
Tom Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Brooklyn, NY 11225
Let's Connect (505) 295-5098

Many of us are in search of deeper happiness and emotional resilience in our lives. Often, we look outside ourselves for fulfillment instead of inward, towards our own true nature. For over 25 years I have worked with couples and individuals seeking a way out of isolation and emotional suffering towards greater joy. This is your time to be on the planet. If you struggle with self-defeating habits and thought patterns, and would like help shifting towards a more content, vibrant life, please call me for a free consultation.
I use a combination of insight, presence, compassion, and humor to work with clients who desire deeper joy and satisfaction in their lives. If you are experiencing marital strife, depression/anxiety, feelings of emptiness, anger, grief, or are just plain stressed out, we can work together to create the life you want to live.
If you are wondering if counseling is for you, or you simply would like to meet to see if it feels like a good fit, contact me for a free 15 minute tele-consultation.
Call or Email Tom Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (505) 295-5098
Let's Connect (505) 295-5098

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $120
- Couple Sessions $150
Payment Methods
Cash, Check, Paypal
Tom Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (505) 295-5098
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / LPC.0013088 Tom BenderLicense state differs from primary location state.
- In Practice for 29 years
- Attended Naropa University, MA - Transpersonal Psychology, Graduated 1996
- Licensed by State of Colorado / LPC.0013088License state differs from primary location state.
- Certificate from Relational Life Institute 2017
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Life Coaching
Expertise
- Affair Recovery
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Emotional Intelligence Training
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- Life Transitions
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Thinking Disorders
- Trauma and PTSD
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Single Mother
Ethnicity
Hispanic and Latino ,
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Español
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Aviation Professionals ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Single Mother
Ethnicity
Hispanic and Latino ,
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Español
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Coaching
- Compassion Focused
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Experiential Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Humanistic
- Imago
- Interpersonal
- Person-Centered
- Relational
- Relational Life Therapy for Marriage and Couples
- Strength-Based
- Transpersonal
Groups
Men's Relational Skills

This is a weekly tele-group for men who want to improve their relational skills and learn to lead more with their hearts.
Expertise
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Age
Adults
Session Cost
$40-$50
Email Tom Bender about this group or call - (505) 295-5098