Infidelity Therapists in San Antonio, TX

Dr. Monte Miller - Christian Psychologist
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Online Only
Cheating?.
Author of "Finding Peace in Life's Storms," Proud of my book on coping with Depression. I have my own personal experiences with many different romantic, marital and sexual situations. I am a sinner myself & unworthy of judging others, but I have learned from Biblical Psychology how to be a more godly man. I will offer guidance and advice, as well as listen.
Cheating?.
Author of "Finding Peace in Life's Storms," Proud of my book on coping with Depression. I have my own personal experiences with many different romantic, marital and sexual situations. I am a sinner myself & unworthy of judging others, but I have learned from Biblical Psychology how to be a more godly man. I will offer guidance and advice, as well as listen.

Beatrice Ballard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78258
I have experience treating individuals, couples and families and significant experience dealing with cases of infidelity, divorce, anxiety and depression.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) my training is somewhat different from a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). My studies involved significant training in marriage and family cases, besides individuals. I am also an EMDR trained therapist who treats trauma. I believe wholeness is found in treating the whole person: spirit, mind and body.
I have experience treating individuals, couples and families and significant experience dealing with cases of infidelity, divorce, anxiety and depression.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) my training is somewhat different from a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). My studies involved significant training in marriage and family cases, besides individuals. I am also an EMDR trained therapist who treats trauma. I believe wholeness is found in treating the whole person: spirit, mind and body.

Align Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LCDC
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78232
Underneath the painful surface could be many issues such as depression, ADHD, anxiety, shame, infidelity, substance use or parenting challenges.
Align Couples Therapy therapists have extensive specialized training. Each therapist has had advanced training in Gottman Method and/or Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. Level of training varies by clinician. We also offer EMDR treatment (EMDR Certified) for trauma as well as individual counseling. We also offer marathons and retreats.
Underneath the painful surface could be many issues such as depression, ADHD, anxiety, shame, infidelity, substance use or parenting challenges.
Align Couples Therapy therapists have extensive specialized training. Each therapist has had advanced training in Gottman Method and/or Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. Level of training varies by clinician. We also offer EMDR treatment (EMDR Certified) for trauma as well as individual counseling. We also offer marathons and retreats.

Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you been silently struggling with anxiety, loneliness, betrayal, or conflicts that leave you feeling isolated and disconnected?.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples overcome trauma, anxiety, infidelity, and communication issues using Gottman techniques and Interpersonal Neurobiology. With 12+ years of experience and practical insights from other fields, I offer skills and strategies grounded in real-life solutions, not just theory.
Have you been silently struggling with anxiety, loneliness, betrayal, or conflicts that leave you feeling isolated and disconnected?.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples overcome trauma, anxiety, infidelity, and communication issues using Gottman techniques and Interpersonal Neurobiology. With 12+ years of experience and practical insights from other fields, I offer skills and strategies grounded in real-life solutions, not just theory.

I am passionate about working with individuals, couples and families addressing issues of infidelity, breaches of trust, re-igniting desire, co-parenting, and exploring sexual orientation.
Therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home, online sessions! Sometimes life gets messy, it can feel like everything is all jumbled up in knots with no way to untangle things—that’s where I come in. I am a disentanglement expert. As a solution-orientated therapist I am most interested in exploring your strengths and resources as the building blocks for therapy and change.
I am passionate about working with individuals, couples and families addressing issues of infidelity, breaches of trust, re-igniting desire, co-parenting, and exploring sexual orientation.
Therapy from the comfort and privacy of your own home, online sessions! Sometimes life gets messy, it can feel like everything is all jumbled up in knots with no way to untangle things—that’s where I come in. I am a disentanglement expert. As a solution-orientated therapist I am most interested in exploring your strengths and resources as the building blocks for therapy and change.

Tracey D Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78232
- Infidelity.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!
- Infidelity.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!

If you are experiencing challenges with communication, physical and emotional intimacy, infidelity, or trust recovery, either in your partnership or individually, I can help to strengthen or bring healing to your relationship.
I believe that each of us has the potential to experience dramatic growth, healing, and joy through our relationships and within ourselves, but we are often held back by fear, disconnection from ourselves, and repetitive relational dynamics that seem impossible to change. I feel my role as a therapist is to work in partnership with couples and individuals to bring awareness to these patterns and create an environment for change. By uncovering these insights, you will be able to build healthier connections and achieve a clearer understanding of yourself, your partner, or your relationship.
If you are experiencing challenges with communication, physical and emotional intimacy, infidelity, or trust recovery, either in your partnership or individually, I can help to strengthen or bring healing to your relationship.
I believe that each of us has the potential to experience dramatic growth, healing, and joy through our relationships and within ourselves, but we are often held back by fear, disconnection from ourselves, and repetitive relational dynamics that seem impossible to change. I feel my role as a therapist is to work in partnership with couples and individuals to bring awareness to these patterns and create an environment for change. By uncovering these insights, you will be able to build healthier connections and achieve a clearer understanding of yourself, your partner, or your relationship.

Tania Ortiz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78258
Waitlist for new clients
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.

Karen Gulde
Licensed Professional Counselor, JD, MA, CCPS
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78209
Waitlist for new clients
Intimacy Intensive(tm) for couples seeking to reconnect in the aftermath of betrayal trauma.
I believe a solid counseling relationship must grow out of authentic connection. I will laugh with you, I will cry with you, and most importantly, I will listen. I am inspired by each of my clients; I consider our time together to be a sacred space. As my client, I believe you have the strength within to make positive and constructive choices. I also know it takes courage to seek counseling. We will work collaboratively to develop goals for our time together. This is your time, your safe space to process difficult feelings, explore conflicting thoughts, and find new meaning.
Intimacy Intensive(tm) for couples seeking to reconnect in the aftermath of betrayal trauma.
I believe a solid counseling relationship must grow out of authentic connection. I will laugh with you, I will cry with you, and most importantly, I will listen. I am inspired by each of my clients; I consider our time together to be a sacred space. As my client, I believe you have the strength within to make positive and constructive choices. I also know it takes courage to seek counseling. We will work collaboratively to develop goals for our time together. This is your time, your safe space to process difficult feelings, explore conflicting thoughts, and find new meaning.

An affair, a betrayal, a breach of trust… the pain has taken root in your relationship, and it’s slowly killing everything you once had together.
You need action more than words. You also need more than love. You need a plan to get past the uncertainty and rebuild trust and commitment. We’ll use the world-renowned Gottman Method to reconnect you and your partner with mutual respect. You’ll learn to solve conflict together and create a bond that’s even stronger than the one you had before.
An affair, a betrayal, a breach of trust… the pain has taken root in your relationship, and it’s slowly killing everything you once had together.
You need action more than words. You also need more than love. You need a plan to get past the uncertainty and rebuild trust and commitment. We’ll use the world-renowned Gottman Method to reconnect you and your partner with mutual respect. You’ll learn to solve conflict together and create a bond that’s even stronger than the one you had before.

Elena Sternlicht
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230
I work with individuals and couples experiencing relational issues that might include communication difficulties, conflict resolution skills, infidelity and related issues of broken trust and betrayal.
Are you feeling disconnected from your partner? Distant from your loved ones? Overall dissatisfied with your relationships? If you’re looking to strengthen your connections & enhance your life, you have come to the right place. I practice from an attachment based and trauma-informed lens, which considers the shaping nature of childhood and later relationships on each person’s mental health development and challenges within the context of relationships. I utilize a person-centered and emotionally-focused approach to promote a therapeutic environment created specifically for healing, growth and improved relational functioning.
I work with individuals and couples experiencing relational issues that might include communication difficulties, conflict resolution skills, infidelity and related issues of broken trust and betrayal.
Are you feeling disconnected from your partner? Distant from your loved ones? Overall dissatisfied with your relationships? If you’re looking to strengthen your connections & enhance your life, you have come to the right place. I practice from an attachment based and trauma-informed lens, which considers the shaping nature of childhood and later relationships on each person’s mental health development and challenges within the context of relationships. I utilize a person-centered and emotionally-focused approach to promote a therapeutic environment created specifically for healing, growth and improved relational functioning.
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists

Dr. Faith Christie Leigh Roby
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-S, EdD, MMFT, MA, BS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
These are the main issues I can help you with - Marriage/Premarital issues, marital infidelity recovery, PTSD treatment, trauma treatment, marital trauma, borderline personality disorder, and traits, emotional dysregulation treatment, Christian-centered therapy, Bible counseling, etc.
The curve balls of life can affect you mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Do you have sex-based issues in your marriage? Do you have an ongoing issue with your children & believe you are the most clueless parent in the world? Have you experienced trauma, adultery, abuse, church/religious issues, or mental anguish? There is hope. I specialize in marital, premarital, individual & family therapy. Bring your mustard of seed faith & I will bring my empathetic care with expertise. Together, through God, healing can be achieved! I'm an approved LMFT Designated Supervisor for the State of Texas!
These are the main issues I can help you with - Marriage/Premarital issues, marital infidelity recovery, PTSD treatment, trauma treatment, marital trauma, borderline personality disorder, and traits, emotional dysregulation treatment, Christian-centered therapy, Bible counseling, etc.
The curve balls of life can affect you mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Do you have sex-based issues in your marriage? Do you have an ongoing issue with your children & believe you are the most clueless parent in the world? Have you experienced trauma, adultery, abuse, church/religious issues, or mental anguish? There is hope. I specialize in marital, premarital, individual & family therapy. Bring your mustard of seed faith & I will bring my empathetic care with expertise. Together, through God, healing can be achieved! I'm an approved LMFT Designated Supervisor for the State of Texas!

Christina M Holyoak
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78232
I love working with couples experiencing infidelity, and communication issues and women with depression, anxiety, and OCD.
You deserve to feel connected and safe in your closest relationships. It is lonely, painful, and frustrating when those relationships aren't going as you'd like. You may be confused about how to help a child who is struggling. You might wonder if you're making the right choices for your child and you may even worry that you're a bad parent. Or, maybe you feel disconnected from a partner. You long to feel close to the person you care about, but years of hurt and bottled up emotion make it difficult to know where to start.
I love working with couples experiencing infidelity, and communication issues and women with depression, anxiety, and OCD.
You deserve to feel connected and safe in your closest relationships. It is lonely, painful, and frustrating when those relationships aren't going as you'd like. You may be confused about how to help a child who is struggling. You might wonder if you're making the right choices for your child and you may even worry that you're a bad parent. Or, maybe you feel disconnected from a partner. You long to feel close to the person you care about, but years of hurt and bottled up emotion make it difficult to know where to start.

Repairing relationships after infidelity, or just re-igniting the fire that seems to have gone out is possible.
We can’t seem to connect anymore. I’m so tired of fighting I don’t know if I can do it anymore. If I married the love of my life, why do I always feel so alone? We are basically just roommates these days. Do I really even love him/her anymore? We haven’t had sex in I don’t even know how long. If you have said or thought any of these things, I'm so sorry. You are not alone, and it doesn't have to be that way. I see you.
Repairing relationships after infidelity, or just re-igniting the fire that seems to have gone out is possible.
We can’t seem to connect anymore. I’m so tired of fighting I don’t know if I can do it anymore. If I married the love of my life, why do I always feel so alone? We are basically just roommates these days. Do I really even love him/her anymore? We haven’t had sex in I don’t even know how long. If you have said or thought any of these things, I'm so sorry. You are not alone, and it doesn't have to be that way. I see you.

Cynthia B Eddings
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFTA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Maybe it is premarital counseling, marital dissatisfaction, infidelity, grief, loss, life transitions, etc.
My therapeutic model Structural Family Therapy focuses on dysfunctional family patterns. In general; we have been touched by a form of trauma that has bled into how we see the world today. My heart work is getting to the root cause. I also provide AO Scan sessions to help identify areas that may be out of balance and help you to optimize your health.
Maybe it is premarital counseling, marital dissatisfaction, infidelity, grief, loss, life transitions, etc.
My therapeutic model Structural Family Therapy focuses on dysfunctional family patterns. In general; we have been touched by a form of trauma that has bled into how we see the world today. My heart work is getting to the root cause. I also provide AO Scan sessions to help identify areas that may be out of balance and help you to optimize your health.

Are infidelity, porn or sex addiction impacting your relationships and life?.
Betrayal trauma therapy provides tools to heal the pain and confusion of broken trust and infidelity. For those struggling with problem sexual behaviors, therapy uncovers the reasons behind negative sexual impulses, gives tools to manage compulsions, addresses relationship problems, and develops strategies to cope with stress or distress in positive ways.
Are infidelity, porn or sex addiction impacting your relationships and life?.
Betrayal trauma therapy provides tools to heal the pain and confusion of broken trust and infidelity. For those struggling with problem sexual behaviors, therapy uncovers the reasons behind negative sexual impulses, gives tools to manage compulsions, addresses relationship problems, and develops strategies to cope with stress or distress in positive ways.

Randa Chance
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78232
I specialize in helping individuals, couples and families (including clergy couples and families) to facilitate healing and provide a safe place for processing through trauma, relational challenges & infidelity, life changes, self-image, behavioral issues, spirituality, anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
I use a trauma-informed approach to treat individuals, couples, and families (including clergy couples) with issues such as relational challenges, life transitions, anxiety, grief, trauma, and depression. I am trained in EMDR for trauma work, as well as the Gottman method for couples counseling. I am also a Prepare/Enrich certified premarital facilitator.
I specialize in helping individuals, couples and families (including clergy couples and families) to facilitate healing and provide a safe place for processing through trauma, relational challenges & infidelity, life changes, self-image, behavioral issues, spirituality, anxiety, depression, grief and loss.
I use a trauma-informed approach to treat individuals, couples, and families (including clergy couples) with issues such as relational challenges, life transitions, anxiety, grief, trauma, and depression. I am trained in EMDR for trauma work, as well as the Gottman method for couples counseling. I am also a Prepare/Enrich certified premarital facilitator.

Desirae Ysasi
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78257
Infidelity.
Perhaps a more in-depth couples experience is what you are looking for. Or you feel your relationship is on the brink of collapse and you need something to happen NOW. If so, consider doing a Couples Intensive. Two days, 6 hours each day. Progress is accelerated and amplified when therapy is offered in this concentrated, focused way.
Infidelity.
Perhaps a more in-depth couples experience is what you are looking for. Or you feel your relationship is on the brink of collapse and you need something to happen NOW. If so, consider doing a Couples Intensive. Two days, 6 hours each day. Progress is accelerated and amplified when therapy is offered in this concentrated, focused way.

Mia Gonzales
LPC Associate, MA, LPC-A, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78228
Waitlist for new clients
In couples sessions, I have experience treating infidelity & communication issues.
You are the expert of your life, I am just a therapist that can help you find your path. No one talks about it but therapy can be hard. Therapy involves us discussing our emotions, acknowledging what we are feeling, and making active steps towards change. Thank you for taking steps towards taking care of you. My goal as a clinician is to provide a safe space that will empower you to be yourself.
In couples sessions, I have experience treating infidelity & communication issues.
You are the expert of your life, I am just a therapist that can help you find your path. No one talks about it but therapy can be hard. Therapy involves us discussing our emotions, acknowledging what we are feeling, and making active steps towards change. Thank you for taking steps towards taking care of you. My goal as a clinician is to provide a safe space that will empower you to be yourself.

I help clients improve communication, work through differing desires, and even recover from infidelity.
I am trained in Marriage and Family Therapy as well as Relational Life Therapy. With these tools, I aim to create a non-judgmental & supportive environment where you can explore the barriers and pathways to the life and relationships you seek.
I help clients improve communication, work through differing desires, and even recover from infidelity.
I am trained in Marriage and Family Therapy as well as Relational Life Therapy. With these tools, I aim to create a non-judgmental & supportive environment where you can explore the barriers and pathways to the life and relationships you seek.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.