Tom Thurston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
San Rafael, CA 94901
Let's Connect (415) 742-1961

I work with my clients to deeply discover and access new resources and potentials of "self at best" both for growth and as ways beyond obstacles.
I believe the quality of the relationship between the therapist and client is essential for change. I have over 17 years of spiritual practice which I incorporate using mindfulness, inquiry and dream work.
My attachment style of working involves short term dynamic therapy using AEDP (see: www.AEDPinstitute.org) both with individuals and with couples. This work links many experiences within the body to emotions and the human's natural healing tendencies.
For couples, conflict, disconnection and power struggles are entered with a lense of conflicting emotional and attachment needs.
Individually, I work with depression, grief, loss, self esteem and life transitions and the deeper issues behind substance use and other addictions and codependency.
Call or Email Tom Thurston now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 742-1961
Let's Connect (415) 742-1961

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $250
- Couple Sessions $280
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, Check, Paypal, Venmo, ZelleInsurance
- Out of network billing OK
- Out of Network
Tom Thurston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 742-1961
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC46718 Tom Thurston
- Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Graduated 1997
- Certificate from AEDP institute certified AEDP therapist / 2014
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Tom Thurston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (415) 742-1961
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Marital and Premarital
- Life Transitions
Expertise
- Addiction
- Anxiety
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Couples Therapy
- Depression
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infertility
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Men's Issues
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Substance Use
- Trauma and PTSD
- Trauma History
Tom Thurston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (415) 742-1961
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Asian ,
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Asian ,
Other Racial or Ethnic Background
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment oriented AEDP, EFT
- Attachment-based
- Eclectic
- Emotionally Focused
- Existential
- Family / Marital
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Internal Family Systems, Parts work
- Interpersonal
- Intersubjective, Transpersonal
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Transpersonal
- Trauma Focused
Tom Thurston
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (415) 742-1961