Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Lubbock County, TX

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Adriana Loya
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, LCDC
Online Only
I work with clients who are making their way through addiction, trauma, and attachment based wounds. You can expect a non-judgmental and supportive approach to the emotional baggage that's been weighing you down.
I work with clients who are making their way through addiction, trauma, and attachment based wounds. You can expect a non-judgmental and supportive approach to the emotional baggage that's been weighing you down.
(737) 232-5644 View (737) 232-5644
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Jordan Counseling
LPC Associate, NCC, LCDC-I
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Life keeps piling on. Stress, miscommunication, emotional distance—it’s wearing you down. You’re stuck in the same conversations that go nowhere, leaving you and your partner feeling more disconnected and misunderstood. The anxiety and overwhelm creep in fast, and suddenly, it all feels too much to carry alone. You're tired of relationship issues draining your energy, exhausted from the constant effort. Our clients are those who are ready to move past the overwhelm and build deeper, more meaningful connections—with themselves and the people they care about. We're here to help.
Life keeps piling on. Stress, miscommunication, emotional distance—it’s wearing you down. You’re stuck in the same conversations that go nowhere, leaving you and your partner feeling more disconnected and misunderstood. The anxiety and overwhelm creep in fast, and suddenly, it all feels too much to carry alone. You're tired of relationship issues draining your energy, exhausted from the constant effort. Our clients are those who are ready to move past the overwhelm and build deeper, more meaningful connections—with themselves and the people they care about. We're here to help.
(737) 530-4031 View (737) 530-4031
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Michelle L Vermilye
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCDC
Lubbock, TX 79424
Do you find it hard to focus or manage stress when life feels overwhelming? Are you struggling with trauma, anxiety, or the impact of past experiences that keep you from moving forward? My ideal client is someone seeking healing and support, ready to work toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. You may want to regain focus, cope with stress, and create lasting change. Taking this first step toward seeking help is an act of courage, and I’m here to guide you on your journey to growth and empowerment. Together, we can build the tools you need to thrive.
Do you find it hard to focus or manage stress when life feels overwhelming? Are you struggling with trauma, anxiety, or the impact of past experiences that keep you from moving forward? My ideal client is someone seeking healing and support, ready to work toward a healthier, more fulfilling life. You may want to regain focus, cope with stress, and create lasting change. Taking this first step toward seeking help is an act of courage, and I’m here to guide you on your journey to growth and empowerment. Together, we can build the tools you need to thrive.
(806) 203-4212 View (806) 203-4212
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Scott D. Altamirano (Lubbok)
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You’re stuck in the same destructive cycles-whether it’s toxic relationships, addiction, or emotional numbness-and no matter what you do, nothing seems to change. Maybe you keep attracting narcissistic or borderline partners, or you’re battling sex or porn addiction in secret. You might be carrying the weight of sexual trauma, struggling with self-worth, or using alcohol to cope. You’ve tried to “just move on,” but the past keeps pulling you back. You need real solutions, not just another therapist nodding along. I specialize in helping people break free from self-sabotaging patterns tied to addiction, relationships, and trauma
You’re stuck in the same destructive cycles-whether it’s toxic relationships, addiction, or emotional numbness-and no matter what you do, nothing seems to change. Maybe you keep attracting narcissistic or borderline partners, or you’re battling sex or porn addiction in secret. You might be carrying the weight of sexual trauma, struggling with self-worth, or using alcohol to cope. You’ve tried to “just move on,” but the past keeps pulling you back. You need real solutions, not just another therapist nodding along. I specialize in helping people break free from self-sabotaging patterns tied to addiction, relationships, and trauma
(323) 433-6354 View (323) 433-6354
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Kimberly Durbin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, CCTP, CPLC
Lubbock, TX 79414
I am an advocate for the healing power of counseling. I can offer guidance and support to the individuals and couples that are willing to start that journey. Life is about facing adversity and coming out stronger on the other side. No one should have to face the world alone. I can offer my clients a safe and understanding environment where they are free to work through the issues that keep them from living the life that gives them meaning. I work with my clients to develop the best treatment goals for meeting their needs. I meet each client where they are and walk with them through their healing journey.
I am an advocate for the healing power of counseling. I can offer guidance and support to the individuals and couples that are willing to start that journey. Life is about facing adversity and coming out stronger on the other side. No one should have to face the world alone. I can offer my clients a safe and understanding environment where they are free to work through the issues that keep them from living the life that gives them meaning. I work with my clients to develop the best treatment goals for meeting their needs. I meet each client where they are and walk with them through their healing journey.
(806) 478-1350 View (806) 478-1350
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Next Level Counseling PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
5 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79414
Hello, my name is Daniel Leal. I am an LPC and have been in the mental health field for about 5 years. My specialty and love is working with child/adolescent clients who have behavioral issues. However, I love also working with all individuals to help them create opportunities to change their lives. I have gained a lot of experience working with a range of mental health challenges, including highly acute clients with significant diagnoses such as Bipolar and Schizophrenia. I am comfortable working in many settings and would describe myself as inclusive and strength-based.
Hello, my name is Daniel Leal. I am an LPC and have been in the mental health field for about 5 years. My specialty and love is working with child/adolescent clients who have behavioral issues. However, I love also working with all individuals to help them create opportunities to change their lives. I have gained a lot of experience working with a range of mental health challenges, including highly acute clients with significant diagnoses such as Bipolar and Schizophrenia. I am comfortable working in many settings and would describe myself as inclusive and strength-based.
(806) 491-1581 View (806) 491-1581
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Allison Chelsey Burrell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MEd, LPC
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
You deserve to love yourself in every language and live a balanced and fulfilling life. If this statement resonates with you and your goals, contact me today. I provide therapy based on helping you live your best life according to your own vision. Let us work together to get your needs met and learn to love yourself. That's not all! I also have experience working with the LGBT+ communities, BPD, and people with Intellectual and Developmental disabilities. If you are looking for a space that can affirm your personal experience, you've found it here.
You deserve to love yourself in every language and live a balanced and fulfilling life. If this statement resonates with you and your goals, contact me today. I provide therapy based on helping you live your best life according to your own vision. Let us work together to get your needs met and learn to love yourself. That's not all! I also have experience working with the LGBT+ communities, BPD, and people with Intellectual and Developmental disabilities. If you are looking for a space that can affirm your personal experience, you've found it here.
(806) 531-3478 View (806) 531-3478
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Sarahndipity Therapy, PLLC
LPC Intern, MEd
1 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79423
Another day underway... Went to bed exhausted, woke up the same way. Spent an hour last night staring at the ceiling…drift off and bam, time to wake up. Living the dream...not. More like another frickin' long day...spent 20 minutes (you didn't have) searching for your keys. Driving to work, everyone's out to piss you off with their driving. Cut off twice, honked at, and the person tapping their brakes 100 times pushed you over the edge. 15-hour work shifts draining what little energy you have. Mind's all over the place. Overwhelmed and stuck. On your 4th argument of the week with your partner, it’s only Wednesday.
Another day underway... Went to bed exhausted, woke up the same way. Spent an hour last night staring at the ceiling…drift off and bam, time to wake up. Living the dream...not. More like another frickin' long day...spent 20 minutes (you didn't have) searching for your keys. Driving to work, everyone's out to piss you off with their driving. Cut off twice, honked at, and the person tapping their brakes 100 times pushed you over the edge. 15-hour work shifts draining what little energy you have. Mind's all over the place. Overwhelmed and stuck. On your 4th argument of the week with your partner, it’s only Wednesday.
(806) 615-2962 View (806) 615-2962
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Greg Johnston
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
4 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79413
Connection, compassion, hope, and change are the guiding principles of Every Story Counseling, private practice of Dr. Greg Johnston housed within the Playroom Lubbock. Greg practices from the belief that importance should be given to the client's current story, but that most importantly hope exists for everyone to write new pages and chapters.
Connection, compassion, hope, and change are the guiding principles of Every Story Counseling, private practice of Dr. Greg Johnston housed within the Playroom Lubbock. Greg practices from the belief that importance should be given to the client's current story, but that most importantly hope exists for everyone to write new pages and chapters.
(806) 853-5716 View (806) 853-5716
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Malia Scott, RE-Wilding Relationships PLLC
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79423
TX & CO. Individuals, Couples & Adult Families. Feeling unheard & unseen in your relationship(s)? Stop the gridlock. Learn & apply attachment education to your relationship. Learn how to connect, heal and thrive in your relationships. Sex Therapy - Dealing with desire discrepancy, hormonal issues contributing to your relationship, low libido/no sex, erectile dysfunction? BOTH sides of Infidelity. Erotic Recovery. Consensual Non-Monogamy/BDSM/Kink. Narcissistic abuse. Considering divorce? Going through a divorce? Life transitions, individuation and discovery.
TX & CO. Individuals, Couples & Adult Families. Feeling unheard & unseen in your relationship(s)? Stop the gridlock. Learn & apply attachment education to your relationship. Learn how to connect, heal and thrive in your relationships. Sex Therapy - Dealing with desire discrepancy, hormonal issues contributing to your relationship, low libido/no sex, erectile dysfunction? BOTH sides of Infidelity. Erotic Recovery. Consensual Non-Monogamy/BDSM/Kink. Narcissistic abuse. Considering divorce? Going through a divorce? Life transitions, individuation and discovery.
(806) 464-4644 View (806) 464-4644
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Brandon Gardenhire
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MMFT
2 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79424
Frustrated. Heart-broken. Hopeless. Exhausted. Life and relationships can feel daunting. You may want a stronger connection with your partner but feel out of sync. You have a deep desire to love and support your children, but there is misunderstanding in the relationship. You want to feel secure and empowered, but you feel broken or defeated.
Frustrated. Heart-broken. Hopeless. Exhausted. Life and relationships can feel daunting. You may want a stronger connection with your partner but feel out of sync. You have a deep desire to love and support your children, but there is misunderstanding in the relationship. You want to feel secure and empowered, but you feel broken or defeated.
(806) 602-8271 View (806) 602-8271
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Emily Hamilton, M.MFT, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MMFT
Lubbock, TX 79423
Sometimes our lives can feel like an untamed wilderness, we get lost in uncharted territories of anxiety, depression, conflict or feeling “stuck” with our partner, feelings of low self-worth, trauma, and so many others. As your therapist, I am committed to braving that wilderness with you as we explore new pathways together to discover your best life possible! Making the decision to try therapy and reaching out to a total stranger to share your most vulnerable self can be very intimidating and scary; I commend your bravery in getting this far. You have the first step towards inner peace and freedom!
Sometimes our lives can feel like an untamed wilderness, we get lost in uncharted territories of anxiety, depression, conflict or feeling “stuck” with our partner, feelings of low self-worth, trauma, and so many others. As your therapist, I am committed to braving that wilderness with you as we explore new pathways together to discover your best life possible! Making the decision to try therapy and reaching out to a total stranger to share your most vulnerable self can be very intimidating and scary; I commend your bravery in getting this far. You have the first step towards inner peace and freedom!
(806) 705-8833 View (806) 705-8833
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Nicole Shields
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, MSSW, MS
1 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79414
I believe relationship between a counselor and client is the cornerstone of the growth and healing process. My counseling style integrates various research-based therapies to tailor the best approach for each individual. As a board-certified Clinical Sexologist and Sex Therapist, I am dedicated to discovering innovative methods to help clients gain clarity and resolve their challenges. My goal for my clients is to support them in finding peace and learning to navigate life with grace.
I believe relationship between a counselor and client is the cornerstone of the growth and healing process. My counseling style integrates various research-based therapies to tailor the best approach for each individual. As a board-certified Clinical Sexologist and Sex Therapist, I am dedicated to discovering innovative methods to help clients gain clarity and resolve their challenges. My goal for my clients is to support them in finding peace and learning to navigate life with grace.
(806) 203-5545 View (806) 203-5545
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Heather Austin-Robillard
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LMFTS
5 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79413
If you or your family are struggling with issues like substance abuse, addiction, eating disorders, or relationship conflicts (infidelity, communication problems, etc.), therapy can be a great way to deal with those struggles. Most people struggle without support for longer than is helpful. People have the innate skills to cope and bounce back from their struggles. My goal as a therapist is to provide a non-judgmental space for you to identify and grow the tools to work on those struggles.
If you or your family are struggling with issues like substance abuse, addiction, eating disorders, or relationship conflicts (infidelity, communication problems, etc.), therapy can be a great way to deal with those struggles. Most people struggle without support for longer than is helpful. People have the innate skills to cope and bounce back from their struggles. My goal as a therapist is to provide a non-judgmental space for you to identify and grow the tools to work on those struggles.
(214) 743-4122 View (214) 743-4122
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Sheila Garos
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Lubbock, TX 79410
It takes courage to come to therapy and most people do so when life seems unbearable. Others come because they want to grow in some way and believe therapy can make a difference in their lives. My ideal client is someone who is self-motivated and ready to "work" in therapy. I work with men, women and older adolescents. I work best with individuals who are ready for positive changes in their lives and who want to improve the quality of their life and their relationships.
It takes courage to come to therapy and most people do so when life seems unbearable. Others come because they want to grow in some way and believe therapy can make a difference in their lives. My ideal client is someone who is self-motivated and ready to "work" in therapy. I work with men, women and older adolescents. I work best with individuals who are ready for positive changes in their lives and who want to improve the quality of their life and their relationships.
(806) 451-3352 View (806) 451-3352
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John Purcell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Online Only
Howdy! I am a therapist based in West Texas. I work in a university setting, but also provide virtual mental health counseling for Texas residents on evenings and weekends. I primarily work with adolescents, emerging adults, and young professionals on improving self-image, anxiety, depression, identity, and relationships. I value working with folks from all walks of life; "y'all means all." I've been working in collegiate mental health and marital/relational counseling for 8 years. I graduated from Texas Tech University with a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy,
Howdy! I am a therapist based in West Texas. I work in a university setting, but also provide virtual mental health counseling for Texas residents on evenings and weekends. I primarily work with adolescents, emerging adults, and young professionals on improving self-image, anxiety, depression, identity, and relationships. I value working with folks from all walks of life; "y'all means all." I've been working in collegiate mental health and marital/relational counseling for 8 years. I graduated from Texas Tech University with a Masters of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy,
(806) 450-5147 View (806) 450-5147
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Wellbeing Counseling PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CCMHC, NCC
Lubbock, TX 79423
I hope to work with and help individuals (pre-teens, adolescents, young adults, adults), couples and families struggling with areas in their lives that are causing them pain and difficulties in their everyday functioning. My experience includes working with those struggling with anxiety and/or depression, healing and recovering from abuse/neglect/traumatic experience, working through relational and adjustment difficulties, as well as attachment struggles and behavioral challenges. Goals in counseling include relief from struggles/symptoms, but also learning ways to process, manage and heal from the struggles/symptoms one deals with.
I hope to work with and help individuals (pre-teens, adolescents, young adults, adults), couples and families struggling with areas in their lives that are causing them pain and difficulties in their everyday functioning. My experience includes working with those struggling with anxiety and/or depression, healing and recovering from abuse/neglect/traumatic experience, working through relational and adjustment difficulties, as well as attachment struggles and behavioral challenges. Goals in counseling include relief from struggles/symptoms, but also learning ways to process, manage and heal from the struggles/symptoms one deals with.
(806) 478-1007 View (806) 478-1007
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Katie Nunez
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LSOTP
Lubbock, TX 79414
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, a trained EMDR therapist, and a Sex Offender Treatment Provider. My background includes working with individuals that need help with trauma, sexual issues, relationship issues, anxiety, and depression. My primary approach to treatment is integrating Person-Centered Therapy, EMDR therapy for trauma specific treatment, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Schema Therapy. I also integrate other modalities to fit the client's needs and treatment goals. I am committed to helping people learn how to overcome their problems and live their healthiest lives.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, a trained EMDR therapist, and a Sex Offender Treatment Provider. My background includes working with individuals that need help with trauma, sexual issues, relationship issues, anxiety, and depression. My primary approach to treatment is integrating Person-Centered Therapy, EMDR therapy for trauma specific treatment, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Schema Therapy. I also integrate other modalities to fit the client's needs and treatment goals. I am committed to helping people learn how to overcome their problems and live their healthiest lives.
(806) 557-1616 View (806) 557-1616
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Julia Schroeder
Counselor, LPC, LSOTP
Online Only
“In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” Caroline Flack. Are you feeling stuck? Overwhelmed by current events or the direction your life has taken? Do you find yourself repeating behaviors or patterns of behavior that contribute to your unhappiness, and you don’t understand why? Do you have thoughts or feelings that upset you? Are you struggling to handle sudden changes in your life, including new physical limitations? I have good news. You are not alone. And help is out there.
“In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” Caroline Flack. Are you feeling stuck? Overwhelmed by current events or the direction your life has taken? Do you find yourself repeating behaviors or patterns of behavior that contribute to your unhappiness, and you don’t understand why? Do you have thoughts or feelings that upset you? Are you struggling to handle sudden changes in your life, including new physical limitations? I have good news. You are not alone. And help is out there.
(806) 304-6808 View (806) 304-6808
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Denovo Therapy
Verified Verified
Lubbock, TX 79413
Denovo Therapy is a collaborative and multidisciplinary mashup of a doctor’s office and a mental health clinic. We offer ketamine therapies and mental health counseling. Our clinic provides accessible services by our psychologists-in-training. We are dedicated to serving people suffering from depression, anxiety, PTSD, and those trying to find meaning or gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Our clients are holistically cared for by our diverse and experienced team of professionals including professional counselors, couples therapists, social workers, and psychologists-in-training.
Denovo Therapy is a collaborative and multidisciplinary mashup of a doctor’s office and a mental health clinic. We offer ketamine therapies and mental health counseling. Our clinic provides accessible services by our psychologists-in-training. We are dedicated to serving people suffering from depression, anxiety, PTSD, and those trying to find meaning or gain a deeper understanding of themselves. Our clients are holistically cared for by our diverse and experienced team of professionals including professional counselors, couples therapists, social workers, and psychologists-in-training.
(806) 370-3157 View (806) 370-3157

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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?

Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?

Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.