Relationship Issues Therapists in Big Springs, San Antonio, TX

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Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S, LPC-S
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Imagine that you are holding a bottle of soda. Now imagine yourself shaking that bottle. What happens if you open the top? It explodes everywhere! Now, if you take that same shaken up bottle and carefully turn the lid to let a little amount of air out at a time, it will settle. This is how I view therapy, with each shake representing a negative experience, relationship, and/or trauma. Good therapy demands being careful with and sensitive to those shakes, and eventually walking out of the door with a mind, a relationship, and a life...settled.
Imagine that you are holding a bottle of soda. Now imagine yourself shaking that bottle. What happens if you open the top? It explodes everywhere! Now, if you take that same shaken up bottle and carefully turn the lid to let a little amount of air out at a time, it will settle. This is how I view therapy, with each shake representing a negative experience, relationship, and/or trauma. Good therapy demands being careful with and sensitive to those shakes, and eventually walking out of the door with a mind, a relationship, and a life...settled.
(210) 460-7987 View (210) 460-7987
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Jessica R. Potter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Do you wish you and your partner could communicate better? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood in everything you do? Maybe it's time to let someone help. My passion is helping couples build a strong and lasting relationship with each other based on communication, transparency, and respect. I have experience providing therapy services to individuals, couples, children, and families experiencing mental health and relational concerns such as depression, anxiety, premarital counseling, relational conflict, and communication problems. I am a compassionate therapist who works collaboratively with my clients. I strive to help others tackle whatever life throws their way.
Do you wish you and your partner could communicate better? Are you tired of feeling misunderstood in everything you do? Maybe it's time to let someone help. My passion is helping couples build a strong and lasting relationship with each other based on communication, transparency, and respect. I have experience providing therapy services to individuals, couples, children, and families experiencing mental health and relational concerns such as depression, anxiety, premarital counseling, relational conflict, and communication problems. I am a compassionate therapist who works collaboratively with my clients. I strive to help others tackle whatever life throws their way.
(210) 529-8048 View (210) 529-8048
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Tania Ortiz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.
I have experience working with clients that want to address issues like anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem, infidelity, life transitions, relationship issues, grief and trauma.
Coming to therapy takes courage, I honor this first step that you have taken. Together we will set and clarify your goals, explore different paths and further your understanding of yourself. Whether you are looking for relationship help or individual therapy, I am ready to walk along side you and uncover your inner strengths and provide guidance to create lasting change and connection.
(210) 866-8412 View (210) 866-8412
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Allen Novian
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LPC-S, BCN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
If you are struggling with anxiety, ADD/ADHD, OCD, learning disabilities, communication and relationship issues, recovering from divorce, or high functioning autistic (formerly ASD), then I am the right person for you. I strive in every encounter to: 1) listen to you in an attentive, genuine, non-judging manner 2) provide conversations that help you change and "re-story" negative patterns or relationships in your life 3) help you learn new skills and ways of thinking that will help you make positive change and 4) always respect your right to be an active participant in the counseling process.
If you are struggling with anxiety, ADD/ADHD, OCD, learning disabilities, communication and relationship issues, recovering from divorce, or high functioning autistic (formerly ASD), then I am the right person for you. I strive in every encounter to: 1) listen to you in an attentive, genuine, non-judging manner 2) provide conversations that help you change and "re-story" negative patterns or relationships in your life 3) help you learn new skills and ways of thinking that will help you make positive change and 4) always respect your right to be an active participant in the counseling process.
(210) 255-2015 View (210) 255-2015
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Kaye Thomas
Marriage & Family Therapist, MMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. The focus of my practice centers around couples, families, and children. However, I also work with individuals from a systemic perspective, which simply means that our interactions with each other have a ripple effect. I welcome anyone struggling with communication and relationship issues, anxiety, depression, parenting concerns, issues of abuse or behavioral problems, even those simply wanting to find new perspective.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS. The focus of my practice centers around couples, families, and children. However, I also work with individuals from a systemic perspective, which simply means that our interactions with each other have a ripple effect. I welcome anyone struggling with communication and relationship issues, anxiety, depression, parenting concerns, issues of abuse or behavioral problems, even those simply wanting to find new perspective.
(210) 791-6965 View (210) 791-6965
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Camila Beatriz Flores
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Supervised by Becky Davenport, Ph.D., LMFT-S. Are you motivated to learn about and strengthen the relationship with yourself and with those you hold dear? We could be a match if you are experiencing relational distress with family members, partners, or others in your life and are looking to gain insight and tools to create deeper understanding and positive change. In addition, if you seek support in understanding, setting, maintaining, and respecting boundaries, we could do some great work together.
Supervised by Becky Davenport, Ph.D., LMFT-S. Are you motivated to learn about and strengthen the relationship with yourself and with those you hold dear? We could be a match if you are experiencing relational distress with family members, partners, or others in your life and are looking to gain insight and tools to create deeper understanding and positive change. In addition, if you seek support in understanding, setting, maintaining, and respecting boundaries, we could do some great work together.
(210) 405-1688 View (210) 405-1688
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Dr. Melissa L. McVicker
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, PLLC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Are you feeling stuck, but knowing you want something to be different? Are you going through a life transition-- in relationships, identity, parenthood, work-- and need some support? I offer support, expertise, and hope to figure out what you need, what you want, and how to start moving in a new direction. I work with individual adults and couples to manage depression and anxiety, self-esteem and personal growth, coping and stress management, adjustment to life events, and relational issues. Significant change is created through intentional efforts on a daily basis--let's start one step at a time.
Are you feeling stuck, but knowing you want something to be different? Are you going through a life transition-- in relationships, identity, parenthood, work-- and need some support? I offer support, expertise, and hope to figure out what you need, what you want, and how to start moving in a new direction. I work with individual adults and couples to manage depression and anxiety, self-esteem and personal growth, coping and stress management, adjustment to life events, and relational issues. Significant change is created through intentional efforts on a daily basis--let's start one step at a time.
(210) 871-8221 View (210) 871-8221
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Lindsay Durham
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in Individual, Family, and Play Therapy with children, teens, and young adults. I have a passion working with children, young adults and families! I work with a variety of issues including behavioral issues at school or home, parenting and co-parenting skills, adjustment to life changes, anxiety, depression, and grief. My goal is to help children, teens, families, and young adults gain coping skills to manage hard to have emotions, deepen family relationships, and strengthen communication skills.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in Individual, Family, and Play Therapy with children, teens, and young adults. I have a passion working with children, young adults and families! I work with a variety of issues including behavioral issues at school or home, parenting and co-parenting skills, adjustment to life changes, anxiety, depression, and grief. My goal is to help children, teens, families, and young adults gain coping skills to manage hard to have emotions, deepen family relationships, and strengthen communication skills.
(830) 293-5465 View (830) 293-5465
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Brooke Leith: Counseling For Gen Z
LPC Associate, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Counseling for Gen Zers to reduce stress and discover joy. Today's teens and 20-somethings have it rough. The world is scary, and sometimes you need some extra support. You can talk to me about anxiety and worry for the future, loneliness, friendships, dating, independence, career, trauma, tech dependence, and self-esteem. The topic of each session is up to you, but I'll always help if you come up blank - you're the expert on your life after all. I offer in-person and virtual sessions and use a blend of Narrative Therapy, Expressive Arts, and Internal Family Systems (IFS). Supervised by Faith Ray, LPC-S.
Counseling for Gen Zers to reduce stress and discover joy. Today's teens and 20-somethings have it rough. The world is scary, and sometimes you need some extra support. You can talk to me about anxiety and worry for the future, loneliness, friendships, dating, independence, career, trauma, tech dependence, and self-esteem. The topic of each session is up to you, but I'll always help if you come up blank - you're the expert on your life after all. I offer in-person and virtual sessions and use a blend of Narrative Therapy, Expressive Arts, and Internal Family Systems (IFS). Supervised by Faith Ray, LPC-S.
(210) 903-8391 View (210) 903-8391
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258  (Online Only)
Whatever has blown up in your world, we can reform and meld it into something more stable and secure. It will be different and take effort, but you won’t be alone. I may have a laid-back demeanor, but I will keep you on task to learn and practice better habits and communication. My experience extends beyond my 10 years as a therapist to include my real-world experiences in other occupations rather than relying solely on theoretical knowledge. If this old retired veteran can learn to talk about icky emotions, then you (or your spouse) can. Stop hanging out with suffering and do something new.
Whatever has blown up in your world, we can reform and meld it into something more stable and secure. It will be different and take effort, but you won’t be alone. I may have a laid-back demeanor, but I will keep you on task to learn and practice better habits and communication. My experience extends beyond my 10 years as a therapist to include my real-world experiences in other occupations rather than relying solely on theoretical knowledge. If this old retired veteran can learn to talk about icky emotions, then you (or your spouse) can. Stop hanging out with suffering and do something new.
(210) 762-4926 View (210) 762-4926
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Jason Northrup
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-S
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Big Springs, San Antonio, TX 78258
Not accepting new clients
Are you having couple or family conflict? I am a trained couple and family therapist who can help. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing a wide variety of problems such as frequent fighting, sexual difficulties, parenting issues, and more. I work with and affirm clients of all backgrounds, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or faith (or lack thereof). I use evidence-based practices in my work to maximize the likelihood of an outcome that you can feel satisfied with. I will meet you where you are at without judgment and work at your pace.
Are you having couple or family conflict? I am a trained couple and family therapist who can help. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing a wide variety of problems such as frequent fighting, sexual difficulties, parenting issues, and more. I work with and affirm clients of all backgrounds, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, or faith (or lack thereof). I use evidence-based practices in my work to maximize the likelihood of an outcome that you can feel satisfied with. I will meet you where you are at without judgment and work at your pace.
(210) 529-8953 View (210) 529-8953

Online Therapists

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A Work of Heart Therapy, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-S, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78251  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Available M-Th 8AM-1PM. Women who are experiencing any deficit that is impacting their lives, in a negative way are my ideal clients. This includes issues such as self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship distress, and breaking generational curses (adults, couples, and family). If you're interested in making changes to improve the quality of your life, I'm open to challenging you in these areas by providing a safe, non-judgmental, and unbiased holding space to address your self-identified goals. You've only got one life and I'm interested in helping you achieve your best one!
Available M-Th 8AM-1PM. Women who are experiencing any deficit that is impacting their lives, in a negative way are my ideal clients. This includes issues such as self-esteem, anxiety, depression, relationship distress, and breaking generational curses (adults, couples, and family). If you're interested in making changes to improve the quality of your life, I'm open to challenging you in these areas by providing a safe, non-judgmental, and unbiased holding space to address your self-identified goals. You've only got one life and I'm interested in helping you achieve your best one!
(210) 791-6045 View (210) 791-6045
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Andrea Cox
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78247
Brainspotting, CBT/DBT/ACT and solution focused therapy works on all ages, helping those suffering from depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship issues, bereavement, trauma, difficulties transitioning into parenthood (peripartum and postpartum depression for women and their spouses), and career and life transitions such as being new to retirement.
Please contact Northeast Counseling Center 210-404-4317 for amazing therapists! I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential counseling environment, based on being genuine, empathetic and respectful. My clients should be open and motivated for change. They also respond to my direct, honest, and nurturing approach in therapy. I also incorporate Brainspotting & body awareness into sessions.
Brainspotting, CBT/DBT/ACT and solution focused therapy works on all ages, helping those suffering from depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship issues, bereavement, trauma, difficulties transitioning into parenthood (peripartum and postpartum depression for women and their spouses), and career and life transitions such as being new to retirement.
Please contact Northeast Counseling Center 210-404-4317 for amazing therapists! I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential counseling environment, based on being genuine, empathetic and respectful. My clients should be open and motivated for change. They also respond to my direct, honest, and nurturing approach in therapy. I also incorporate Brainspotting & body awareness into sessions.
(903) 225-6403 View (903) 225-6403
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Katie Meadow
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78212
Through experience within diverse treatment settings, I have worked with a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety and stress management, mood disorders, trauma, relationship concerns, the navigation of life transitions, and grief.
I am drawn to the work of therapy because I believe it is in the context of relationships that we come to know the many facets of ourselves, and can encounter opportunities for profound growth and healing. I see the therapy process as one of joint exploration into the rich worlds both within and around us, and consider it a great privilege to think deeply with others about what matters most in their lives. In this process I draw from evidence-based treatments like psychodynamic, relational, and experiential approaches, while seeking to respond flexibly to the unique needs of my clients.
Through experience within diverse treatment settings, I have worked with a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety and stress management, mood disorders, trauma, relationship concerns, the navigation of life transitions, and grief.
I am drawn to the work of therapy because I believe it is in the context of relationships that we come to know the many facets of ourselves, and can encounter opportunities for profound growth and healing. I see the therapy process as one of joint exploration into the rich worlds both within and around us, and consider it a great privilege to think deeply with others about what matters most in their lives. In this process I draw from evidence-based treatments like psychodynamic, relational, and experiential approaches, while seeking to respond flexibly to the unique needs of my clients.
(210) 791-8051 View (210) 791-8051
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Daniel MacDonald
Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78205  (Online Only)
Knowing some folks may be scared or hesitant to pursue therapy, I provide a safe and inviting environment, keeping at a pace at which you can feel comfortable as you work toward healing and developing a stronger relationship with yourself.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with three years of counseling experience and over eight years of working in the field of mental health. If you are an individual who experiences significant struggles maintaining balance in your life, whether it be staving off depression and anxiety, difficulty maintaining your relationships, work life or general health, I believe I can be of some relief.
Knowing some folks may be scared or hesitant to pursue therapy, I provide a safe and inviting environment, keeping at a pace at which you can feel comfortable as you work toward healing and developing a stronger relationship with yourself.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with three years of counseling experience and over eight years of working in the field of mental health. If you are an individual who experiences significant struggles maintaining balance in your life, whether it be staving off depression and anxiety, difficulty maintaining your relationships, work life or general health, I believe I can be of some relief.
(210) 787-2635 View (210) 787-2635
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Desiree Medina - Rekindling Hope Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78257
I believe therapy is a synergistic relationship and can only be achieved through authenticity and vulnerability to create transformation.
Are you tired of having the same argument with your partner and not feeling heard? Are you stressed and overwhelmed feeling like no matter what you do, nothing is ever good enough? Anxiety, comparison, and trying to keep it together is draining. You’ve realized all the people pleasing and unrealistic expectations to be perfect isn’t serving you anymore. Whether you need help adjusting to life transitions, communicating within your relationships, or want to work through some negative past experiences, together we can figure out what's getting in the way and rekindle the hope that's been lost.
I believe therapy is a synergistic relationship and can only be achieved through authenticity and vulnerability to create transformation.
Are you tired of having the same argument with your partner and not feeling heard? Are you stressed and overwhelmed feeling like no matter what you do, nothing is ever good enough? Anxiety, comparison, and trying to keep it together is draining. You’ve realized all the people pleasing and unrealistic expectations to be perfect isn’t serving you anymore. Whether you need help adjusting to life transitions, communicating within your relationships, or want to work through some negative past experiences, together we can figure out what's getting in the way and rekindle the hope that's been lost.
(210) 941-2597 View (210) 941-2597
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Swapomthi Govindaraju
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LPC- A
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78216
A couple who is trying to reconnect and rebuild your relationship.
Hi, I'm Swapomthi. I know beginning therapy can be overwhelming. It can also be one of the best decisions you make to put yourself and your mental health first. Yes I'm a therapist, but I'm also a woman of color, a mother, a first-generation American, and a person who has experienced loss. All these roles have shaped how I see the world and how I approach counseling. I work hard to create a nurturing and supportive space to help you feel at ease as we start this process of therapy. I believe that you are your own best expert and we can walk this path towards wellness together.
A couple who is trying to reconnect and rebuild your relationship.
Hi, I'm Swapomthi. I know beginning therapy can be overwhelming. It can also be one of the best decisions you make to put yourself and your mental health first. Yes I'm a therapist, but I'm also a woman of color, a mother, a first-generation American, and a person who has experienced loss. All these roles have shaped how I see the world and how I approach counseling. I work hard to create a nurturing and supportive space to help you feel at ease as we start this process of therapy. I believe that you are your own best expert and we can walk this path towards wellness together.
(210) 864-5562 View (210) 864-5562
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Jordana Pazin
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78229
My approach to helping is based on my client's perspective rather than my own. I contend that appreciating and respecting the client's experience for what it is, is essential to productive therapeutic growth. I view counseling as a highly personal and subjective experience, where developing an empathic, connected and trusting relationship is imperative; it is through the safety of this connection that clients can work toward positive change. While I have had extensive experience working with a wide variety of clients, my specializations include women's issues (including domestic violence and trauma), relationships, GLBTQI issues, pregnancy/infertitility issues, internet addiction and couples work.
My approach to helping is based on my client's perspective rather than my own. I contend that appreciating and respecting the client's experience for what it is, is essential to productive therapeutic growth. I view counseling as a highly personal and subjective experience, where developing an empathic, connected and trusting relationship is imperative; it is through the safety of this connection that clients can work toward positive change. While I have had extensive experience working with a wide variety of clients, my specializations include women's issues (including domestic violence and trauma), relationships, GLBTQI issues, pregnancy/infertitility issues, internet addiction and couples work.
(210) 558-0409 View (210) 558-0409
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Jeremy W Gunn
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78230
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor who works with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. I aim to provide a warm, welcoming environment focusing on my relationship with my client. I believe the individual is the expert about themselves, and my role is to help facilitate their journey towards their goals. My primary areas of specialization are in working with children and adolescents and individuals with intellectual or developmental disabilities, child abuse, depression, grief, anger, trauma, abuse, sexual identity, parent/peer conflict, and transitional issues.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor who works with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. I aim to provide a warm, welcoming environment focusing on my relationship with my client. I believe the individual is the expert about themselves, and my role is to help facilitate their journey towards their goals. My primary areas of specialization are in working with children and adolescents and individuals with intellectual or developmental disabilities, child abuse, depression, grief, anger, trauma, abuse, sexual identity, parent/peer conflict, and transitional issues.
(210) 610-2439 View (210) 610-2439
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Julie Estrada
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC, NCC
Verified Verified
San Antonio, TX 78256
I believe compassion and relationship-building are essential for healing and work with my clients to create an open, safe, and validating environment where thoughts, feelings, and topics of faith can be shared without fear of judgment while encouraging growth.
Welcome! I am a Christian, trauma-informed professional counselor and chemical dependency counselor licensed in Texas. I have 4 years of clinical experience working in various settings with populations from a variety of cultural and spiritual backgrounds and problems ranging from situational life stress to severe mental illness. I am passionate about providing support to individuals who are working on self-improvement, are feeling stuck in the past, or having difficulty adjusting to life changes. As a veteran and prior military spouse, I have a heart for military personnel, veterans, first responders, and families.
I believe compassion and relationship-building are essential for healing and work with my clients to create an open, safe, and validating environment where thoughts, feelings, and topics of faith can be shared without fear of judgment while encouraging growth.
Welcome! I am a Christian, trauma-informed professional counselor and chemical dependency counselor licensed in Texas. I have 4 years of clinical experience working in various settings with populations from a variety of cultural and spiritual backgrounds and problems ranging from situational life stress to severe mental illness. I am passionate about providing support to individuals who are working on self-improvement, are feeling stuck in the past, or having difficulty adjusting to life changes. As a veteran and prior military spouse, I have a heart for military personnel, veterans, first responders, and families.
(210) 905-9930 View (210) 905-9930
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.