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Michelle Herman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
East Northport, NY 11731
“If you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place.” Eckhart Tolle. Growth is a process and therapy is a safe place to gain self awareness and learn new skills. I work with with anyone age of 11 or older, who is looking to gain perspective, growth, and develop healthier ways of coping with life's challenges. The primary focus of my practice and passion is working with LGBTQ+ youth and families. Professional affiliations include NASW and WPATH.
“If you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place.” Eckhart Tolle. Growth is a process and therapy is a safe place to gain self awareness and learn new skills. I work with with anyone age of 11 or older, who is looking to gain perspective, growth, and develop healthier ways of coping with life's challenges. The primary focus of my practice and passion is working with LGBTQ+ youth and families. Professional affiliations include NASW and WPATH.
(516) 271-1937 View (516) 271-1937
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Marissa Fielstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hauppauge, NY 11788  (Online Only)
The pressures adults face today can feel insurmountable, and for kids, sometimes growing up is hard to do. Life's obstacles can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with an MSW from Columbia University, MS from Johns Hopkins University (Health Informatics), and a BS in Psychology from Binghamton University. I have worked for nine years as a social worker on Long Island treating individuals and families. My current practice focuses on teens (16+), young adults, and adults.
The pressures adults face today can feel insurmountable, and for kids, sometimes growing up is hard to do. Life's obstacles can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with an MSW from Columbia University, MS from Johns Hopkins University (Health Informatics), and a BS in Psychology from Binghamton University. I have worked for nine years as a social worker on Long Island treating individuals and families. My current practice focuses on teens (16+), young adults, and adults.
(631) 557-0928 View (631) 557-0928
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Stacy Pellettieri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Melville, NY 11747
Sometimes all that stands in the way of your happiness and peace of mind is your own thoughts. It's remarkable how our thoughts work against us creating anxiety, depression, and an overall feeling of being trapped or stuck. The good news is that having the happiness you want and deserve is actually within your control. Whether it is getting rid of your fear, understanding why you are so sad, dreaming of a healthier relationship, or just trying to figure out what will actually make you happy, I am here to help you learn how to take control of your life.
Sometimes all that stands in the way of your happiness and peace of mind is your own thoughts. It's remarkable how our thoughts work against us creating anxiety, depression, and an overall feeling of being trapped or stuck. The good news is that having the happiness you want and deserve is actually within your control. Whether it is getting rid of your fear, understanding why you are so sad, dreaming of a healthier relationship, or just trying to figure out what will actually make you happy, I am here to help you learn how to take control of your life.
(516) 714-5386 View (516) 714-5386
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Dana Rosen Akeson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cold Spring Harbor, NY 11724  (Online Only)
In order for therapy to work, it is important to choose the right therapist for you. I am a caring and supportive Social Worker who aims to help individuals achieve more comfortable and authentic lives. It is most important to me that my patients feel safe, valued, and respected in the therapeutic process and relationship. I work collaboratively with my patients in order to better understand their needs and what has brought them to this moment in time. Together, we will determine the best approach toward meeting those needs, in order to make changes that are positive and sustainable.
In order for therapy to work, it is important to choose the right therapist for you. I am a caring and supportive Social Worker who aims to help individuals achieve more comfortable and authentic lives. It is most important to me that my patients feel safe, valued, and respected in the therapeutic process and relationship. I work collaboratively with my patients in order to better understand their needs and what has brought them to this moment in time. Together, we will determine the best approach toward meeting those needs, in order to make changes that are positive and sustainable.
(516) 271-1484 View (516) 271-1484
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Caren Jacobs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
Feeling stuck and don't know how to move forward? Are you tired of the negative narratives that are constantly playing in your head? Do you suffer from anxiety, but are finding it difficult to seek help? With over 35 years experience working with those suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma, I will listen to your pain and offer guidance, support and practical solutions. When you find the right person to share your darkest shame, remarkable transformations can occur. Let me assist you in your healing journey. Together, we can discover where you may be blocked. You deserve to feel joy again! There is hope! I can help!
Feeling stuck and don't know how to move forward? Are you tired of the negative narratives that are constantly playing in your head? Do you suffer from anxiety, but are finding it difficult to seek help? With over 35 years experience working with those suffering from anxiety, depression, grief, and trauma, I will listen to your pain and offer guidance, support and practical solutions. When you find the right person to share your darkest shame, remarkable transformations can occur. Let me assist you in your healing journey. Together, we can discover where you may be blocked. You deserve to feel joy again! There is hope! I can help!
(631) 496-1675 View (631) 496-1675
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Sarah Levinson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743  (Online Only)
I am passionate about relationship dynamics, sexuality, sexual orientation, gender identity, communication and intimacy with a focus on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. I counsel individuals, couples and moresomes on creative relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy. I also work extensively with mood related challenges, including anxiety, depression and OCD, as well as career transitions. As a member of the polyamorous, LGBTQ, and burner communities, I share my extensive personal and professional experience with clients.
I am passionate about relationship dynamics, sexuality, sexual orientation, gender identity, communication and intimacy with a focus on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. I counsel individuals, couples and moresomes on creative relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy. I also work extensively with mood related challenges, including anxiety, depression and OCD, as well as career transitions. As a member of the polyamorous, LGBTQ, and burner communities, I share my extensive personal and professional experience with clients.
(646) 941-5998 View (646) 941-5998
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Dr Valentino - Couples & Individual Sex Therapist
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, Couples, Marital, Sex Tx
Verified Verified
Huntington, NY 11743  (Online Only)
Dr. Valentino is an expert in psychology, sexuality, relationships, couples counseling, and gender issues conveniently treating via telehealth! Treatment for both couples and individuals. One time sex therapy consultations also available. There is no shame in your thoughts or sexuality, so remove the stigmas now! Correct issues like differing libidos within a couple, ED, pain, sexual dysfunction for both men and women, and relationship/intimacy issues (single or coupled). Feel confident your problems can be resolved, in less time than you think! But you have to take the first step. Read more or book now at www.drvalentino.nyc
Dr. Valentino is an expert in psychology, sexuality, relationships, couples counseling, and gender issues conveniently treating via telehealth! Treatment for both couples and individuals. One time sex therapy consultations also available. There is no shame in your thoughts or sexuality, so remove the stigmas now! Correct issues like differing libidos within a couple, ED, pain, sexual dysfunction for both men and women, and relationship/intimacy issues (single or coupled). Feel confident your problems can be resolved, in less time than you think! But you have to take the first step. Read more or book now at www.drvalentino.nyc
(917) 920-6378 View (917) 920-6378
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Heather Simonson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CSE, ERYT, RPYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Dix Hills, NY 11746
Need a positive change but unsure how to make that happen? Do you want support in strengthening your relationship to deepen your connection and intimacy? Or perhaps your child needs another trusted adult to talk to. No matter the challenge, having the guidance you need enables YOU to make the best choices about the direction of your counseling experience and your life. The benefit of awareness and self-discovery empowers you to transform obstacles to optimum health and happiness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master and Registered Yoga Teacher, specializing in kids and pre/postnatal.
Need a positive change but unsure how to make that happen? Do you want support in strengthening your relationship to deepen your connection and intimacy? Or perhaps your child needs another trusted adult to talk to. No matter the challenge, having the guidance you need enables YOU to make the best choices about the direction of your counseling experience and your life. The benefit of awareness and self-discovery empowers you to transform obstacles to optimum health and happiness. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master and Registered Yoga Teacher, specializing in kids and pre/postnatal.
(631) 593-0762 View (631) 593-0762

Online Therapists

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Ami B. Kaplan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215
Specialties: Difficult or narcissistic parents, Gender Variance/Transgender issues, Relationships, Assertion. I help people feel more comfortable with their own agenda, deal with difficult individuals and change entrenched roles in relationships.
Specialties: Difficult or narcissistic parents, Gender Variance/Transgender issues, Relationships, Assertion. I help people feel more comfortable with their own agenda, deal with difficult individuals and change entrenched roles in relationships.
(646) 583-1185 View (646) 583-1185
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Tanya Koifman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10036  (Online Only)
I work with the LGBTQIA+ community, and provide gender-affirming support for transgender & non-binary individuals.
I am a warm, affirming, non-judgmental psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience, and I work with an interactive, humanistic, strengths-based, trauma-informed, HAES-aligned, and transparent, narrative approach. I believe that people have the innate capacity to heal and change. We will work together to develop a deeper understanding of your life goals and perspectives, so that we can custom-tailor techniques to make life most meaningful for you. We will work together toward resolving life challenges by identifying your personal strengths, coping strategies, and by helping you to see things in your life from a different lens.
I work with the LGBTQIA+ community, and provide gender-affirming support for transgender & non-binary individuals.
I am a warm, affirming, non-judgmental psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience, and I work with an interactive, humanistic, strengths-based, trauma-informed, HAES-aligned, and transparent, narrative approach. I believe that people have the innate capacity to heal and change. We will work together to develop a deeper understanding of your life goals and perspectives, so that we can custom-tailor techniques to make life most meaningful for you. We will work together toward resolving life challenges by identifying your personal strengths, coping strategies, and by helping you to see things in your life from a different lens.
(646) 798-6332 View (646) 798-6332
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Jess J Schpero
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10065  (Online Only)
I am trained as an LGBTQIA+ individual and family therapist with specialization in gender dysphoria, PTSD and mood presentations.
Engaging in the therapeutic process can be an incredibly rewarding act of self care. Sometimes we may feel overwhelmed with life’s challenges or be struggling to understand our reactions and emotions. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of life’s daily challenges, and not take the time to step back and try to ease the worry. By allowing yourself the time, you can begin to renew a sense of empowerment while also reducing feelings of distress.
I am trained as an LGBTQIA+ individual and family therapist with specialization in gender dysphoria, PTSD and mood presentations.
Engaging in the therapeutic process can be an incredibly rewarding act of self care. Sometimes we may feel overwhelmed with life’s challenges or be struggling to understand our reactions and emotions. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos of life’s daily challenges, and not take the time to step back and try to ease the worry. By allowing yourself the time, you can begin to renew a sense of empowerment while also reducing feelings of distress.
(646) 846-1193 View (646) 846-1193
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Emily Bilbao
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10007  (Online Only)
In addition to therapy, I do assessments for hormones/surgery for transgender clients.
I am Licensed in New York, Oregon, and Washington. I have been trained in many approaches to therapy and I believe that it is my role to work collaboratively with my clients to find the approach that works best for them. I believe that healing takes place in the context of the relationship between therapist and client and that an important part of the work is developing a connection where one feels truly seen and heard. I also believe in helping my clients get in touch with deeper levels of awareness of their bodies/emotions and helping them to incorporate mindfulness practices into their lives.
In addition to therapy, I do assessments for hormones/surgery for transgender clients.
I am Licensed in New York, Oregon, and Washington. I have been trained in many approaches to therapy and I believe that it is my role to work collaboratively with my clients to find the approach that works best for them. I believe that healing takes place in the context of the relationship between therapist and client and that an important part of the work is developing a connection where one feels truly seen and heard. I also believe in helping my clients get in touch with deeper levels of awareness of their bodies/emotions and helping them to incorporate mindfulness practices into their lives.
(971) 407-4037 View (971) 407-4037
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Benjamin Davis
Art Therapist, ATR-BC, LCAT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
While the focus of my practice and orientation is gender affirming and non-pathologizing with regards to queer and transgender issues, I welcome individuals of all gender identities and orientations.
Looking for a therapist, and particularly a queer and trans affirming therapist, can be a difficult and often complex process. We want someone who will understand our needs and our background, help us grow and develop new skills, and will support us in making sense of something that remains unsettling, perhaps years after a trauma or thought pattern first emerged.
While the focus of my practice and orientation is gender affirming and non-pathologizing with regards to queer and transgender issues, I welcome individuals of all gender identities and orientations.
Looking for a therapist, and particularly a queer and trans affirming therapist, can be a difficult and often complex process. We want someone who will understand our needs and our background, help us grow and develop new skills, and will support us in making sense of something that remains unsettling, perhaps years after a trauma or thought pattern first emerged.
(917) 525-5361 View (917) 525-5361
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Alex Lapinski
Psychologist, PsyD, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10027  (Online Only)
Welcome to my profile, and thank you for taking the time to read it. If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed by your thoughts and emotions, I'm here to help. I specialize in working with adults who were raised by emotionally immature or personality disordered parents, guiding them on a journey to understand their complex feelings and cultivate a strong sense of self-trust. Additionally, I have experience assisting transgender individuals, navigating relationship concerns, facilitating multiracial identity development, and supporting clients dealing with depression.
Welcome to my profile, and thank you for taking the time to read it. If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed by your thoughts and emotions, I'm here to help. I specialize in working with adults who were raised by emotionally immature or personality disordered parents, guiding them on a journey to understand their complex feelings and cultivate a strong sense of self-trust. Additionally, I have experience assisting transgender individuals, navigating relationship concerns, facilitating multiracial identity development, and supporting clients dealing with depression.
(347) 696-4860 View (347) 696-4860
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Jeremy Novich
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10018  (Online Only)
I have particular specialty working with individuals in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community (LGBT) and with people from various religious and cultural backgrounds.
People seek psychotherapy for a variety of reasons. Some look to improve their relationships, some want to feel calmer, while others simply want to experience their emotions more fully. I see therapy as a collaborative conversation in which I help you reach your personal goals. I take an individualized approach and try to create a safe space in which you can explore a range of topics in an effort to learn about yourself and make changes as you see helpful. No matter your goal, I will do my best to understand you and help you better understand yourself.
I have particular specialty working with individuals in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community (LGBT) and with people from various religious and cultural backgrounds.
People seek psychotherapy for a variety of reasons. Some look to improve their relationships, some want to feel calmer, while others simply want to experience their emotions more fully. I see therapy as a collaborative conversation in which I help you reach your personal goals. I take an individualized approach and try to create a safe space in which you can explore a range of topics in an effort to learn about yourself and make changes as you see helpful. No matter your goal, I will do my best to understand you and help you better understand yourself.
(646) 490-1776 View (646) 490-1776
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Jennifer Hersh Zurndorfer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Roslyn Heights, NY 11577
I am a Clinical Social Worker with over 15 years experience in the field, which includes providing counseling to adults, children and couples. As a member of the incredible staff of Long Island Psychology, our primary focus is ensuring our clients' comfort in treatment while developing a therapeutic plan that is tailored to their needs and strengths. I have helped guide individuals in overcoming challenges related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma/PTSD, codependency, addictive behaviors, gender dysphoria, grief, family conflict as well as many other issues that stem from biological and environmental sources.
I am a Clinical Social Worker with over 15 years experience in the field, which includes providing counseling to adults, children and couples. As a member of the incredible staff of Long Island Psychology, our primary focus is ensuring our clients' comfort in treatment while developing a therapeutic plan that is tailored to their needs and strengths. I have helped guide individuals in overcoming challenges related to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma/PTSD, codependency, addictive behaviors, gender dysphoria, grief, family conflict as well as many other issues that stem from biological and environmental sources.
(516) 830-4067 View (516) 830-4067
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Rousz DeLuca
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MFA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10023  (Online Only)
Self-compassion is a great buzzword, but it's easier said than done. Sometimes you have to avoid or fight feelings and parts of yourself. Maybe you feel overwhelmed, worn out or conflicted. Maybe you are not satisfied with your core relationships. This could be because parts of you are stuck in past experiences and those parts are using the tools they have (like avoidance, self-criticism, anxiety...) to protect you from more pain, even though these tools don't always serve you now. Together, we can welcome and get to know each part of you slowly and safely, and introduce new tools for coping and making change.
Self-compassion is a great buzzword, but it's easier said than done. Sometimes you have to avoid or fight feelings and parts of yourself. Maybe you feel overwhelmed, worn out or conflicted. Maybe you are not satisfied with your core relationships. This could be because parts of you are stuck in past experiences and those parts are using the tools they have (like avoidance, self-criticism, anxiety...) to protect you from more pain, even though these tools don't always serve you now. Together, we can welcome and get to know each part of you slowly and safely, and introduce new tools for coping and making change.
(347) 395-0805 View (347) 395-0805
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Brian Freidenberg
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10007  (Online Only)
Hello! I'm Dr. Brian Freidenberg. In therapy, I place the therapeutic relationship above all else. The relationship is the vehicle for change. I believe that a good therapist listens well; is empathic; and provides a safe, empowering, and judgement-free environment. The client and I form a partnership to help the client navigate this great adventure called life. My primary areas of expertise are ADDICTIONS (e.g., substances, sex, video games, phone, social media), ANXIETY, CHILDHOOD and ADOLESCENCE, COLLEGE students, VETERANS, RELATIONSHIPS, TRAUMA, GROUPS, PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATIONS, and COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY.
Hello! I'm Dr. Brian Freidenberg. In therapy, I place the therapeutic relationship above all else. The relationship is the vehicle for change. I believe that a good therapist listens well; is empathic; and provides a safe, empowering, and judgement-free environment. The client and I form a partnership to help the client navigate this great adventure called life. My primary areas of expertise are ADDICTIONS (e.g., substances, sex, video games, phone, social media), ANXIETY, CHILDHOOD and ADOLESCENCE, COLLEGE students, VETERANS, RELATIONSHIPS, TRAUMA, GROUPS, PSYCHOLOGICAL EVALUATIONS, and COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY.
(646) 846-7521 View (646) 846-7521
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Nina Herzog
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MFA, MUP, LP
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
What if you could walk around this planet with a deep sense (knowing) that everything about you, just as you are, is ok? Truly just fine? You can. Or maybe you're feeling stuck, needing help to galvanize your courage to make a change, to dare to live your very best life? A warm and supportive relationship with the right therapist will help to re-engage and energize your own existing internal resources, the parts of you that are already confident, calm, creative, courageous and compassionate. We can do this work together.
What if you could walk around this planet with a deep sense (knowing) that everything about you, just as you are, is ok? Truly just fine? You can. Or maybe you're feeling stuck, needing help to galvanize your courage to make a change, to dare to live your very best life? A warm and supportive relationship with the right therapist will help to re-engage and energize your own existing internal resources, the parts of you that are already confident, calm, creative, courageous and compassionate. We can do this work together.
(646) 846-0173 View (646) 846-0173
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Katlyn R Hershman
MHC-LP
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11222  (Online Only)
Katlyn works with individuals and couples to explore their own authenticity, self-discovery, and personal growth. She focuses on change and expression of emotion, helping clients describe their feelings. With a compassionate and caring approach, she believes that the therapeutic relationship is integral to change. She aims to provide a safe and supportive environment where clients can freely and authentically experience and express their emotions. She strives to create a space where clients can feel heard, validated, and empowered to explore their innermost thoughts and feelings.
Katlyn works with individuals and couples to explore their own authenticity, self-discovery, and personal growth. She focuses on change and expression of emotion, helping clients describe their feelings. With a compassionate and caring approach, she believes that the therapeutic relationship is integral to change. She aims to provide a safe and supportive environment where clients can freely and authentically experience and express their emotions. She strives to create a space where clients can feel heard, validated, and empowered to explore their innermost thoughts and feelings.
(718) 504-1795 View (718) 504-1795
Transgender Therapists

As a gender-diverse individual, why might I want to see a therapist who is also gender diverse?

A trans or gender-diverse client may want to see a therapist who is also trans or gender diverse because the client may feel safer sharing their experiences and more confident that the therapist will understand, validate, and support them. But trans or gender-diverse clients can also benefit from therapy with cisgender therapists; this is a personal decision based on the connection between the client and the therapist, and if that connection is strong, therapy will be successful.

What if I cannot find a therapist who shares my gender identity?

Therapy can still be effective if a therapist does not share a client’s gender identity; a large body of research indicates that the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapeutic alliance. A therapist can also be interviewed for sensitivity and competence on gender identity and expression to ensure they possess appropriate knowledge and skills. Many therapists have excellent training and extensive experience working with gender-diverse clients, and that expertise can be invaluable despite a therapist not sharing the same firsthand experiences.

How can I recognize a good therapist for working with gender-diverse clients?

An experienced therapist should be able to help clients explore their gender identity and expression, alleviate discomfort related to their gender identity, treat mental health challenges and trauma, address existing relationships and communication with family members and loved ones, and determine the next steps pertaining to nonmedical or medical gender-affirming interventions. To recognize a good therapist, clients can ask about these topics and explore their comfort and connection with the clinician.

How might I inquire about a therapist’s experience working with transgender clients?

Clients should feel comfortable asking therapists directly about their experience working with transgender or gender-diverse clientele. For example, clients may ask about the therapist’s training and education with regard to gender identity, how many trans clients they’ve worked with in the past, and what sorts of matters were discussed. You may wish to inquire how a therapist specifically supports the needs of transgender clients or clients questioning their gender identity. A good clinician who is nonetheless not the right fit for you is often happy to make referrals to others based on the concerns you articulate in a preliminary conversation.