Gottman Method Therapists in San Antonio, TX

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Shelby Hawkins
Licensed Professional Counselor
Online Only
Hi there, I'm Shelby! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and enjoy working with teenagers and young adults as well as couples. I am most competent in dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, anger, trauma, and relationship distress. I use a variety of techniques including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, and Solutions-Focused therapy to help my clients walk in freedom. I enjoy teaching my clients tools they can use in their everyday lives to live more fully and present.
Hi there, I'm Shelby! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and enjoy working with teenagers and young adults as well as couples. I am most competent in dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, anger, trauma, and relationship distress. I use a variety of techniques including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, and Solutions-Focused therapy to help my clients walk in freedom. I enjoy teaching my clients tools they can use in their everyday lives to live more fully and present.
(214) 301-4014 View (214) 301-4014
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A New Start Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78216
If you’re feeling weighed down by stress, anxiety, or life’s challenges, you don’t have to face it alone. We understand that reaching out for support can be the hardest step, but it’s also the most important one. At our counseling group, we offer a welcoming, compassionate space where you can begin your journey toward healing & wellness. Our team is dedicated to making the process as easy & seamless as possible. We’ll work with you to pair you with a therapist who truly understands your unique needs, so you can begin focusing on what matters most—your mental & emotional well-being.
If you’re feeling weighed down by stress, anxiety, or life’s challenges, you don’t have to face it alone. We understand that reaching out for support can be the hardest step, but it’s also the most important one. At our counseling group, we offer a welcoming, compassionate space where you can begin your journey toward healing & wellness. Our team is dedicated to making the process as easy & seamless as possible. We’ll work with you to pair you with a therapist who truly understands your unique needs, so you can begin focusing on what matters most—your mental & emotional well-being.
(210) 934-4158 View (210) 934-4158
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Kandice Ewing
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, LPC-A, MACMHC
Online Only
A native Houstonian who holds a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Houston Christian University. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor-Associate currently working remotely at Advanced Counseling Services, Inc. I believe that being a therapist is my calling and I am honored to share this sacred space with those in need of help and healing. I am dedicated to serving individuals, couples, and groups experiencing mental distress, emotional dysregulation, and managing life stressors.
A native Houstonian who holds a Master's degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Houston Christian University. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor-Associate currently working remotely at Advanced Counseling Services, Inc. I believe that being a therapist is my calling and I am honored to share this sacred space with those in need of help and healing. I am dedicated to serving individuals, couples, and groups experiencing mental distress, emotional dysregulation, and managing life stressors.
(726) 232-5528 View (726) 232-5528
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C Beyond, Counseling Consulting & Supervision PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, LMFT
San Antonio, TX 78240
Fleming has completed Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
I am currently seeking couples as I work toward Certification in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I work with all couples with a variety of challenges: communication, parenting, and lack of or need for stronger connections. Each couple has a special reason for wanting to seek counseling and I value being a part of the process with you.
Fleming has completed Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
I am currently seeking couples as I work toward Certification in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I work with all couples with a variety of challenges: communication, parenting, and lack of or need for stronger connections. Each couple has a special reason for wanting to seek counseling and I value being a part of the process with you.
(726) 263-0709 View (726) 263-0709
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Rachael Lindberg
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, SXI
7 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Are you a Millennial or Gen Z who feels the pressure to be perfect or please others until you're running on empty? You feel your emotions very deeply. Maybe you're the eldest daughter who always feels she has to be the "perfect one." Or is your relationship feeling the strain with communication, intimacy, wedding planning, or parenthood? If you're a “recovering” high achiever and aspiring “good-enough-ist,” I’d love to work with you. I've been there too, so let's connect! Together, we’ll gently explore what’s underneath the pressure to build more compassionate relationships with yourself and the people who matter most.
Are you a Millennial or Gen Z who feels the pressure to be perfect or please others until you're running on empty? You feel your emotions very deeply. Maybe you're the eldest daughter who always feels she has to be the "perfect one." Or is your relationship feeling the strain with communication, intimacy, wedding planning, or parenthood? If you're a “recovering” high achiever and aspiring “good-enough-ist,” I’d love to work with you. I've been there too, so let's connect! Together, we’ll gently explore what’s underneath the pressure to build more compassionate relationships with yourself and the people who matter most.
(210) 972-9413 View (210) 972-9413
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Teresa Bethany
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Strategic Family Therapy, and Gottman Method are a few of my favorites, but my personality tends to add humor in the mix.
Prior to private practice, I worked exclusively in non-profit and have had extensive training and experience within the realm of family violence, sexual assault, and addiction recovery. I genuinely love what I do and care about my client's progress and I believe that shows up in my work.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Strategic Family Therapy, and Gottman Method are a few of my favorites, but my personality tends to add humor in the mix.
Prior to private practice, I worked exclusively in non-profit and have had extensive training and experience within the realm of family violence, sexual assault, and addiction recovery. I genuinely love what I do and care about my client's progress and I believe that shows up in my work.
(210) 972-5852 View (210) 972-5852
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Shayne Wade
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
San Antonio, TX 78266
I am a dedicated professional committed to providing quality mental health services. It is my overall goal to enhance the quality of life for individuals and families. My belief is that all people are valuable and unique and should be treated with dignity and respect. While recognizing the potential for change, an assessment of the client's emotional, physical, spiritual, and life experience is provided in a caring environment. The growth of the individual/family is promoted through a course of treatment developed and executed in a manner most suited for you.
I am a dedicated professional committed to providing quality mental health services. It is my overall goal to enhance the quality of life for individuals and families. My belief is that all people are valuable and unique and should be treated with dignity and respect. While recognizing the potential for change, an assessment of the client's emotional, physical, spiritual, and life experience is provided in a caring environment. The growth of the individual/family is promoted through a course of treatment developed and executed in a manner most suited for you.
(210) 762-4394 View (210) 762-4394
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Ciera B Reeves
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Accepting new Clients! I specialize in working with individuals and couples navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, and the impact of trauma and abuse. As human beings, we crave connection—not just any connection, but meaningful and trusting relationships with those we care about. Therapy can provide a space to explore how past experiences shape your present and to develop healthier ways of coping and communicating.
Accepting new Clients! I specialize in working with individuals and couples navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, and the impact of trauma and abuse. As human beings, we crave connection—not just any connection, but meaningful and trusting relationships with those we care about. Therapy can provide a space to explore how past experiences shape your present and to develop healthier ways of coping and communicating.
(409) 215-3406 View (409) 215-3406
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Amber Sue Bowling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I am a Psychobehavioral Therapist with over 6 years of experience providing compassionate, trauma-informed, and client-centered care to children, adolescents, adults, and families. I believe therapy is a collaborative journey where you do not have to navigate life’s challenges alone. My goal is to create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, valued, and empowered to make meaningful changes. I approach therapy by meeting each client where they are and honoring their unique experiences, strengths, and goals. I believe every person has a story that deserves understanding and compassion.
I am a Psychobehavioral Therapist with over 6 years of experience providing compassionate, trauma-informed, and client-centered care to children, adolescents, adults, and families. I believe therapy is a collaborative journey where you do not have to navigate life’s challenges alone. My goal is to create a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, valued, and empowered to make meaningful changes. I approach therapy by meeting each client where they are and honoring their unique experiences, strengths, and goals. I believe every person has a story that deserves understanding and compassion.
(830) 239-2569 View (830) 239-2569
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Jacob Pickard
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78202
I strive to provide you with the tools to build and maintain a more fulfilling life. Each person has unique needs and goals in their therapy. I will not just passively listen, but will engage you, share my thoughts, and challenge you when appropriate. I strive to provide my clients an atmosphere of flexibility, acceptance, compassion, and humor. For 20 years I have successfully helped clients navigate life issues. Many people come to me feeling overwhelmed or lacking meaning in their life, while others are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief/loss, trauma/PTSD, relationship or gender issues.
I strive to provide you with the tools to build and maintain a more fulfilling life. Each person has unique needs and goals in their therapy. I will not just passively listen, but will engage you, share my thoughts, and challenge you when appropriate. I strive to provide my clients an atmosphere of flexibility, acceptance, compassion, and humor. For 20 years I have successfully helped clients navigate life issues. Many people come to me feeling overwhelmed or lacking meaning in their life, while others are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief/loss, trauma/PTSD, relationship or gender issues.
(210) 526-0456 View (210) 526-0456
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Kim Ghezzi
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CSC
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78249
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or second-guessing everything you say or do? Tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, or feeling like you’re not enough? Maybe you're feeling like you are running on empty, shutting down in your relationship, or just feeling disconnected from others or even from yourself. You don’t have to face anxiety, stress, or relationship challenges alone. I help individuals manage anxiety and stress, and support couples looking to improve communication, rebuild trust, and reconnect emotionally. We’ll work together to sort through the overwhelm and take steps toward feeling more grounded, clear, and connected.
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or second-guessing everything you say or do? Tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, or feeling like you’re not enough? Maybe you're feeling like you are running on empty, shutting down in your relationship, or just feeling disconnected from others or even from yourself. You don’t have to face anxiety, stress, or relationship challenges alone. I help individuals manage anxiety and stress, and support couples looking to improve communication, rebuild trust, and reconnect emotionally. We’ll work together to sort through the overwhelm and take steps toward feeling more grounded, clear, and connected.
(210) 761-5866 View (210) 761-5866
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George M. Ayala
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
San Antonio, TX 78228
Our gathered thoughts about any situation play a critical role. Our attitude and perception over an extended period of time determines overall state of mind, that in turn affects our outlook on life. Unresolved issues, focusing on our down falls, over thinking about past events, determines our present life situation, our coping mechanisms, our choices and relationships. Se ofrecen todos los servicios en espanol si es el idioma de preferencia.
Our gathered thoughts about any situation play a critical role. Our attitude and perception over an extended period of time determines overall state of mind, that in turn affects our outlook on life. Unresolved issues, focusing on our down falls, over thinking about past events, determines our present life situation, our coping mechanisms, our choices and relationships. Se ofrecen todos los servicios en espanol si es el idioma de preferencia.
(210) 361-4575 View (210) 361-4575
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Martin V Bendernagel
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCDC
San Antonio, TX 78217
Many people are hurting and seek help with relationship issues, with their spouse, and other family members; I strive to help restore marriage and family relationships. Common problems that clients bring to me include relationship problems, depression, anxiety, grief, past trauma, child behavior problems, addictions, and having problems adjusting to changes in life. I practice spiritually-integrated counseling from a Christian worldview.
Many people are hurting and seek help with relationship issues, with their spouse, and other family members; I strive to help restore marriage and family relationships. Common problems that clients bring to me include relationship problems, depression, anxiety, grief, past trauma, child behavior problems, addictions, and having problems adjusting to changes in life. I practice spiritually-integrated counseling from a Christian worldview.
(210) 714-1805 View (210) 714-1805
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Jason Northrup
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
6 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78258
Are you having couple or family conflict? I am a trained couple and family therapist who can help. I work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide variety of problems such as frequent fighting, sexual difficulties, parenting issues, and more. I work with and affirm clients of all backgrounds, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or faith (or lack thereof). I use evidence-based practices in my work to maximize the likelihood of an outcome that you can feel satisfied with. I will meet you where you are at without judgment and work at your pace.
Are you having couple or family conflict? I am a trained couple and family therapist who can help. I work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide variety of problems such as frequent fighting, sexual difficulties, parenting issues, and more. I work with and affirm clients of all backgrounds, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or faith (or lack thereof). I use evidence-based practices in my work to maximize the likelihood of an outcome that you can feel satisfied with. I will meet you where you are at without judgment and work at your pace.
(210) 529-8953 View (210) 529-8953
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Shane Chance
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC-A, MA
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78217
I have completed Gottman level 1 training and use the Gottman method for marriage and relationship therapy.
My passion is to help people overcome life's obstacles. I am an overcomer! I was born with three fingers on my left hand and one finger on my right hand. Although my birth condition has presented me with many physical and emotional challenges, I have not and will not let them keep me from living life to the fullest! Neither should you let your obstacles block you from your best life! I want to come alongside you and help you find your way over, around, or through your difficulties. I specialize in helping married couples work through relationship issues. I also specialize in helping individuals overcome anxiety or depression.
I have completed Gottman level 1 training and use the Gottman method for marriage and relationship therapy.
My passion is to help people overcome life's obstacles. I am an overcomer! I was born with three fingers on my left hand and one finger on my right hand. Although my birth condition has presented me with many physical and emotional challenges, I have not and will not let them keep me from living life to the fullest! Neither should you let your obstacles block you from your best life! I want to come alongside you and help you find your way over, around, or through your difficulties. I specialize in helping married couples work through relationship issues. I also specialize in helping individuals overcome anxiety or depression.
(726) 232-5063 View (726) 232-5063
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Patricia Mendoza
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing teletherapy to teens 12-18, adults up to age 64, and couples.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing teletherapy to teens 12-18, adults up to age 64, and couples.
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Victoria McCord Valerga
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MDiv, JD
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230
As a psychotherapist, Victoria walks with you as you learn to befriend your inner world. She has a J.D. from St. Mary’s Univ., and dual Master's degrees in Divinity and Social Work from UChicago. In her trauma related counseling, she often works from an Internal Family Systems (IFS) or Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) perspective. She is also a skilled interfaith chaplain who integrates spiritual perspectives to support the emotional well-being and balance of her clients, when helpful. From her hospice experience, Victoria welcomes discussions related to aging, loss, and grief.
As a psychotherapist, Victoria walks with you as you learn to befriend your inner world. She has a J.D. from St. Mary’s Univ., and dual Master's degrees in Divinity and Social Work from UChicago. In her trauma related counseling, she often works from an Internal Family Systems (IFS) or Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) perspective. She is also a skilled interfaith chaplain who integrates spiritual perspectives to support the emotional well-being and balance of her clients, when helpful. From her hospice experience, Victoria welcomes discussions related to aging, loss, and grief.
(210) 879-8646 View (210) 879-8646
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San Juanita Pate
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
San Antonio, TX 78257
Great to meet you! I am committed to empowering my clients by helping them identify behaviors that may be impeding them from sustaining healthy relationships.
Great to meet you! I am committed to empowering my clients by helping them identify behaviors that may be impeding them from sustaining healthy relationships.
(726) 227-1372 View (726) 227-1372
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Anna Chavez
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, LPC-A
San Antonio, TX 78250
My ideal clients are people who have been carrying more than they can comfortably hold — trauma, family stress, communication breakdowns, or the pressure of trying to keep everything together. They come to therapy longing for relief, clarity, and a place where they don’t have to be “strong” all the time. Together, we slow things down, make sense of what’s happening, and build practical steps toward healing.
My ideal clients are people who have been carrying more than they can comfortably hold — trauma, family stress, communication breakdowns, or the pressure of trying to keep everything together. They come to therapy longing for relief, clarity, and a place where they don’t have to be “strong” all the time. Together, we slow things down, make sense of what’s happening, and build practical steps toward healing.
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Sonia Tamez Coutee, LPC-S, NCC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, NCC
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78216
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor (LPC-S) and National Certified Counselor with over 20 years of experience providing bilingual counseling in English and Spanish. In my private practice in San Antonio, I work with individuals, couples, children, and families navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My approach is compassionate, respectful, and tailored to each person’s unique story. I draw from evidence-based, trauma-informed practices to help clients heal from past experiences, strengthen relationships, and move toward the life they envision.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor (LPC-S) and National Certified Counselor with over 20 years of experience providing bilingual counseling in English and Spanish. In my private practice in San Antonio, I work with individuals, couples, children, and families navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My approach is compassionate, respectful, and tailored to each person’s unique story. I draw from evidence-based, trauma-informed practices to help clients heal from past experiences, strengthen relationships, and move toward the life they envision.
(210) 598-6508 View (210) 598-6508

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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.