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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

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Ithaca, NY 14850
I support individuals and couples who want to better understand relationship patterns, deepen emotional connection, and feel more secure within themselves and with others. I specialize in LGBTQIA+ affirming care, attachment healing, and relational trauma. My approach is grounded, collaborative, and curious. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment-focused therapy, and somatic awareness, I help clients explore their inner experiences with greater compassion and clarity. Together, we work toward emotional safety, authenticity, and more connected relationships.
In our work, we’ll explore the attachment patterns and emotional experiences shaping your relationships and sense of self. I offer LGBTQIA+ affirming, IFS-informed therapy that supports emotional regulation, relational healing, and more secure connection.
You deserve relationships and spaces where your identity, emotions, and lived experiences are understood and valued. I offer grounded, affirming support as we work toward greater self-trust, emotional safety, and connection.
Call or Toby Hawkins now for a free 15 minute consultation - (607) 205-8443

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Ithaca, NY 14850

(607) 205-8443
My website
Teletherapy across New York. LGBTQIA affirming. Weekday daytime and early evening availability.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and Women's Issues 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (607) 205-8443
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Ithaca, NY 14850

(607) 205-8443
My website
Teletherapy across New York. LGBTQIA affirming. Weekday daytime and early evening availability.
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and Women's Issues 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Meritain Health
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I accept select insurance plans and also offer courtesy billing for out-of-network benefits. HSA/FSA accepted. Sliding scale options available based on need. Payment is due at the time of session.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
"
I accept select insurance plans and also offer courtesy billing for out-of-network benefits. HSA/FSA accepted. Sliding scale options available based on need. Payment is due at the time of session.
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Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 088209 Toby Hawkins
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 14 years
  • Attended Syracuse University, MSW, Graduated 2012
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing LGBTQIA affirming care for individuals and couples. Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and attachment-based therapy to support identity exploration, emotional safety, and more secure, authentic connection in relationships.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
"
Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing LGBTQIA affirming care for individuals and couples. Trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and attachment-based therapy to support identity exploration, emotional safety, and more secure, authentic connection in relationships.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • Relationship Issues
  • Women's Issues

Expertise

  • Body Image
  • Caregivers
  • Chronic Illness
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Self-Harming
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I specialize in working with individuals and couples to deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and heal attachment wounds. I am LGBTQIA affirming and experienced supporting diverse relationship structures. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS) and trauma-informed care to foster safety, insight, and connection.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
"
I specialize in working with individuals and couples to deepen emotional connection, improve communication, and heal attachment wounds. I am LGBTQIA affirming and experienced supporting diverse relationship structures. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS) and trauma-informed care to foster safety, insight, and connection.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443


Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Person-Centered
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to strengthen emotional bonds and foster secure attachment, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to explore inner parts with compassion and clarity. Somatic awareness supports emotional regulation and deeper connection within yourself and your relationships.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443
"
I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to strengthen emotional bonds and foster secure attachment, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) to explore inner parts with compassion and clarity. Somatic awareness supports emotional regulation and deeper connection within yourself and your relationships.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (607) 205-8443

Location

Primary Location

Ithaca, NY 14850

(607) 205-8443
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Teletherapy across New York. LGBTQIA affirming. Weekday daytime and early evening availability.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (607) 205-8443
"
Teletherapy across New York. LGBTQIA affirming. Weekday daytime and early evening availability.
Photo of Toby Hawkins, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Toby Hawkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (607) 205-8443