Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Let's Connect (970) 636-2839

Happiness is your birthright. Many of us seek greater authenticity and joy in our lives, but we often look outside ourselves instead of inwards, towards our own resilient hearts. For 26 years I've worked with individuals and couples seeking meaningful connection in their lives and more fulfillment in their relationships. Now is the time to live the life you've always wanted.
I assist clients in creating more fulfilling lives through presence, insightful observations, and evidence-based techniques such as EMDR. I communicate in a straightforward way, and combine my years of experience as a therapist with humor and compassion to tailor the therapy to each client. I am formally trained in Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy model.
I bring compassion, honesty, humor, and big-heartedness to the counseling room. My goal is to meet you where you are and help you to develop new habits, healthier coping strategies, and to have more enriching relationships with yourself and others. While my physical practice is based on the beautiful Western Slope of Colorado, I see many clients virtually.
Call or Email Thomas Bender, L.P.C. now for a free 15 minute consultation - (970) 636-2839
Let's Connect (970) 636-2839

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $100
- Couple Sessions $150
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Cash, Check, Paypal
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / 0013088 Tom Bender
- In Practice for 30 years
- Attended Naropa University, Graduated 1996
- Certificate from The State of Colorado--DORA LPC 0013088 / 2016
- Certificate from Relational Life Institute 2018
Licensed Professional Counselor: Tom Bender
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Infidelity
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Cheating/Affair Recovery
- Codependency
- Depression
- Divorce
- Dual Diagnosis
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Mood Disorders
- Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
- Parenting
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Thinking Disorders
- Trauma and PTSD
- Veterans
- Women's Issues
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (970) 636-2839
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Single Parent
Ethnicity
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Español
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Single Parent
Ethnicity
Native American
I also speak
Un poco Español
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Compassion Focused
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Experiential Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Humanistic
- Imago
- Interpersonal
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Psychoanalytic
- Relational
- Relational Life Therapy
- Trauma Focused
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 636-2839
Groups
Men's Relational Skills Group
This is a group for men who who struggle in relationship or who want to develop and improve their relationship skills.
Expertise
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Age
Adults
Session Cost
$30-$40
Location
Paonia, CO 81428
Email Tom Bender about this group or call - (970) 636-2839
Location
Nearby Areas
Neighborhoods
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Call for a free consultation now - (970) 636-2839