resiliencies that just need to be connected to the right tools for effective connection.
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78258 (Online Only)
I specialize in treating communication, infidelity, anxiety and trauma by using Gottman training, Eye Movement Desensitization, and Interpersonal Neurobiology.
Whatever has blown up in your world, we can reform and meld it into something more stable and secure. It will be different and take effort, but you won’t be alone. I may have a laid-back demeanor, but I will keep you on task to learn and practice better habits and communication. My experience extends beyond my 10 years as a therapist to include my real-world experiences in other occupations rather than relying solely on theoretical knowledge. If this old retired veteran can learn to talk about icky emotions, then you (or your spouse) can. Stop hanging out with suffering and do something new.
I specialize in treating communication, infidelity, anxiety and trauma by using Gottman training, Eye Movement Desensitization, and Interpersonal Neurobiology.
Whatever has blown up in your world, we can reform and meld it into something more stable and secure. It will be different and take effort, but you won’t be alone. I may have a laid-back demeanor, but I will keep you on task to learn and practice better habits and communication. My experience extends beyond my 10 years as a therapist to include my real-world experiences in other occupations rather than relying solely on theoretical knowledge. If this old retired veteran can learn to talk about icky emotions, then you (or your spouse) can. Stop hanging out with suffering and do something new.
Beatrice Ballard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78258
*No evening or weekend appointments* Life can throw curve balls at us and when that happens it's helpful to have a trained professional who can help you process how to move forward. I have experience treating individuals, couples and families and significant experience dealing with cases of infidelity, divorce, anxiety and depression. Couples are a big focus for me but of course I also see individuals. I have a particular interest in clients dealing with anxiety, depression or have past trauma. I also do therapy with local celebrities who have unique concerns about privacy.
*No evening or weekend appointments* Life can throw curve balls at us and when that happens it's helpful to have a trained professional who can help you process how to move forward. I have experience treating individuals, couples and families and significant experience dealing with cases of infidelity, divorce, anxiety and depression. Couples are a big focus for me but of course I also see individuals. I have a particular interest in clients dealing with anxiety, depression or have past trauma. I also do therapy with local celebrities who have unique concerns about privacy.
Karen Gulde
Licensed Professional Counselor, JD, MA, CCPS
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78209
Waitlist for new clients
Intimacy Intensive(tm) for couples seeking to reconnect in the aftermath of betrayal trauma.
I believe a solid counseling relationship must grow out of authentic connection. I will laugh with you, I will cry with you, and most importantly, I will listen. I am inspired by each of my clients; I consider our time together to be a sacred space. As my client, I believe you have the strength within to make positive and constructive choices. I also know it takes courage to seek counseling. We will work collaboratively to develop goals for our time together. This is your time, your safe space to process difficult feelings, explore conflicting thoughts, and find new meaning.
Intimacy Intensive(tm) for couples seeking to reconnect in the aftermath of betrayal trauma.
I believe a solid counseling relationship must grow out of authentic connection. I will laugh with you, I will cry with you, and most importantly, I will listen. I am inspired by each of my clients; I consider our time together to be a sacred space. As my client, I believe you have the strength within to make positive and constructive choices. I also know it takes courage to seek counseling. We will work collaboratively to develop goals for our time together. This is your time, your safe space to process difficult feelings, explore conflicting thoughts, and find new meaning.
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.
Rita I Clark
LPC Associate, MA, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78202 (Online Only)
Betrayal trauma therapy provides tools to heal the pain and confusion of broken trust and infidelity.
Life is tough. We may feel caught in a never-ending cycle of relationship struggles. Is adultery, porn or sex addiction ruining your life and relationships? Do your sexual choices feel risky, or out of sync with the person you want to be? Are you constantly drawn to the thrill of new connections but not able to stay faithful to a long-term partner? Perhaps you’ve recently discovered that your spouse was unfaithful. Or maybe it’s been years of living with shattered trust and a broken heart. Betrayal by a romantic partner can be devastating. Rest assured, there is hope and healing for sex/porn addiction and betrayal.
Betrayal trauma therapy provides tools to heal the pain and confusion of broken trust and infidelity.
Life is tough. We may feel caught in a never-ending cycle of relationship struggles. Is adultery, porn or sex addiction ruining your life and relationships? Do your sexual choices feel risky, or out of sync with the person you want to be? Are you constantly drawn to the thrill of new connections but not able to stay faithful to a long-term partner? Perhaps you’ve recently discovered that your spouse was unfaithful. Or maybe it’s been years of living with shattered trust and a broken heart. Betrayal by a romantic partner can be devastating. Rest assured, there is hope and healing for sex/porn addiction and betrayal.
Katie Bloodworth
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78201 (Online Only)
I have a background in working with couples healing from infidelity and specialize in helping couples rebuild trust.
Supervised by Sarah Arnold, LPC-S. I'm looking to work with clients who are struggling with life transitions and looking to make meaning out of their circumstances. I often work with couples who are navigating a relationship breach and trying to rebuild their foundation. I also work with individuals who are trying to repair or understand relationships in their lives: partners/spouses, family of origin, friendships, etc. I also work with individuals trying to process their trauma(s) and offer tools for healing.
I have a background in working with couples healing from infidelity and specialize in helping couples rebuild trust.
Supervised by Sarah Arnold, LPC-S. I'm looking to work with clients who are struggling with life transitions and looking to make meaning out of their circumstances. I often work with couples who are navigating a relationship breach and trying to rebuild their foundation. I also work with individuals who are trying to repair or understand relationships in their lives: partners/spouses, family of origin, friendships, etc. I also work with individuals trying to process their trauma(s) and offer tools for healing.
Cynthia B Eddings Supervised By Misti Sparks Phd Lmft-S Lpc
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFTA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78201
In life we have some setbacks that seem to stagnate our growth and we need a little extra assistance to get through. Maybe it is premarital counseling, marital dissatisfaction, infidelity, grief, loss, life transitions, etc. You may desire to connect to set and achieve specific goals, get assistance setting and imposing boundaries, or even check in to sustain your mental, physical, social, and spiritual stability. Remember, your life does not have to be falling apart to seek therapy. Come and experience your safe place to learn and grow.
In life we have some setbacks that seem to stagnate our growth and we need a little extra assistance to get through. Maybe it is premarital counseling, marital dissatisfaction, infidelity, grief, loss, life transitions, etc. You may desire to connect to set and achieve specific goals, get assistance setting and imposing boundaries, or even check in to sustain your mental, physical, social, and spiritual stability. Remember, your life does not have to be falling apart to seek therapy. Come and experience your safe place to learn and grow.
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Tammy Clark
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78266
Specialization & Client Focus: Adults 18+, Individuals, Couples, ADHD Management, Marriage Issues, Sexual Betrayal Trauma, Women’s Issues, Anxiety, Depression, Panic, Social Anxiety, Interpersonal Relationships, Parenting, Conflict Resolution, Boundaries, Work / Life Balance, Stress Management, Integrated CBT and Exposure and Response Prevention, Grief.
My passion is to support individuals and couples as they navigate the challenges of everyday life, including depression, anxiety, fear, infidelity, boundary-setting, parenting, ADHD, and relationship issues. By walking alongside them on their journey, I aim to help them confront their struggles and take meaningful steps toward healing. Through my own experiences, I have seen how life's trials can be transformed into opportunities for growth, healing, hope, joy, and freedom, with God's guidance.
Specialization & Client Focus: Adults 18+, Individuals, Couples, ADHD Management, Marriage Issues, Sexual Betrayal Trauma, Women’s Issues, Anxiety, Depression, Panic, Social Anxiety, Interpersonal Relationships, Parenting, Conflict Resolution, Boundaries, Work / Life Balance, Stress Management, Integrated CBT and Exposure and Response Prevention, Grief.
My passion is to support individuals and couples as they navigate the challenges of everyday life, including depression, anxiety, fear, infidelity, boundary-setting, parenting, ADHD, and relationship issues. By walking alongside them on their journey, I aim to help them confront their struggles and take meaningful steps toward healing. Through my own experiences, I have seen how life's trials can be transformed into opportunities for growth, healing, hope, joy, and freedom, with God's guidance.
Britney Vincent
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC , NBCC
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78230
Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming—you might feel like you’re falling behind, unmotivated, or struggling to express yourself. Maybe you feel alone, unheard, or stuck in the past, dealing with the weight of events like a betrayal or childhood trauma. It can feel like your story is out of order, or like you’re trying to piece together a puzzle with missing pieces.
Sometimes, life can feel overwhelming—you might feel like you’re falling behind, unmotivated, or struggling to express yourself. Maybe you feel alone, unheard, or stuck in the past, dealing with the weight of events like a betrayal or childhood trauma. It can feel like your story is out of order, or like you’re trying to piece together a puzzle with missing pieces.
Cheryl Camarillo Helps Rebuild Relationships
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78213
“Is this relationship ending or can it be repaired?” You need a fighting chance. Affairs and sex addiction consultations upon request. When betrayal trauma happens, it’s important that you find somebody trained or experienced in supporting you through this. Women’s groups help the trauma and relationship. Men’s groups address the addiction and how to help their partner. Day 1 of finding out about infidelity, porn addiction, or sex addiction is commonly called "D" day - or discovery day. My personal story and professional experience can help. Support and guidance are the key for crisis. Next is stabilization, reconnecting.
“Is this relationship ending or can it be repaired?” You need a fighting chance. Affairs and sex addiction consultations upon request. When betrayal trauma happens, it’s important that you find somebody trained or experienced in supporting you through this. Women’s groups help the trauma and relationship. Men’s groups address the addiction and how to help their partner. Day 1 of finding out about infidelity, porn addiction, or sex addiction is commonly called "D" day - or discovery day. My personal story and professional experience can help. Support and guidance are the key for crisis. Next is stabilization, reconnecting.
Mónica Rodríguez Delgado
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, CCPT-S, CPRT-S, RPT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78222
I have specialized training in play therapy for children, crisis, disaster mental health, grief work, trauma, attachment concerns, sex addiction, and infidelity.
Sometimes life can get pretty tricky and have us feeling stuck, unsure, and discouraged. However, I believe that we all have an innate capacity to grow, to heal, and to develop into our full potential. The therapeutic journey involves taking courageous steps in order to move forward, gain self-acceptance, and reconnect with your capacity towards growth. I believe that you are the expert of your own life, thus my goal in counseling is to provide you with safe and nonjudgmental environment where you feel free to explore these aspects of our life.
I have specialized training in play therapy for children, crisis, disaster mental health, grief work, trauma, attachment concerns, sex addiction, and infidelity.
Sometimes life can get pretty tricky and have us feeling stuck, unsure, and discouraged. However, I believe that we all have an innate capacity to grow, to heal, and to develop into our full potential. The therapeutic journey involves taking courageous steps in order to move forward, gain self-acceptance, and reconnect with your capacity towards growth. I believe that you are the expert of your own life, thus my goal in counseling is to provide you with safe and nonjudgmental environment where you feel free to explore these aspects of our life.
Desirae Ysasi
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78257
Frequent conflict. Broken trust. Defensiveness. Emotional disconnect. Infidelity. These are just a few reasons couples may find themselves in need of therapy. But with the right help, warmer, closer, more intimate relationships are possible. I approach couples counseling using Relational Life Therapy (RLT). RLT is a form of couples counseling that aims to move you out of your knee-jerk reactions and into a more compassionate and collaborative part of yourself. I can teach you how to move into an US consciousness based on relational empowerment instead of the individual empowerment touted by our You vs Me culture.
Frequent conflict. Broken trust. Defensiveness. Emotional disconnect. Infidelity. These are just a few reasons couples may find themselves in need of therapy. But with the right help, warmer, closer, more intimate relationships are possible. I approach couples counseling using Relational Life Therapy (RLT). RLT is a form of couples counseling that aims to move you out of your knee-jerk reactions and into a more compassionate and collaborative part of yourself. I can teach you how to move into an US consciousness based on relational empowerment instead of the individual empowerment touted by our You vs Me culture.
I work with clients going through a wide range of emotional and relationship difficulties including grief, loss, trauma, anxiety, relationship problems, marital difficulty, divorce recovery, infidelity, life transitions, and the pain of growing up in a difficult parent/child relationship.
Life comes with challenges. Sometimes we need support. As a Licenced Professional Therapist, my goal is to walk alongside you in order to navigate through life's challenges.
I work with clients going through a wide range of emotional and relationship difficulties including grief, loss, trauma, anxiety, relationship problems, marital difficulty, divorce recovery, infidelity, life transitions, and the pain of growing up in a difficult parent/child relationship.
Life comes with challenges. Sometimes we need support. As a Licenced Professional Therapist, my goal is to walk alongside you in order to navigate through life's challenges.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, AASECT, CSAT, BCIA
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78213
There are some free resources at the website- webinars on relationship intimacy and betrayal trauma, blogs, free hypnotherapy meditation, list of journal topics about boundaries, and YouTube videos at sharingwithcheryl.
Are you afraid your relationship is over? Struggling with secrets and relationship issues? What you need is a plan to.... change and heal. Are you seeking a non-judgement zone? Learn to stop the shame, blame, guilt and anger. End confusion over what to do and start working on a plan. Have a clear understanding of the problem and plan the best options for moving forward. Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist: Trained professional in sex therapy, infidelity, sex and porn addiction.
There are some free resources at the website- webinars on relationship intimacy and betrayal trauma, blogs, free hypnotherapy meditation, list of journal topics about boundaries, and YouTube videos at sharingwithcheryl.
Are you afraid your relationship is over? Struggling with secrets and relationship issues? What you need is a plan to.... change and heal. Are you seeking a non-judgement zone? Learn to stop the shame, blame, guilt and anger. End confusion over what to do and start working on a plan. Have a clear understanding of the problem and plan the best options for moving forward. Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist: Trained professional in sex therapy, infidelity, sex and porn addiction.
I have been trained specifically in marital affairs and marital trauma and additionally completed Level I and II training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Gottman’s Treating Trauma and Affairs.
I truly believe that while you may come in broken, by faith, you can leave healed! I approach therapy in a collaborative manner with my clients. To effectively collaborate, I have a "no walking on eggshells" policy in our therapeutic space. Hold on, Faith! What does a “no walking on eggshells” policy mean? This policy empowers my clients to present what they may think are the “icky” parts of themselves without fear of being unrighteously judged in therapy. I will work to earn your trust so have faith in me, yourself, and the process as part of your healing journey.
I have been trained specifically in marital affairs and marital trauma and additionally completed Level I and II training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Gottman’s Treating Trauma and Affairs.
I truly believe that while you may come in broken, by faith, you can leave healed! I approach therapy in a collaborative manner with my clients. To effectively collaborate, I have a "no walking on eggshells" policy in our therapeutic space. Hold on, Faith! What does a “no walking on eggshells” policy mean? This policy empowers my clients to present what they may think are the “icky” parts of themselves without fear of being unrighteously judged in therapy. I will work to earn your trust so have faith in me, yourself, and the process as part of your healing journey.
Krysten Aldape
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78248
As a dedicated Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate with 1.5 years of experience, I specialize in both individual and couples counseling. I bring a comprehensive understanding of the intricate familial and cultural dynamics within the Latinx community that significantly influence relationship and individual functioning. My expertise lies in guiding couples through challenges such as infidelity, communication breakdowns, trust issues, and intimacy concerns. I also work closely with individuals to foster personal empowerment, establish healthy boundaries, and navigate the unique complexities of the Hispanic culture.
As a dedicated Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate with 1.5 years of experience, I specialize in both individual and couples counseling. I bring a comprehensive understanding of the intricate familial and cultural dynamics within the Latinx community that significantly influence relationship and individual functioning. My expertise lies in guiding couples through challenges such as infidelity, communication breakdowns, trust issues, and intimacy concerns. I also work closely with individuals to foster personal empowerment, establish healthy boundaries, and navigate the unique complexities of the Hispanic culture.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.