Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
Let's Connect (607) 205-8443

I support individuals and couples who want to better understand relationship patterns, deepen emotional connection, and feel more secure within themselves and with others. I specialize in LGBTQIA+ affirming care, attachment healing, and relational trauma. My approach is grounded, collaborative, and curious. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment-focused therapy, and somatic awareness, I help clients explore their inner experiences with greater compassion and clarity. Together, we work toward emotional safety, authenticity, and more connected relationships.
In our work, we’ll explore the attachment patterns and emotional experiences shaping your relationships and sense of self. I offer LGBTQIA+ affirming, IFS-informed therapy that supports emotional regulation, relational healing, and more secure connection.
You deserve relationships and spaces where your identity, emotions, and lived experiences are understood and valued. I offer grounded, affirming support as we work toward greater self-trust, emotional safety, and connection.
Call or Email Toby Hawkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (607) 205-8443
Let's Connect (607) 205-8443

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Couple Sessions $200
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Aetna
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Carelon Behavioral Health
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Meritain Health
- Optum
- Oscar Health
- Oxford
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Out of Network
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 088209 Toby Hawkins
- In Practice for 14 years
- Attended Syracuse University, MSW, Graduated 2012
Education and Years In Practice
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- LGBTQ+
- Relationship Issues
- Women's Issues
Expertise
- Body Image
- Caregivers
- Chronic Illness
- Codependency
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Infidelity
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Polyamory & ENM
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- School Issues
- Self Esteem
- Self-Harming
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Addiction
- Trauma and PTSD
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
Endorsement
Part of Compassionate Connections Sex & Couples Counseling
View PracticeClient Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Feminist
- Gottman Method
- Imago
- Person-Centered
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Structural Family Therapy
- Trauma Focused
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443