Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Austin, TX
My approach is direct and designed to identify patterns, challenge preexisiting beliefs and repair relationships. By understanding the cultural, systemic and relational influences on your life, we can find the keys to reframe ideas and patterns that are no longer serving you.
You are unique and your therapy experience should be too. I customize treatment plans based on your needs, capacities and goals. I believe in your ability to create a life that feels authentic for your experience. You may not always believe in yourself, but I already do. I know you can overcome anything and integrate new skills into your coping strategies.
My approach is direct and designed to identify patterns, challenge preexisiting beliefs and repair relationships. By understanding the cultural, systemic and relational influences on your life, we can find the keys to reframe ideas and patterns that are no longer serving you.
You are unique and your therapy experience should be too. I customize treatment plans based on your needs, capacities and goals. I believe in your ability to create a life that feels authentic for your experience. You may not always believe in yourself, but I already do. I know you can overcome anything and integrate new skills into your coping strategies.
Andreanna Barley- Intimacy + Authenticity
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LPC-A, LMFT-A
6 Endorsed
Austin, TX 78744
I'm Andreanna. My approach to therapy is rooted in curiosity, empathy and authenticity. I believe deeply in the power of the therapeutic relationship and seek to build a strong foundation of trust and safety with clients. Often clients come to me to work on healing from past attachment trauma that manifests as current relational issues
Many of my clients are part of the LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and kink communities or identify as artists, creators, and trailblazers—people who exist outside the mainstream, and are deeply committed to self-exploration and healing, exploring their identities, or deepening intimacy in their relationships.
I'm Andreanna. My approach to therapy is rooted in curiosity, empathy and authenticity. I believe deeply in the power of the therapeutic relationship and seek to build a strong foundation of trust and safety with clients. Often clients come to me to work on healing from past attachment trauma that manifests as current relational issues
Many of my clients are part of the LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and kink communities or identify as artists, creators, and trailblazers—people who exist outside the mainstream, and are deeply committed to self-exploration and healing, exploring their identities, or deepening intimacy in their relationships.
I am an AASECT certified sex therapist who strives to create a safe, non-judgmental environment that is welcoming to all bodies, orientations, relationships, and lifestyles. I have completed hundreds of hours of sex therapy education and training, seek out the latest research, and provide practical exercises, homework, and resources to maximize your therapeutic benefit between sessions. My counseling style is warm, collaborative, curious, and playful! I integrate mindfulness and self-compassion into my sessions and have a particular knack for asking insight-generating questions.
I am an AASECT certified sex therapist who strives to create a safe, non-judgmental environment that is welcoming to all bodies, orientations, relationships, and lifestyles. I have completed hundreds of hours of sex therapy education and training, seek out the latest research, and provide practical exercises, homework, and resources to maximize your therapeutic benefit between sessions. My counseling style is warm, collaborative, curious, and playful! I integrate mindfulness and self-compassion into my sessions and have a particular knack for asking insight-generating questions.
My expertise is in trauma recovery, sense of self, self and other balance, and alternative relationships - Polyamory, ENM etc - as well as traditional relationships all use my honed skill set.
Are you Alternative? Think "outside the box"? Are you regaining / retooling your Self Worth and Relationship Skills? I can help. Over the past 35 years as a therapist, I find clients I work well with want a nonjudgmental, alternative knowledgeable/ friendly, expert therapist. All my services are provided from a base philosophy that is non-pathologizing and emphasizes strengths not deficits. You and I then use my skills and experience, and your knowledge about yourself and your situation to find good paths forward based on your priorities and needs – finding out what those are is often our first task.
My expertise is in trauma recovery, sense of self, self and other balance, and alternative relationships - Polyamory, ENM etc - as well as traditional relationships all use my honed skill set.
Are you Alternative? Think "outside the box"? Are you regaining / retooling your Self Worth and Relationship Skills? I can help. Over the past 35 years as a therapist, I find clients I work well with want a nonjudgmental, alternative knowledgeable/ friendly, expert therapist. All my services are provided from a base philosophy that is non-pathologizing and emphasizes strengths not deficits. You and I then use my skills and experience, and your knowledge about yourself and your situation to find good paths forward based on your priorities and needs – finding out what those are is often our first task.
I love working with couples because so much real change is possible. My role is to help you move through the stuck and painful places in your relationship — not by smoothing things over, but by helping you see clearly, communicate honestly, and relate differently.
I specialize in working with couples who have reached an impasse and want to understand and shift long-standing relational patterns. This often involves exploring family histories, unmet needs, and the ways people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, codependency, or self-abandonment may be shaping your dynamic.
I love working with couples because so much real change is possible. My role is to help you move through the stuck and painful places in your relationship — not by smoothing things over, but by helping you see clearly, communicate honestly, and relate differently.
I specialize in working with couples who have reached an impasse and want to understand and shift long-standing relational patterns. This often involves exploring family histories, unmet needs, and the ways people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, codependency, or self-abandonment may be shaping your dynamic.
I specialize in working with individuals facing major life transitions, healing from trauma, and navigating daily challenges. Whether you're processing past experiences, adjusting to significant changes, or striving for personal growth, I provide a supportive space to explore your emotions and build resilience. Additionally, I have experience working with individuals in diverse relationship structures, including polyamorous and non-monogamous dynamics. I approach these conversations with openness, respect, and a deep understanding of the unique challenges and opportunities they bring.
I specialize in working with individuals facing major life transitions, healing from trauma, and navigating daily challenges. Whether you're processing past experiences, adjusting to significant changes, or striving for personal growth, I provide a supportive space to explore your emotions and build resilience. Additionally, I have experience working with individuals in diverse relationship structures, including polyamorous and non-monogamous dynamics. I approach these conversations with openness, respect, and a deep understanding of the unique challenges and opportunities they bring.
Life can be challenging, especially when you are perceived as different. The world can be truly rotten to people who are unique and it can lead to feelings of: shame, loneliness, anxiety, fear, and sadness. Please know that you are not alone in this. I offer a safer place where you can allow your authentic self to shine. Through our connection in therapy, we will explore your strengths and challenges. Using our relationship in session as a guide, you will have the opportunity to discover new insights and move towards your goals. My work centers on helping relationships and adults.
Life can be challenging, especially when you are perceived as different. The world can be truly rotten to people who are unique and it can lead to feelings of: shame, loneliness, anxiety, fear, and sadness. Please know that you are not alone in this. I offer a safer place where you can allow your authentic self to shine. Through our connection in therapy, we will explore your strengths and challenges. Using our relationship in session as a guide, you will have the opportunity to discover new insights and move towards your goals. My work centers on helping relationships and adults.
Specializing in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.
Life keeps piling on. Stress, miscommunication, and emotional distance - it’s wearing you out. You’re stuck in the same conversations that go nowhere, leaving you and your partner feeling more disconnected and frustrated. The anxiety and overwhelm creep in fast, and suddenly, it all feels too much to carry alone. You're tired of relationship issues draining your energy, exhausted from the constant effort. Our clients are those who are ready to move past the overwhelm and repair deep, meaningful connections - with themselves and the people they care about. We're here to help.
Specializing in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.
Life keeps piling on. Stress, miscommunication, and emotional distance - it’s wearing you out. You’re stuck in the same conversations that go nowhere, leaving you and your partner feeling more disconnected and frustrated. The anxiety and overwhelm creep in fast, and suddenly, it all feels too much to carry alone. You're tired of relationship issues draining your energy, exhausted from the constant effort. Our clients are those who are ready to move past the overwhelm and repair deep, meaningful connections - with themselves and the people they care about. We're here to help.
Many clients seek support while navigating parenthood, opening a relationship, polyamory, kink, or redefining connection.
I specialize in sex therapy and work with individuals, couples, and diverse relationship structures using a trauma-informed, culturally inclusive approach. I help clients strengthen communication, deepen intimacy, explore identity and desire, and navigate transitions and non-traditional relationship dynamics with clarity and confidence.
Many clients seek support while navigating parenthood, opening a relationship, polyamory, kink, or redefining connection.
I specialize in sex therapy and work with individuals, couples, and diverse relationship structures using a trauma-informed, culturally inclusive approach. I help clients strengthen communication, deepen intimacy, explore identity and desire, and navigate transitions and non-traditional relationship dynamics with clarity and confidence.
I believe that you know your own path best. I strive to learn from you about your identity and your values, and support you in your pursuits and goals while providing perspective and validation. This can only be done with a level of honesty and trust, which is why I'm committed to creating a safe, warm, non-judgmental relationship with each of my clients.
I believe that you know your own path best. I strive to learn from you about your identity and your values, and support you in your pursuits and goals while providing perspective and validation. This can only be done with a level of honesty and trust, which is why I'm committed to creating a safe, warm, non-judgmental relationship with each of my clients.
Hello my name is Melissa Trevino Butler and I have been in the mental health world since 2016. I have a passion for helping people overcome the challenges in their lives that keeps them from living their favorite version of themselves.
If you are ready to overcome trauma, anxieties, or the fears and worries related to life transitions- I’d love to support you through it. I am currently only able to see individual clients and cannot offer couples counseling.
Hello my name is Melissa Trevino Butler and I have been in the mental health world since 2016. I have a passion for helping people overcome the challenges in their lives that keeps them from living their favorite version of themselves.
If you are ready to overcome trauma, anxieties, or the fears and worries related to life transitions- I’d love to support you through it. I am currently only able to see individual clients and cannot offer couples counseling.
Are you tired of having the same old fights with your partner again and again? As a Marriage and Family Therapist, helping couples/polycules find lasting resolution to their most cyclical arguments is my specialty. You've put a lot of time, money, and vulnerability into your relationship, so your partner knows you in ways that nobody else does - which can feel like both a blessing and a curse. From infidelity, addiction, or just the stresses of being queer in Texas, helping relationships feel like the safe haven they used to be is my Craft.
Are you tired of having the same old fights with your partner again and again? As a Marriage and Family Therapist, helping couples/polycules find lasting resolution to their most cyclical arguments is my specialty. You've put a lot of time, money, and vulnerability into your relationship, so your partner knows you in ways that nobody else does - which can feel like both a blessing and a curse. From infidelity, addiction, or just the stresses of being queer in Texas, helping relationships feel like the safe haven they used to be is my Craft.
I specialize in working with clients exploring their gender, sexual, and/or romantic identities, couples and groups wanting to navigate polyamory/relationship anarchy/non-monogamy, late-diagnosed Autism or ADHD, seeking support around chronic pain and illness, and processing trauma.
I believe therapy should be a collaborative process, built on mutual respect and authenticity. You know more about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences than anyone else. My role is to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental place to process emotions and create a sustainable path towards your goals.
I specialize in working with clients exploring their gender, sexual, and/or romantic identities, couples and groups wanting to navigate polyamory/relationship anarchy/non-monogamy, late-diagnosed Autism or ADHD, seeking support around chronic pain and illness, and processing trauma.
I believe therapy should be a collaborative process, built on mutual respect and authenticity. You know more about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences than anyone else. My role is to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental place to process emotions and create a sustainable path towards your goals.
Affirming care for LGBTQIA+, polyamory, open relationships, & sex workers.
We all have innate worthiness and the power to change or recreate our stories. Life is sometimes messy and complicated. However, the “mess” can be a learning opportunity.. The mantra, “My pen, My story”, reminds us of our power to change and grow. We all have stories we have created about our lives, and these can impact our daily experiences. How we speak to ourselves impacts us individually and in relationships with others.
Affirming care for LGBTQIA+, polyamory, open relationships, & sex workers.
We all have innate worthiness and the power to change or recreate our stories. Life is sometimes messy and complicated. However, the “mess” can be a learning opportunity.. The mantra, “My pen, My story”, reminds us of our power to change and grow. We all have stories we have created about our lives, and these can impact our daily experiences. How we speak to ourselves impacts us individually and in relationships with others.
I’d like to be the first to welcome you to a journey of emotional connection and growth. If you are seeking to improve your relationships, whether with a partner, family member, or within yourself, I’m here to help. I have a passion for helping individuals and couples navigate the struggles of relationships. I offer a compassionate and evidence-based approach to therapy tailored to your unique needs.
I’d like to be the first to welcome you to a journey of emotional connection and growth. If you are seeking to improve your relationships, whether with a partner, family member, or within yourself, I’m here to help. I have a passion for helping individuals and couples navigate the struggles of relationships. I offer a compassionate and evidence-based approach to therapy tailored to your unique needs.
If they've shenanned once, they'll likely shenanigan again! My role is to guide you in setting healthy boundaries and making sure your well-being comes first. Every person’s journey is unique, and I create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can freely explore life’s challenges and uncover the strength you already carry within you. Together, we’ll navigate whatever comes your way, building on your strengths and finding real, meaningful solutions. My goal is to help you feel seen, heard, and supported every step of the way.
If they've shenanned once, they'll likely shenanigan again! My role is to guide you in setting healthy boundaries and making sure your well-being comes first. Every person’s journey is unique, and I create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can freely explore life’s challenges and uncover the strength you already carry within you. Together, we’ll navigate whatever comes your way, building on your strengths and finding real, meaningful solutions. My goal is to help you feel seen, heard, and supported every step of the way.
Life is tough enough, and you deserve to have the deepest and sweetest relationship with yourself and your surrounding world! A sex life full of passion, romance, and desire! Our goal at Beyond Vanilla Therapy is to help black, queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people develop skills in intimacy, vulnerability, and effective communication to foster their most pleasurable experience. It’s time to enhance the intimate relationship with yourself that can transcend into all aspects of your life. Our ideal clients are new too sensuality exploration, motivated to grow, and challenge their current ideology surrounding sex & relationships.
Life is tough enough, and you deserve to have the deepest and sweetest relationship with yourself and your surrounding world! A sex life full of passion, romance, and desire! Our goal at Beyond Vanilla Therapy is to help black, queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people develop skills in intimacy, vulnerability, and effective communication to foster their most pleasurable experience. It’s time to enhance the intimate relationship with yourself that can transcend into all aspects of your life. Our ideal clients are new too sensuality exploration, motivated to grow, and challenge their current ideology surrounding sex & relationships.
I have extensive experience with LGBTQ+ folks, ENM/ polyamory, kink/BDSM, and sex-positive communities—I especially love working with people exploring nonmonogamy and literally wrote the book on it.
Maybe you're feeling stuck in your relationship—or in life. You're wondering if things could be different, better, more honest. Perhaps you're curious about opening your relationship but don't know where to start, or you're already nonmonogamous and hitting rough patches. Maybe your concerns have nothing to do with relationship structure—you're just struggling with anxiety, feeling disconnected from yourself, or ready to make changes you've been putting off. Whatever brings you here, you're looking for someone who will really listen, who won't judge your choices, and who can help you figure out what you actually want.
I have extensive experience with LGBTQ+ folks, ENM/ polyamory, kink/BDSM, and sex-positive communities—I especially love working with people exploring nonmonogamy and literally wrote the book on it.
Maybe you're feeling stuck in your relationship—or in life. You're wondering if things could be different, better, more honest. Perhaps you're curious about opening your relationship but don't know where to start, or you're already nonmonogamous and hitting rough patches. Maybe your concerns have nothing to do with relationship structure—you're just struggling with anxiety, feeling disconnected from yourself, or ready to make changes you've been putting off. Whatever brings you here, you're looking for someone who will really listen, who won't judge your choices, and who can help you figure out what you actually want.
I am deeply committed to creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and understood. I know first hand the need to relief pressure, regain control of your life and incorporate more of what makes you happy. My journey in psychology has been fueled by a passion for ensuring that therapy is accessible and relevant to people of all backgrounds. I believe that your culture, identity, and life experiences play a critical role in shaping who you are. My approach is rooted in understanding your unique perspective. I am here to listen without judgement and help you cultivate the right tools to thrive.
I am deeply committed to creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and understood. I know first hand the need to relief pressure, regain control of your life and incorporate more of what makes you happy. My journey in psychology has been fueled by a passion for ensuring that therapy is accessible and relevant to people of all backgrounds. I believe that your culture, identity, and life experiences play a critical role in shaping who you are. My approach is rooted in understanding your unique perspective. I am here to listen without judgement and help you cultivate the right tools to thrive.
I am currently accepting new clients, check below to see if your insurance is accepted. I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, PTSD, ADHD, sex/intimacy related issues, sexuality, and other stressors causing life to feel unsettled. I work to support you in a come as you are setting and challenging you toward progress and healing at your pace. My hope is to be a support system to guide you in meeting your goals through a safe, authentic and compassionate individualized therapy experience. Your needs are your own, so why shouldn't your care be tailored to you too?
I am currently accepting new clients, check below to see if your insurance is accepted. I work with individuals and couples facing a range of concerns to include depression, trauma, PTSD, ADHD, sex/intimacy related issues, sexuality, and other stressors causing life to feel unsettled. I work to support you in a come as you are setting and challenging you toward progress and healing at your pace. My hope is to be a support system to guide you in meeting your goals through a safe, authentic and compassionate individualized therapy experience. Your needs are your own, so why shouldn't your care be tailored to you too?
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.


