
Tomilu Stuart LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, RN, LMFT
Location
We are living through a difficult time right now. As a young student nurse, I was taught that we were overdue for a pandemic. Forty years later here we are. Feeling threatened by a micro-organism we cannot see. Then there is the uncertainty of how it will end and conflicting messages that bombard you. Your thoughts trigger your feelings. Thinking errors and cognitive distortions can add to your distress making feelings of anxiety worse. When we are unable to change situations, we need to change how we handle them. I will help you.
I use C.B.T., positive psychology and mindfulness to help my clients. I am also a Certified E.M.D.R. Therapist. E.M.D.R. changes core negative beliefs. Core Negative beliefs keep you stuck. E.M.D.R. can help with addictions. I have used it to treat Phobias, dental phobia, SOCIAL ANXIETY, and panic attacks, FEAR OF FLYING, co-codependency and grief and los
Life is not easy. Sometimes things can seem overwhelming. I will work with you to help you sort things out. Sometimes just having someone that you can talk freely to can be a big help. Often just being in a safe, confidential and accepting place can provide insight into situations that seem to difficult to handle.
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Call or Email Tomilu Stuart LMFT for a free phone consultation now - (408) 215-9348
Finances
- Cost per Session: $150 - $170
Pay By:
ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
Accepted Insurance Plans
- Out of network provider for clients with PPO
- TriWest
- Victim witness
- Out of Network
If you have a PPO I will give you a superbill to submit to your insurance company for reimbursement.
Email us or call (408) 215-9348 with questions.
Qualifications
- Years in Practice: 14 Years
- License: California / MFC53543
- School: John F. Kennedy University
- Year Graduated: 2009
Additional Credentials
- Certificate: International Association of Trauma Professionals / Certified Clinical Trauma Prof
- Certificate Date: 2013
- Certificate: E.M.D.R.I.A. / Certified E.M.D.R. Therapist
- Certificate Date: 2015
Location
Offers video sessions
Specialties
- Trauma and PTSD
- Relationship Issues
- Life Transitions
Issues
- Anxiety
- Bipolar Disorder
- Chronic Pain
- Codependency
- Depression
- EMDR for trauma,anxiety, test anxiety, self esteem
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Life Coaching
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Abuse
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Women's Issues
Mental Health
- Mood Disorders
- Thinking Disorders
Client Focus
I also speak:
none
Faith:
Christian
Age
- Adults
Communities
- Veterans
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- 12 step clients welcome
- Certified EMDR therapist
- Christian Counseling
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- EMDR
- Eclectic
- Family / Marital
- Person-Centered
- Positive Psychology
- Trauma Focused
Modality
- Individuals
- Couples
Professional Connections
Tomilu is a warm and thoughtful therapist who works patiently and respectfully with clients suffering from traumas. Her kindness and compassion help clients feel safe and accepted as they work through difficult and challenging issues.

Lily Lu, MBA, MA, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist
Last Modified: 10 Feb 2021