Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT (he, him)
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Should I stay or should I go? A huge question that's weighed on you. It keeps you up at night, stressing you out. Life would be so much easier if your relationship wasn't so hard. You wish you could communicate better; feel understood. But, damn, your shit and their shit get in the way. Not to mention the pressures of career, aging parents, or demanding children. It all gets thrown in the mix, leaving you exhausted, distracted, and disenchanted by the status quo. You want things to change (better sex, intimacy, connection); you're finally ready to take charge of your life in a new and meaningful way. You've come to the right place!
If you want fluff, I have referrals. Otherwise, I offer a CAREfrontational approach to help you get where you want to go as quickly as possible. With my brief-oriented approach, backed by the science of what works in sex therapy and couples counseling, you'll gain clarity, break old patterns, tackle mind-chatter, and experience satisfying sex and intimacy.
It's easy to get started. Submit an email or visit our website to schedule an initial appointment. It's that easy. I'll guide you through the rest. If you're unsure of what direction to take, our website provides options. I'm telehealth only. I'm licensed in OR but live on the east coast. Please note: health insurance isn't accepted for my service. I
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $210
- Couple Sessions $210
Payment Methods
American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Oregon / T1811 Dr. Tom Murray
- In Practice for 25 years
- Attended University of Florida, PhD, Graduated 2005
- Certificate from American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists 2015
- Certificate from International Association of Trauma Professionals 2019
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Sex Therapy
- Relationship Issues
- Anxiety
Expertise
- Bisexual
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Men's Issues
- Neurodivergence
- Parenting
- Polyamory & ENM
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Transgender
- Women's Issues
Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? - (971) 273-5215
2 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Person-Centered
- Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
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Location
Additional Location
Portland, OR 97209
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Neighborhoods
Dr. Tom Murray
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Take the first step to help. Call now - (971) 273-5215