Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Austin, TX

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Philip Rogers
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78759
Everyone deserves to feel pleasure and confidence and to relate to themselves and their partners as it feels right to them. I provide trauma informed care to help clients improve their relationships with sexuality from a sex-positive, culturally grounded, kink informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming perspective. I can also help with setting boundaries in poly relationships, establishing safe parameters for BDSM and kink, and more.
Everyone deserves to feel pleasure and confidence and to relate to themselves and their partners as it feels right to them. I provide trauma informed care to help clients improve their relationships with sexuality from a sex-positive, culturally grounded, kink informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming perspective. I can also help with setting boundaries in poly relationships, establishing safe parameters for BDSM and kink, and more.
(737) 302-6434 View (737) 302-6434
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Faith A Perez
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78705  (Online Only)
I specialize in treatment of military service members active duty and veterans, LGBTQIA+, sex related issues, kink positive, depression, trauma and PTSD, anxiety, ADHD and those with severe mental illness.
My name is Faith and I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, abuse, PTSD, ADHD, relationship issues, sex related issues, sexuality, and other stressors causing life to feel unsettled. I work to meet you where you are in your journey through support and challenging toward progress and healing. I work with Headway and Red Apple Therapy to assist you in meeting your goals by providing a safe, authentic and compassionate clinical setting with an individualized therapy experience.
I specialize in treatment of military service members active duty and veterans, LGBTQIA+, sex related issues, kink positive, depression, trauma and PTSD, anxiety, ADHD and those with severe mental illness.
My name is Faith and I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, abuse, PTSD, ADHD, relationship issues, sex related issues, sexuality, and other stressors causing life to feel unsettled. I work to meet you where you are in your journey through support and challenging toward progress and healing. I work with Headway and Red Apple Therapy to assist you in meeting your goals by providing a safe, authentic and compassionate clinical setting with an individualized therapy experience.
(512) 980-1226 View (512) 980-1226
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Michele Flores
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78778  (Online Only)
I specialize in supporting clients from the queer, kink, and nontraditional relationship communities.
My ideal client navigates the complexities of life within the queer or kink communities, or in nontraditional relationships like polyamory. They might be a parent, like me, raising a non-binary or special needs child, seeking balance and understanding. They need a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their identity and relationships. As a Latina, part of the LGBTQIA+ community, and a therapist with degrees in Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy, I bring empathy and experience, using modalities like EFT and Gottman to help them thrive and embrace their authentic selves.
I specialize in supporting clients from the queer, kink, and nontraditional relationship communities.
My ideal client navigates the complexities of life within the queer or kink communities, or in nontraditional relationships like polyamory. They might be a parent, like me, raising a non-binary or special needs child, seeking balance and understanding. They need a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their identity and relationships. As a Latina, part of the LGBTQIA+ community, and a therapist with degrees in Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy, I bring empathy and experience, using modalities like EFT and Gottman to help them thrive and embrace their authentic selves.
(726) 240-8747 View (726) 240-8747
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Vielca McBride
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, CST
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78756
I am also passionate about working with the LGBTQ+ and kink communities.
If you are you looking to add more play, intimacy, and excitement to your life, then you are in the right place. Hello! I’m Vielca McBride and guiding you towards this is my top priority as a therapist. I practice in Texas as a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and AASECT-certified sex therapist (CST). I also hold sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA). Sexual struggles are more common than you may think and I am here to create a comforting, confidential space to help move you toward your goals.
I am also passionate about working with the LGBTQ+ and kink communities.
If you are you looking to add more play, intimacy, and excitement to your life, then you are in the right place. Hello! I’m Vielca McBride and guiding you towards this is my top priority as a therapist. I practice in Texas as a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and AASECT-certified sex therapist (CST). I also hold sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA). Sexual struggles are more common than you may think and I am here to create a comforting, confidential space to help move you toward your goals.
(512) 598-4592 View (512) 598-4592
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Christy Powell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78759  (Online Only)
Christy (he/him) offers sex-positive, compassionate and trauma-informed care. He’s a counselor and activist with a focus on religious trauma and romantic and sexual relationships of all sorts and sizes. Together we explore questions of gender and orientation, kink and polyamory, sex work, out of control sexual behavior, healing from religious shame and the everyday sadness and anxiety of life. Counseling is available online to anyone located in Texas or in-person in Central Austin.
Christy (he/him) offers sex-positive, compassionate and trauma-informed care. He’s a counselor and activist with a focus on religious trauma and romantic and sexual relationships of all sorts and sizes. Together we explore questions of gender and orientation, kink and polyamory, sex work, out of control sexual behavior, healing from religious shame and the everyday sadness and anxiety of life. Counseling is available online to anyone located in Texas or in-person in Central Austin.
(979) 541-2518 View (979) 541-2518
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Barb Matijevich
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78745
Waitlist for new clients
I believe that trauma is the universal experience --we all carry trauma with us--which is why I'm a trauma therapist with a focus on complex PTSD. I am EMDR-trained but I draw on many therapeutic modalities to meet my client's needs. To me, therapy is about releasing the things that prevent us from moving toward ease in our daily lives, in our relationships, and in the way we show up in the world.
I believe that trauma is the universal experience --we all carry trauma with us--which is why I'm a trauma therapist with a focus on complex PTSD. I am EMDR-trained but I draw on many therapeutic modalities to meet my client's needs. To me, therapy is about releasing the things that prevent us from moving toward ease in our daily lives, in our relationships, and in the way we show up in the world.
(512) 975-2161 View (512) 975-2161
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Em Bridge
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSW, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78746
I can help you manage distress around low libido, sexual pain, sexual shame, open relationships, kink, and many other sexual health topics.
I want to help each of my clients find a sense of health - emotionally, physically, and sexually. Let's work together to sort through the things causing disruption in your everyday life including intimate relationships, sexuality, or general life transitions (starting or ending a relationship, coming out, exploring non-traditional relationships, etc.) I am committed to helping you move through anxiety, depression, family of origin issues, and shame in order to help you increase connections with yourself and your community.
I can help you manage distress around low libido, sexual pain, sexual shame, open relationships, kink, and many other sexual health topics.
I want to help each of my clients find a sense of health - emotionally, physically, and sexually. Let's work together to sort through the things causing disruption in your everyday life including intimate relationships, sexuality, or general life transitions (starting or ending a relationship, coming out, exploring non-traditional relationships, etc.) I am committed to helping you move through anxiety, depression, family of origin issues, and shame in order to help you increase connections with yourself and your community.
(512) 920-6238 View (512) 920-6238
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Meghan Kane
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78736
I see individuals and couples and am consensual non-monogamy and kink affirming.
I know how difficult it can be to feel like you belong and matter. This feeling can make hard experiences seem overwhelming. Maybe the hard things you're holding are a challenging psychedelic experience, or struggles with a traumatic event. Maybe you're feeling stuck, struggling with meaning-making, questioning your sexuality or gender, or feeling not "good" enough. Whatever brings you to therapy, together we can create the space for you to feel truly seen and understood. I specialize in psychedelic integration, trauma, sex and sexuality, relationship concerns, and LGBTQ+ issues.
I see individuals and couples and am consensual non-monogamy and kink affirming.
I know how difficult it can be to feel like you belong and matter. This feeling can make hard experiences seem overwhelming. Maybe the hard things you're holding are a challenging psychedelic experience, or struggles with a traumatic event. Maybe you're feeling stuck, struggling with meaning-making, questioning your sexuality or gender, or feeling not "good" enough. Whatever brings you to therapy, together we can create the space for you to feel truly seen and understood. I specialize in psychedelic integration, trauma, sex and sexuality, relationship concerns, and LGBTQ+ issues.
(512) 312-7990 View (512) 312-7990
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Austin Mind Body, LGBTQ+ Counseling & Supervision
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78741  (Online Only)
Struggling with life transitions, creative ruts, and relationships are difficult in any situation but especially so if you do not follow the heteronormative path. It can be difficult to open up to someone when you are not certain that they understand Queer and Alternative relationship structures. I use an individualized approach with each client to build a therapeutic relationship based on specific goals. I focus my work around issues regarding LGBTQ+, sexuality, non-binary and transgender, complex relationships, power dynamics, sexual health, BDSM/ Kink, and other dynamics.
Struggling with life transitions, creative ruts, and relationships are difficult in any situation but especially so if you do not follow the heteronormative path. It can be difficult to open up to someone when you are not certain that they understand Queer and Alternative relationship structures. I use an individualized approach with each client to build a therapeutic relationship based on specific goals. I focus my work around issues regarding LGBTQ+, sexuality, non-binary and transgender, complex relationships, power dynamics, sexual health, BDSM/ Kink, and other dynamics.
(512) 765-9528 View (512) 765-9528
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Karli K Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78727  (Online Only)
As a queer, feminist, anti-racist, kink & poly positive therapist, I work to provide a safe space for diverse clients and sexual issues.
Hi, I'm Karli. :) I'm so glad you're here! I am passionate about working with people who want a safe and sex-positive environment to grow individually and relationally in their sexuality and eroticism. I often work with people who feel hopeless about their sex life, relationship conflict, or dating insecurities, or who have internalized sexual shame keeping them from exploring their pleasure and desires. I also work with people experiencing sexual dysfunction and pain. If you are feeling insecure or hopeless, I would love to help show you just how common and valid your experiences are.
As a queer, feminist, anti-racist, kink & poly positive therapist, I work to provide a safe space for diverse clients and sexual issues.
Hi, I'm Karli. :) I'm so glad you're here! I am passionate about working with people who want a safe and sex-positive environment to grow individually and relationally in their sexuality and eroticism. I often work with people who feel hopeless about their sex life, relationship conflict, or dating insecurities, or who have internalized sexual shame keeping them from exploring their pleasure and desires. I also work with people experiencing sexual dysfunction and pain. If you are feeling insecure or hopeless, I would love to help show you just how common and valid your experiences are.
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Rowan Hartin Counseling & Career Design
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78703  (Online Only)
"I have GOT to get my shit together." If this feels like the refrain of your 20-30something life, I can help. I specialize in the struggles with angst, anxiety, ADHD or adulting that keep you from building the life that you want. Your 20's and 30's are the defining decades of a lifetime - the time to invest in therapy is NOW. If you are tired of feeling stuck, I can help you shift from insight to action and really get things moving in the right direction. Ideally located for clients in East Austin, downtown / Central Austin, and the Mueller area! Online therapy and evening/weekend appointments are available.
"I have GOT to get my shit together." If this feels like the refrain of your 20-30something life, I can help. I specialize in the struggles with angst, anxiety, ADHD or adulting that keep you from building the life that you want. Your 20's and 30's are the defining decades of a lifetime - the time to invest in therapy is NOW. If you are tired of feeling stuck, I can help you shift from insight to action and really get things moving in the right direction. Ideally located for clients in East Austin, downtown / Central Austin, and the Mueller area! Online therapy and evening/weekend appointments are available.
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Jessica Warner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78701
I'm a Kink Aware Professional and believe that relationships and sex are building blocks to our lives no matter in what form they come. I have experience working with a variety of sexual and relational issues and have worked with people from varying backgrounds, from BDSM to open marriage.
I'm a Kink Aware Professional and believe that relationships and sex are building blocks to our lives no matter in what form they come. I have experience working with a variety of sexual and relational issues and have worked with people from varying backgrounds, from BDSM to open marriage.
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Eridian Winter
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78753  (Online Only)
I work with both individuals and relationships on topics related to: identity, coming out, more than monogamy/polyamory, expansive sexuality/ kink, fandom, stress, and relational conflict.
Let's decolonize mental health. Your well-being should not come at the expense of authenticity. No matter where you are in your life, the world can feel isolating and exhausting, especially when we do not fit neatly into narrow roles we are told are acceptable. Through connection and community, we develop the skills and language to describe our experiences. You get to define the terms of your own existence, you may already have the words or they could be difficult to find. Our therapeutic connection can provide a space for you to feel safe and supported in creating your space in the world.
I work with both individuals and relationships on topics related to: identity, coming out, more than monogamy/polyamory, expansive sexuality/ kink, fandom, stress, and relational conflict.
Let's decolonize mental health. Your well-being should not come at the expense of authenticity. No matter where you are in your life, the world can feel isolating and exhausting, especially when we do not fit neatly into narrow roles we are told are acceptable. Through connection and community, we develop the skills and language to describe our experiences. You get to define the terms of your own existence, you may already have the words or they could be difficult to find. Our therapeutic connection can provide a space for you to feel safe and supported in creating your space in the world.
(737) 265-5178 View (737) 265-5178
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Callie Seymour
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78759
Waitlist for new clients
As a sex therapist in training, I offer a sex-positive approach and warmly welcome LGBTQIA+, BDSM/ kink, and ethically non-monogamous clients.
I love working with adult individuals, couples, and family members who are looking to grow and heal in ways that emphasize their unique human experience and authenticity. This might look like someone who is trying to forge a new path after being stuck in a negative pattern like codependency or perfectionism. It may be a couple who wants to improve communication or deepen their emotional or sexual intimacy. It may be family members who are hoping to resolve past issues to create space for more authentic connection. I tailor my approach to fit my clients' needs while providing a warm, compassionate space for exploration and growth.
As a sex therapist in training, I offer a sex-positive approach and warmly welcome LGBTQIA+, BDSM/ kink, and ethically non-monogamous clients.
I love working with adult individuals, couples, and family members who are looking to grow and heal in ways that emphasize their unique human experience and authenticity. This might look like someone who is trying to forge a new path after being stuck in a negative pattern like codependency or perfectionism. It may be a couple who wants to improve communication or deepen their emotional or sexual intimacy. It may be family members who are hoping to resolve past issues to create space for more authentic connection. I tailor my approach to fit my clients' needs while providing a warm, compassionate space for exploration and growth.
(737) 327-4857 View (737) 327-4857
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Cassandra Hesse
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, CST
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78727  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Sex Therapy for Individuals, Couples, and All Relationship Lifestyles. Do you struggle with depression or anxiety within your relationship(s)? Do you not see eye-to-eye with your partner(s)? Do you struggle with meeting people but desire human interaction? What about struggling with sexual intimacy and having a hard time finding a therapist to talk freely about your Sex Life?
Sex Therapy for Individuals, Couples, and All Relationship Lifestyles. Do you struggle with depression or anxiety within your relationship(s)? Do you not see eye-to-eye with your partner(s)? Do you struggle with meeting people but desire human interaction? What about struggling with sexual intimacy and having a hard time finding a therapist to talk freely about your Sex Life?
(775) 277-6861 View (775) 277-6861
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Taylor Cnudde
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, EdS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78746
I am sex positive, LGBTQ+ affirming, HAES aligned, and supportive of non-traditional relationships.
Taylor welcomes individuals and couples who are seeking to create change in their lives. She specializes in trauma, anxiety, ketamine assisted therapy, self-compassion/acceptance, and relationship issues. Taylor may be a good fit for you if anxiety or depression are causing daily distress, self-criticism and burnout are impacting work performance, or if relationships feel unmanageable and disconnected. She supports clients to overcome painful past experiences and unhelpful patterns, in order to reconnect with themselves, loved ones, and career in more meaningful and successful ways.
I am sex positive, LGBTQ+ affirming, HAES aligned, and supportive of non-traditional relationships.
Taylor welcomes individuals and couples who are seeking to create change in their lives. She specializes in trauma, anxiety, ketamine assisted therapy, self-compassion/acceptance, and relationship issues. Taylor may be a good fit for you if anxiety or depression are causing daily distress, self-criticism and burnout are impacting work performance, or if relationships feel unmanageable and disconnected. She supports clients to overcome painful past experiences and unhelpful patterns, in order to reconnect with themselves, loved ones, and career in more meaningful and successful ways.
(512) 877-1952 View (512) 877-1952
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Brooke Becker
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78759
Brooke warmly welcomes clients from diverse backgrounds, identities, and relationship structures, including those within the kink and queer/LGBTQIA+ communities.
Brooke sees her role as a mirror for her clients, reflecting the patterns she observes to guide them towards discovering their inner-voice and wisdom. She believes that by exploring personal development and examining our interactions within relationships, we can unravel the patterns that hinder our relationships, or self-love. Through active engagement in therapeutic dialogue and collaboration, Brooke aims to support the client through a treatment plan that is specific to the client because therapy is not a one size fits all experience.
Brooke warmly welcomes clients from diverse backgrounds, identities, and relationship structures, including those within the kink and queer/LGBTQIA+ communities.
Brooke sees her role as a mirror for her clients, reflecting the patterns she observes to guide them towards discovering their inner-voice and wisdom. She believes that by exploring personal development and examining our interactions within relationships, we can unravel the patterns that hinder our relationships, or self-love. Through active engagement in therapeutic dialogue and collaboration, Brooke aims to support the client through a treatment plan that is specific to the client because therapy is not a one size fits all experience.
(737) 727-3853 View (737) 727-3853
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Tipping the Scales Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78759
I have extensive experience in working with the Transgender, LGBQ, Sex Worker, Kink and Polyamorous communities and I strive to provide people in these communities with the tools to heal and live the most empowered life possible.
Welcome, I am so happy you’re here! “Tipping the Scales: Psychotherapy to Deconstruct and Empower, PLLC” is a therapeutic practice designed to cater to people who are Transgender, LGBQ, Sex Workers, Polyamorous and Kink identified. The goal of this practice is to help to you explore and deconstruct any previously installed beliefs, value systems, moral frameworks or patterns of behavior and thinking that are no longer serving you so that you can lead your most empowered and authentic life on YOUR terms.
I have extensive experience in working with the Transgender, LGBQ, Sex Worker, Kink and Polyamorous communities and I strive to provide people in these communities with the tools to heal and live the most empowered life possible.
Welcome, I am so happy you’re here! “Tipping the Scales: Psychotherapy to Deconstruct and Empower, PLLC” is a therapeutic practice designed to cater to people who are Transgender, LGBQ, Sex Workers, Polyamorous and Kink identified. The goal of this practice is to help to you explore and deconstruct any previously installed beliefs, value systems, moral frameworks or patterns of behavior and thinking that are no longer serving you so that you can lead your most empowered and authentic life on YOUR terms.
(737) 345-2393 View (737) 345-2393
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Katie Green
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78759
Topics I’m especially passionate about are bisexuality and pansexuality, trans and gender expansive identities, kink/BDSM dynamics, shame and self-compassion, consensual non-monogamy, boundaries and assertiveness skills, mismatched libidos, creativity and creative blocks, existential issues, and body image issues.
I am an AASECT certified sex therapist who strives to create a safe, non-judgmental environment that is welcoming to all bodies, orientations, relationships, and lifestyles. I have completed hundreds of hours of sex therapy education and training, seek out the latest research, and provide practical exercises, homework, and resources to maximize your therapeutic benefit between sessions. My counseling style is warm, collaborative, curious, and playful! I integrate mindfulness and self-compassion into my sessions and have a particular knack for asking insight-generating questions.
Topics I’m especially passionate about are bisexuality and pansexuality, trans and gender expansive identities, kink/BDSM dynamics, shame and self-compassion, consensual non-monogamy, boundaries and assertiveness skills, mismatched libidos, creativity and creative blocks, existential issues, and body image issues.
I am an AASECT certified sex therapist who strives to create a safe, non-judgmental environment that is welcoming to all bodies, orientations, relationships, and lifestyles. I have completed hundreds of hours of sex therapy education and training, seek out the latest research, and provide practical exercises, homework, and resources to maximize your therapeutic benefit between sessions. My counseling style is warm, collaborative, curious, and playful! I integrate mindfulness and self-compassion into my sessions and have a particular knack for asking insight-generating questions.
(512) 559-8840 View (512) 559-8840
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Daniela De Los Angeles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S
Verified Verified
Austin, TX 78759  (Online Only)
From a person-centered approach, I pull in from different therapies and tools as needed, and I enjoy fostering a space that’s gender affirming, body and sex positive, as well as kink friendly/affirming.
Hi there! I'm passionate about helping folks who want to work through Complex PSTD or complex trauma, functional depression & anxiety, and self esteem concerns. My goal is to help you get unstuck from a cycle of over functioning, people pleasing, disconnection and overwhelm, to a place of grounding, clarity and connection. I strive to provide a warm, supportive and judgment-free space that is culture affirming and trauma informed, with an understanding that you are the expert on your life.
From a person-centered approach, I pull in from different therapies and tools as needed, and I enjoy fostering a space that’s gender affirming, body and sex positive, as well as kink friendly/affirming.
Hi there! I'm passionate about helping folks who want to work through Complex PSTD or complex trauma, functional depression & anxiety, and self esteem concerns. My goal is to help you get unstuck from a cycle of over functioning, people pleasing, disconnection and overwhelm, to a place of grounding, clarity and connection. I strive to provide a warm, supportive and judgment-free space that is culture affirming and trauma informed, with an understanding that you are the expert on your life.
(737) 530-7394 View (737) 530-7394
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.