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Thomas Bender, L.P.C.

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

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Paonia, CO 81428
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Available both in-person and online
Paonia, CO 81428
Let's Connect (970) 636-2839
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Happiness is your birthright. Many of us seek greater authenticity and joy in our lives, but we often look outside ourselves instead of inwards, towards our own resilient hearts. For 26 years I've worked with individuals and couples seeking meaningful connection in their lives and more fulfillment in their relationships. Now is the time to live the life you've always wanted.
I assist clients in creating more fulfilling lives through presence, insightful observations, and evidence-based techniques such as EMDR. I communicate in a straightforward way, and combine my years of experience as a therapist with humor and compassion to tailor the therapy to each client. I am formally trained in Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy model.
I bring compassion, honesty, humor, and big-heartedness to the counseling room. My goal is to meet you where you are and help you to develop new habits, healthier coping strategies, and to have more enriching relationships with yourself and others. While my physical practice is based on the beautiful Western Slope of Colorado, I see many clients virtually.
Call or Thomas Bender, L.P.C. now for a free 15 minute consultation - (970) 636-2839

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Paonia, CO 81428

(970) 636-2839
Website
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Men's Issues and Infidelity 
$100 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (970) 636-2839
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Paonia, CO 81428

(970) 636-2839
Website
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Men's Issues and Infidelity 
$100 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $100
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Paypal
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I am a provider for Blue Cross/Anthem. Please contact your patient relations person to find out if you have a deductible for mental health services. PayPal invoices are sent out for private pay clients and copays.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
"
I am a provider for Blue Cross/Anthem. Please contact your patient relations person to find out if you have a deductible for mental health services. PayPal invoices are sent out for private pay clients and copays.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839

Qualifications

    Licensed Professional Counselor: Tom Bender

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / 0013088 Tom Bender
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 30 years
  • Attended Naropa University, Graduated 1996
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from The State of Colorado--DORA LPC 0013088 / 2016
  • Certificate from Relational Life Institute 2018
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I am formally certified in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
"
I am formally certified in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Infidelity

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Cheating/Affair Recovery
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (970) 636-2839
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (970) 636-2839

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Single Parent

Ethnicity

Native American

I also speak

Un poco Español

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Single Parent

Ethnicity

Native American

I also speak

Un poco Español

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Compassion Focused
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic
  • Imago
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Relational
  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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I am trained in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model. RLT is designed to help you to focus on your strengths while also shining a light on unhelpful relational patterns. In our first sessions, we will explore communication patterns, examine the affects of family of origin on our relationships, and begin to develop new skills that you can take home and put into practice.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
"
I am trained in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model. RLT is designed to help you to focus on your strengths while also shining a light on unhelpful relational patterns. In our first sessions, we will explore communication patterns, examine the affects of family of origin on our relationships, and begin to develop new skills that you can take home and put into practice.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839

Groups


Location

Primary Location

Paonia, CO 81428

(970) 636-2839
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I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (970) 636-2839
"
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
Photo of Tom Bender - Thomas Bender, L.P.C., Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (970) 636-2839