San Francisco
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The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
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The Therapist for Sexual Rebels

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST (they, them)

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Available both in-person and online
San Francisco, CA 94104
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I work with people who are asking deeper questions about love, intimacy, sexuality, and how they want to live. I support individuals, couples, polycules, and relational systems navigating attachment, desire, communication, consent, money, power, family, and change. Whether the challenge lies in relationships, identities, livelihoods, living arrangements, or geography, my work helps people navigate complexity and the agreements that shape our lives together. I offer psychotherapy throughout California and, when appropriate, coaching or consultation beyond.
My style is direct, empathetic, and deeply practical. I am particularly drawn to the places where intimacy, money, power, family, and sexuality intersect. My work helps people navigate complexity with greater awareness, stronger communication, and agreements that support the lives they actually want to build.
I work with people navigating the gap between who they are and who they were taught they should be. Together we untangle shame, loosen rigid cultural or religious narratives, and build relationships, families, and lives that reflect their values. I also support psychedelic integration and, when appropriate, incorporate movement and walking into the work.
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Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Francisco, CA 94104

Campground Building

865 9th Street

Arcata, CA 95521 map
Website
I meet weekly, biweekly, monthly, and offer brief-strategic sessions for clients seeking support by phone and video.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Career Counseling 
$295 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
When your head says yes and your body says no: shame-free, consent-forward therapy for clarity, repair, and livable agreements.
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Connect with The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Francisco, CA 94104

Campground Building

865 9th Street

Arcata, CA 95521 map
Website
I meet weekly, biweekly, monthly, and offer brief-strategic sessions for clients seeking support by phone and video.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Career Counseling 
$295 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
When your head says yes and your body says no: shame-free, consent-forward therapy for clarity, repair, and livable agreements.
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $295
  • Couple Sessions $350
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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If you need financial considerations, please reach out. I don't take insurance but am happy to provide superbills. I also provide coaching on how to ask employment for mental health stipends.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
If you need financial considerations, please reach out. I don't take insurance but am happy to provide superbills. I also provide coaching on how to ask employment for mental health stipends.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

    Marriage & Family Therapist: Elliott Endre
  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 128250 Elliott Endre

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 10 years
  • Attended California Institute of Integral Studies , Graduated 2016

    • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from California Institute of Integral Studies Certified Sex Therapist (CST) / 2025
  • Degree/Diploma from Bryn Mawr College Bachelors in Political Science / 2016
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I sit on the board of the Nowak Society, an org committed to stewarding professionals in emerging possibilities associated with psychedelic education, healing, and advocacy. I sit on faculty at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, and SFSU, teaching graduate psychology and sexuality studies.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I sit on the board of the Nowak Society, an org committed to stewarding professionals in emerging possibilities associated with psychedelic education, healing, and advocacy. I sit on faculty at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, and SFSU, teaching graduate psychology and sexuality studies.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Career Counseling

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Chronic Illness
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Religious Recovery
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Worker Community Support
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)
  • Women's Issues
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I am best suited for people who are curious, reflective, and willing to engage power, desire, and responsibility with honesty and care.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I am best suited for people who are curious, reflective, and willing to engage power, desire, and responsibility with honesty and care.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

2 Endorsements

Amber Lavendel
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Elliott is a radical, strong, and competent therapist. They are an expert when it comes to addressing sex and power in relationships. Their commitment to sex working communities and social justice shines through in their work, I would recommend them.
Natalie Ducastelle
Natalie Ducastelle
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP, CPCC
Elliott brings passion, deep knowledge, and a true commitment to the communities they serve. Their integrity and dedication to continual growth is a gift to their clients as well as an inspiration to those of us in the field.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Intersex Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Single Parent , 
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Basic understanding of German, Japanese, Hungarian , 
German

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Preteen , 
Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Gay Allied , 
HIV / AIDS Allied , 
Intersex Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Single Parent , 
Transgender Allied

I also speak

Basic understanding of German, Japanese, Hungarian , 
German

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Gestalt
  • Integrative
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Intersectional, Sex Positive
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Relational
  • Relationship Constellations (3+ individuals)
  • Somatic
  • Transpersonal
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Originally trained as an ecotherapist, I continue to value embodiment, movement, and attention to place in the healing process. I offer psychotherapy in person in Arcata and by telehealth throughout California. When appropriate, I may invite walking, movement, or other embodied practices into our work, while remaining grounded in evidence-based relational therapy.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Originally trained as an ecotherapist, I continue to value embodiment, movement, and attention to place in the healing process. I offer psychotherapy in person in Arcata and by telehealth throughout California. When appropriate, I may invite walking, movement, or other embodied practices into our work, while remaining grounded in evidence-based relational therapy.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Groups

Providers Resourcing Online Support (PROS)

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Hosted by
Elliott Sequoia Endre

With open enrollment in every two months, PROS is a virtual group supporting adult industry professionals seeking to process and accomplish professional goals. After years of supporting sex workers as a trauma-informed psychotherapist, I created this group to fill the need for private, supportive, professional networks for those struggling to work independently on business goals. We meet weekly in small, anonymous groups (neither legal or work names are used in the group) to discuss current projects, offer support, motivation, and accountability, and celebrate professional accomplishments. Income driven sliding scale in 1-3 installments, All genders welcome, Max. 6 persons.

Expertise

Peer Relationships
Trauma and PTSD

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$70-$170

Group Meets

Every Tue 1:30 P.M. - 3:99 P.M.

Location

San Francisco, CA 94110

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SQIRT (Sex Queens in Radical Therapy)

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Hosted by
Elliott Sequoia Endre

SQ*IRT is a virtual therapeutic support group is for California-based folk, actively working in the various sex industries. This group seeks to offer a space for community healing with the guidance of a trained psychotherapist. We meet weekly in small, anonymous groups (neither legal or work names are used in the group) to process experiences of being a sex worker in a peer-based environment. Prices are income-driven, sliding scale is available.

Expertise

Peer Relationships

Types of Therapy

Trauma Focused

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$70-$170

Location

Arcata, CA 95521

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Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94104

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Website

Additional Location

Campground Building

865 9th Street

Arcata, CA 95521

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

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I meet weekly, biweekly, monthly, and offer brief-strategic sessions for clients seeking support by phone and video.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
"
I meet weekly, biweekly, monthly, and offer brief-strategic sessions for clients seeking support by phone and video.
Photo of Elliott Sequoia Endre - The Therapist for Sexual Rebels, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
The Therapist for Sexual Rebels
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST