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Todd Kirby

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (he, him)

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Available both in-person and online
Boulder, CO 80305
When you wake up in the morning, is the first thing that pops into your mind a four-letter word? I effin' get it. Grief, trauma, and major life changes can knock the wind out of you and make getting out of bed feel exhausting. I've been there, and now I work there. I help adults and teens navigate loss, emotional overwhelm, and the disorienting feeling that life no longer looks the way it was “supposed” to.
Grief often brings a second loss: the loss of identity. We don't just mourn the person or thing we've lost—we mourn the futures we imagined and the versions of ourselves we expected to be. Together, we'll make sense of what's happened and explore who you want to become in the wake of it.
My work is grounded in psychodynamic therapy, which means we'll explore how past experiences continue to shape your present. As a Bronx native and former WGA screenwriter, I connect especially well with creatives, hard-headed skeptics, and those who aren't quite sure what to make of therapy. I offer in-person sessions in Boulder and telehealth in CO & CA.
Call or Todd Kirby now for a free 15 minute consultation - (720) 709-2036

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Boulder Counseling & Grief Center

Boulder, CO 80305

(720) 709-2036

Calabasas, CA 91302

My website
I offer therapy sessions in-person in Boulder, CO, and online via video for those located anywhere else in CO or CA.
I specialize in Grief, Trauma and PTSD and Men's Issues 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (720) 709-2036
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Boulder Counseling & Grief Center

Boulder, CO 80305

(720) 709-2036

Calabasas, CA 91302

My website
I offer therapy sessions in-person in Boulder, CO, and online via video for those located anywhere else in CO or CA.
I specialize in Grief, Trauma and PTSD and Men's Issues 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $375
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Mastercard, Visa
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I do not accept insurance, but can provide you with a superbill that you can submit to your insurance company for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 709-2036
"
I do not accept insurance, but can provide you with a superbill that you can submit to your insurance company for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (720) 709-2036

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 159804 Todd Edwin Kirby
    License state differs from primary location state.
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Pepperdine University / M.A. in Clinical Psychology
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Colorado LMFT 0003050 / 2026
  • Degree/Diploma from Pennsylvania State University B.A.
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Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (720) 709-2036
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (720) 709-2036

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Grief
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Men's Issues

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Career Counseling
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Peer Relationships
  • Psychedelic Integration
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
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Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (720) 709-2036
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Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (720) 709-2036

5 Endorsements

Valarie Gardner, EMDR, IFS & EFT telehealth
Valarie Gardner, EMDR, IFS & EFT telehealth
Associate Marriage & Family TherapistMAAMFT
Todd and I attended our MFT program together at Pepperdine. I find him to be very compassionate, highly intelligent and very approachable. I have no doubt Todd is a skilled clinician, and I'm happy to give him my endorsement!
Amanda Izen
Amanda Izen
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Todd is a compassionate, empathetic, honest, and trustworthy colleague who provides a safe space for clients. He brings his personal life experience and education into the room to connect with clients. I highly recommend Todd!
Lydia Nicole Silva
Lydia Nicole Silva
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMSAMFT
Todd is a true empath. His therapeutic skills include his kind demeanor, wisdom and a thorough knowledge base. Clients are truly drawn to Todd.
Jennifer White
Jennifer White
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Todd is an excellent therapist who cares deeply for his clients. Todd is able to provide warmth while also challenging his clients to find growth and healing. Todd brings his personal experiences and a wealth of clinical knowledge to his work
Katie Byam
Katie Byam
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMA
Todd brings a rare blend of genuine warmth, deep empathy, and clear, direct insight to his work. His deep expertise in grief and experience in the entertainment industry make him an excellent fit for creatives, grievers, or anyone seeking purpose.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
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Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (720) 709-2036
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (720) 709-2036

Location

Primary Location

Boulder Counseling & Grief Center

Boulder, CO 80305

(720) 709-2036

Additional Location

Calabasas, CA 91302

(720) 709-2036
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I offer therapy sessions in-person in Boulder, CO, and online via video for those located anywhere else in CO or CA.
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (720) 709-2036
"
I offer therapy sessions in-person in Boulder, CO, and online via video for those located anywhere else in CO or CA.
Photo of Todd Kirby, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Todd Kirby
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (720) 709-2036